My name is Xiao Yuying.

introduction: thanks for accepting my request.

i am hoping that this note meets you in good condition of body and soul i could not
pass when i stumbled on your profile here on facebook.
you have a true beauty and a wonderful smile..please always wear that pretty smile
of yours.hope to know you more..i hope you not angry about this?

Thanks for your response,i just came across your profile and i thought wise to send
you a Friend request because my attention was caught by the sparkly smile on your
face and the beautiful pictures. I must confess you are a gorgeous and beautiful
lady. I think it would be formal if I get to introduce myself.I am PAUL JAMES
STEGMANN,
I WAS BORN IN florida (USA) but currently in germany..
AM AN ELECTRICAL ENGINEER AND ALSO DEAL ON IMPORT AND EXPORT OF ELECTRICAL MATERILS

TELL ME ABOUT YOU, WHATS YOUR NAME? JOB AND WHERE ARE YOU FROM?

AHH OKAY THATS NICE, ARE YOU MARRIED OR SINGLE DO YOU HAVE KIDS?

OHH AM SORRY FOR THAT,HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN SINGL?

OH AM SORRY ABOUT YOUR DIVORCED, HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN ALONE?

OH OKAY..AS FOR ME,AM A WIDOW,, I LOST MY WIFE 3 YEARS AGO IN A CAR ACCIDENT WITH
MY FIRST SON OF 10 YEARS OLD,I AM LEFT WITH MY DAUGHTER OF 6 YEARS OLD WHO WILL BE
7 YEARS NEXT MONTH , SHE IS IN A BOARDING SCHOOL IN FLORIDA , I TOOK HER THERE
BECAUSE HER FRIENDS WERE MOCKING HER ,THAT SHE HAS NO MOTHER,WHO WILL ALWAYS TAKE
CARE OF HER , AND AM A VERY BUSY PEROSN WHO DONT ALWAYS HAVE TIME

OH THANKS but I have moved on with my life.I have decided to give my all into this
and see how far it will go.

You see For the better part of my life so far I have been solely dedicated to my
work with little distractions regardless of personal consequences this has taken
enormous discipline and sacrifice. My plan has always been when I decide to find a
woman and have a larger family, to be there for every moment of their lives. I
don't want to miss a single moment and I need to put myself in a position to be
financially sustainable to do so. Well I am ready to start a family now and I cant
wait to show all the love there is ...

will you love to get married again?

will you love to go into another relationship?

I have not felt the love of a woman for long time now and i really miss it, to be
sincere, am scared but just want to be bold, like i said, am a one man to one woman
relationship type and when i love, i love real hard, i listen to my partner and
understand a lot..

Some day I hope to help people make healthier, more loving decisions with their
lives. Perhaps as a kind of counselor. In the mean time, I'm happy with what I am
doing because I know that the work I do makes a difference..i hardly get angry
because i do believe that energy and time should be put into something good.

Till we meet again

Please feel free to write me ON WHATSAPP (NUMBER) or wechat [wangjames1967]thats my
wechat ID or on hangouts with my gmail: paulstegmann@gmail.com..
as i want to know more about you too... Expecting a message from you..

normal chat.....after personal contact

questions and answers:

what do you do with your free time?

with my leisure time,

I spend my quiet time listening to music and reading. That's basically me,
summarized into those 6 lines....I love to cook, it is one of my passions and its
my way of unwinding and relaxing for example last night I cooked a simple meal,
twice cooked stuffed organic chicken breast with Camembert wrapped in prosciutto,
French style carrots, sautéed mushrooms in garlic, some steamed greens and all
brought together with what I call a native spiced white wine , would love to cook
for you.
Take care and hope to hear from you soonest...

I'll stop here for now , before I leave let me say I am very pleased to meet you
and I am glad we met on (SITE) also, I will take anything to keep the fire burning
and if that means a lot of emails and phone calls I can live with that. I have no
problem in telling you anything about myself all you need to do is ask and I will
guarantee that my answers will be truthful.. As this is the only way I operate.
normal chat..

questions and answers continue..

[Do you believe in distance relationship?]

Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith I will meet
the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.

[Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?]

To me it depends on my soul mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her house

of living its ok with me, but if she wants to relocate to my house its ok with me
also, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again will be ok
with me.Being lonely has really affected me a lot because as humans we all need
someeone to lean on in hard times and someone to talk to and share those cheerful
moments with...

[How do you normally spend your leisure time?]

Listening to music, Cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, Cooking and

most especially swimming.... I love walking and going out with dogs..

[How much do you enjoy working your job ?]

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees.

[Are you a God fearing woman?]

I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,

attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.

[What are your hobbies?]

I enjoy, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping,

scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors moutain
biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography, cooking and also
spending some time out with my friends.

[Whats Your Favorite color?]

My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.

[So tell me how big is your family?]

I mean how many brothers and sisters you have? What about your parents?

Unfortunately my both parents are dead and I am the only kid my parents gave birth
to, so you see my dear, Juan which is the name of my daughter is the apple of my
eyes and the only family I have at the moment.

[Do you seek for a particular age before coming into Relationship?]

I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is numbers, you do not know
where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you or perhaps older
than you.

[How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?]

I do not go out often that much ever since i started working, because i don't
always have time. So the few time that I go out must be with the juan my daughter
and I will be looking forward to go out with that special Someone like you someday.

It is nice to hear from you again.

Thank you for getting back to me. I really appreciate it a lot.You are making my
day today...You are wonderful woman...I will do anything to get to know you
better..
I know that knowing someone takes time.
It is a gradual process but i want to invest all my time in knowing you..

[ NORMAL CHAT...]

Let me just clarify a little of what I just said about being truthful. I believe
that there is varying degrees, or levels of truthfulness example, is the glass half
full or half empty? Both are correct. Sometimes I do exaggerate a little or tell
little white lies but never something that haunts me or stops me from sleeping
soundly at night & never ever on the serious issues, I do consider myself an honest
person of integrity and honorable character........

I have not been in a relationship for long now because, I don�t just want to rush
into any relationship, which will not last long, I want a relationship that can
lead to something great, I am going to relocate for the right woman and I meant
it, have had series of jobs in the past and I think it's time to build a
relationship.I am a man who will never cheat on my partner because I believe that
God made one man for one woman and so I should be like that.
Please do not mind the distance between us, because distance is just a flight
ticket away.
I just thought I�d share this with you and know what you think I understand that
there are many different ways to partner, and I try not to judge other people�s
choices, but for me, I would like to find an equal partner, someone who contributes
as much as I do to a relationship. This doesn't have to be about money, but in
totally, the work, effort and total contribution we bring. I have expectations for
myself, and in the past
I've found it difficult to find someone who had similarly high expectations for
themselves. It seems like so many people want to do �just enough� to get by, but I
want more than that. hope to hear from you soon....

NORMAL CHAT..

[NEXT DAY]
Thanks for wrtting back, to me you are far too kind and a nice woman i always wish
everyday to be with you... please just make sure you take good care of yourself for
me i still think
about you and the fact that we both have a lot in common... We don't have to look
very far to find love and happiness. Often times people make attempts to live their
lives backwards, they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more
of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the
reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in
order to have what you want.. without happiness,life is just miserable so it is
good to connect with your inner being and seize every opportunity you have.. You
can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say
what age you have to be to find your true love? The time is now MHY LADY,TIME will
never wait weather we want it to or not...HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOOON.

THANKS FOR YOUR RESPONSE DEAR .....

As a basic foundation I think there should be respect for each others freedom
(though to make a partnership work, I believe that we have to freely choose to take
our partner and our family into consideration when we make choices), honesty and
openness, I believe that honesty,even if we don�t want to hear what someone has to
say, is always more kind in the long run. I think it�s especially important for
partners to be able to trust each other, without that, it just seems like
everything falls apart. I also think it�s important to be able to express your
needs and wants to each other. And make decisions together about how to meet them.
I believe it�s important to be kind to each other, to not be callous with each
others hearts.HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOONEST...

First i want to thank you for the time you took in chatting with me i really do
appreciate... I am looking for a woman who will be loving caring and understanding
and also who can take care of my kids if i can find all this i will settle down
with her.... i am ready to settle down for a very long time now i have not felt
love and care of a woman, my daughter keep on telling me daddy go look for a step
mum i want to feel motherly love again and i said to her,you have to wait for the
right time and the right time is now.... age is number it can not be a barrail to
stop us or distance if you want me to come and meet you or you want to come which
way you want it i don't mind. sometimes it feels so bad when you lost your love
once but we need to move on with life... maybe you can be the lucky one
heheheh...please be my life partner ..
I will love to undergo into a serious romantic relationship with you... because a
friend like you is not common in the universe... You have be so nice to me...Please
open up your heart and give me the chance to walk into your heart.
I want to tell you that the words i use in my mail comes straight from my heart.
It is my own way of expressing how i feel in my inside.
I am sure of what i feel and how you have affected me.
PLEASE ACCEPT ME AS YOUR MAN AND ONLY TRUE LOVE..I want to join hands with you...
let us live in a peredise ....which i have decide to live with the woman that have
this ..

NEXT
How are you doing ?
I hope you are doing fine.
I am doing fine here but i keep thinking about the beauty of knowing you more.
I have been thinking about how nice it will be for us to move on with this and see
how far it will take us.
I have the hope and believe that it will lead into something great.

I was on the site for a few weeks but i was just a casual observer on the site
until i saw your profile.It caused an instant impact in my heart.
Give me the chance to know you.
Give me the chance to walk into your heart.

Please trust me enough on this.Do not judge me by what you have passed through with
other men.I will not be like them.There are still good men out here
just like there are still better ladies out there.
Give me your hand and trust in this.
I want you to know that true love is not found, it is built... when there is trust
and understanding between the both partners

Honey i understand that Chinese people are very sincere, hard working and
trustworthy and i have also decided to relocate to any country where i found my
true love

I have a few passions in my life and I would have to say that I am passionate about
being a good father, about my career, about developing relationships (in general),
and I really look forward to being passionate and having a passionate intimate
relationship someday. I tend to be passionate about all things that are attached to
the heart, my heart. Generally, this is my love and passion for humanity and for
those that will come into my love life.

Relationships: Give 100%, if this can not be given, then you are not that true
friend, lover or husband/wife. Be true to yourself, and your love ones. Honesty,
communication, and understanding along with patience will make the difference. This
is just my opinion mind you. Sharing, is more than finance, material assets, more
importantly, it is the sharing of yourself, time, and love. Giving always more to
the other, and they will give back. It is a forever revolving door of giving...

Let me see, what else can I share about me? I have a strong work ethic and I never
give anything less than my absolute best. Oh, one more thing . . . in case you
hadn't figured it out already, I am a hopeless romantic. I love the little things
about a relationship -- holding hands and doing nothing, picking flowers in a field
for the table for dinner, watching a butterfly go by as you're walking! I know, it
probably sounds silly but it's me.
I have a fragile heart that was broken before.
I know how it feels to be hurt and will not want that for someone else.
Love is the heart's immortal thirst and when we have it it's the greatest gift and
the source of happiness.
I hope to hear from you again.
You are in my thoughts
I have no reason to say what i do not mean. I am an open book.
I came on the site with one purpose.To look for that missing special person.
I have been a casual observer on the site and nothing was really interesting on the
site until i saw you.
I am not one of those men that came to deceive women.
I am a man of integrity.
I will not do anything to hurt you.
I just want you to give me your hand in this.
I want a relationship with you.
I want your hand of trust.
Please do not judge me with what you have passed through.
I remained single for this long because i did not want to rush into a relationship
again.

I have a very fragile heart and i do not think i can endure another pain.
I will make you smile all the time.
I promise to help erase all sad memories from your mind.

I was raised by my mom whom to me is the best woman that ever lived.
She taught me respect for women at a very tender age.
She showed me love and made me promise her never ever to hit a woman.I have never
done that and will never do that.
I want you to give me the chance to make things right.I promise to love you with
all that i am.
I promise to give you all my heart without reservations.I will love you and treat
you like a lady.
I will make you happy all the time.Putting smiles on your face will be my priority.

Tell me your thought towards me... what do you believe about me... what did you
like about me...

WOW THATS SO COOL THANKS MY LOVE..

I love you my dear... I am begining to feel deep in love with you every blessed
day.. you have be so nice to me... My dear please will you make this feeling
reality...!!

If you hide, I�ll seek for you. If you�re lost, I�ll search for you. If you leave,
I�ll wait for you. If they try to take you away from me, I�ll fight for you. Cause
I never want to lose someone I love.

I often imagine a perfect union

One that is built with Love and Happiness
One that brings an incomparable Joy.

Let me bask in the light of your eyes

Let me breathe the breath of your soul
I will sit at your feet
learn from your wisdom
I have seen my visions
and dreams manifested
and my revelation come to life
in your eyes
We will unlock the mysteries
that until now
evaded us
And with the discovery of truth
Of understanding
Of strength
Of dreams
born into reality
we will accomplish great things
and move the world
and this boundless power of love
that is US�

There is not time that passes without my mind going to you.You are occupying my
mind all the time

I will talk to you later...

NEXT

WHAT DOES YOUR LOVE MEAN TO ME?

I would give you the oceans and the seas i would give you all eternity if I could
make life easy for you, i would take away all your pain bring you sunshine instead
of rain I would take all your hurt away your sky would never be gray. i would offer
you the moon and stars but you see I can't, they are not ours All these things I
would give to you but my darling, these things i can't do.i only have my love to
offer you A love that would always be true I love you more than you will ever know
With all I do for you, i hope that it shows.I hope that my love will be enough for
you bring you happiness your whole life through And In the end when my time is due
my darling, i will still go on loving you. [NORMAL CHAT]

Life mirrors so many unwanted experiences but I believe it all happen for a reason
and it depends on your mindset. There are some pains and memories time can never
heal, it only makes it easier to cope with. The way you handle situations
determines its effect on your life. No matter what happens I take it as a glory to
the name of the Lord, perhaps it's a test to strengthen my faith. I lost my wife
and i felt bad and blamed God for it but I was happy that God gave me the strength
to straighten my head and see things positively.

My CHILD IS ALL I GOT NOW SHE IS MY WORLD, I THANK GOD FOR HER LIFE ,MY world is
built and designed around my daughter.
It gives me great joy exchanging notes with you.we still thank God for making us
see this day it something,in life no matter what is happening to you i believe God
know the best and once again thank you for your nice words,,,

Here is a poem and a song for you for today

You're more beautiful than a satiny pink rose,

more beautiful than a starlit sky,
more beautiful than a magenta sunset,
more beautiful than the
early morning rays of the sun,
more beautiful than a haunting romantic song.
I love nothing more than being with you.
I'd rather be with you than
do anything else in the world.
The sound of your voice soothes
something deep inside me
while at the same time,
it stirs a romantic passion
that can make me forget everything else.
Your smile makes my heart pound wildly
and my knees weak.
I love to fantasize about making love to you.
I can picture us entwined in a garden of pink.
I would stare into your eyes,
enthralled by all that you are...
by a beauty that's incomparable.
There's no one like you,
and you're my one and only.

Kisses

I wish i have you present with me here

Im so sad and depressed Is all I want to do is rest I go to sleep at night But my
dreams I just can't fight I think of you lying in that bed And wonder if there is
anything I could have said I wish you were still here But I know that you are still
near I love you more than you know I just wish you didn't have to go I just want
one more day with you And I know thats what you would have wanted too I miss you
more and more each day There is so much more we had to say I know I will see you
again But my life is just started to begin.

You have already stolen my heart.

You have taken over my whole heart.You are running in my veins...

JUAN keeps asking me about you.

She really wants to meet you.She is excited about having someone in our lives..We
have been together all these while but i lack the love and attention of a woman and
JUAN lacks the love and attention of a mother..We need you in our lives......

It first came onto me like a dream

but i realize that it's not,
the long wait of a true love has finally stuck my cold and misery heart and rather
brought warm and long lasting love into my heart.
To love is like being on top of the world, likewise to be loved.

I am so filled with love for you.

I am so much in love with you and it is coming straight from my heart....
Please do not ever doubt my love for you.
Please do not hurt me..Please do not break my heart...

I promise to love you hopelessly and endlessly..

7 YOU ARE STUCK IN MY HEART

Dearest
Good morning.
It is a beautiful morning here in GERMANY
I woke up this morning with smiles on my face all because i was thinking about you
all through the night.

I have been telling you how much you have affected my heart all these while.You
have touched a very sacred place in my heart..You have touched the very core of my
existence...You have affected me deep in my heart and soul...I will forever remain
grateful for this beautiful feeling that you brought into my heart...

How are you doing this beautiful morning?

I hope you are doing well.I am doing well here but thinking deeply about you....I
know that in my heart is where i have kept you..I have given you all of me.I have
made my mind available for you..I want to love you like no one has ever loved
you....

I smile anytime i think about you.

I smile anytime my mind goes towards you...The feeling is amazing..The feeling
makes me want to come see you immediately..

I just cannot wait to see you.

I want to look deep in your eyes and tell you that i am in this with everything in
me....
I have made up my mind about spending the rest of my life with you.All i need is
your hand of love and trust...

I have been very sincere in all my mails and words.

I have never opened to anyone the way that i have opened to you...I have shared so
much about myself with you because i trust you...I built walls around my heart but
you are breaking down the walls around my heart...You are doing this without even
knowing it....

I have not known this joy and happiness until i met you...You are my greatest
source of joy and happiness....I have decided to give up everything to be with
you....I have made up my mind about loving you with all my heart..

I want you to hold me close to you.

I want you to hold my heart close to you.
I want you to see me as your man and best friend...I will always be there for you
no matter what tomorrow will bring....

Debra talks about you all the time.

She keeps asking me when she will see you.She keeps telling me that she wish you
are here with us.... Debra lacks the love and attention of a mother.
I lack the love and affection of a wife and lover..I want to be your man forever..

I know that we met a few days ago but no one else has come close to where you are
in my heart all my life...You have woken up feelings and affection in me that i
thought was dead some years ago..I willl always live to remember you all my
life....

I want lie in your arms day and night. I want to feel

safe with you. I want to be loved by you. I want to be

admired by you. I want to be the centre of your

universe. I wish you were here so I can say this to

you in person, to show you.

Darling, you make me happy......

If I could have just one wish, I would wish to wake up

everyday to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin
And the feel of your heart beating with mine.....
Knowing that I could never find that feeling with

anyone other than you.

I want to grow old with you....

I am getting ready to leave the house for the office.I have about three meetings
today with some clients...

I will be thinking about you all through today..

Have a wonderful day.

Love is in the air...breath it..inhale it deeply....

Hugs

8} FOLLOWING

I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU

My darling
Good morning.
My life has experienced a turning around since that day that i saw your profile on
the site..My life has not been the same since that day that we met on the site...I
have known joy and happiness ..I have known a peace in my heart that i have never
felt before....JUAN love you and she is already calling you mom.

I was thinking all through last night about how deep you have touched my
heart...You bring back sparks into my life...I built walls around my heart..Years
of hurting made me built walls around my heart.I never thought that anyone will
come close to the walls around my heart but you are here now but breaking the walls
around my heart......

You have affected my heart in so many different ways.I will spend the rest of my
life loving you like no one has ever loved you..Mere words cannot express how much
you mean to me..Words alone cannot express what you have done to my heart...I have
made up my mind to be your man as long as i live....

I am ready to meet you face to face as soon as you are comfortable with meeting
me.I want to look deep in your eyes and tell you how much you have affected this
heart of mine...

MOMENTS IN LIFE THAT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE

MOMENTS IN LIFE THAT SHINE BRIGHT LIKE A STAR
MOMENTS IN LIFE THAT TOUCH YOUR SPIRIT AND HEART
THESE ARE DEFINING MOMENTS OF LIFE

YOU ARE A DEFINING MOMENT IN MY LIFE

ONE THAT SHINES BRIGHTER THAN A STAR
ONE THAT TOUCHES TENDERLY ON MY HEART
EVEN AS OUR DISTANCE IS FAR YOU�RE CLOSE TO ME NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE
YOU ARE MY DEFINING MOMENT

MY DESIRE FOR YOU IS LIKE A BURNING FIRE

MY COMMITMENT TO YOU IS FIRM AND STRONG
TRIALS AND TROUBLES WILL COME OUR WAY BUT ALWAYS KNOW IM HERE TO STAY
HAND IN HAND WALKING TOGETHER OR HOLDING YOU WHEN YOU�RE SAD TILL YOU FEEL
BETTER...

WE�RE BLESSED TO HAVE FOUND EACH OTHER IN THIS WORLD SO LARGE

WHAT WE HAVE SO RARE AND PURE
THAT I CHERISH IT DEEPLY YOU CAN BE SURE
I WONT LET GO NO MATTER WHAT AND WHEN IT GETS HARD I WONT GIVE UP
BECAUSE YOU ARE MY DEFINING MOMENT.

I never knew that anyone in this life will make me feel this way..I never knew that
anybody in this life will touch me like you do.I never knew that love could burn
this hard in my soul....

Your love is like a burning fire in my soul.It keeps burning and getting stronger
by the day...

Every night before bed

I lay awake cause your stuck in my head

I want to be more than just a friend

I want to be yours till the very end

If I could have you to love and to hold

I wont be empty but complete an whole

Oh how I long just to kiss your lips

And to take care of you when you are sick

I know that this will lead to something great.I know that meeting you on the site
was not and accident.I know that meeting you was pure destiny..I know that this
will lead to something special.You are my destiny.....

I am leaving for the office.

I will be thinking about you all through today..

Have a wonderful morning

Hugs and kisses

9) THERE IS LOVE ALL OVER ME

Dearest Lynelle,
Good morning.
It is another beautiful morning here in Georgia.
The fact that you are a part of my life makes every morning beautiful.
I can not remember the last time i felt like this.I cannot remember the last time i
had such feeling like this...You have actually raised up emotions in me that i
thought was dead a long time ago..I built walls around my heart but knowing you is
destroying the walls around my heart....

All i ever wanted in this life is to be in love again.I want to love and be loved
back.There is nothing in this life that will give me joy and happiness like the joy
and happiness that knowing you has brought to my heart..

I have just one promise to make to you..I promise to make you smile all the time.I
will make you the happiest woman on earth.I will show you what love is all
about...I will treat you like a beauty queen..
I just want to love and be loved back...I have lacked the love and warmth of a
woman in the last 11 years years...I have so much to offer my special someone ...I
have made up my mind about loving you endlessly all my life..I have decided to give
up everything just to be with you...You make me happy...You brought joy and
happiness into my life...

YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING

YOU ARE MY WATCH FOR REMINDING ME
YOU ARE MY PILLAR TO LEAN ON IN HARD TIMES
YOU ARE MY HEALER WHEN I�M PAINING
YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING

Feels like a fire in my soul that has always grown.

It burns deep inside of me, strong and true,
It's always been there, and it's always been you.

When I first saw your face the flames came alive,

They must have ignited from the spark in your eyes.
There�s no way to stop it, out of control.

It will keep going, without any recourse,

Because I won�t stop it, I submit to its force.

To end the burning, I have no desire,

I want to be consumed by our love�s fire.

I am running to your open hand to hold me so close to your heart.I am running to

you for shelter.You are my amazing grace.I have just realized that in your arms is
where i will be safe..I want to do forever with you...

I come to you
With my soul exposed

I come to you
With my heart full of love

I come to you
With my arms open wide

I come to you
With love in my eyes

I come to you
With my senses soaring

I come to you
With all my love..

I am getting ready to leave for the office.

I have told Debra about you.She has been asking me questions everyday about you
each time i hear from her ...You have affected both father and daughter..

Have a wonderful day

Hugs and kisses

LOVE....
All I want is
to love you for the rest of my life...
to wake up every morning with you by my side,
knowing that no matter what happens,
I'll be able to come home to your loving arms.
All I want is
to share everything with you...
to talk to you about our ideas,
our dreams, the little everyday things
that make us laugh,
and the not-so-little things
that we can't help worrying about.
All I want is
to give you my love...
as a place you can always come for acceptance
or the simple comfort that silence brings
when things left unspoken can still be understood.
All I want is
to grow old with you...
to watch our life unfold, our dreams, one by one, come true.
All I want is
to love you forever.

I'm delicately handing my heart to you,

In your caressing hands to forever keep.
I'm giving you the chance of destroying me,
And I know I'm in your love too deep.

I have just one promise to make to you..I will not do anything to hurt you..I will
rather die than hurt anyone in this world.I know the pains of hurting.I know how it
feels to be hurt.I will not want that for someone else.I was hurt in the past by my
ex wife...I know how i felt and i will not want anyone to go down that road ...I
just want to love and be loved in return...I have always prayed for someone like
you...

I have prayed in years for God to send me someone like you..You are like an answer
to my prayers....I will appreciate you till i die..I will always make you smile....

I am at the office going through my files for the day but my mind is far away with
you....My heart is right there with you...

I never knew that love could be this beautiful.I never knew that love could be so
strong.I never thought that i will ever feel like this about anyone again all my
life...

I am convinced that you are and i were meant to be together.I am convinced that my
heart belongs to you.I am convinced that meeting you on the site was not an
accident.I am convinced that we were meant for each other.I have thought so much
about my feelings for you since that day that we met on the site..You have touched
a very special place in my heart.You have affected me deep in my soul..

I was thinking about you all through last night..I thought about how i was until i
met you.There is a huge difference in my heart.There is a huge impact in my
heart...I know that this is no ordinary love.I know that our love was made in
heaven....
The last few days has brought so much joy and happiness into my life.I will
appreciate you till my dying days..I will love you till i loose my breath if only
you will give me the chance..I want to love you like no one has ever loved you..I
want to be your man through thick and thin....

Until we meet
My nights will be a little colder
My days a little shorter
My heart will beat a little less rapid
Until we meet
I know that my arms will be empty
My mind hurting from the constant thought of you
Minutes will seem to be hours
Hours will seem to be months
While months will seem like eternity
Until we meet
The stars in the sky will not affect me
with its gleaming sparkles of life
Until I am gazing at them in your arms
And the food that I eat will not be as fulfilling and nourishing
Until it is you that I share the my food with
And Until we meet
I will not feel whole
My world will seem incomplete
Until that wonderful day
When our eyes make first contact
And our bodies and souls collide in blissful whirlwind
The words will roll off my tongue like a sweet love song

ABOUT COMING

I will need you to give me the closest airport close to you so that i will know
where i am flying into...
Also give me the contact details of a very good hotel around so that i will make
my reservation....

NORMAL CHAT..
NIGHT SEX CHAT...

FOR YOUR EYES ONLY.

Please don't show this to anyone else. I wanted to write to you and express how
much I love you. Please bare with me and understand it's been a long time but
these are the things I want to do to you when we are finally able to be together.

I want to start by softly kissing your forehead, then as I kiss your closed eyes I
caress your arms, then I kiss your cheek and as I nibble on your ear I move my hand
across your body and find your nipples. I kiss and gently suck on your neck.
After playing with your nipples I move my hand down your stomach and caress your
legs before wrapping my hand around your you.

My lips find yours as I softly kiss you on your mouth. Our mouths start to part
and I feel your tongue touching mine. Our kiss becomes deep and sensual. After
our passionate kiss I lick your neck and find your nipple with my tongue. You are
growing as I continue to suck your nipples. I lick and suck on your nipples. You
keep getting wet as I continue. Oh baby I want you so bad now. I'm so excited I
want to go inside you. I want to feel all of me inside of you. I want to feel a
part of you become a part of me. Instead I keep sucking on your nipples.
I kiss and lick your body all over until I reach between your legs. I run my
tongue across the tip of your clitoris then I take my hand all the way to your
nipples. As I'm sucking on you and caressing your nipples you moan slowly and you
taste so good. As I'm sucking and caressing you my other hand is squeezing your
butt. Your nipples are so hard. I continue to suck. Oh babe you feel and taste so
good. You are so wet right now as I keep sucking you and you feel so good you want
to explode. You can't hold back any longer as I'm sucking you I feel an explosion
in my mouth. You are so sensitive right now and I gently continue to gently suck on
you all the way to your nipples again and You are feeling so good right now as i go
inside you deeply and make sweet and passionate love to you and you moan soflty
always calling my name, as i go deeper and reach my climax, you are so sweet honey
and i feel good.

I want you to feel even better. I have you turn over and I begin massaging your
shoulders then message your back as I move down and message your bottom then your
legs. When you are completely relaxed I curl up beside you as we hold each other
and whisper I love you then we drift off to sleep.

I hope you enjoyed reading this and I was able to express myself the way I wanted.
I love you sweetheart and I want to make you happy. I want to be with you and love
you for the rest of my life.

I know I'm driving you crazy so I'll leave you alone for a while. I love you so
much, I just need you to know that and you are the only woman I need and want for
the rest of my life and nothing will ever change that.

Lots of love and kisses

OR

Thanks for your wonderful note. Sure, I really want to get to know you more better
and then see how it goes from there. I want us to keep this good dialogue going and
then see how it goes from. But, There is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been
running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words
so you will have to bare with me through this. I keep thinking about the future,
about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this
relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go
hand in hand. This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want
to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I
really think I'm going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the
one that would be just right for us.
I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and
catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the covers off me at
night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I
want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion
all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long. I want to hold you
when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep every night
with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of
my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I
wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep.
I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on
the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to
envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I want to see you walk down
that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all
night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to
be so blunt). I want to be ninety years old and still make out with you like a
little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up
doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all
but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each
other realizing how lucky we are.
I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out
laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace
and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you
to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-
dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking
everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot
tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales
rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do
the things we want to do.
I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn
around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in
the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back
in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen
counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the
shower, which ever one we feel like at the time. I want it to take your breath away
every time I say, "I Love You" because you know it's coming from the bottom of my
heart.
I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and
a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that
one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a little
longer. I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided
to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my
head. I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the
rest of my life with until I met you. I am really crazy about you, everything about
you. Let me know what you think.
Look forward to hearing from you.

NEXT DAY

I know that meeting you was an answer to my prayers.I know that knowing you is the
start of something beautiful..You are my amazing grace..

You stole my thoughts

And then my ideas

You stole my mind

And its creative nature

You stole my words

And made me breathless

You stole my heart

And gave me hope

You stole my kisses

and gave me faith

I want to spend the rest of my life loving you if only you will give me the
chance..I am sure of my feelings for you.It comes straight from the heart...

I just need a chance to get a little bit closer to you.I just want a chance to love
you like no one has ever loved you...

What if I told you it was all meant to be?

Would you believe me, would you agree?
It's almost that feeling that we've met before
So tell me that you don't think I'm crazy
When I tell you love has come here and now

EXPECTING CONTRACT..

Good morning my sweet angel, how are you today and how was your night ??. I am so
happy to have found such a great in you. You have made me have hope in life and i
cant wait to have you in my house,as my wife and as my everything honey. I love you
so much and always ,My love i feel too good because things are perfectly wonderful
for me,I have good news for you there is this contract am expecting this week, is a
very big one and it involve lot of money and i will be traveling out of state for
the interview to get the contract so honey i want you to pray for me about the
contract because this contract will change our lifes for better.Am telling you this
because i honestly trust and love you and i want you to know that i see you now as
my wife and as my wife i will share anything with you,I do believe we have so much
to build on.Like our memories and our love most of all. I will make our
relationship stronger. My darling i will do my best for us and make everything
perfect. I wish i was with you on this wonderful day, to keep you warm.i will be
traveling by Wednesday OR..... morning always pray for my safety honey i love you
so dearly..

Darling I want you to know that when the world closes in and lies so heavily upon
you,
remember - I care.
When love seems to only bring you pain,
remember - I care.
What cannot be, cannot be, but always,
remember - I care.
Never be afraid to come to me ...... No matter what it is,
remember - I care.

CONTRACT FOR CHINA MAYE

Contract awarded
Hello My Love,

Baby am so happy right now because I've been looking forward to win this contract
and GOD has answered my Prayer. I got a confirmation of a pending contract which
has been approved and awarded to me. I'm to design and wire a Collapse building
that was built newly ." I THANK GOD THEY DID AFTER ALL THIS WHILE ". You have
brought allot into my life , and i promise i will never let you down. I love you so
much and i want you to know that I'm doing this to build up my career and making
sure we build a wonderful family and brighter future.i will be going to WEST AFRICA
NIGERIA FOR THE CONTRACT..where i will start working i will travel to London be
Friday and leave to AFRICA on Sunday..am so happy your prayer worked for me and am
so glad..why so exited is that its a private contract we are going to live big
after am done just keep praying for my safety..
and i promise to come direct to china after this job

I am missing you everyday but soon as i complete this assignment i cant just wait
to come to you , How i wish i was already there with you .To hold you, kiss you,
touch you,caress you & Hug you tight and close,go on vacations with only you just
like been on our honey moon. In life, we receive a wonderful opportunity, and that
is to love. Love comes in many forms, You love people in different ways and for
different reasons, depending upon how they have touched your life. Love is a very
powerful word and can describe a multitude of feelings, but its main context
carries the same meaning I want to tell you that the love I have for you is
undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time.
I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for
the day that we can join our lives together.. I want to lay next to you at night
and fall asleep in your arms, only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share
in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything.. You are everything to
me.You are everything I do. You see and bring out the best in me. You are the one I
want to share everything with - my thoughts, hopes and dreams. Thinking of you
makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for me. I will
forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life.So, to repay you, I
promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my life. I love you so
much! To say this a million times is not enough to express how much I do. I love
you dearly ...Beyond the stars.. I've to run over and pack my luggage now, and will
talk to you before i leave. I will get you allots of things when I'm coming to
visit you . Cant wait to read from you Sweet Sugar..!!..Once I get to London by
morning honey I will inform you ok... I miss you so much my lovely FUTURE WIFE....

BILLING

My love i want to inform you about the problem i have here the first time when I
went to the seaport the customs officer that was in control of my working materials
at the seaport refuse to clear out my working materials after paying �14,456000
pounds to them, they ask me to pay additional money which is £7.500. That which i
just paid and i am glad that i have been able to clear my working materials and
start working. The problem I have now is that the Nigerian banking system is
different from that of London and Europe they could not access my account here ,
because of their poor Banking system here and the restrictions from my bank and
there is not much money on my Master Card I traveled with, i exhausted all the
little money I have. My love as i write to you i am very sick and i don't have any
money with me to get a good medication, i also need to pay for someone workers that
i will hire here to join me for the project. I have made an estimate, the total sum
i need for everything is 12.000 pounds.So far i have tried to contact a close
friend of mine for assistance he promise to remit the require amount of �8.000
pounds to me by tomorrow. My love the money i need now to make the complete sum is
�4.000 pounds. I am so ashamed to ask you for a help, but you are the only person
that can be of help to me right now. I need you to help me out with this money even
if it cost me to pay you in double or with interest. Take my word my love I promise
I will make it up to you when i receive my first installment money. My love I am
writing this message to you with confusion and frustration shown all over my face,
because I never expect to see my self in such a situation...

ANOTHERY TYPE OF BILLING

CONTRACT APPROVAL

My darling Norma,
I know this is not the mail you want to read.
Please read it with all understanding.

My hands are shaking as i do this mail to you.This is not my plans at all.My

company has just been approved of a very lucrative contract in KUALA LUMPUR
MALAYSIA.. The contract is for 12 million dollars.

The news came as a big shock to me as i was not expecting it to be so urgent.I have
been working on the job in the last three months but the approval came at the wrong
time...

The terms of the contract states that i will be paid at the end of of the job.I
will be going to my bank tomorrow morning to commence the process of obtaining a
loan from my bank to commence the job.I will be taking the loan with my both
houses.I have my house in Atlanta and my moms house in Texas.I will take the loan
with this two houses.

I am so happy about this contract as this is the first time that i will be doing an
international job but i am sad and very sorry that i will not be able to visit you
again as planned.I am expected to be traveling out Thursday .I am going to start
shopping for for a few clothes as i have just googled the weather there.

I will talk to you later again.

Please do not take this the wrong way...

I AM STILL WALKING ON THE LOAN.

My darling Cindy,
I hope this mail meets you well.
I have been thinking about you all through the day.
I was thinking deeply about how much you have touched my heart.

I am back from the bank.My account officer has submitted my application for the
loan.I have submitted all the documents that they need to give me a loan.I have a
very good relationship with my bank and i an credit worthy because i have equity.I
will be there tomorrow morning at 10 am.

I have been driving around town getting the proper travel papers for Jordan.I have
gone for her immunization and yellow fever vaccines.She needs to take so many
preventives because we are going to Africa.Her health is more important to me than
all the money in the world...

I will be going to buy her some clothes too.It is winter now in Cape Town but they
told me that it rains a lot also.So the weather changes all the time.I want to buy
as many clothes as possible for this child.
Jordan was telling me this morning when we were driving home that she wish you are
going to Africa with us.Jordan like talking about you.You have touched both father
and daughter.We are so much in love with you even when we have not seen each
other.You keep crawling deeper and deeper into my heart..

I want to still say that i am very sorry about the way the contract came about.I
never wished it will come out this early.I want to assure that subsequently that i
will not take any business decision without consulting you...

I will soon be back to you so that we will start our lives together.I have vowed to
always love you.I have vowed to always be by your side.I have vowed to make you
mine forever....

I keep thinking about our first night together.It will surely be a night to
remember.I will make love to you like no one has ever done to you.I will make you
scream my name all night long....

My love for you will stand the text of time.

How can you ache and crave for someone's touch
When you have never felt it?
I do this for yours, though,
And the yearning grows more each day
I have never wanted anything in my life
As much as I want you
When you whisper such sweet love
In my ear when we talk
You make me melt into a puddle
Of complete helplessness
You have become my every waking thought
And my every dream at night
I breathe in so hard
Trying to catch my breath when we can't talk
I close my eyes so tight
Hoping when I open them you will be there
But I know I have to wait
Until the time is right
It seems so far away
That I think I am losing my mind
I want to breathe in your scent
And keep it with me all day long
I want to taste your love for me
By kissing your sweet lips
I want to feel your body next to me
So when you leave for awhile I can hold on
I just want you to know
That I really do love you
When the day comes and we are together
You will always know and feel this
I will always hug, kiss and love you
Every moment of the day and night...
You will never have another touch unfelt...

I want to assure you that i will not do anything in this life to hurt you.......I
will speak to you later.

THE BANK APPROVED THE LOAN.

My darling Cindy,
I hope this mail meets you well.
I am doing this mail with smiles on my face.
The bank has approved the loan.It did not take so much time for the loan to be
approved today..
I am very happy about this but sad at the same time because i am leaving here with
a part of me behind. I am going to buy an Ipod for Jordan.Jordan likes music a
lot.I am going to buy some clothes and shoes for her also.

We will be leaving on the 10 am flight out of Atlanta.It is going to be a long

flight but i will be thinking about you all through... Mere words cannot express
the way you make me feel.I keep thanking God for bringing you into my life.I know
that meeting you on the site was not an accident.I know that it was destiny.You
are an answer to my prayers.I prayed in years for someone like you.God sent you my
way for a reason..

I want to be your man for ever.You are a dream come true.All my life i have been
hoping and praying for God to send me someone like you..You make my life so
beautiful.You make loving so simple and easy..
I promise you from the bottom of my heart that i will love you till death do us
part.I am in this with all of my heart.I built walls around my heart but you are
breaking down the walls around my heart.You are doing this without knowing....

I know that i am leaving for South Africa.I promise you from the bottom of my heart
that i will be thinking about you every single day.I will do everything within my
power to finish this job and come back home to your beautiful arms... I just cannot
explain how deep you have affected me.My mind has been made up about you.My only
fear is hurting.Please do not hurt me.I have a very fragile heart that was broken
before.I do not think i can endure another pain.Another pain will definitely kill
me....

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For you are my loving inspiration

With you by my side, there is nothing to impossible
We will face that outside world, together..
My loving inspiration
You have my heart, mind, soul, and body
These things I trust you with
My loving inspiration
It seemed impossible, like trying to finding a four leaf clover
A white unicorn unmatched majesty
True love seemed to be a myth
A fairy tale for little children, the happily ever after
My loving inspiration
You have helped me believe that there is true love
That happily ever after can exist
That peace and serenity can rule our lives
My loving inspiration
Now that all these thing exists in our life
How I long to taste your love kisses
Our patients has been tested
I still have some errands to run.
I will talk to you again soon.
The feelings that i feel for you is so special.It comes straight from my heart.

I will always sleep next to you.We will never go to bed angry with each other.We
will always stick together through thick and thin...We should also have our
secrets.Ever matter about us should not be discussed by other people..I want us to
build a relationship that will be the envy of all around...

I will cook for you all the time.I will serve you breakfast and dinner on bed.I
will treat you like a lady..
I have to go put finishing touch to my trip tomorrow.
Jordan sends her love and regards..

I will always love you..

I wrote your name in the sand but the waves washed it away. I wrote your name on my
hand but I washed it the next day .I wrote your name on a paper but I accidentally
threw it away
I wrote your name in my heart and forever it will stay.