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1 – Angela, CFO Credit Suisse Bank. Originally from Scotland but spent last 10 years
residing in Hong Kong. Mother of one boy who is 6 years old and currently grade 1 international
primary school.
2 – Akumi, Japanese housewife. Has a daughter who is 5 years old and attends an international
2. What do you think your child should learn about at home regarding respect?
3. What do you think your child should learn about regarding respect at school?
10. Do you agree with the way the school teaches authority, respect and obedience?
Parent 1 - Responses -Angela
1. In general, I feel my son is respectful yes. He is polite to his older relatives and realizes
that they are more senior than him. He also shares well with his other friends and takes
2. We have tried to teach him that his older family need to be respected. We also try and
make him understand that he will be treated as he treats others. We are firm but fair, if we
see a problem with him then we will punish him. We encourage him to be respectful to
3. We expect that the school teaches him the basics of how to treat others. Taking his turn
and speaking at appropriate times is important. Being taught to be polite to teachers and
4. We feel teachers should be respected and have the right to punish appropriately if respect
isn’t shown. We feel the school should be able to exert a little more authority sometimes
5. We give clear instructions to our child, for example at bedtime, he has to go when we say
or the next day’s screen time will be cut. We are always trying to be consistent with our
rules and make sure both myself and my husband are on the same page.
6. I feel my child should listen carefully to the teachers and follow their instructions. He
should follow the school rules and their classroom agreements. Basically, we feel he
can have a tantrum, but they are not usually melt downs. He listens to us most of the time
but we, as all parents do, have trouble with too much screen time.
8. Yes, but sometimes he still tries to push our boundaries. He looks to bend the rules but I
think he understands the idea of basic authority. He will try to challenge our authority
9. From the feedback we get from school, it seems like his behavior at school is quite good,
so I think he understands authority there. I imagine he does not have the opportunity to
question any school authority because there is no screen time or bedtime problems.
10. We feel the school’s policies on these issues are about right. We don’t want them to be
too strict so we understand it can be difficult to strike a good balance. Our son seems to
be on the right track having been influenced by the school for a number of years.
Responses from Akumi
1. I think my daughter is really quite respectful. She’s quite shy so when she talks to family
and friends she listens and doesn’t often say much. She has a gentle temperament so she
Mealtimes are a good time for us to teach her about respect because we have quite a few
basic rules. She learns and follows these rules as a tradition in our culture. This is a good
3. We hope that the school works with us to help her be respectful there too. She should
listen and not raise her voice in class. When she has lunch, we expect her to eat properly
4. We don’t expect the school to be too strict. We want her to have fun in school and be
free. We feel sure that we can teach her well at home to have better behavior. The school
should help her to be polite but doesn’t need to give her punishment.
5. We give her simple rules for bedtime and eating time and this helps her to understand our
goals for her. She has simple chores too like putting her things away and shoes in the
has to find her cubby hole and tidy up here shoes. Putting up her hand and waiting her
7. I think she is really quite obedient yes. She can always remember to do her jobs and eats
well at the table. We don’t have problems with an I-pad or phone because we don’t let
her have one yet and this helps. She’s happy to go to bed when we tell her because she
likes school.
8. We have always tried to be consistent with her and haven’t shouted at her. I think she
understands that we have a steady household where we don’t raise our voices and I see
9. Her school report seems to say that she is also quite quiet and shy, so I think that she goes
on with her school life without trouble. She definitely understands that the teachers need
to be respected.
10. We are happy with the school policies, and they fit well with our child. The teacher
doesn’t shout at the children and allows them to be themselves but seem to have mutual
respect.
Interview Questions –Grace. Grace is originally from the U.K and has been a teacher at
9. Does the school offer you any assistance in helping you to be a more authoritative teacher?
10. Is there professional development in school to help with respect and obedience in the
classroom.
Responses from Grace
1. I expect that the students listen carefully to me so that I don’t have to repeat or raise my
voice. I should remain calm if there are problems in class and keep my patience. I expect
2. We have a classroom agreement that is set out at the beginning of the year. It is
reinforced throughout the year with lessons to make our rules clear. We have posters on
3. Generally speaking, they are quite respectful yes. They do listen to me and are good at
taking turns when speaking. They address me nicely and take care of their jobs in the
4. I expect my students to be kind to each other and not fight. They do take turns mostly at
play sessions and in the gym. I also expect that when they speak, they are polite and use
appropriate language.
5. If the students are not respectful, we have a reward chart that they can be demoted on. If
they are respectful then vice-versa, they will get rewarded. We have signs around the
6. They follow my instructions well mostly but at certain times can get a bit unrulily. If this
happens, I sit them down and talk with them about it. The class is good at doing the little
7. I would really like them to tighten up the rules in class as sometimes they take too long to
complete tasks. I want them to increase their attention and to take more care when
listening to me.
8. Back in the U.K, my school was much stricter than here so I’m adjusting to that. We have
been working on timing with our transitions, especially with regards to listening to me
about warnings of transition times. They take too long to tidy up sometimes and we are
9. We have regular meetings to share feedback from our classes and some of the senior
teachers help to offer advice on how they can help share ideas.
10. We have a few opportunities to discuss these issues in school on our professional
development days. If there are specific problems with discipline, we meet together to
Vanessa is Principal at Hamilton Hill International Kindergarten in Hong Kong. The school has
1. The school’s stance on authority is that we try to maintain a relaxed and comfortable
environment for our students. As the classrooms are open plan, we need to regulate our
voices and the amount of noise in the classrooms. We try our best to keep the classrooms
2. I offer constant reinforcement in the classrooms by going into each room and talking with
staff and students throughout the day. We have a very collaborative atmosphere in school
3. Respect is very important for us, and children must be polite with their greetings and their
classroom manner. We teach our students to take turns and be respectful to each other as
4. We have the rules of the class on the walls and clearly displayed as well as a good reward
system for the students. Our professional development days are quite often dedicated to
listen carefully to the teachers and respond accordingly. We want our students to respond
quickly so that the teachers don’t have to ask the same requests over and over.
6. We try to help the teachers but also work with the parents to communicate problems in
parents of how they can help their children. We also have a ‘red choice’ and ‘green
7. Through our app and handbook, we can let the parents know of any problems. If there is
a more serious problem, then we ask the parents to come in for a meeting with us to
discuss.
8. Our staff will meet together if there is a serious incident and discuss. We will decide the
appropriate action and I usually have the final say on the best course of action. I will meet
with the parents and try to resolve the issue. Most of the time the parents are already
9. We try not to use traditional methods such as naughty corners or standing outside the
the class and informing parents or warning to inform parents usually helps to sort out
problems.
10. The classrooms are open plan, and the doors are always open, so I’ll always know if
there’s a problem in the class. I walk down and try and assist the teacher to make sure the
I feel Angela viewed authority at home as a work in progress and they were still developing
and adjusting. She gave the impression that her son was generally respectful towards his parents
and usually listened to them but could occasionally be a bit defiant. In school, she viewed
authority as a mutual partnership between themselves and her son and again, one that was still in
progress. However, she was confident that her son listened to the teachers and for the most part
respected them. They reinforced the school’s philosophies with their son at home and tried to
both be on the same page when it did come to discipline. I was under the impression that they
followed quite strict routines at home and that might help their son be more respectful at school.
I feel her sentiments of respect, authority and obedience lined up well with the school.
Parent 2 summary – Akumi has two daughters and is originally from Japan. Her 5-year-old goes
to kindergarten, and she looks after her other, younger daughter during the day at home.
Akumi seemed to have a more relaxed view on authority at home with her child. It seemed
like her child was very obedient and generally did what she was told. The daughter, possibly
through her cultural environment, seemed to have no problem being respectful to others
including family and friends. Her characteristics in fact, seemed to shape her behavior. Akumi
seemingly wanted the school to also be quite relaxed with their policies on discipline too. I can’t
imagine she would want to send her child to a school that had shouting teachers and strong
discipline policies. Whereas I felt a stronger line on discipline was viewed as more normal policy
Teacher Summary –Grace, a teacher in Hong Kong for around a year, she is originally from
the U.K. She worked in a primary school in the U.K and taught year 1 for 6 years before moving
to Hong Kong.
Grace had quite relaxed views on authority and discipline in her classroom. Coming from a
stricter environment in the U.K she was adjusting quickly to the school’s policies on discipline.
Her views were aligned with the school’s as far as I could tell, and she had a classroom that was
generally working together to be understanding and respectful. Grace had to work closely with
the other staff to be able to pick-up their policies on respect, obedience and authority and relies
on their support to be able to keep the school’s policies in place. Her classroom demonstrated an
understanding of respect among the students, and they took turns and listened to her. Her
communication with parents and the reinforcement of the school’s policies was also a key to
helping her in the class. Open-plan classrooms help her to collaborate with other teachers and
help a more transparent environment. However, she told me that one incident recently had tested
her skills on obedience and respect. One of her students had been hiding another student’s snack
boxes for several days. After investigating and asking the children to help her find out who it
was, she found the boxes and the person hiding them. She sat all the students down and
explained that this was serious and violated their classroom agreement. After which, she met
with the principal, and they asked the parents to come in to discuss the matter.
Principal Summary –Vanessa. Vanessa has been principal of the Hamilton Hill International
School for 8 years. She is from Canada originally ans has worked in Hong Kong for 15 years.
It would seem that the school's philosophy aligns well with the harmony in the school.
Keeping good communications between parents and teachers helps to observe and monitor the
student's behavior. Informing the parents of problems or variations in behavior also helps to
maintain harmony in the classroom. Continuous professional development and networking with
other schools increases the communication and resources available to the school. Staff welfare is
Vanessa’s school tries to employ a ‘good choice, bad choice’ discipline procedure. The policy
is to try and have the children understand the choices they make have consequences. Sooner than
having a naughty chair or time-out area, the school tries to preempt problems by having the
It is evident that the schools work on environmental stability first and foremost and that the
harmony and discipline follow that. Through clear mission statements and school philosophy,
and keeping to them, the schools appear to avoid problems with discipline. This is very much a
cultural factor as clearly schools in Western countries have many more issues with discipline in
schools. Isolated incidents are taken seriously and parents are brought into school for discussion,
but these are rare. Constant communication with parents is essential in maintaining the harmony
in the schools.
While in school observing a rare incident actually happened. One 4-year-old boy hit another
boy causing his nose to bleed. The amount of distress that this incident caused was palpable and
obviously it was a serious cause for concern for the staff. His parents were called as it happened
early in the morning and the boy was sent home. I was told that nothing like this had ever
happened before. The parents were called back the next day and agreed to keep the boy home for
three days. After he came back, he was taken into the classroom separately and talked to by staff.
They asked him to be respectful to his classmates and to not hit the other children. The child in
question was deemed to have had an isolated outburst and will be closely observed in the next
few weeks.
After witnessing the hitting incident, it was surprising to note that the parents were
sympathetic with the school's policy of suspension. Although the word ‘suspension’ was never
used. I feel that they realized it was a matter of school policy to keep him home and agreed to
talk to him and help him understand why he was to stay at home. The parents could have tried to
blame another child and defended their son but they chose to trust the school. This says a bit
about the respect and trust they have for the school.
In general, I feel the school’s policies are effective in keeping the classrooms as harmonious as
could be expected. The staff are well-trained and up to date on the latest teaching methods
relating to discipline in schools. The communication when events in school occurs is good but I
feel the school could perhaps try to organize some information sessions for parents on the
school’s policies regarding their authority and discipline procedures. Everything seemed to be a
bit retroactive as regards communications and the school may benefit from being more open
about the discipline procedures. Having more information available to the parents would be
mutually beneficial.