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Worrying about personal problems
Memories of traumatic events
Myths About Anger
1. Anger is Inherited
2. Anger automatically leads to aggression
3. People must be aggressive to get what they want
4. Suppressing anger is always desirable
Anger
Anger
Humiliation Embarrassment
Hidden Heart Activity :-
3. How can your life change if you get rid of the negative things
and leave only the positive in your heart?
4. How can you get rid of the negative things in your life?
5. Do you trust anyone with your heart? Why or why not?
6. How can it help you to find someone to trust with your
feelings and emotions?
Physiological and Biological Changes
Muscles tension
Accelerated heartbeat
“Knot” in the stomach or throat
Changes in breathing
Trembling or shaking
Goose bumps
Flushed face
Changes in facial expression (eye brows, frowning, nostrils, etc)
Anger is natural
Anger occurs naturally and cannot be avoided.
Find control techniques rather than anger
elimination.
Anger Becomes a Problem When:
Felt too intensely
Felt too frequently
Expressed inappropriately
Words, gestures, contact.
Results in negative consequences
Assault, arrest, losing loved ones, termination from
college/work.
Results in negative self confidence
Guilt, shame, regret.
Differences between Anger & Aggression
Anger = Feeling
Aggression = Action
Anger is an emotion. It is ok to be angry.
Aggression is acting out inappropriately and is not ok.
Express it
Suppress it
Clam yourself
ANGER MANAGEMENT
A systematic method of cognitively recognizing anger and
managing its effects
1. I own my feelings.
2. It is okay to feel angry.
3. Anger is part of being human.
4. I learn how to express my anger
in helpful ways.
ANGER MANAGEMENT
Identify aggressive Throw something
Kick someone or something
acts shown by self Get in someone’s face
and others: Shoving, grabbing, hitting
Break something
Call someone names
Give someone a dirty look
Silent treatment
Get others to “gang up”
Spread rumors
ANGER
MANAGEMENT
I choose to feel good about myself
through expressing my feelings.
Calm down
Show mutual respect
Name the problem
Find solutions
Choose the best solution
Congratulate yourself
Review the solution that was
picked