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Sense of Belonging
#3, Effect of
Belongingness
#4, Increase Your Sense of Belonging
Why do we
want to feel
belonging? ⓒSaebyeol Yu. Saebyeol’s PowerPoint
Part 1
Why do we want to feel belonging?
The need to belong, also known as belongingness, refers to a human emotional need to
affiliate with and be accepted by members of a group. This may include the need to belong to
a peer group at school, to be accepted by co-workers, to be part of an athletic team, or to be
part of a religious group.
A sense of belonging involves more than simply being acquainted with other people. It is
centered on gaining acceptance, attention, and support from members of the group as well
as providing the same attention to other members.
In social psychology, the need to belong is an intrinsic motivation to affiliate with others
and be socially accepted.
This need plays a role in a number of social phenomena such as self-presentation and social
comparison.
Sense of
Belonging in
Action ⓒSaebyeol Yu. Saebyeol’s PowerPoint
Part 2
Sense of Belonging in Action
What inspires people to seek out specific groups?
In many cases, the need to belong to certain social groups results from sharing
some point of commonality. For example, teens who share the same taste in
clothing, music, and other interests might seek each other out to form friendships.
Other factors that can lead individuals to seek out groups include:
• Pop culture interests
• Religious beliefs
• Shared goals
• Socioeconomic status
People also spend a great deal of time comparing themselves to other members of
the group in order to determine how well they fit in. This social comparison might
lead an individual to adopt some of the same behaviors and attitudes of the most
prominent members of the group in order to conform and gain greater acceptance.
Effect of
Belongingness
ⓒSaebyeol Yu. Saebyeol’s PowerPoint
Part 3
Effect of Belongingness
Our need to belong is what drives us to seek out stable, long-lasting relationships
with other people. It also motivates us to participate in social activities such as
clubs, sports teams, religious groups, and community organizations.
A 2020 study in college students found a positive link between a sense of belonging
and greater happiness and overall well-being, as well as an overall reduction in
the mental health outcomes.
• Anxiety
• Depression
• Hopelessness
• Loneliness
• Social anxiety
• Suicidal thoughts
Increase Your
Sense of
Belonging ⓒSaebyeol Yu. Saebyeol’s PowerPoint
Part 4
Increase Your Sense of Belonging
So what can you do to increase the sense of belonging?
• Make an effort.
The most crucial ingredient to building a sense of belonging is effort. You cannot belong if
you don't choose to make the effort to engage with others. It may feel uncomfortable at
first to meet new people, but give it time, as you may need to practice self-talk. Soon the
actions will become second nature. Behavioral activation and opposite action are
effective strategies for getting yourself to put in the effort. Action often is needed to feel
motivated.
• Be mindful of others.
Think less about yourself while with others and make the other person or the group your
focus. Making conversation is critical to increasing your sense of belonging. It is important
to mutually ask questions, make small talk, self-disclose skillfully and listen to people's
responses.
• Keep and teach an open mind.
• Practice an attitude of acceptance.