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I, Text book:
Traditionally, Americans and Asians have very different ideas about love and marriage.
Americans believe in “romantic” marriage - a boy and a girl are attracted to each other,
fall in love, and decide to marry each other. Asians, on the other hand, believe in
“contractual” marriage - the parents of the bride and the groom decide on the marriage;
and love - if it ever develops - is supposed to follow marriage, not precede it.
To show the differences, a survey was conducted among American, Chinese and Indian
students to determine their attitudes toward love and marriage. Below is a summary of
each group’s responses to the four key values.
Physical attractiveness: The Americans are much more concerned than the Indians and
the Chinese with physical attractiveness when choosing a wife or a husband. They also
agree that a wife should maintain her beauty and appearance after marriage.
Confiding: Few Asian students agree with the American students’ view that wives and
husbands share all thoughts. In fact, a majority of Indians and Chinese think it is better
and wiser for a couple not to share certain thoughts. A large number of Indian men agree
that it is unwise to confide in their wives.
Partnership of equals: The majority of Asian students reject the American view that
marriage is a partnership of equals. Many Indian students agree that a woman has to
sacrifice more in a marriage than a man.
Trust built on love: Significantly, more Asian students than American students agree that
a husband is obliged to tell his wife where he has been if he comes home late. The Asian
wife can demand a record of her husband’s activities. The American wife, however,
trusts her husband to do the right thing because he loves her not because he has to.
The comparison of the four values suggests that young Asians are not as romantic as
their American counterparts.
List 4 key values. Compare these of American students with Asian students.
II, Grammar:
1/ The population of the earth is increasing at a tremendous rate and _________ out of
control.
A. Is coming C. Comes
B. Would come D. Will have come
5/ “When is your math exam ?” “Well, this time tomorrow I _________ for it.”
7/ By the year 2050, many people currently employed __________ their jobs.
10/ By the time you get to the theater, the play __________
1/ While (A) preparing for your (B) wedding, (C) keeping in mind that this is just the first
step in your future lives of love (D) together.
2/ (A) Marriage is a life-long journey together, (B) which is not (C) simply a boat you get
on together and (D) getting off when it does not work out.
3/ (A) It is important to note that such a happy marriage dose not come about (B) by
accident, but it (C) had taken years of dedicated work to bring this kind of relationship
into (D) existence.
4/ There are (A) dangerous times in a marriage, (B) especially when the wife can come to
feel (C) such overburned that she (D) decides to end the relationship.
5/ (A) Once you can (B) overcome your difficulty, the problems (C) may well become a
source of (D) strengthen to your marriage and to your faith.
A tent called an ehan is prepared for Assalama and Mohamed . Women take down
and put up the marriage tent each day , making it larger each time . The growing tent
symbolizes the couple's growing relationship . Through the whole celebration , Assalama
stays inside the tent . She shows her face or speaks only to Mohamed , her best friend ,
her mother , and one special helper . Assalama and Mohamed are never left alone , for
fear that they might be harmed by jealous jinns.
The couple will spend their first year of marriage with Assalama's family .
Mohamed must work to win his in - laws ' approval . Once he does that , he will take his
bride to his camp and start his nomad's caravan moving again . ( 371 words )
- Nomads: dân du cư
2/ What does the phrase “he asked for her hand” in paragraph 1 mean ?
7/ The people are afraid that if Assalama and Mohamed are left alone, they will ______
V, Cloze text:
In Korea, in former days the marriage between a man and woman represented the joining
of two families, rather ( 1 )__________ the joining of two individuals.The event ( 2 )
_________ Taerye ( Great Ritual ) , and people from all over the village or neighborhood
participated. The ceremonies and events surrounding the actual marriage were long and
( 3 )_________. Professional matchmakers paired up likely candidates for marriage , with
the new couple often meeting for the first time at their wedding ! The families considered
many factors in the decision, consulting with fortune tellers for (4 )__________ about
the couple's future life together. During the Chosun period , people married ( 5 )
_________ their early teens, with the girl often being several years older than the boy .
The groom usually traveled to the house of the bride for the ceremony, then stayed there
for three days ( 6 ) _________ taking his new bride to his family's home . The actual
ceremony involved many small rituals , with many bows and symbolic gestures . The
( 7 )___________ were expected to control their emotions and remain somber .
( 8 ) __________ Koreans have kept several aspects of the traditional ceremony , most
modern ceremonies resemble Western marriage ceremonies more than ( 9 )__________
Korean ones . However , many folk villages and museums across the country regularly
perform ceremonies to ( 10 ) __________ the traditions alive.
2/ a. is often called b. often called c. was often called d. has often called
5/ a. for b. in c. on d. from