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When angry, some people say they cannot hear, focus their attention, process
information, or make good choices. It is not surprising that the level of violence
and aggression increase dramatically in such situations.
Generally, anger is difficult to control. But highly intelligent people can control
their anger before it explodes. Once they notice anger rising they switch their
attention to something else.
Anger may have physical consequences such as increased heart rate, high
blood pressure, and rising levels of adrenaline and noradrenalin. Some view
anger as part of the `fight or flight’ brain response to a perceived threat or
harm. Anger becomes the predominant feeling behaviourally, cognitively, and
physiologically. Basically, anger has two different characteristics. They are
passive anger and aggressive anger.
Passive anger
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Dispassion, such as giving someone an insincere smile or looking unconcerned,
dampening feelings with substance abuse, overreacting, oversleeping, frigidity.
Aggressive anger
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Grandiosity, such as showing off, expressing mistrust, wanting centre
stage all the time.
Manic behaviour, such as speaking too fast, walking too fast, working
too much and expecting others to do the same, driving too fast.
Threats, such as frightening people by saying how one could harm them,
their property or their prospects, finger pointing, fist shaking, tailgating,
excessively blowing car horns, and slamming doors.
Unjust blaming, such as accusing other people for one's own mistakes,
blaming people for your own feelings.
You can deal with anger using anger-management strategies, some of which
are listed below:
When trying to control anger, first try to figure out what is causing it. You can
often control the anger once you identify the cause or causes.
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Use relaxation techniques
If you cannot avoid the things that trigger your anger, you can manage your
reactions better by knowing which anger-management strategies work best for
you.