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THE BARE FACTS - CSU-WICHITA 6/28/2012
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Why is God and

the Bible so
negative about
sex?
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…saying YES
to
Not saying NO to waiting because it is so
Beautiful
sex because it is so
sinful
but…
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Aha! Call it:

The Revenge of the Church Ladies Isn’t abstinence a
religious term?
“University of Chicago
reported that religious
women experience
significantly higher
levels of sexual
satisfaction than non-
religious women.”
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Quiz Time Quiz Time

If abstinence is a religious term,
then so is:
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D) Truth
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Answer:
Abstinence:
ALL “Waiting for sex
within a marriage.”
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Why did God

If abstinence is a create sex?
religious term so is:
Love, Integrity, Trust,
Marriage, Truth
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3 Reasons
God created
sex
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Is there a “love”
hormone? “Oxytocin, the
‘cuddle
hormone’ or
‘bonding
hormone.’”
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lle
Tyr
Gln
Cys
Asp
Cys
Pro
Leu
Gly
Oxytocin
(Graphic from researchers at Virginia Tech)
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“Super Glue”
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What does purity

mean?
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Purity Pure
“Living according
to original design”
“No foreign element”

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How do you define Ephesians 5:28

love?
“So husbands ought also
to love their own wives as
their own bodies. He who
loves his own wife loves
himself.”
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Ephesians 5:29
“For no one ever hated his
To Nourish=
own flesh, but nourishes “to bring to
and cherishes it, just maturity”
as Christ also does
the Church.” 39 40
Luke 2:52 1.Wisdom…mentally

“And Jesus kept increasing
in wisdom and stature,
and in favor with God and
men.”
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2. Stature…physically 3. Favor with God…

spiritually
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4. Favor with men…

relationally To Cherish=
“to care for, i.e., to
protect”
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To Nourish= To Cherish=
“to provide” “to protect”
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Every commandment appears to be

To Love= negative…
“thou shalt not…” “Do not…”
“protect and provide” BUT…
…Every single
commandment in
scripture is actually positive…
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Deuteronomy 10,
“My commandments are God is LOVE
good for you…
(i.e. protect and provide)
…Because they protect
and provide for you!”
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Deuteronomy 10:13 Jeremiah 29:11

“For I know the plans I have
“and to keep the LORD’S
for you,” declares the LORD,
commandments and His
“plans to prosper you and
statutes which I am
not to harm you, plans to
commanding you today for
give you hope and a
your good.”
future.”
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…saying YES to
Not saying NO to waiting because it is so
Beautiful
sex because it is so
sinful
but…
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Sin against
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E) Girl/Boyfriend
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Answer: 1 Corinthians 6:18

“Flee sexual immorality.
Every other sin a person
c) Own Body commits is outside the body,
but the sexually immoral
person sins against
HIS OWN BODY.”
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What does it mean What is a person’s

when they say “God is most powerful sex
love”? organ?
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The most powerful

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Neurons Support Cells

10,000,000,000 100,000,000,000
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Connectors
100,000,000,000,000
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It is estimated that
1,000,000 the neurons of one
human cerebral
connections every cortex, if placed end
second to end and measure,
would extend to
250,000 miles.
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Your brain began Your brain never turns off

making, and throughout your life.
wiring circuits in
your mother’s
womb.
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Electrical messages in neurons The result of

travel about 220 miles per hour. It millions of cells
translates to 32 feet per second communicating
with each other
electrically and
chemically
make up our
behavior.
Lamborghini Diablo top speed 203MPH
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Every
child is
born
with
over one
hundred
billion The brain consumes
neurons. about 30% of the
body’s energy.
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Your brain processes a thought at

the speed of 320 milliseconds, or
about 1/3 of a second
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Myelin is a
fatty substance
that insulates
and protects
the axons of
neurons.
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Myelin
Acts like the insulation on
an electric cord, allowing
electrical impulses to
travel down a nerve faster
and more efficiently.
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Can sex affect or

change your actual
brain?
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Can sex keep a “bad

relationship” going?
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“Blind-Sided”
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Can memory
LISTENING TO YOUR PARENTS affect your sex
life?
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Norepinephrine 5 Senses
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Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage bed”

“Marriage should be =
honored by all, and the
marriage bed kept pure, for
?
God will judge the
adulterer and all the
sexually immoral.” 96
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Pure Purity
“Living according
to original design”
“No foreign element”

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You can give

…but not
back…
memories
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“I’m married now

“The hardest break and I feel like it’s a
up I had was with the threesome in my
first person I had sex heart. He is still here.
with… It is like he is a part of
me, and I still can’t
get over him.”
-Jordi 33
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…I compare every
guy since then to
him...”
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Is there a “feel
good”
hormone?
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Dopamine IT FEELS SO GOOD…IT MUST BE RIGHT.
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RISKY BEHAVIOR
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Is there a relationship
between sex and duct
tape?
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Does our mind have Pre-frontal cortex (lobe)

a “central control”
center?
Central
Control
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Limbic System Urges & Appetites

Asleep at the wheel
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Urges & Appetites Urges & Appetites

Leap before looking Too much of a good thing
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“CENTER OF CIVILIZATION” = Pre-Frontal Lobe

SOUND MORAL JUDGEMENT
“…to differentiate
among conflicting
thoughts, determine
good and bad, identify
future consequences
of current activities
and suppress
impulses.”
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Limbic System
The part of the brain “As the adolescent brain
that controls impulses develops, the prefrontal
and engages in longer- cortex becomes
increasingly connected
term perspective, the with the seat of emotions,
frontal lobes, matures the limbic system,
allowing reason and
later. emotion to better
coordinated.”
Can’t rent a car till 25 Can’t rent a car until 25
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Mental traffic cop Does a man have a

“sweet valentine”
hormone?
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Vasopressin Can have sex…
…with a prostitute
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Hasn’t modern medicine Sexually transmitted Diseases

pretty much eliminated
STD’s and infections?
Syphilis
gonorrhea
1960
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2010
25 Major STD’s 2010: 1 in 4 teens

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19 OF 25 HAVE NO CURE.
(MN DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH)
Sexually Active Teens
50%
To be infected
by an
STD
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137 1960: 1 in 60 teens 138 1970: 1 in 47 teens
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How many Americans have a
STD?
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C) 58,000,000
D) 70,000,000 139
ANSWER:
43 million
70 million Are incurable
Americans have a STD
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½ Billion
19,000,000
19 million
New Infections
Are incurable
Each Year
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Per year 144
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How many Americans get a sexually
transmitted disease every day?
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C) 61,170
D) 70,250 145
ANSWER: Today
19 million
52,055 52,055
Are incurable
Per day 147 148
Yesterday Tomorrow
52,055 52,055
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Day after 9,100,000

tomorrow 15-24 year olds
52,055
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2,169 1 in 4 U.S. teen (14-19) are infected

with either HPV, Chlamydia,
19 million Herpes, or Trichomoniasis
Are incurable
Per hour 153 154
Top 6 Sexually Transmitted Diseases:

What is the
most common Chlamydia: 2,800,000
STD? Genital Herpes: 1,000,000
Crabs-Pelvic Lice: 3,000,000
Trichomoniasis: 7,000,000
HIV: 46,000
HPV: 6,000,000
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19HPV
million What is HPV?
Are incurable
6,000,000
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Human Papiloma Virus Quiz Time

How many Americans have
incurable HPV?
A) 3,000,000
B) 20,000,000
C) 22,000,000
164 D) 31,000,000 165
Quiz Time ANSWER:

19 million
20,000,000
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6,200,000 Quiz Time

19 million Percentage of sexually active
women can expect to have an
Are incurable HPV infection
A) 20%
B) 60%
New infections C) 80%
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Quiz Time Answer:

C) 80%
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26.8% of all U.S. Women

HPV
98-99%
Have no
Are infected with HPV symptoms initially
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90% of Canadian
teens said they Only 19% had
were heard of HPV
knowledgeable
about sex
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Quiz Time
How many different HPV
Only 20% knew viruses are there?
cancer as a possible
A) 40
consequence of HPV B) 80
C) 100
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Quiz Time ANSWER:

HPV
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What percentage of women will
have HPV by the age of 50?
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C) 50%
D) 72% 180
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What percentage of
active men will get HPV?
A) 50%
B) 70%
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C) 50% C) 80%
D) 90% 183
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B) 70%
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Nearly 50% of men in Brazil

are infected with HPV
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More than 50% of men in the

Nearly 50% of men in Mexico
United States are infected with
are infected with HPV
HPV
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Quiz Time
Imagine if someone you think a lot of
50% of 12-70 yr olds is sexually involved, what are the
chances of them having an STD?
infected with HPV
A) 20%
B) 30%
C) 40%
D) 50% 191
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D)50%
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Who has the highest
HPV rate?
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C) 25-27 years
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How many people are infected with
Genital Herpes (HSV)?
A) 45 million
B) 55 million
C) 62 million
B) 20-24 years old 196 197
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Quiz Time Quiz Time

How man people are infected with
Genital Herpes over 11 years old?
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C) 3 in 5
D) 4 in 5 200
Quiz Time How prevalent is HPV

among university women?
How man people are infected with
Genital Herpes over 11 years old?
A) 1 in 5
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What percent of sexually active
University women are HPV
positive? Don’t forget:
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C) 51%
D) 63% 204
ANSWER: Rutgers University
63% 60%
of women
University women
sexually
(who have had sex) active
HPV positive. Infected with HSV
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Do women get Women are twice

more STD’s than
men?
as likely as men
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“…women were nearly twice as

likely as men to be infected, “About 21% of women were
according to an analysis by the U.S. infected with genital herpes,
Centers for Disease Control and compared to only 11.5% of men…”
Prevention.”
JoAnne Allen JoAnne Allen
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Is it true that young

people get more STD’s
Youth (12-25)=17%
than any other group? of U.S. Population
48% of STD’s
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New STD Infections 9,100,000

3,000,000 15-24 year olds
Teens per year
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24,932 1,039
Per day Per hour

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Quiz Time Quiz Time

Within 2 years of having sex for the
first time, how many get infected?
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C) 50%
D) 70% 218
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C) 50% What percentage of sexually
active teens will get a STD
each year?
A) 18%
B) 25%
C) 31%
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Quiz Time Answer:

B) 25%
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How many sexually active
teenagers are infected?
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C) 28%
D) 40% 224
Answer: Why are teens more

D) 40% susceptive to STD’s?
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Columnar Cells
Squamous Epithelium Cells
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MASS PRODUCTION
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Won’t condoms
reduce chances of
getting a STD?
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“There is no convincing
scientific evidence that
condoms stop 6 of the 8
diseases evaluated.”
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HPV Infected
(without condoms)
“HPV
transmission
was not reduced
44%
partners
by condoms.”
infected in just
3 acts of sex
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HPV Infected Chances Each Month to Get Pregnant
1 2
MONTH
3 4 5 6
(with condoms)
7 8 9
1 2 3 4
42%
18 19 20
5 6 7 8
21 22 23 24 25 26 27
partners 28 29 30
infected in just 8 days/mo

x 12 months
3 acts of sex 96 days/yr
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Quiz Time
8 days a month
What is the condom failure rate
x 12 months per year for a 20-24 year-old woman?
96
A) 4%
B) 8%
C) 14%
D) 31% 241
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Quiz Time Answer:

D) 31%
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1988 Quiz Time

Lied 31% If 100 women used condoms 100% of
the time for one year, how many
failure would be infected with HPV?
A) 37.8%
20-24 B) 42.9%
C) 74.2%
year olds D) 89.3%
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Quiz Time Answer:

A) 37.8%
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“Non-penetrative
sexual conduct
is a plausible
route of
transmission in
virgins.”
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Trojan: “America’s #1 condom trusted for over 80 years”
If used properly, latex condoms will help to reduce

the risk of transmission if HIV infection (AIDS) and
many other sexually transmitted diseases.
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Trojan: “America’s #1 condom trusted for over 80 years”
…also highly effective against pregnancy…
31% Failure Rate????
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20 out of 25 NOT STOPPED BY CONDOMS

(MN HEALTH DEPARTMENT)
Quiz Time
How many batches of condoms fail to
meet government standards?
A) 10%
B) 20%
C) 30%
D) 40%
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Quiz Time Answer:

B) 20%
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Quiz Time
If 100 women used condoms 100% of
the time for one year, how many
would be infected with HPV?
A) 37.8%
B) 42.9%
C) 74.2%
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Quiz Time Answer:

A) 37.8%
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Studies show that if their

partners used condoms
100% of the time, 37.8% of
women would still be
infected with HPV
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Is it difficult
NO!
to get an
STD?
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50% Students
To be infected Medical Director
by an 5
STD STD’s in one
act of sex
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Can STD’s be
linked to serious Quiz Time
illnesses like HPV virus is detected in how
cancer?
many cervical cancer cases?
A) 10%
B) 50%
C) 80%
D) 99%
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D) 99%
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HPV HPV
100 different strains… … 40 cause genital infections
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High risk cancer strains

HPV HPV
14
High risk strains
can cause
14 strains Cervical Cancer
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“Cancer is a
sexually
30%
transmitted Cervical Cancer
disease…” not stopped by
vaccine
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HPV Vaccine If you have HPV
NONE
for
MEN
3200%
More likely to get
throat cancer
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Quiz Time Quiz Time

Which are the greatest risk
factors for cervical cancer?
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D) Being out in the sun too much

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Quiz Time How can I avoid getting

Which are the greatest risk an STD?
factors for cervical cancer?
Both!!
A) Early sexual activity

B) Multiple sex partners
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What can cause a condom to
fail?
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C) Storing in a car
D) Storing in a refrigerator 309
Latex gloves for Dr.’s

must be shipped in a
refrigerated truck and
cannot go above or
below regulated
temperatures
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Can condoms
protect you from 20% of 18
unwanted
pregnancy? year olds
pregnant
in 1st year
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1988
Lied 31%
failure 15% of adults using
20-24 condoms get pregnant
year olds in the first month
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321
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Can you get Adults on oral

pregnant if contraception’s
you’re on the
pill?
8%
Pregnant
per year
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50% of Is oral sex

women using really sex?
contraception
in cohabitating
relationships
get pregnant in
the first year
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Can I do oral sex

Isn’t oral sex
and still keep my safer?
virginity?
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50% of 15-19 years old 45% of College students
Had oral sex Had oral sex 1 time in last 30 days
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Having oral sex, you… Having oral sex, you…

Can’t get pregnant? Can’t get pregnant?
TRUE
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Can’t get an STD? Can’t get an STD?
FALSE
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Can’t get cancer? Can’t get cancer?
FALSE
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Can’t pass on an STD? Can’t pass on an STD?
FALSE
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If you have oral sex with 5 people,
what is your chance of an STD?
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C) 100%
D) 250% 352
ANSWER: If you have HPV
D) 250% 3200% More likely to get

throat cancer
D) 250% 354 355
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Do you know the chance of oral throat
cancer if you have 6+ partners?
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C) 50%
D) 900% 356
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The greatest factor for
D) 250%
throat cancer?
A) HPV infection
B) Chewing Tobacco
C) Smoking
D) 900% 358 D) Alcohol 359
Quiz Time Answer:
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Isn’t sex a “private act”

between 2 individuals and the
government or church has “no
right” to regulate it?
My body
My choice
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Former surgeon general

C. Everett Koop
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“I Love You!”
$$$$$$$$$$$$$
$$$$$$$$$$$$$
Cost to public = $128 BILLION
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If you become a father,
it can cost you:
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C) $250-350K
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Quiz Time If you really

love someone
If you become a father, isn’t it ok?
it can cost you:
B) $50-250K
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Romans 13:8 67% say if

“Owe nothing to anyone you love
except to love one another; someone
for he who loves his it’s ok.
They can’t
neighbor has fulfilled the
even define
law.” love.
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Out of 10 pregnant girls, how
many guys will abandon them?
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D) 9
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“80% of unwed
fathers don’t
marry the teen
D) 9 mother of their
baby.”
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“70% if unwed
mothers
receive no
financial
Sex = “Making Love”
support from
the fathers of
their children.”
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1/3 of air time during family Avg. American -15,000

hour (8-9pm) has a sexual sexual references per year
reference Only 170 deal
with abstaining,
self-control, the
risk of STDs, or
pregnancy
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89% of U.S. web pages 52,000 per day get an STD

and you almost never see it
244,661,900
contain sexually portrayed on TV or in the
explicit notes movies
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What is
intimacy? Does
TRUST
it mean having
sex?
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Aren’t my
hormones too
strong to wait? Isn’t If you have to have sex, use a condom
it unrealistic?
406 407
Human VS Animal How do I say

“No”?
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What is most helpful to Avoid sexual involvement

adolescents to avoid
sexual involvement? High level of
parent family
connectedness
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Avoid sexual involvement Avoid sexual involvement

Parental
relationships Parent
are more disapproval
powerful of pre-marital
than sex
hormones
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Avoid sexual involvement said there

is one person in
my life who
Parent took a personal
disapproval interest in me.
birth control
425 40% of the 80% said it was a teacher!

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NO!
I’m not a virgin…is it
too late for me?
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How can I be 1 John 2:1

and feel
forgiven? “My dear children, I write
this to you so that you will
not sin. But if anybody
does sin, we have one who
speaks to the Father…
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1 John 2:1 Hebrews 10:10-14

“And by that will, we have
…in our defense-Jesus been made holy through
Christ, the Righteous the sacrifice of the body of
One.” Jesus Christ once for all.
Day after day every
priest…
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Hebrews 10:10-14 Hebrews 10:10-14

…stands and performs his …priest had offered for all
religious duties; again and time one sacrifice for sins,
again he offers the same he sat down at the right
sacrifices, which can never hand of God. Since that
take away sins. But when time he waits for his
this… enemies…
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FALLS
Hebrews 10:10-14 Psalm 51:1-4a

…to be made his footstool, “Be gracious to me, O God,
because by one sacrifice according to Your loving
he has made perfect kindness; according to the
forever those who are greatness of Your
being made holy.” compassion blot out my
transgressions…
435 436
Psalm 51:1-4a Psalm 51:1-4a

…Wash me thoroughly
from my iniquity and “…Against You, You only, I
cleanse me from my sin. have sinned and done
For I know my what is evil in Your sight.”
transgression, and my sin
is ever before me…
437 438
Psalm 32:3-5 Psalm 32:3-5

“When I kept silent about …my vitality was drained
my sin, my body wasted away as with the fever
away through my groaning heat of summer. I
all day long. For day and acknowledge my sin to
night Your hand was heavy you, and my iniquity I did
upon me;… not hide;…
439 440
FALLS
Psalm 32:3-5 1 John 1:9

“If we confess our sins, He
…I said, ‘I will confess my is faithful and righteous to
transgression to the Lord; forgive us our sins and to
and You forgave the guilt cleanse us form all
of my sin.” unrighteousness.”
441 442
Psalm 103:12 How do you know God’s

will?
“As far as the east is from
the west, so far has he
removed our
transgressions from us.”
443 444
1 Thessalonians 4:1-3 1 Thessalonians 4:1-3

“Finally then, brethren, we …ought to walk and please
request and exhort you in God (just as you actually
the Lord Jesus, that as you do walk), that you excel
received from us still more. For you know
instruction as to how you… what commandments…
445 446
FALLS
1 Thessalonians 4:1-3 1 Thessalonians 4:4

…we gave you by the authority “…that each of you know
of the Lord Jesus. For this is how to possess his own
the will of God, your vessel in sanctification and
sanctification; that is, that you
honor, not in lustful
abstain from sexual
immorality.” passion…”
447 448
1 Thessalonians 4:4-7 1 Thessalonians 4:4-7

…and that NO MAN …and solemnly warned you.
TRANSGRESS AND DEFRAUD For God has not called us for
HIS BROTHER in the matter the purpose of impurity, but in
because the Lord is the sanctification.”
avenger in all these things, just
as we also told you before…
449 450
1. Find a good friend with the same

How do I face peer commitment about sex.
pressure?
452
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FALLS
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

“Two people can …If one person falls, the
accomplish more than other can reach out and
twice as much as one; the help. But people who are
get a better return for their alone when they fall are in
labor… real trouble.”
453 454
2. Write down your commitment to 3. Practice assertiveness

abstain from sex
455 456
4. Make sure your values are 5. Don’t get involved with

known to anyone you date or someone who doesn’t share
grow close with. your values.
457 458
FALLS
1 Corinthians 15:33 6. Plan your dates to avoid difficult

situations.
“Bad company corrupts good

character.”
459 460
7. Avoid alcohol and drugs. Aside 8. Introduce your date to your

from all other obvious risks, parents.
they will impair your judgment
and make tough decisions more
difficult.
461 462
9. Limit the amount of physical 10. Find a friend that will reinforce
contact. good decisions.
463 464
FALLS
Come-Ons
The Line:
“Everyone is doing it.”
&
Come-Backs
492 493
The Line:
“Everyone is doing it.”
The Line:
“If you loved me you’d let me.”
REALITY:
“Then it shouldn’t be too
hard to find someone
else.” 494 495
The Line:
“If you loved me you’d let me.”
The Line:
“Let me make a MAN out of
REALITY: you.”
“If you really loved me,

you wouldn’t ask!”
496 497
FALLS
The Line: The Line:

“Let me make a MAN out of you.” “Let me make a MAN out of you.”
REALITY: REALITY:
“What does sex have to do A 12 YEAR OLD BOY
with being a man?” CAN HAVE SEX
498 499
A DOG Wedding Ring…
CAN HAVE SEX just a piece of metal?

500 501
Marriage license… The Line:

“Your body doesn’t know if it is
married or not.”
just a piece of paper???

502 503
FALLS
The Line: The Line:

“If you don’t, it means you don’t love me.”
“If you don’t, it means you

don’t love me.” REALITY:
“Just you saying that
shows you don’t love me.”
504 505
The Line: The Line:

“All your friends are doing it.”
“All your friends are doing it.”

REALITY:
“Then go out with one of
my friends.”
506 507
The Line:
“No one wants to marry an
inexperienced girl.”
“We need to see if we

are compatible.”
508 509
FALLS
The Line:
“No one wants to marry an inexperienced girl.”
The Line:
“You don’t know what you’re
REALITY: missing.”
“I guess I will be an
exception.”
510 511
The Line:
“You don’t know what you’re missing.”
The Line:
“I can’t help myself.”
REALITY:
“I guess that will make
two of us.”
512 513
The Line:
“I can’t help myself.”
The Line:
“I love you so much.”
REALITY:
“If you can’t help yourself
now, how can you later?”
514 515
FALLS
The Line:
“I love you so much.”
The Line:
“It just happened.”
REALITY:
“Do you love me enough
to wait?”
516 517
The Line:
“It just happened.”
The Line:
“It’s so beautiful.”
REALITY:
“Sex doesn’t just
happen…it is a choice and
don’t you ever forget 518 519
that!”
The Line: The Line:

“It’s so beautiful.” “It’s so beautiful.”
REALITY: REALITY:
“It’s so beautiful
it’s worth “I know. If it weren’t
beautiful before marriage, it
waiting for.”
wouldn’t be beautiful after
520 marriage.” 521
FALLS
The Line:
“Your body doesn’t know if it is married or not.”
REALITY:
“In fact, it is so beautiful; it is “What proves you are grown up
worthy patiently waiting for.” is deciding what is right and
sticking to your beliefs.”
522 523
“…any time I want to.”

© John Robert Woods
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526 527
FALLS
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