Baby if there's one thing we know to be true it's this...

Relationships cannot
growor have a chance of becoming happy if there's no trust. You have to
overrideyour natural inclination to trust when you feel love with your intelligence
thatsays due to your experience you can't rely on what men say. Men also have a lot
ofhurt from relationships.Trust is built slowly over time, but it can be shattered
in an instant. Honor yourloved one by acting with integrity at all times. The only
engine that power a goodrelationship is trust and trust is based on integrity and
respect we have for eachother.Any relationship, whether it is personal, business,
organizational, community,family, love, or romantic, cannot survive without trust.
But, unfortunately, trustin relationships is now rare. Lack of trust may have a
negative impact on one'slife. It can destroy the glory of relationships, thereby
paving way for jealousyand devastation. Hence, modeling trust in relationships is
important to improve thevalue of a long term deal. Trust in relationships generally
depends on how true weare in expressing our feelings to others, particularly to
those who are very closeto us.However, it is quite difficult to gain trust in a
relationship. Building trust inrelationships need considerable effort, commitment
and time. Here are some steps tobuild trust for the maintenance of a healthy
relationship. The foremost step is tobe predictable. Consistency should be
maintained in all the activities you perform.Another vital step to build a healthy
relationship is to make sure your words matchthe message. Belief in others,
awareness of one's needs, and ability to keepsecrets are also important for
building trust in relationships.Honesty is also a key to build trust in any
relationship. Factors such asinsightfulness, responsiveness and unbiased opinions
must be considered for winningtrust in relationships. Once the trust is
established, it can bring many benefitsincluding huge profits with minimum cost,
improvement in the reputation of a firm,and enhancement in the quality of
relationships. Associate retention, effectivecommunication, and motivation can also
be gained through trust in relationships.Since it can bring a powerful bond of
intimacy and credibility in a relationship,trust is highly critical for a society
to exist. Life is always built ofrelationships with people, and trust is vital to
fill friendship, honesty, love andpassion in a relationship. Trust is considered
the central pillar supporting arelationship, and is compared to the concrete
foundation of a house. In otherwords, trust in relationships is a two-way street,
demanding equal proportion ofrespect from either side to manage it
effectively.Trust means to believe. I trust you, means I have no doubt in my mind
about yourhonesty, integrity and credibility. No relationship can survive without
trust. Howto develop and keep the trust in a relationship forever, because as soon
as thetrust breaks, the relationship breaks. Trust is the foundation on which
arelationship is built. If you dont trust a person, howsoever you may love him/her,
�
your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in him/her.Let us
examine this little more. To begin with, every relationship begins withtrust in
each other. Without the initial trust, the relationship will not move inthe
beginning itself. In the beginning, one believes without much proof about theothers
character. It is love and some assessment of how trustworthy the person is.As the
relationship grows, fissures start forming because of doubts about whetherthe other
person can be trusted? Was he/she trustworthy from the beginning or was Ifooled? Or
is he/she changing now? This kind of doubtful thinking causes tremendousstrain in a
relationship

and with the breaking of trust, the relationship breaks.How do you manage to build
the trust in the earlier period is most important. Thebeginning can be very
dangerous. What may arouse suspicion should be avoided at allthe costs. If you have
a suspicious partner, you need to be more careful. Smallthings such as if you are
going out, inform where you are going and to meet whom?If there is a change in your
mood, talk to your partner and talk about the reasons.If you are facing career
problems, rather than hiding them, tell about them to yourpartner and seek support.
Many a times, you will behave differently when you facecareer issues and that may
make your partner think about all types ofpossibilities. Be open about everything.
Your words and body language should besynchronous at all the times. Inform about
everything and if not fully possibleassure your partner that things are going
differently and you are under pressure.Be open. Seek trust and you will get it.When
trust exists in an organization or in a relationship, almost everything elseis
easier and more comfortable to achieve.For no geniue reason, this generation is
fast changing every good foundation andheritage that sustain a good
relationship,trust,worthiness and united in actionthat smoothens co-operate
existence all in the bid to embrace money. Deceit is nowthe order of the day as
truthful people are often made to look stupid.Building trust in relationships is
more valuable then money, because once you'velost it, it's bloody hard to get back,
and sometimes it's impossible. Trust isprecious, so...IF you ever find yourself in
a situation where you could potentially put someone'strust in jeopardy, I suggest
you tread carefully, very carefully!You can feel it when someone doesn't trust you.
They constantly ask you questionsas though they don't believe you are competent
enough to do it in the way you knowhow, or they criticize the way you do things
because it's not good enough, or it'snot the way they were taught. Sometimes a lack
of trust stems from someone's ownlack of character, and sometimes it comes from
someone's background if they did notgrow up in a loving environment where
individual growth was encouraged. Someone whodoes have character but constantly
questions you about yours can just be asannoying as someone who doesn't have
character and drops the ball.When there is no trust in any kind of relationship,
you begin to doubt what theother person says or does, and trust me this is not a
good thing, especially if youwant to build extraordinary relationships, and you do
right?...Well, hunnie , i do want u to know alot of bad people have spoilt the
images of thegood ones , but i want u to know everybody are not the same ..I really
do not like ,involving any 3rd party in my relationship , and I shouldhave told you
this ealier , that u should let us make this a suprise to everyonearound you ,
including your friends , Coz u never can tell what is in wehumanbeing heart , Don't
believe everybody that u see and we call our friends ishappy about us , People do
envy one another..I believe you honey, most people will not be happy with our
relationship but idont care what they will be saying about us ... This are just
some experience thatwe met on this earth even before we are born ..

I just want you to trust me with your whole heart , , I believe God do
havesomething great and good to do in our life , thats why he sent us to one
another ..he sent us to one another ..Yes i know sweetie , but lets keep this to
ourselves first ,and wait till when i amfinally there with you alright...Baby ,
believe me you will never regret of doing this ,and u will never regret ofhaving me
there with you .. You just dont know how much i am happy to have u in mylife .. You
are my world and my happiness .. I cant just imagine my life withoutyou..Baby , I
can understood how happy you are of having me there with you alright ..But
baby ,just lets wait till when i am finally there with you ,and then you canshow
the world how much we mean to each other ..Even when your friends ask you anything
about us , just tell them that there isnothing between us anymore Ok .. Just dont
let them destroy our relationship Ok ..Cause , I am here to bring sunshine and
happiness into your life ..7863165755I do believe something that will be good and
will last forever , will somehow havea rough beginning ... We will surely have an
Overcomer's problems in life , We justhave to Overcome every of our problems
ok ..And i am making an Oath and a Vow for you , that i will never let you down ,
andwill never break your HEART OKI want to you take your bible and cross your heart
,and say this to me as wellI will always stand by you through Thick and Thin time
ok ... Come rain , Comeshinny , I will always be by your side sweetie ...And
promise me , you will never tell anyone about us , Not until when i finallyarrive
to your airport ,and hold you in my arms ...Sweetie , there is something i wanted
to let you know .. But i dont know how amgoing to tell you this , coz i dont know
how u will feel .. And i wouldnt want u toget mad at me .Hunnie , its just about me
and my Grandma , coz we dont have any foodstuff at hometo eat again , and i dont
have any penny on me my love ,and the woman i collectedfoodstuff from oncredit i am
oweing her some funds ,and she does not wants to sellany food for us oncredit .. I
am just so sad here , and i dont like watching myGrandma starving ..I am not happy
telling u this babyHow delightful is your love, my Princess, my bride! How much
more pleasing is yourlove than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume than any
spice....Please donttake that too hard okay i just wanna be sure, just if i really
deserve you.!Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for
love is asstrong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like
blazing fire,like a mighty flame baby...

Trust is the easiest thing in the world to loose, and the hardest thing in theworld
to get back." To dream anything that you want to dream. That's the beauty ofthe
human mind. To do anything that you want to do. That is the strength of thehuman
will. To trust yourself to test your limits. That is the courage to succeed. The
glue that holds all relationships together - including the relationshipbetween the
leader and the led is trust, and trust is based on integrity. you are like a
falling star who has finally found her place next to another in alovely
constellation, where we will sparkle in the heavens forever.love life and life will
love you back. Love people and they will love you back.Love and kindness are never
wasted. They always make a difference. They bless theone who receives them, and
they bless you, the giver.Love is a choice you make from moment to moment. I love
thee, I love but thee Witha love that shall not die Till the sun grows cold, And
the stars grow old... Threepassions have governed my life: The longings for love,
the search for knowledge,And unbearable pity for the suffering of [humankind].Love
brings ecstasy and relieves loneliness. In the union of love I have seen in amystic
miniature the prefiguring vision of the heavens that saints and poets haveimagined.
With equal passion I have sought knowledge. I have wished to understandthe hearts
of [people]. I have wished to know why the stars shine. Love andknowledge led
upwards to the heavens, But always pity brought me back to earth;Cries of pain
reverberated in my heart Of children in famine, of victims torturedAnd of old
people left helpless. I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot, And Itoo
suffer.This has been my life; I found it worth living Love is patient, love is
kind. Itdoes not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is
not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does
notdelight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always
trusts,always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.I Corinthians 13:4-8 It
seems no matter where you are in a relationship it's alwayslacking trust, and like
a key opens a door, trust is what opens a heart. Withouttrust you begin to worry
day and night somehow gaining insecurities within yourselfthat makes you question
the love you two share. You start to feel unworthy, youhave so much to say, will
there ever be trust or just that constant pain, becauseof those feelings there's an
emptiness in your heart. you feel it's easiest to justmove on, but you wonder if
you'll ever find a love so strong, so just take hishand, put your trust in him,
because love without trust isn't love at all..... Love without trust is like a
perfume without a scent, It's like buying a homewithout a single cent... Trust is
the foundation of love, it's the steel in everybuilding, It's the soul in every
body, where life is living... Without trust thingscan easily fall apart, Including
breaking a loved one's heart. Love without trust is like climbing the mountains on
your own, It's like moviein-the-making that will never ever be shown... Trust is
the sweetest sound you willever hear, It could even take away a person's deepest
fear... Without trust thingswill never be the way they are, Love will never grow
nor travel very far. Lovewithout trust is like winter without the cold, It's like a
pirate's lost treasurewithout the gold... Trust is the greatest landscape your eyes
can see, There's no doubt, even theblind man can agree... Without trust things will
not fall into place, Love will beforever lost in a maze.

Love with trust in order to live each day well, Walk in a garden with
pleasantflowers to smell... Let your heart listen to the sweet sounds of trust, Let
lovesorround it and make it the very crust...Open up your eyes, witness the solemn
peace,And how love with trust can put yourlife at ease.My definition of love... is
different from the book my definition of love is morethan just a look love is more
than a word more than a song, more than a note loveis more than a poem more than
anything i've wrote love is reaching out to touchsomeone to be sure that they're
there love is leaning in to kiss someone to remindthem that you care love is
looking her in the eyes and whispering in her ears loveis cuddling when she cries
and catching all her tears love is the warmth sharedbetween hugs when everything
else is cold love is knowing they'll still be therewhen everything else is old love
is hearts beating faster and faster whileeverything else is slowed down love is
singing sweet songs to her even if hundredsare around love is driving through the
rain to help someone through tough timeslove is me wishing that you'll love me too
wishing you'd be mine love isn't justholding hands love is holding hearts love
isn't where it ends.... love is where itstarts...Have you ever just sat and cried
all because the one you loved lied. Have you everwondered why should I try when all
that boy does is make me cry. Have you ever justplayed your part even though you
knew he'd been cheating on you from the start.Have you ever loved somebody in every
way to the point you didn't know what to say.Have you ever just came apart because
the one you loved played with you heart. Haveyou ever wished upon a star but that
wish never went very far. Have you ever laiddown at night and thought why did I
start that stupid fight. Have you ever feltused and all this time been confused.
Have you ever felt like giving up when youhad your girls beside you always cheering
you up. Are you tired of writing youfirst name with his last knowing it will never
be. ME TOO!! Now the day is finallyhere.. I look at myself in the mirror Tears no
longer stream down my face.. I'vefound someone new to take your place. So now I say
my final goodbye. I won't missyou or everything you've put me through.. Now it's my
time to speak my mind, andI'll be just fine.. So here and now I'll tell you the
truth.. I say goodbye to you