I am looking for the love of my life. Second only to Jesus!

Of course, I am looking
for friend first, girlfriend, best friend, wife. Actually, girlfriend/bestfriend
kinda coincide. But I think you get the ideal. The type, is alittle harder to
answer. I just want to meet someone who loves Jesus, and understands, that we are
so very blessed, to have such a beautiful Father, whose love for us is completely
out of our sphere, our realm of understanding. To truly understand that,(as much as
we can with our finite minds), and to walk in that. No matter what the day brings,
or how many set-backs we may encounter, He is there waiting to comfort,
forgive,supply peace and or rest, to encourage us,give us grace and continue to
reveal Himself, and Her plan.

Describe a little of your personality and character traits. (Are you funny, laid
back, more serious, open, shy, etc.?)

I am laid back, especially on the week days. I work some crazy hours! But I am
extremely positive, upbeat and excited. (how can I not be? I was dead) Everyone who
knows me knows that I will absolutely find the silver-lining in any situation,and
always try to encourage all around me to do the same.( I found that it can be
contagious!) I love to laugh! I really do live my live with the knowledge of what
He brought me out of and through, and cuz of this I am usually very happy!!!:) And
extremely eternally greatful!

Describe your Christian faith. Where are you at and what are your goals? What
Scripture verses are important to you?

He is my Master, my Lord, my King, my Passion, because I was His Passion. He is not

only my life, He is Life!
I seek truth - He is the Truth, the Way and the Life - therefore, I am continually
seeking a deeper walk with Him (from Glory to Glory)!
Philippians 1:21 To live is Christ, to die is gain.
Zechariah 4:10a For who has despised the day of small things?

What would be the perfect setting for a first meeting with a new friend or date?
Describe it :-)

I think(selfishly speaking) what I would like and I think what would be non-
threating for a female, would be to meet at a coffee house by the beach and take
the coffee to go and walk at the beach, maybe mid-afternoon time. But to be quite
honest it would not really matter, just not any-where too loud.Of course the
company is more important then the place. If the two hit it off ( feel lead) then
the next time perhaps miniture golf??

What are your favorite activities? (Including sports, leisure, artistic/musical,

etc.)

I work-out almost every morning, at least five times a week. Really to stay fit. I
try to ride my bike to the beach two to three times on the weekends, weather
permitting. I can and do enjoy shopping, (no really) I suppose I have about a two
hour limit though. Movies bbq's church, serving,drives walks etc....

Describe your current occupation. Do you like what you do? What is your dream job?

Am a Drilling Engineer current serving my company as P.R.O contractor working with

the Chevron Texas.
Where did you go to school (i.e. high school or college/university, etc.)? What did
you study? Did you like it? Would you like to do more?

I finish my studies at Nevada university as an Rig Drilling Engineer.

What are some of your personal goals in life?

Holding each other hands ,expressing our feelings and thanking God for making us
known ,And also he can change your sorrow to joy at once.

How did your previous relationship end and what positive lessons have you learned
which will help you succeed in future relationships?

Well it really a long story for me to say. I was really enjoying my former life
with my late wife ,she is that type that know how to confort a man in the house,
she deid of cancer of the liver which she couldn't survive the operation, but by
God doing we both had a son by name MICHAEL who i love so much and always there for
me..My little boy keep advicing me to move on in life that its not the end, that i
should look for that honest, loyal, God fearing type to stay by my side and have a
happy home once again and figure my way true if i could. Ithink i have make my self
little clear but still to tell when we come in contact.

Where were you born? Have you ever traveled? If so, where? What is your ideal
adventure?

I was born and brought up in Rena Naveda of the United State, and i do travel so
much to europe and other parts of Africa to work for my company where i do work as
an operation service officer to my boss.

Is there anything else you would like to add? This is your chance to get in that
last (but not least:-) bit of important info that you would like others to know.

This is your chance to get in that last (but not least:-) bit of important info
that you would like others to know.
I am honest, I am real, and I am ready. Thank-you for sharing your precious time
with me. God bless you!

CHRISTAIN CAFE FILLINGS ONE

Short Answers

Describe the type of relationship you are looking for. What qualities would you
like in this relationship or person? Are you seeking a particular age range?
Whatever God has planned for me, whether single or not, I gladly accept. :) If the
Lord does bring someone into my life, she would be first and foremost sold out to
Christ, she would have a maverick's heart (like me) and would be a seeker of truth
(like me). She would share my artistic soul. She would understand God's economy and
that material things are nice, but spiritual things and love are the true wealth &
foundation of life. She must be willing to make the sacrifices necessary in
ministry and be spiritually mature enough to handle the pressures of ministry.
It would be better to start out as friends and let God lead where He wants. I think
alot of friendships and relationships die early because there is too much pressure
placed on them too quickly. The deepest relationships start with a simple seed of
friendship.

Describe a little of your personality and character traits. (Are you funny, laid
back, more serious, open, shy, etc.?)
I make a good and loyal friend. I am easy going and laid back. I seek truth, so I
have a maverick's heart (not a rebel's heart, but a maverick's... there is a
difference. A maverick is a person who acts independently of tradition, dogma, etc.
He doesn't rebel against them, he just doesn't allow them to control him without
just cause. A maverick is someone more interested in the truth than supporting a
pet tradition, dogma, etc. Yeshua (Jesus) is the ultimate example of a maverick).

I am creative, I enjoy music and I love to write... I am very much the artist. Case
in point - the picture above has my paternal Grandpa preaching in the cabbage patch
on the left, and on the right is me holding my Dad's Bible (Dad has recently gone
to Heaven, so he is represented in this photo with the Bible he preached from.)
standing on the platform of the church I pastor. The symbolism is - my Grandpa and
Dad had the calling to preach, but never received their ministerial credentials -
they just preached, I fulfilled the calling and received my credentials and now I
pastor. So, I created the picture above as an expression of something extremely
dear to me - my legacy as a preacher and minister.

I am an artist, like all artist, it is essential that the woman in my life is my

muse and inspiration. If you don't have the soul of an artist and the heart of a
minister - you'll never understand me.

I am a pastor (senior pastor of an Assembly of God church in Southwest Oklahoma),

so I have a pastor's heart as well.

What would be the perfect setting for a first meeting with a new friend or date?
Describe it :-)
If the Lord brought someone into my life, a good place to meet would be an
amusement park, a church activity or maybe a walk in the wildlife refuge. Most any
kind of shared activity would do....
What are your favorite activities? (Including sports, leisure, artistic/musical,
etc.)
I love football, camping, hiking, music, and writing short stories, poetry, song
lyrics and works of non-fiction (ministry based).

Describe your current occupation. Do you like what you do? What is your dream job?
I am pastor of an SCRC (Small Congregation Rural Church) . My current church is my
second pastorate, and in March 2007 I'll have six years in my current pulpit. It is
difficult to describe how important my vocation is to me - it is my life's blood,
my breathe, my heartbeat, my passion. This is what God designed me for. I can't
imagine not being a minister. I hope to add to my pastoral ministry with a ministry
in written word.

Where did you go to school (i.e. high school or college/university, etc.)? What did
you study? Did you like it? Would you like to do more?
I attended high school in Oklahoma. I've attended various tech or trade schools. My
latest school was the Berean Bible School, now a part of Global University. BTW,
the reason I chose "Bible College" on the Education: slot is because it is the
closest answer to Bible School.....
What are some of your personal goals in life?
To become an accomplished writer. My biggest goal, the one that drives me, is to
make God smile....

How did your previous relationship end and what positive lessons have you learned
which will help you succeed in future relationships?
I've learned to be happy and complete in Christ!

As I experienced the movie "The Passion of the Christ", God reminded me that the
greatest Preacher, who is also the greatest Man who ever lived or shall live, was
single. Other great men in the Bible were single as well, such as Paul. And yes,
some were also married, such as Peter. Paul sums it up very well:

1 Corinthians 7:24 {NIV} Brothers, each man, as responsible to God, should remain
in the situation God called him to.

I am happy and complete, whether single or married. I rest comfortably in the

situation that He calls for me. :) This doesn't mean I've chosen single life over
married life. What it does mean is that this area of my life, like all areas of my
life, is fully and completely submitted to Christ and His perfect will.

I've seen the difference between when God puts a couple together and when humans
put a couple together. For example, in my first pastorate there is a couple who
celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary in Dec 2k5. They are still blissfully
happy and their love only continues to grow. They were put together by God, their
marriage has been based on Him and they are truly one. This is what I want and I
will settle for nothing less than God joining me together with the woman He created
to complete my life and ministry.
Where were you born? Have you ever traveled? If so, where? What is your ideal
adventure?
I was born in Oklahoma on 12/29/1962. I've lived in Oklahoma (my home state),
Wyoming & Colorado. I really enjoyed living in Wyoming and Colorado. I've traveled
in the western parts of the USA, but have never made it further east than Tulsa,
Ok. I live where God tells me to, that is the nature of being a pastor.
Is there anything else you would like to add? This is your chance to get in that
last (but not least:-) bit of important info that you would like others to know.

CHRISTAIN CAFE FILLINGS 2

I am looking for the love of my life. Second only to Jesus!Of course, I am looking
for friend first, girlfriend, best friend, wife. Actually, girlfriend/bestfriend
kinda coincide. But I think you get the ideal. The type, is alittle harder to
answer. I just want to meet someone who loves Jesus, and understands, that we are
so very blessed, to have such a beautiful Father, whose love for us is completely
out of our sphere, our realm of understanding. To truly understand that,(as much as
we can with our finite minds), and to walk in that. No matter what the day brings,
or how many set-backs we may encounter, He is there waiting to comfort,
forgive,supply peace and or rest, to encourage us,give us grace and continue to
reveal Himself, and His plan.

Describe a little of your personality and character traits. (Are you funny, laid
back, more serious, open, shy, etc.?)

I am laid back, especially on the week days. I work some crazy hours! But I am
extremely positive, upbeat and excited. (how can I not be? I was dead) Everyone who
knows me knows that I will absolutely find the silver-lining in any situation,and
always try to encourage all around me to do the same.( I found that it can be
contagious!) I love to laugh! I really do live my live with the knowledge of what
He brought me out of and through, and cuz of this I am usually very happy!!!:) And
extremely eternally greatful!

Describe your Christian faith. Where are you at and what are your goals? What
Scripture verses are important to you?

I am laid back, especially on the week days. I work some crazy hours! But I am
extremely positive, upbeat and excited. (how can I not be? I was dead) Everyone who
knows me knows that I will absolutely find the silver-lining in any situation,and
always try to encourage all around me to do the same.( I found that it can be
contagious!) I love to laugh! I really do live my live with the knowledge of what
He brought me out of and through, and cuz of this I am usually very happy!!!:) And
extremely eternally greatful!

What would be the perfect setting for a first meeting with a new friend or date?
Describe it :-)

I think(selfishly speaking) what I would like and I think what would be non-
threating for a female, would be to meet at a coffee house by the beach and take
the coffee to go and walk at the beach, maybe mid-afternoon time. But to be quite
honest it would not really matter, just not any-where too loud.Of course the
company is more important then the place. If the two hit it off ( feel lead) then
the next time perhaps miniture golf??

What are your favorite activities? (Including sports, leisure, artistic/musical,

etc.)

I work-out almost every morning, at least five times a week. Really to stay fit. I
try to ride my bike to the beach two to three times on the weekends, weather
permitting. I can and do enjoy shopping, (no really) I suppose I have about a two
hour limit though. Movies bbq's church, serving,drives walks etc....

Describe your current occupation. Do you like what you do? What is your dream job?

Am a Auto mobile Engineer current serving my company as P.R.O contractor working

with the SPDC tesax.

Where did you go to school (i.e. high school or college/university, etc.)? What did
you study? Did you like it? Would you like to do more?

i finish my studies in westham university as an Civil Engineer.

What are some of your personal goals in life?

Holding each other hands ,expressing our feelings and thanking God for making us
know he can change your sorrw to joy at once.

How did your previous relationship end and what positive lessons have you learned
which will help you succeed in future relationships?
Well it really a long story for me to say.i was really enjoying my former life with
my late wife ,she is that type that know how to confort a man in the house,she deid
of cancer of the liver which she couldn't survive the operation,by God doing we
both had a son by name MICHAEL who i love so much and always there for me..notthing
to he keep advicing me to move on in life that its not the end, that i should look
for that honest,loyal,God fearing type to stay by my side.

Where were you born? Have you ever traveled? If so, where? What is your ideal
adventure?

I wa sborn in Michigan, and i do travel so much to europe and other parts of Africa
to work for my company where i do work as an operation service officer to my boss.

Is there anything else you would like to add? This is your chance to get in that
last (but not least:-) bit of important info that you would like others to know.

This is your chance to get in that last (but not least:-) bit of important info
that you would like others to know.
I am honest, I am real, and I am ready. Thank-you for sharing your precious time
with me. God bless you!

CHRITAIN FILLING FOR WHO U LOOKING FOR

I am looking for the love of my life. Second only to Jesus!Of course, I am looking
for friend first, girlfriend, best friend, wife. Actually, girlfriend/bestfriend
kinda coincide. But I think you get the ideal. The type, is alittle harder to
answer. I just want to meet someone who loves Jesus, and understands, that we are
so very blessed, to have such a beautiful Father, whose love for us is completely
out of our sphere, our realm of understanding. To truly understand that,(as much as
we can with our finite minds), and to walk in that. No matter what the day brings,
or how many set-backs we may encounter, He is there waiting to comfort,
forgive,supply peace and or rest, to encourage us,give us grace and continue to
reveal Himself,i am looking for someone who is prepared to love and to fall in love
,some one as a wife ,some one to get old together with ,some one as a prayer
partner and a wife,I like the out doors i like swimming ,camping ,travelling ,going
to beach,hiking,and lots more ,for the indoors i love readying my bible ,i like
listening to cool music ,movies and cooking ,i hope i find that special one i have
been looking for all this while.