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Sakinah Family according to the Perspective Qur’an

Introduction

A sakinah family is the hope for the believers. But creating it is not an easy problem, because of
the low level of public knowledge about the sakinah family, so that it can disturb the household ark. In
order to provide an explanation of this problem, this research in the form of a literature study will try to
find an overview of the concept of the sakinah family in the perspective of the Qur'an.

Research method

This research is a non-interactive qualitative research. This research is known as library research.
Literature study is a research conducted by collecting data from primary and secondary sources in the
form of books/books or the results of previous research related to the concept of the sakinah family in
the review of the Qur'an 28. The data analysis used in this research is content analysis. analysis).

Results and Discussion

However, the hope of becoming a family whose copy can be realized is not only limited to the
expression of prayers delivered by the guests at the walimah, it needs to be planned from the time the
bride and groom set their intention to find a life partner to the stage of carrying out the marriage. These
efforts can be made if each of them has a mature and stable mind for marriage, both physically and
mentally, understands each other's rights and obligations, is economically secure, knows the importance
of having a household and what risks will be passed. at a later time.

a. Choose the ideal mate.

One of the things that Allah has ordained for every human being is a mate. Therefore,
humans do not need to worry that he will not get a life partner. However, that doesn't mean
you don't need to find a mate. But there needs to be an effort to pick up the mate.
Remember, finding a good mate is the main requirement for forming the Rabbani
generation, the successor of civilization, the people who will be proud of the Prophet
because not only in large numbers, but because of their obedience to Religion.
b. Fostering and instilling religious values in the family.
Religious teachings are not only understood and understood, but must be practiced by every
family member, so that life in the family will be able to feel married life with full peace,
comfort and tranquility that is imbued with the teachings and rules that exist in religion.
c. Fostering Relationships Between Family and Environment.
Keeping your family in good shape is like taking care of plants. Plants will thrive and always
thrive if they are properly cared for, watered with sufficient water, fertilized and protected
 from pests that will damage the plants. Therefore, love and affection also need to be
maintained properly, one of which is communication with each family member, fostering a
family with faith, avoiding conflicts and debates and fostering an understanding of each
other.
d. Instilling the Nature of Qona'ah in the Family.
Families will find mutual understanding by accepting it as it is, both the characteristics
possessed by each partner and the income they get. This trait needs to be cultivated in the
family, because with Qonaah's nature it will feel willing and sufficient for what is owned by a
husband or wife.
1. Characteristics of the Sakinah Family
a. Straight Intention and Strong.
Relationship with God The urge to carry out marriage is not just to justify biological desires.
Marriage is one of the characteristics of Allah's honor34 as explained in the Qur'an Surah Ar-
Rum: 21: "And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your own kind,
so that you tend and feel at ease with them. , and He created between you compassion and
mercy. Verily in that are signs for a people who think” (Q.S. Ar-Rum: 21).
b. Affection
Love is one of the qualities possessed by Allah SWT. This trait is given to every human being as
evidence that the importance of good relations with fellow human beings. So that household
problems can be neutralized, then God provides human beings with a complete sense of love
and affection between the two. This love also serves to make the soul become peaceful in
raising a family.
c. Family communication.
Mutual understanding is the capital to foster a family towards peace. In a sakinah family, a
husband is expected to be able to create a harmonious and communicative family atmosphere,
so that dialogue is realized both with his wife and children.
d. Being Fair Justice is an important aspect of a sakinah family.
Fair is meant to be impartial, selective, and non-discriminatory.

2. Sakinah Family Criteria according to commentators

a. Faith and Fear
Trust is the most important thing in a believer's family, because trust is to guide the family to
understand Allah SWT. In a family, the most important and foremost for parents is to teach their
children, because the family is a school for children. The main education in the family is religious
education, meaning that the family is the first to be obliged to instill faith in their children as
provisions for the future.
b. Responsibility
Each family member must have a sense of responsibility that is certainly in accordance with the
position of each of them. A husband or father as the head of the family is responsible for
providing for his family, both physically and mentally. A wife or mother is fully responsible for
managing household and child needs, because mothers are the first school for their children
 c. Have a forgiving nature
Apologizing is easier to do than forgiving, that's a statement that is often heard from experts of
wisdom.
d. Peace in the family
The next criterion for a sakinah family is tranquility, in family life it will not be said to be happy if
the family does not feel calm and serene both in terms of outwardly and inwardly.

e. Mu'asyarah Bil Ma'ruf

A family must have mu'asyarah bil ma'ruf. One of the wisdoms of Allah obliging a husband to do
mu'asyarah bil ma'ruf to his wife is that the husband and wife will find happiness and peace in
life. Therefore, "Mu‟asyarah bil ma‟ruf" is an obligation that must be carried out by husbands in
order to get happiness.

Conclusion

From the description overcome, the following conclusions can be drawn: First, the sakinah
family is certainly a dream for every human being. Because this greatly affects the level of calm and
comfort in the household. By having a sakinah family that is the main choice in marriage, this sakinah
family has several criteria in the Qur'an, namely: Faith, Responsibility, Mutual forgiveness, and
Mua'asyarah bil ma'ruf. Second, the factor for the realization of a sakinah family, namely: husband and
wife must understand each other's rights and also accept each other's strengths and weaknesses. find
an overview of the concept of the sakinah family in the perspective of the Al Qur’an.