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19th-century English aristocratic class. Alongside many other significant themes, we see the theme of selfishness. Selfishness was present in the 19th century and there are a lot of examples of selfishness in the 19th century or during romanticism. Fyodor Dostoevsky, a 19th-century realist writer represented that in his writing. Dostoevsky’s novel “Poor Folk” is a perfect portrayal of what was society like in the 19 th century. Although he was from Russia it was no different from Great Britain. Just like in most of the essays of Charles Lamb, We see the theme of selfishness in this particular essay as well. We see that when a person wants to be a friend with someone, he does not want a third anomaly in their friendship and he only wants his friend to be his friend and not in a relation to with others not only his kinsman. We have the example of Merry in this essay. The last paragraph is fully about selfishness. We see first Merry was interested in the dancer but later on he ran away to avoid his marriage. Why did he do that? The reason is quite clear. When Merry found out that the girl is a dancer, Then for his own sake he left the girl just because of her profession and ran away. At first, he was interested in her sincerity but then he rejected her. That’s the perfect example of selfishness in this essay.