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Fank Ness
Fank Ness
To speak frankly is to reveal what one really thinks, to tell the truth exactly as one
sees it, and to do so whatever the consequences. When people are not frank they
are being careful, or dishonest, or tactful – and often enough all three. Many find
that dishonesty and tact are far more useful for getting on in life than frankness. This
is regrettably as many of us would regard dishonesty as a vice and honest as a virtue.
There is one arena where frankness is almost invariably a good thing: in the
evolution of friendship. The point at which friends can drop their reserve and
reveal themselves to each other is the point at which their relationship advances to
a higher level. ‘One frankness invites a reciprocal frankness, and draws forth
discoveries, like wine and love,’ wrote Montaigne. Such are franknesses of the
heart, which give another access to one’s self, and oneself access to another’s self:
and without such mutualities life would be worth little.