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Working with the Neurobiological Legacy of Trauma Certification Program
Trauma: “Trauma and the Body”
What is a “trauma” ?
“Psychological trauma is the unique individual
experience of an event, a series of events, or a set
of enduring conditions, in which:
•The individual’s ability to integrate his or her
emotional experience is overwhelmed
and/or
•The individual experiences (subjectively) a
threat to life, bodily integrity, or sanity.”
Saakvitne et al, 2000
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy™ Institute 2012
“Trauma” is relative: what is traumatic depends upon
our vulnerability
Nightmares
Nervous Flashbacks Hypervigilence
system Foreshortened
future, Mistrust
dysregulation
Hopelessness Shame
Self-loathing
Social anxiety
Decreased Panic attacks
concentration Insomnia
Chronic pain
Irritability
Trauma Suicidality and
self-harm
Depression
tic Addictions
Event
“Trauma survivors have symptoms instead of memories”
Harvey, 1990
WHY do
trauma
survivors
have
symptoms
instead of
memories?
Carter, 1998
Speaks language
of sensation and
impulse
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Fight- Freeze-
Flight Submit
Cortisol release
triggers
Parasympathetic
System
Sensory elements without words = implicit memory
Triggers and Triggering
Common Post‐traumatic Triggers
Implicit memories take many different forms
Autonomic Nervous System is Shaped by
Parental Attachment Behavior
High Activation
A
R Optimal Arousal Zone
O Window of Tolerance*
U feelings can be tolerated
S we feel safe
A
L
Low Activation
Hyperarousal
Hypoarousal-Related Symptoms:
Hypoarousal Flat affect, numb, feels dead or empty, “not there”
Cognitive functioning slowed, “lazy”
Ogden and Minton (2000); Preoccupied with shame, despair and self-loathing
Fisher, 2006
Disabled defensive responses, victim identity
*Siegel (1999)
Not understanding trauma, individuals come to
identify with their symptoms and implicit memories:
“Itʼs who I am”
AND other symptoms develop as valiant
attempts to cope with the dysregulation
• Self-injury and self-starvation to
discharge tension somatically
• Suicidal thoughts and impulses to “control” overwhelm by
combating feelings of helplessness
• High-risk behavior to activate the adrenaline response
• Re-enactment behavior to keep memories “in their place”
• Caretaking of others to combat a sense of worthlessness
• Addictive behavior to alter consciousness and to “treat” specific
traumatic symptoms Fisher, 2004
What are therapists trained to do?
•Listen empathically
•Communicate unconditional positive regard
•Adhere to the principle of neutrality
•Be non-directive
•Foster experiences of direct connection with affect
•Encourage the expression of affect, especially in therapy
•Teach how to use affect to interpret personal reality
•Encourage connection to painful past experiences as a way
of understanding present conflicts and symptoms
•Discuss and interpret transference phenomena Fisher, 2009
Psychoeducation
•Offer a “crash course” on the effects of trauma on the mind
and body: “body memories,” the nervous system, cortical inhibition
•Normalize feelings/behavior that have been sources of shame
as ingenious attempts to cope
•Label the symptoms as “symptoms:” poor judgment and
impulse control, self-loathing, self-neglect
•Increase awareness of post-traumatic triggering and
habitual triggered survival responses: “getting” the logic of
trauma decreases shame/increases understanding of cause-and-effect
•Encourage curiosity and compassion: “That makes sense,”
“Of course you feel trapped,” “No wonder you had to cut [drink,
restrict, act out]—you were trying to get some relief”
Fisher, 2003
Transforming Trauma‐related Responses
Requires Curiosity and Mindfulness
Ingredients of Mindfulness
Facilitating Mindful Awareness
•Mindfulness in therapy depends upon the therapist
becoming more mindful: slowing the pace, refraining
from interpretation or direction in favor of neutral
observation, helping the patient begin to focus on the flow
of thoughts, feelings, & body sensations
•Mindful attention is present moment attention. We use
“retrospective mindfulness” to bring the client into present
time: “As you are talking about what happened then, what
do you notice happening inside you now?”
•Curiosity is cultivated because of its role as an entrée
into mindfulness: “Perhaps by binging and purging, you
were trying to help yourself get to the wedding. . .”
Fisher, 2009
On what do we focus?
•Trauma patients generally come to treatment because of
post-traumatic triggering: trauma-related stimuli have
stimulated anxiety symptoms, intrusive memories,
overwhelming emotions, depression, and/or suicidality
•The first goal of trauma treatment is to help patients
recognize the role of triggering in causing and
perpetuating their symptoms in order to empower them
•With greater understanding comes decreased fear and
shame when these responses are triggered. With more self-
awareness and a language to describe what is happening, the
capacity for self-regulation in the face of triggering can
potentially increase Fisher, 2008
Prioritize Past/Present Differentiation
Connecting Symptoms to
Triggers
In the context of client’s having cut herself, therapist tries to evoke curiosity:
And you probably
I hear you What feelings couldn’t tell
cut last and thoughts anyone because
What was came up when
night—what you felt ashamed?
going on just he didn’t call?
might have before?
triggered
you?
“Yeah, I thought,
“I was mad at “What
“I don’t “My boy friend
myself for kind of fool am
know—I was supposed
trusting him— I for trusting
just hate to call me, but
that’s why I him?”
myself” he didn’t”
hate myself”
Fisher, 2006
Connecting Symptoms to
Triggers, cont.
Therapist continues to ask mindfulness questions: Do you want me
Well, cutting triggers
to show you
adrenaline so you feel
something else to
calmer—you were just
When you had How do that will help
trying to get control
that thought, overwhelmed you feel less
back, huh?
what feelings were you? overwhelmed? It
came up? won’t work as
well, but it
doesn’t get you
in trouble!
“Completely “But now I’m
“I wanted
overwhelmed feeling stupid,
to kill him,
—I couldn’t and my arm is
and I “Sure. . . I’d like
stand it” killing me”
wanted to to survive this
kill me” weekend!”
Fisher, 2006
How can you tell when you are triggered?
• Triggered reactions = sudden, intense, and hard to shift
• Anxiety, fear
• Increased heart rate
• Pit, tightness, clenching in stomach
• Shallow breathing, hyperventilation, holding the breath
• Obsessive thinking
• Response disproportional to event, major change in previous state
• 0-to-60 reactions
• “I’m doing something I shouldn’t/didn’t want to do”
• Muscle tension (either whole body or specific areas)
• Twitches, tics
• Jumping to conclusions
• Jumping to “worst case scenario”
• Feeling that ‘the sky is falling’
• Sense of not belonging, being on the outside looking in
• Fear of abandonment or aloneness, feeling small
Re‐framing the Symptoms
What Symptoms Try to Accomplish
Generally, these secondary symptoms reflect unconscious,
instinctive efforts to regulate autonomic arousal:
•Suicidal symptoms: “You found a way to live by always having
a way out, a bail-out plan, that gave you some control over your fate”
•Cutting or self-injury: “Hurting the body when you feel
overwhelmed is an ingenious way to get relief because it triggers
your body to produce adrenaline and endorphins”
•Mistrust and paranoia: “You learned the hard way that it was
safer to assume the worst in people . . .”
•Eating disorders and addictive behavior: “You found that
alcohol took away the fear of being around people. . .” “Yes, when
you restrict, you can’t feel … it lowers your activation.” Fisher, 2008
Trying to stay here, not ʻgo thereʼ
Stay here
instead of
Symptoms
Curiosity Validation ‘going
or
(Re-framing) there’
crisis
“Long-lasting responses to
trauma result not simply
from the experience of fear
and helplessness but from
how our bodies interpret
those experiences.”
Yehuda, 2004
Another kind of memory: habits of action and
reaction
Sympathetic Hyperarousal
“Window of Tolerance”*
Optimal Arousal Zone
Hypoarousal:
Parasympathetic Hypoarousal Compliant, weak, no energy, cannot defend
Numb, “empty” or “dead”
Cognitively dissociated, unable to think
Ogden and Minton (2000)
Helpless and hopeless
*Siegel, D. (1999) Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Assumptions of Neurobiologically‐Informed
Trauma Treatment
Assumptions of Neurobiologically‐Informed
Treatment, p. 2
Procedural Learning is Oriented to the Past, not
the Present [Scaer, 2006]
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy
•Sensorimotor Psychotherapy is a body-oriented therapy
developed by Pat Ogden, Ph.D. and enriched by
contributions from Alan Schore, Bessel van der Kolk,
Daniel Siegel, Onno van der Hart, and Ellert Nijenhuis.
•Sensorimotor work combines traditional talking
therapy techniques with body-centered interventions
that directly address the somatic legacy of trauma.
•Using the narrative only to evoke the trauma-related
bodily experience, we attend first to discovering how the
body has “remembered” the trauma and then to
providing the somatic experiences needed for resolution
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Mindful
awareness and
integration of Emotional
experience: has a Amygdala
memory center:
reciprocal relationship amygdala activation =
with the amygdala dysregulation
From van der Kolk, 2009
Mindfulness Skills
• “Notice . . .”
• “Be curious, not judgmental. . . “
• “Letʼs just notice that reaction youʼre having inside as we talk about your
boy friend”
• “Notice the sequence: you were home alone, bored and lonely, then you
started to get agitated and feel trapped, and then you just had to get out of
the house”
• “What might have been the trigger? Letʼs be curious—go back to the start
of the day and retrace your steps” Fisher, 2004
“Assigning danger” to sensations?
Hyperarousal
The frontal
Optimal Arousal Zone:
feelings can be tolerated lobes shut
able to think and feel down
Hypoarousal
Hypoarousal-Related Symptoms:
‘Danger’ cues cause disconnection, numbing, shutting down
Patient interprets responses as evidence to support self-loathing
Ogden and Minton (2000); Defensive responses are disabled by shame, collapse, victim
Fisher, 2006
*Siegel (1999) identity
Fisher, 2005
How Unsafe Behavior ʻHelpsʼ
“Window of Tolerance”*
Optimal Arousal Zone
Unfortunately, sobriety brings more challenges,
not fewer
Hypoarousal: numbing,
‘deadness’ and passivity
contribute to need for substances
to either shift or maintain this state
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Abstinence/Relapse Cycle
Sobriety or Abstinence
Psychoeducation
•Offer a “crash course” on addictions/eating disorders as
attempts to self-regulate and on the Abstinence/Relapse Cycle
•Normalize feelings/behavior that have been sources of shame
as ingenious attempts to cope
•Label the symptoms as “symptoms”: poor judgment and
impulse control (“I can’t help it”), self-loathing, self-neglect
•Increase awareness of post-traumatic triggering and
habitual triggered survival responses: “getting” the logic of
trauma decreases shame/increases understanding of cause-and-effect
•Encourage curiosity and compassion: “That makes sense,”
“Of course you feel trapped at AA meetings,” “12-step programs are
just another treatment, and all treatments have side effects”
Fisher, 2003
Fisher, 2008
Connecting Symptoms to
Triggers, cont.
In the context of having used: Well, drinking does We have to figure
calm the nervous out a way for you
So the system—you were to know you’re
When you got trauma just trying to make triggered. People
triggered, what trigger the feelings disappear are going to be
feelings came triggered the assholes
up? food trigger! sometimes—you
don’t want to
relapse over
them
“But now I’m
“I just
feeling stupid,
wanted a “F--- it! I and my head is
burger and don’t have to “That’s for sure.
killing me, and
a beer” feel this shit” They’re not
I don’t want to
lose my wife” worth it”
Fisher, 2008
“Made a peanut
butter sandwich—
and then another” Window of Tolerance
“After I threw up, Arousal
Optimal I Zone
felt better”
“Came home
from training “I felt better, Hypoarousal
“And then I
feeling OK” “Felt sick
then the phone and curled up on the
rang again!” disgusting” couch and slept”
Re‐framing Relapses and ʻSlipsʼ
Cognitive Over‐ride
Anticipation Skills
•Trauma survivors typically have elevated hypervigilance but
poor anticipation skills. They anticipate the worst but fail
to prepare for it
•Clients can learn to anticipate by mindfully analyzing each
crisis: looking for triggers, early warning signs, self-
sabotage, failures to utilize appropriate coping skills
•In preparation for upcoming events, the therapist must
help clients anticipate potential triggers and “rehearse”
skills and responses needed to prepare for the challenge
•Anticipation also decreases the “negotiating currency”
of unsafe behavior: rather than focusing on the ‘crisis du
jour,’ the work is focused on prevention of crises with the
therapist as a guide and mentor rather ‘EMT’ Fisher, 2009
Coping with
Call my therapist---make sure I am in a
action plans
safe place---go to the ER---re-read my
contract---use my Survival Kit
Fisher, 1999
Fisher, 1990
Differentiating ʻsafeʼ andʻunsafeʼ?
•If self-harm, eating disorders, addictive behavior and
suicidal ideation are all attempts to self-regulate, it is
important not to treat them simply as life-threatening. We
need to distinguish life-threatening unsafe behavior and
behavior aimed at self-regulation
•The therapist should not assume that all of these
‘addictive behaviors’ are intended to be life-threatening
but should inquire: “How does this help? What does it do?”
•Self-injury is rarely life-threatening. If we respond as if it
has suicidal intention, we may unintentionally exacerbate it.
We will dysregulate the client and over-protect, robbing the
client of the opportunity to regulate her- or himself
Fisher, 2009
Not All Suicidality is ʻUnsafeʼ
•Active suicidal ideation and creating suicide plans may
be indicators of unsafety, but not always. Some trauma
clients have suicide plans for many years without ever
making an attempt.
•With planning and active ideation, the therapist should be
curious and concerned without conveying alarm. Our
alarm increases dysregulation instead of modulating it
•What should we be curious about? Curious about how
long the client has had the plan, about what has triggered the
increased intensity of suicidal longing, about how impulsive
or desperate the client is feeling, about whether or not s/he is
seeking death or just relief from overwhelm Fisher, 2009
Learning to Contract
•Therapeutic contracting is complicated because of issues of power
and control: as therapists, we want to avoid becoming the
patient’s external locus of control, their ‘reason to live’
•Contracts also carry two risks: first, suicidal clients often
acknowledge that they would not feel bound by any contract, so
contracting can feel like a “lie.” Secondly, being asked to contract
can be experienced as entrapping
•Commitment to the work of recovery or to choices that
enhance safety are most helpful: e.g., committing not to
isolate, go to 12-step meetings, or go to appointments. Time-limited
commitments are also better than open-ended contracting: “I can
keep myself safe until tomorrow morning . . . Until I go to work. . .”
“I commit to using my Survival Kit . . . To not being alone . . . To
follow my safety plan” Fisher, 2009
Psychoeducation
Psychoeducational Flip Chart (Fisher, 2011)
Trigger Log
Feelings, thoughts,
Date, time, Intensity: Trigger: what Coping behavior:
body sensations
location 0-10 scale was happening? what did you do?
that got triggered
Fisher, 2006
Tracking Your Nervous System
High Activation
A
R Optimal Arousal Zone:
feelings can be tolerated
O we can think and feel
U simultaneously
S
A
L
Low Activation
Ogden and Minton (2000)
*Spiegel (1999)
What happens when you get triggered? What kind of
activation do you experience?
High Activation
Client: “I panic---feel like throwing up----jaw
clenches----want to run away---always feel like I can’t
take this anymore!”
A
R
O “Hardly ever here! Maybe when
U I’m with my daughter. . . “
Optimal Arousal Zone
S
A
L
“Or I go to bed, pull up the covers and try to
zone out---sometimes I can go into a “whatever”
state where I don’t care anymore”
Differentiating Facts from Feelings
[Fay, 2003]
• Feelings • Facts
• “I’m in my own home; the
• “I’m not safe” doors are locked; my dog
barks at strangers”
Fisher, 2005
Reaction Cycles
Immediate somatic
response Automatic
thoughts:
“It’s not
safe,” “I blew
Feel more it again”
desperate, Emotional
Dark
more reactivity
depression
impulsive
and
suicidality
Gather
More evidence of
reactivity danger or
worthlessness
Start predicting the
future
Fay, 2004
Response Cycles
Breathe! Slow down reactivity
Sharing a tiny
bit more with
friends and
“It’s not safe neighbors
Participating
to let people more in
know you” socializing at
work
Fay, 2004
“Window of Tolerance”*
Optimal Arousal Zone
Somatic Resources
Somatic resources are the category of
resources that emerges from a person's
physical and body experience. Somatic
resources consist of any and all anatomical
and physiological functions that support a
physically felt experience of self,
competency, and well-being at the body level,
which in turn, facilitates cognitive and
emotional processing.
Bowen, 2000
GROUNDING
for both hyper- and hypoarousal
•Sitting in a chair, gently push feet into the ground.
Notice the sensations in the legs and in the back as
you are pressed back against the chair. Experiment
with finding just the right amount of pressure or with
stomping the feet instead of pushing.
•For dysregulated clients, this resource can be bite-sized:
“Just notice the feeling of the ground under your feet,”
“Notice what happens if you plant just one foot on the
floor,” “Would you be willing to let your other leg drop to
the floor?” “Can you feel your butt on the seat of the
chair?” Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
ALIGNMENT for
hyper- and hypoarousal
•For hypoarousal: experiment with what happens when
client lengthens the spine just a little bit, then a little more.
What shifts? Does it feel better or worse?
•For hyperarousal: experiment with lengthening the spine
slightly more and noticing what happens
•Use alignment to help client study impact of negative
beliefs: “Notice what happens if you allow your spine to
slump, to collapse. . . How resourced are you? How true
does it feel that you are helpless?” “What happens if you
lengthen your spine? What do you notice? Is that better or
worse? More resourcing or less?”
CENTERING
for hyperarousal
•Place one hand on your heart, and one hand on your
belly, and notice what happens in the body when all
thoughts are dropped, and you focus just on your two
hands: observe the weight of the hands, temperature,
sensations, changes in breathing, energy of the hands
•For more dysregulated clients: “Place a hand just
over your heart, and notice what happens to your
heartrate, your breathing,” “Would you be willing to
place a hand over the place where you are feeling this
anxiety?”
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
ORIENTING
for hyper- or hypoarousal
•When clients go into flashback or start to dissociate or
‘fade out,’ orienting to the external environment can be a
helpful way to “come back” into the room. Have client
practice 360 degree turning movements through the head,
neck, and spine, and notice what happens in the body
•Ask the client to turn his/her head and neck and slowly
focus on objects around them: the window, the wall, the
door, the lamp, the bookcase. Or, clients can be asked to
focus on objects that might be regulating: their least
favorite object, most favorite, or cues that tell them where
they are
Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute
Being a ‘neurobiological
regulator”
•Being a neurobiological regulator requires that the
therapist stay attuned to both the regulating and
dysregulating effects of the therapeutic encounter. Like
a “good enough” mother, we must strive to create an
optimal level of arousal from moment to moment
•Effective neurobiological regulating on the part of
therapists requires paying more attention to how we
are affecting autonomic arousal than we pay to the
content of the patient’s communication and with how
to maintain an optimal level of arousal in the room
Copyright 2006 Janina Fisher, Ph.D.
Mirroring = Attunement
•To foster a “felt sense” of connection, we mirror the
client’s words and body language, hoping to evoke a
visceral sense of being joined, a shared space, a sense of the
therapist’s interest and ability to ‘get it’
•Mirroring is not about WHAT we say but HOW we say
it: interest, body language, choice of words, tone
•It is also ‘dyadic dancing:’ as we mirror clients for signs
of resonance, we adjust our words and presence to maximize
their ability to stay present and socially engaged. Like
parents, our moment-to-moment adjustments help clients to
regulate and keep their frontal lobes “online” as much or
more as any skill we could teach them
Fisher, 2013
•Varying voice tone and pace: soft and slow, hypnotic tone,
casual tone, strong and energetic tone, playful tone
• Energy level: very “there” and energetic versus more passive
•Empathy vs. challenge: does the client do better with empathy?
Or challenge? Does s/he need limits to regulate?
•Amount of information provided: noting the effect of
psychoeducation or therapist self-disclosure
•Titrating vs. encouraging affective expression
•Providing more vs. less support: does client become
dysregulated with more contact? Or less? Does s/he self-regulate
better with less or more support? Fisher, 2009
Dyadic Dancing with the Client
Mirror Neurons, cont.
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“The [traumatic]
past is not dead and
buried. In fact, it
isn’t even past.”
William Faulkner
The nature of memory
“State‐Specific Memory”
•Our memory system has both voluntary and state-specific
areas. Some types of information can easily be retrieved
voluntarily (e.g., the multiplication tables, old family
stories, acquired knowledge), while other types of
memory are more state-dependent (memory for faces and
names, procedural memory, implicit memories)
•As we tell a narrative, its state-specific aspects begin to
“bring alive” the experience: we start to feel the implicit
emotions and body sensations. E.g., “I can feel my
daughter’s tiny body in my arms and a warm feeling in my
heart,” “As I talk about this, my heart is pounding,” “This
is overwhelming to talk about,” “I laugh just recalling it”
Ogden, 2006; Fisher, 2008
The nature of memory, cont.
•The implicit nonverbal memory system is an even more
powerful influence on our behavior than declarative.
Implicit memories are “state specific.” We cannot choose
to retrieve them; they are triggered by associated stimuli:
•Emotional memory: feelings, emotions
•Visceral memory: internal body sensation
•Perceptual: olfactory, visual, auditory, tactile
•Muscle memory: posture, tension, movement, skills
•Autonomic: sympathetic-parasympathetic responses
•Vestibular: balance
•Procedural: memory for habit and function
Fisher, 2013
Memory System
Explicit Implicit
Memory Memory
Autobiograph-
ical narrative Priming
Memory formation in children
Memory formation in children, p. 2
Hippocampus: Inhibited
also inhibited during the
during threat event, it fails
response, how can
to witness
it process a
what
trauma?
happened,
complicating
the encoding
of a narrative
memory
ʻModalities of memoryʼ associated with trauma
Visual
Affective
Tactile
Olfactory
Auditory
Fisher, 2013
Traumatic implicit memories are experienced as:
The ʻNegativity Biasʼ
The ʻNegativity Biasʼand Trauma
Sensory Fragments without Words = Implicit
Memory
•All experiences are remembered implicitly but not all are
encoded explicitly. Traumatic experiences typically fail to
be encoded as autobiographical memories (“I remember it
happening”) because of frontal lobe de-activation
•The victim is left instead with easily activated implicit
memories: automatic emotional, physical, and somato-
sensory responses disconnected from the events
•Verbal recall re-activates these implicit memory
networks, rather than processing them, but more frequently
implicit memories are evoked by everyday triggers and
interpreted as information about “now” Fisher, 2017
Establishing a relationship to oneʼs traumatic
memories
‘Talking About’ versus ‘Processing’ Memory
Why do clients want a ʻwitnessʼ?
Transformative Witnessing
Transformative Witnessing, p. 2
•Set the stage: “Today, you are going to tell me about what
happened when you were 6—no one was there to listen
then, so it’s very important that 6-year-old feels both of us
listening very carefully today. As you tell the story, I’m
going to pause you every so often to make sure you and she
both know that someone is here, listening . . .”
•Slow the pace: don’t let the client tell the story detail by
detail or very quickly. Detail activates more of the implicit
memories; the fast pace leads to disconnection. Don’t be
afraid to “empathically interrupt” to regulate pacing:
the interruptions are necessary to the experience of keeping
the client in the room to feel witnessed! Fisher, 2014
Transformative Witnessing, p. 3
•Bring the client’s attention to what’s happening:
“Notice that as you are speaking, I am listening. I’m right
here with you. Can you feel me here?”
•Bring his/her attention to what’s different: “It’s really
different, huh? Back then, that 6 year old had no one to
listen, no one to help her, and right here, right now, we’re
both here. Can she notice the difference?”
•Try to evoke a felt sense that can be remembered as a
new experience: “What’s that like for her? Is it
emotional? Or more calming and reassuring? How do you
feel different inside when you can see and feel someone’s
here with you now?” Fisher, 2014
A ʻRepairʼ Model for Trauma Work
•If the issue in trauma is not ‘just’ the events but the
implicit memories, “pathogenic kernels,” and autonomic
dysregulation, how does that change our approach to
working with memory? Should treatment focus on
processing memories?? Or on ‘repairing the damage’?
•A repair model is premised on the assumption that any
intervention that successfully resolves the ‘pathogenic
kernels’ or implicit memories is ‘memory processing’
•Should we focus on what happened?? Or on what
‘happened’? What happened to the ability to feel safe in
the world? What happened to the nervous system? What
happened to intimate relationships? Fisher, 2008
ʻPathogenic Kernelsʼ of Memory [van der Hart et
al, 2006]
ʻPathogenic Kernels,ʼ cont.
Neuralplasticity vs. Processing
•If trauma responses are driven by an irritable amygdala,
overactive hippocampus and inhibited prefrontal cortex, a
‘repair’ model helps us focus on neuralplastic change
• “Neuralplasticity refers to the ability of neurons to forge
new connections . . ., even to assume new roles. In
shorthand, neuralplasticity means rewiring of the
brain.” (Schwartz & Begley, 2002, p. 15)
•“Neurons fire whenever we have an experience. With
neural firing, the potential is created to alter synapses
by growing new ones, strengthening existing ones, or
even stimulating the growth of new neurons that create
new synaptic linkages.” (Siegel, 2007, p. 30) Fisher, 2009
A neuroplastic approach to trauma treatment
Mindfulness and Parallel Processing in the
Treatment of Trauma
"As long as you are able to have parallel processing, you will not be
traumatized...The prefrontal cortex allows us to have this observing
presence...and that is something we have to cultivate with our clients.
But we don't cultivate it by having them relive the traumas over and over
and abreact them... [When we encourage reliving,] we often…injure the
client more...”
van der Kolk, 2001
Resolving Trauma by “Repairing” Traumatic
Dysregulation
Uncoupling ʻOver‐Associatedʼ Sensations and
Dysregulation
Hyperarousal
“Window of Tolerance”*
Optimal Arousal Zone
An Integrated Approach to
Working with Traumatic Memory
•Look for the “pathogenic kernels” (van der Hart, 1999) rather
than focusing chronologically: work with the memories that
still have somatic, emotional and cognitive “power” over the client
•Emphasize survival aspects in place of terror: highlight
survival resources, courage and ingenuity in the face of danger
•The goal is integration and mastery: whether it is reached
via a restored comfort in social engagement, a re-negotiated somatic
sense of self, or new meaning-making
•Work toward personification, presentification, and re-
negotiated sense of identity: who am I now in the light of the
past? Who is the person I was always meant to be? Fisher, 2003
Acknowledging Triggering
Re‐framing aids acceptance of implicit memory
Re‐framing aids acceptance of implicit memory,
cont.
Safely Accessing Event Memory
Safely Accessing Memory, cont.
Safely Accessing Memory, p. 3
Safely Accessing Memory, p. 4
Finding a new language for symptoms
•It is our job to translate descriptions of triggered
implicit memories into a language that changes the client’s
relationship to trauma-related responses
•“Body memory” helps to capture the ‘whole body’ aspect
of implicit memory, the constellation of cognitive,
emotional and bodily reactions
•“Feeling flashback” is a term that capitalizes on a familiar
term and expands it from visual to emotional
•“Thought memory” for negative cognitions changes their
believability, while “long, slow flashback” helps put words
to traumatic states that last hours or days Fisher, 2013
“Attachment behavior. . .
is important far beyond the
provision of a fundamental sense
of safety and security.. . . In fact,
it may carve a permanent trace
into a still developing [brain].”
Schore, 2006
Teicher 2002
Secure/Autonomous Attachment in
Adults [Ainsworth, et al, 1978]
• Easily seek proximity and contact to others with little or
no avoidance or angry resistance when frustrated or
disappointed
•Able to receive soothing and calming and able to return to
auto-regulatory strategies when support is unavailable
•Exhibits the capacity to self-reflect, hold a balanced
perspective, see “the shades of gray”
•In therapeutic relationships, able to carry internal
representation of the therapist and use that for self-
regulation and self-soothing Ogden, 2002
Secure/Autonomous Attachment in
Adulthood
Insecure-Avoidant Attachment
•Researchers have observed that mothers of avoidantly
attached infants exhibit little affect or interest in the
infant. They withdraw or engage reluctantly, ignoring the
child’s cries, turning away when approached, minimizing
the importance of proximity (“she’ll be fine”), seemingly
averse to physical contact or even eye contact
•The avoidantly attached infant is observed to exhibit
little emotion in response to the parent as well as little
proximity-seeking. He or she has limited capacity for
either positive or negative affect, internalizes experience,
has difficulty making eye contact, and often appears
lethargic Fisher, 2009
Avoidant/Dismissing Attachment
in Adults
•Limited access to or interest in their internal emotional and
somatic states, little insight
•Out of touch with unmet attachment needs, they often
develop unrealistic, positive portrayals of their families
•Tend to avoid situations that stimulate attachment needs
and often find dependency repulsive
•Strong preference for auto-regulation, even in intimate
relationships or in therapy
•In therapy, they tend to be intellectualized, resistant to
emotional expression, confused about why they are there
Adapted from Steele and Ogden, 2002; Fisher, 2006
Avoidant/Dismissing Attachment
Insecure/Ambivalent Attachment
•Mothers of what is now called insecure/resistant infants
provide too much stimulation: e.g., they tend to be labile
and unpredictable, sometimes playful and engaging and
sometimes unavailable or irritable. These mothers fail to
regulate distress or repair disruptions
•Often warm and affectionate, they show more “interest”
but have ambivalent responses: e.g., letting a child cling
while simultaneously ignoring her; displaying affection in
public but then becoming suddenly unavailable in private
•Insecure/resistant infants are hypervigilently attentive
to the mother’s proximity and less interested in the
environment because exploration means loss of proximity
Fisher, 2006
Insecure/Preoccupied Attachment
in Adults
•In adulthood, preoccupied attachment results in excessive
focus on internal distress states, with frantic pursuit of relief
•Because they are so dependent on others for interactive
regulation, they are unable to distinguish safety within a
relationship: safety comes to be equated with proximity
•Relationships tend to become intense and enmeshed,
with poor boundaries and preoccupation with the other’s
availability
•Need for interactive regulation results in external locus
of control Adapted from Steele & Ogden, 2002; Fisher, 2006
Ambivalent-Preoccupied Attachment
Disorganized Attachment
Disorganized/Unresolved
Attachment in Adults
•Autonomic dysregulation: easily dysregulated, alternate between
hyper- and hypoarousal responses
•Proximity-seeking or clinging alternating with avoidance,
distancing and angry outbursts or threats to leave
•Internal conflicts re. distance and closeness: idealizing and
devaluing, preference for multiple or long distance relationships,
•Deficits in object permanence and object constancy:
yesterday’s good experience isn’t integrated and trusted
•Tendencies toward hypervigilant avoidance alternating with
attachment-seeking OR desperate clinging/pursuing alternating
with distancing and hypervigilance Fisher, 2011
Disorganized/Unresolved
Attachment
Ambivalent-Preoccupied
Attachment
Manifestations of Disorganized
Attachment, cont.
•Hypervigilant attention to the therapist’s manner and tone
of voice, policies, therapeutic appproach, or office environment,
misinterpretations of therapist behavior or verbalizations
•Strong, out of proportion reactions: unable to tolerate
therapist imperfections/limitations
•Repeated requests for changes in treatment frame: anger
and disappointment, “it’s never quite right”
•“Destructive entitlement” to special treatment, use of crisis
and self-harm as relational “negotiating currency” (Rivera, 1996)
•Inability to collaborate: client resists therapist interventions,
cannot formulate goals for treatment, fights for control of the
therapy and/or insists that therapist must direct it Fisher, 2011
Traumatic Countertransference
Traumatic Attachment =
“Enduring Conditions,” p. 2
“Therefore, the resolution of discrete
traumatic events in treatment may come
about more quickly than the resolution of
long-standing patterns of role-reversal,
disorientation and disrupted forms of
affective communication [that arise] in the
transference.”
Lyons-Ruth et al, 2006, p. 15
Hyperarousal
Window of Tolerance
fails to develop in disorganized
attachment
Hypoarousal
Hypoarousal-Related Symptoms:
Flat affect, numb, “not there” in relationships
Yearning coupled interpersonal avoidance, isolation
Preoccupied with shame, despair and self-loathing
Ogden and Minton (2000); Relationships = self-sacrifice or victimization
Fisher, 2006
*Siegel (1999)
Trauma
Perpetrator: client may perceive
therapists as a perpetrators or therapists
Victim: clients tend feel in the
may inadvertently perpetrate. The client victim position, but the therapist
can also play the perpetrator role. may inadvertently end up in the
victim role
Therapist-Rescuer:
“I will call you tonight, and I can see you
for an extra session on Tuesday”
Trauma
Therapist-Perpetrator: Client-Victim:
“If outpatient care doesn’t keep “I am feeling so hopeless—I
you safe, perhaps we should don’t want to live anymore—
consider hospital” I’m not safe”
Therapist-Rescuer:
“I must prove to her that I do
care”
Trauma
Therapist-Victim:
Client-Perpetrator:
“I’m only trying to do what I think is
“How dare you decide what
in your best interests—I’m sorry if it
care I ‘should’ get?!”
doesn’t feel that way”
Therapist-Rescuer:
“I’ll speak to him for you—
perhaps he didn’t mean it quite
that way”
Trauma
Therapist-Perpetrator: Client-Victim:
“Dr. Smith thinks that you have “Once again, I’m just a
bipolar disorder” category to you people”
Therapist-Rescuer:
“Perhaps we can check in by
email during my week away.”
Trauma
Therapist-Perpetrator: Client-Victim:
“I’m going on vacation next month, and “How could you leave me?
Julie Smith will be covering for me” Don’t you care?”
Being a ‘neurobiological
regulator”
•Being a neurobiological regulator requires that the
therapist stay attuned to both the regulating and
dysregulating effects of the therapeutic encounter. Like
a “good enough” mother, we must strive to create an
optimal level of arousal from moment to moment
•Effective neurobiological regulating on the part of
therapists requires paying more attention to how we
are affecting autonomic arousal than we pay to the
content of the patient’s communication and with how
to maintain an optimal level of arousal in the room
Copyright 2006 Janina Fisher, Ph.D.
•Varying voice tone and pace: soft and slow, hypnotic tone,
casual tone, strong and energetic tone, playful tone
• Energy level: very “there” and energetic versus more passive
•Empathy vs. challenge: does the client do better with empathy?
Or challenge? Does s/he need limits to regulate?
•Amount of information provided: noting the effect of
psychoeducation or therapist self-disclosure
•Titrating vs. encouraging affective expression
•Providing more vs. less support: does client become
dysregulated with more contact? Or less? Does s/he self-regulate
better with less or more support? Fisher, 2009
Mirroring = Attunement
•To foster a “felt sense” of connection, we mirror the
client’s words and body language, hoping to evoke a
visceral sense of being joined, a shared space, a sense of the
therapist’s interest and ability to ‘get it’
•Mirroring is not about WHAT we say but HOW we say
it: interest, body language, choice of words, tone
•It is also ‘dyadic dancing:’ as we mirror clients for signs
of resonance, we adjust our words and presence to maximize
their ability to stay present and socially engaged. Like
parents, our moment-to-moment adjustments help clients to
regulate and keep their frontal lobes “online” as much or
more as any skill we could teach them
Fisher, 2013
Non-Verbal Contact
DrJJFisher@aol.com
www.janinafisher.com
“Dear “Carolyn”,
[Yesterday] it occurred to me that this was
the time of year that I took the overdose. . . I was
so distressed that morning. I remember I kept
saying out loud, ‘Mommy. . . Mommy,’ but at that
time I had no idea of the different parts of me and
when I would come to see you, it would only be the
quiet Adult Part. So when I think back to the
many times I thought I was nuts and out of control,
it was really my Small Part struggling to say,
‘Help, I’m in trouble here--you better notice me,
or we’re all in trouble.’
What is ‘Dissociation’?
“The essential feature. . . is a disruption in the usually
integrated functions of consciousness, memory, identity,
or perception.”
(DSM-IV-R, 2000)
Compartmentalization = Survival
Corpus Collosum does not
Left Brain mature until 12+ Right Brain
Seat of the The right brain is the
“conscious, survival brain, as
linguistic self” well as the playful
(Cozolino, 2002), the left and creative brain.
brain or “CEO Our right brains
Brain” reasons, plans, hold a sense of
organizes, learns “corporeal and
from experience, and emotional self” The
makes meaning. The right brain lacks
left brain is also the words but reads
self-witness: it has body language and
the capacity for both facial expression. It
internal and external has ‘street smarts,’
awareness not book smarts
Ogden, 2008; Fisher, 2009
Right and Left Brains Hold Different Aspects of
Experience
Primary Dissociation:
a single incident trauma
At whatever age we
are traumatized, we
Pre-traumatic Personality have a pre-traumatic
personality that begins
Trauma undivided
A split now occurs between the And the part of the Self that
Left Brain part of the Self that holds the body and emotional
“carries on” with normal life memories of what happened
and adaptation during and and the survival responses
after the trauma needed to survive it
Van der Hart, Nijenhuis & Steele, 2006
Client-Friendly Language
Pre-traumatic Personality
This Left Brain part of the This Right Brain part of self
self “carries on” with holds both the traumatic
normal life and adaptation memories and the survival
during and after the responses employed
trauma
Van der Hart, Nijenhuis & Steele, 1999
What is a “part of the personality”??
Neuroscientific Support
“The left hemisphere functions best within the
middle range of affect and is biased toward
positive and prosocial emotions. Strong affect,
especially anxiety and terror, appear to inhibit
left hemisphere functions of language and logic—
hence, the experience of stage fright and
speechless terror. . . . The right hemisphere is
generally responsible for both appraising safety
and danger and organizing the sense of the
corporeal and emotional self.”
Cozolino, 2002, p. 109
Secondary Dissociation:
Complex PTSD, BPD, Bipolar, DDNOS
Going on
with
normal
life. . .
Tertiary Dissociation:
Severe DDNOS, DID
The traumatized parts are not experienced
as ʻparts of meʼ but as:
•Overwhelming emotions: desperation, despair, shame
and self-loathing, hopelessness and helplessness, rage
•Chronic expectation of danger: hypervigilance and
mistrust, fear and terror, “post-traumatic paranoia”
•Body sensations: numbing, dizziness, tightness in the
chest and jaw, nausea, constriction, sinking, quaking
•Movements and impulses: restlessness, ‘hang-dog’
posture, frozen states, impulses to “get out,” violence
turned against the body, “sex, drugs & rock ‘n roll,”
huddling or hunkering down Fisher, 2010
Or the parts are experienced as:
Evolutionary‐Determined Internal Tensions
Stabilization = Resolution of Internal Conflicts
Step 1: Psychoeducation
•Offer psychoeducation on the Structural Dissociation
model: re-conceptualize symptoms as manifestations of
structural dissociation, help clients see themselves through
this lens. Ask: “Do you recognize these different states?”
•Radical acceptance of trauma-related parts: ask clients
to assume that all distressing thoughts, feelings, and body
sensations are manifestations of parts
•Teach the client to be a ‘detective:’ what part might have
gotten triggered? What happened next? “Detective work”
focuses on better understanding the interplay between parts
and symptoms AND keeps the frontal lobes online.
Fisher, 2011
“Speaking the Language” of Parts
Choose Language that Acknowledges the Parts
A “Self”
curious, compassionate,
clear, creative,
courageous, calm,
confident, committed
Fisher, 2003
Self
curious, compassionate, clear,
calm, creative, courageous,
confident, committed,
Managers Suzanne
“Standards” Hypervigilantly focused on
Part Firefighters unfairness and incompetence,
fights authority figures
Self
curious, compassionate, clear,
creative, calm, courageous,
confident, committed
Fisher, 2009
“Self”
curious, compassionate,
clear, creative,
courageous, calm,
confident, committed
Fisher, 2003
With “whom” will we work?
•Normally, we work with a client’s affects or reactions as
“her reactions” or “his,” not a part’s. But does it make
sense to work with individual parts as if they represented the
whole person? Which parts do we define as ‘her’? The
parts that want closeness? Or parts that push the therapist
away? Or want to die?
•In trauma work, we should assume the presence of
structurally dissociated parts and track for their
appearance in the client’s life. By deliberately using parts
language to differentiate a “Going On with Normal Life”
Self from traumatized parts, we support better functioning
and increase client capacity for mindful awareness Fisher, 2011
Client awareness of the parts requires therapist
awareness
Use Relentless Reframing
The Problem of “I”
•“I” statements often describe parts activity, not the
integrated experience of an adult: “I’m shutting down—I
can’t look at you—I’m too ashamed.” Or “I’m a
fraud—people think of me as upbeat, but I’m not”
•In addition, “’I’ is generic—any part can use it to get her
point across.” (Annie) When we use “I” language rather
than parts language with structurally dissociated clients,
we may inadvertently be giving power to or ‘enabling’ the
parts that own the “I”
•In clients who are easily flooded and overwhelmed, “I”
can increase the tendency to flood: as the client talks
“from” the part instead of “for” the part Fisher, 2010
Which “I” ?
Cultivation of the Normal Life Self as a Witnessing
Self
A Neurobiologically-Informed Approach
to Working with Parts (Fisher, 2017)
Assume that dissociation is a way of regulating arousal:
switching, “going away” and acting out all reflect
autonomic dysregulation
Regulation of arousal is always a first priority to keep
the frontal lobes online and therefore an observing adult
Maintain a parts focus: “Does that feel like the same
part? Or a different part?”
Focus on increasing feelings of centered and grounded:
the Normal Life Self can use somatic resources to “help
the child parts” feel safer and better “held” Fisher, 2008
A Neurobiological Approach to
Working with Parts (Fisher, in press), cont.
Thoughts and beliefs are treated as communications
from parts: studying the body responses in addition to the
words is a way of “listening” to the parts
Increasing awareness of somatic markers of parts:
choosing on which part to focus, where that part is felt in
the body, what actions to take, what thoughts to entertain
The ANP learns to notice dysregulation or internal
conflict and to intervene somatically: e.g., by asking the
Fight EP to “go into” the backbone to increase the ANP’s
courage and reassure younger EPs or by having the ANP
lengthen the spine slightly to transform the collapse of the
Submit EP Fisher, 2008
Unblending Annieʼs story
•“Again, I failed.”
“I hear a part who feels she failed again”
•“Today was horrible….empty and boring and
scary. So, I laid low, thinking that would be
calming . . .”
“So interesting—you didn’t realize it was the
parts having a horrible, terrible, very bad day?”
•“‘I’ keep making mistakes. I, we, are hungry but all
we have is beer. Where is dinner--how did I miss it?”
“Look—missing dinner makes you aware now that
you got highjacked—that’s great!”
Unblending Annieʼs story, cont.
Unblending Protocols: 5‐Steps
• Assume that any distressing or uncomfortable feeling is a
communication from a part of you: ‘It’s not my feeling.’
• Put the part’s feelings into words using “she” or “he feels
_________.” See what happens if you say, “She feels ashamed---”
or “He feels angry”
• Create a little more separation from the parts by sitting back,
changing position, lengthening your spine, or using an object to
symbolize the part so you can be in relationship to it
• Use your adult mind to reassure the part that nothing bad
is happening right now. Acknowledge the fear or hurt.
Imagine these fears belonged to __________: what would you say?
• Get feedback—ask the parts: am I “getting” it?
Critical Part
Scared Part
Ashamed
Part
Attach
Part Protectors
Normal Life
Part
“I’m scared--
“Get a grip! “You deserve to
sad—all alone”
Stop that die---your body
“Someone
whining! Shape is worthless
please help me!”
up, loser!” anyway”
Fisher, 2004
Internal Problem-Solving
Med doctor “I want to stop all
is moving Annie my meds”
to a clinic
9 Warrior 13
Little
Saint
Warrior Depressed,
suicidal: “I need
those pills”
“We don’t feel The Hypervigilent
safe there” Protectors: “We
will be exposed--it 3
“We just
“It reminds us isn’t safe” 7 want to feel
of those social 5 better”
workers”
Fisher, 2002
“Integration requires both differentiation and
linkage”
[Siegel, 2010]
Fisher, 2000
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Or flee
Or, if we
are small,
we freeze
to When there is no
become way out, we submit
invisible and ‘play dead’
“Window of Tolerance”*
Optimal Arousal Zone
Hypoarousal:
Flat affect, numb, aleixythymia
Low Arousal Shame, disgust, depression
Animal defenses of feigned death and
Ogden and Minton (2000) total submission
*Siegel, D. (1999)
Shame is a Parasympathetically‐Mediated
Symptom
Trauma‐related Emotions
• Because threats to safety evoke survival defense
responses, it makes sense that fear, shame and anger are
the most common emotions in traumatized individuals
• Threats to life and safety mobilize fear responses to
alert the body to danger: fear is an adaptive response
when others might harm us
• Often misunderstood as “anger,” fight responses are also
an adaptive reaction to danger. Clients’ fight instincts
are heightened now because they could not
‘complete’ the impulse to fight back ‘then’
• And shame is adaptive in traumatic conditions, too,
when there is no recourse other than to submit
SHAME
Why does shame stick like ʻglueʼ for decades
after the trauma?
Shame and Self‐Doubt are Magnified by
Powerlessness
Neurobiological Purpose of Shame [Schore, 2003]
Shame as a Source of Safety
Shame alerts us to what was dangerous then
How Experiences of Shame Become Cognitive
Schemas
Shame and Cognitive Schemas, p.2
•Meaning-making childhood begins in the body: an infant
or small child can only make meaning at a body level.
Then, as children develop language, they begin to attach
words that seem to explain these emotional and body states
•The words not only reflect the body states but can also
trigger the body states each time they are used. A
collapse in the body accompanied by hypoarousal and a
heavy feeling in the chest may be ‘explained’ as “I’m
worthless” or “I’m stupid.” Each time those words are
repeated, the body feels heavier, more hypoaroused, more
collapsed. Thereafter, the body experience and the
cognition mutually reinforce and confirm each other
Fisher, 2009
Fear, Shame and Anger are Procedurally‐
Learned Responses
Emotions and Procedural Learning
Environmental
trigger
The Vicious Circle of Shame and
More Shame
Flushing, sick feeling “I’m
Which triggers
in stomach, impulse stupid/worthless/ina
to turn away, curl into dequate/undeserving
ball ”
Which triggers
Procedurally-learned
automatic beliefs
Physiological shame
responses
Psychoeducation
Psychoeducation, cont.
Psychoeducation, p. 3
FEAR
Emotional Experience is
Always Embedded in Body
Experience
Chronic Expectation of Danger
Chronic Expectation of Danger, cont.
• Anxiety is a ‘signal emotion,’ meant to alert us to
danger and evoke the emergency stress responses that
mobilize fight and flight instincts
• Though persistent fear is debilitating and constricting,
adaptation in times of danger is enhanced by easily
triggered fear responses.
• Like other emotions, fear is a non-verbal state to which
we later put words—words that reflect how we feel,
not the context in which we feel it. “It’s not safe” are
words commonly put to fear experiences, and then the
words themselves also evoke fear—of fear of fear.
Fisher, 2017
Environmental
trigger
The Vicious Circle of Fear and More
Fear
Rapid heart beat,
Which triggers “It’s not safe” “I’m
tightness in chest and
stomach, hyper‐ going to be killed”
arousal, trembling “I need help!”
Which triggers
Procedurally-learned
automatic beliefs
Physiological
anxiety/fear
responses
Working with the Bodily Manifestations of
Fear/Shame
Working with the Bodily Manifestations of
Emotion, cont.
“Dropping the Content”
• An important sensorimotor skill for regulating emotions
and arousal is learning to “drop the content:” to focus
away from dysregulating thoughts, interpretations and
feelings and instead to focus attention toward the body
sensations OR just external stimuli
• For less mindful or more unstable clients, letting go of the
“content” is only possible when they focus on something
concrete, such as their feet, as an alternative
• Dropping the content to focus on the body challenges
negative cognitions: the words lose their power when
they are deliberately ignored. Clients can be taught to
ʻdropʼ the partsʼ shame or judgments or their own
Fisher, 2015
Re‐framing Shame and Fear
Other Challenges to Shame
Other Challenges to Fear
Treating Emotions as Child Parts
Using a Parts Approach
Therapist is on
maternity leave
Adult Stephanie
These threats re-
trigger the child
part and re-ignite
the cycle
A Solution for the Part
“It’s OK—I’m here for you.
You’re not alone. You haven’t
Adult Stephanie failed—your family just
doesn’t know how to be nice.”
Combating Shame Through the Body
Combating Fear Through the Body
The Vicious Circle of Fear or Shame and
Anger
“I’m
Trigger
worthless/inadequate”
“I’m not safe”
Sympathetic
responses Fright responses
ANGER
FIGHT RESPONSE
Fight responses are active or mobilizing defenses
Fight responses are active or mobilizing defenses,
cont.
Fight responses are active or mobilizing defenses,
p. 3
Using a parts approach with anger
Therapist fails her
empathically: “It
must be hard . . .”
Adult Jessica
The fight part’s
response re-
triggers the
child’s fear of
abandonment
Hurt Fight
Child Part
Fisher, 2017
Hypoarousal:
Fisher, 2017
Shame, disgust, self-
Ogden and Minton (2000) loathing
*Siegel, D. (1999)
Experiment with using the components of social
engagement
•Vary your voice tone and pace of speech: soft and slow,
hypnotic tone, casual tone, strong and energetic tone, playful tone.
The voice is the best regulator of the nervous system
•Experiment with facial expression: does the patient respond
differently to calm vs. warm, expressive, or playful expressions?
•Use your gaze creatively: soften your gaze, put a sparkle in
your eye, set boundaries with your gaze, communicate warmth
•Take advantage of the turning and tilting abilities of the
head and neck: tilt your head when saying something challenging
or potentially triggering; turn your head away very slightly if the
client is uncomfortable with direct eye contact Fisher, 2018
Experimenting with co‐regulation
• When you find yourself tensing, unsure what to say,
frustrated, confused, try just relaxing the body.
• If you feel defended or ‘armored,’ experiment with
opening your chest or heart area just a little (but not so
much that you will feel assaulted if s/he gets angry)
• When you need to set limits on how clients communicate
hurt, anger, or sadness, first become an “iron fist in the
velvet glove:” engage your core and relax periphery
• At times when you need courage, lengthen your spine
• When you want your boundaries respected, engage your
boundary muscles and relax your facial muscles!