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“Everyone is asking.”
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this is difficult for me. But I want to, I feel I owe it to others like me
– to reach out, reassure and be a part of the conversation.
I had only ever been in love twice. Both were people with whom I
shared a strong friendship and emotional bond with; with whom my
anxiety ridden self felt safe. Over time, I realised that I do not feel
sexual attraction unless I have a deep emotional bond with the
person; unless I felt emotionally safe in the company.
Asexual, demisexual – all of these were new words for me. But
these words explained a lot that went on in my head. I learned that
sexual attraction and romantic attraction are different and it is
possible to feel one without the other. It made perfect sense to me
as I had been, at that time, romantically attracted to a female
friend with whom I felt a deep emotional connection. However, I
was never sexually attracted to her. At the same time, my feelings
for her seemed to be different from the feeling of friendship I felt
towards other female friends. I used to feel content and giddy
around her. It was as if I were in love but without the sexual
attraction part.
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