what are the ESSENTIAL key in a relationship

I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that
many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person,
when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many
times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't
realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the
very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but
when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and
lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do not have
to be painful...

even when they seem so at the time.You just have to chalk it up to experience and
move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of
fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the
happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I
believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a
scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some
people may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to
prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects
you from pain/betrayal,
but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been
hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding
what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty,
happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there IS a
someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life

2ND TRUST...
You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love
someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart
and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't
do this.Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should
be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best proof of
love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it can
weather any storm. Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you
to true love and happiness.It's hard to love and hard to trust; but finding love
and finding trust was a gift from you to me.Relationships should never be taken for
granted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty
and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone
if you don�t have these ingredients you will never succeed.To be in love means
being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find
love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade
until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it
is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's
hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you
are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always
there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone, but the
only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for him, to
be with him, to cherish him, to fulfill his dreams, to share with his and most of
all, to make him realize how much you really love him.Distance doesn't matter if
you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that
relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets
lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and
without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in
it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get
advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your
heart; it never lies - trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but
only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a
greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you
have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your
heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on
mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love;
it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important
ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything. It means
trusting and being honest with each other, someone can be as beautiful on the
outside as they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they
become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not
envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in
evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love
takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even
when you know it's not going to be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting
stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people.

TRUST IN GOD...

Except the Lord build the house, they labor in vain that build it."The Holy Spirit
reminded me of that as it applies to marriage. Only God can so meld two hearts
together so that only the love He can give may be experienced by both toward each
other.
When we can totally surrender to His will, even in love...when it's not forced or
planned or manipulated, that is when marriage will really honor God. When the union
is for His Glory...and not our own, then it will flourish and be the example that
God intended it to be
.I am a Spirit-filled believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, and He is the source and
strength of my life. The desire of my heart is that I meet and grow to love the man
with whom I hope to spend the rest of my life.
He is also a GOOD and faithful friend who is AVAILABLE (physically and
emotionally), is able to be a prayer warrior, and is an encourager and supporter.
I am compassionate, loyal, friendly, and love to encourage others. I have been a
single mom for five years now, and love that role because God has entrusted me to
parent 3 of His most precious young men of God.
I am a full-time worker, and will soon graduate with a terminal degree. I love my
career, but family and love are most important....

TRUST AND FAITH...

Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you
love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.
To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her
first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you
find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is
what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.
Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is
what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they
need some helpLove makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is
special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her
realize how much you really love her.
Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a
wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you
to give again and again.
You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be
trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.Love is patient.
Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud...............
It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no
record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope,
wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be
enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple
understanding and trust between two people................

relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire.
We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or
something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives
you support when you need it.
When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be
things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization
with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with
your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If
someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants
and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally
developed enough for you to have your needs met.
Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to
have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are
they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is
married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie
about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like
everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your
relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.
There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open
and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a
relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss
their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow
and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they
continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with
your partner.