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aren't worth much then women will sense this and treat
you accordingly. If you sincerely believe that you are
Some men have struggled with an inferiority complex for
treats you like shit and you allow this then she will start
seeing you as shit. Don't be around people who put you
down because that leads to having compromised self-
esteem and confidence levels. By creating an
environment that is conducive to personal growth, you
I don't care what your past was. I don't care about how
YOUR LIFE.
If what you're saying bores you, it will bore her too. Talk
about what you actually find interesting and amusing –
your sense of fun will spillover.
The first approach of the day is the hardest. But after you
do a couple, you're warmed up + in the zone, and they flow
easily.
Lover game gets the prime party. Provider game gets the
left overs - if any.
Be original. Wit and authenticity are king. But dont try too
hard.
How you feel, is how you act. Hence, getting into right
emotional state prior to approaching is advisable. Or get
into state by doing throw-away sets.
"We will not go quietly into the night. We will not vanish,
without a fight."- Independents' Day
"The game is often won or lost before you even start the
conversation." - LS
"Complimenting her looks is often a waste of time and just
lumps you in with other guys. Find other qualities of hers
that you like."- LS
Confidence is certainty.
"When youre spitting Game with girls keep it all light and
fun. Dont delve into heavy topics."- CQ on Night Club
Game:
Signs she likes you:If you drop the conversation, she tries
to reinitiate by asking by a normal, social question. (Hint:
take over).
She NEEDS you to fill more holes than just one.This is true
metaphorically and literally.
Don't play the game by the rules that she sets You set the
rules;she enters an interaction with you on YOUR
TERMS.Part of being a dominant leader is having the
STRONGER FRAME.
Guys are constantly looking for the perfect pickup line, but
its not WHAT you are saying that matters the most, but
HOW you are saying it that MATTERS THE MOST. Do you
speak as if you a nervous, timid, shy beggar or do you
speak with fierce conviction, & pure belief in yourself?
Her day is boring AF. Add some joy to her life and a smile
across her face, by approaching and sharing the emotional
value that you have to offer to the world.
The goal of opening is to buy time for the PUA to play the
game. Capture her attention long enough to display a high-
value personality.
If you feel sexy, you'll act sexy. You must become a master
manager of your emotions because state control is 80% of
game.
Compliance TestIf you do what she tells you to do, she will
literally hate you for it. Don't be her bitch slave.
Mindset: I don't really care if I get her or not, either way I'm
having fun and learning. Always enjoying + no fear of
failure.
Rejection may hurt more than hell itself but it will teach
you better than any book ever could. Never forget the
experience and its lessons.
Women only want men that are better than them. Hence,
having higher social status is imperative. See yourself as
possessing higher value.
Never give up your power or social status just to make her
feel comfortable. Some tension is good. Lowering yourself
= rejection.
You can't chase what you already have. Create a void for
her to chase you.She'll rush to overcome obstacles and fill
in the gaps to get you.
Cut off bad leads to make room for the good leads. Instead
of pursuing dead-end red lights, invest the time in
pursuing yellow/green lights.
Even the best pickup lines in the world, won't work if your
delivery is off.
It's not the words that matter. It's the EMOTIONS behind
the words.
"What gets you the girl is the way you make her FEEL."-
Sinn
"The number one rule for daygame is: get an instant date
or DIE. That is a HUGE thing: especially for walking sets."-
Sinn
Tease her. Bring her down in a funny way. This will create
the illusion that you are higher than her in social status.
If you're in a bad mood then you will leak bad game. some
way to quickly pump up your emotional state. Get in the
To get women, act like a man who usually gets women and
already has them in his lifestyle. Social skills imply social
proof.
Men of action are sexy. They know what they want and go
after it.1) ambition2) drive/motivation3) vision4) daily goals
5) assertive
You can only get offended if you place value on her words.
Reframe: Don't take bratty five year olds seriously.
THIS IS TRUTH.
Be unpredictable.
The "I've seen this already. Been there. Done that" anchor
triggers boredom.In contrast, NOVELTY is exciting.
REMEMBER how you act around girls that you are not
attracted to. Then ACT THE SAME WAY around sexually
appealing females.
Signs she likes you:She lets you get away with doing
anything (boundary-less) without protest because she
doesn't want to risk losing you.
Oneitis TestIf you feel like you can't walk away then you're
emotionally compromised.
"If you treat a woman like its totally normal to have sex
without commitment, she will adapt to that frame."- Sinn
Signs she likes you:1) When you move in very close, she
doesn't flinch or pull back.2) She waits for you.
You can break all the rules and make countless mistakes
but still get the girl in the end. Value is relative to what she
is feeling NOW.
How to NOT open:1. Stand far away2. Divert gaze (even for
a second)3. Emotionless face4. Weak, timid, nervous
tonality5. Running away
Its not what you say, its the energy behind how you say it.
The Feeling Good vibe is superior to the actual content
being used.
"Often it's not the opener that matters but the vibe (being
comfortable and fun), and the microcalibration skills."-
Revelations
psychological abuse
Girls just want to have fun. Make her feel good and she will
beg to be around you.
Basic social skills are the glue that allow advanced pickup
tactics to work. Learn to the basics of running prior to
trying parkour.
"The more you jump through hoops, the less inclined she
is to have sex w/ you."- McQueenPass compliance tests
by NOT doing what she asks.
Where do you meet these hot girls that dont like to grind
on random cock every weekend? DAYGAME.
Revealing flashes of anger tells her that she has all the
power. You already care too much. Better to be aloof.
It's easier to seduce a girl that's mad at you than a girl that
simply doesn't care about anything that you have to say.
Strategical enrage.
Science, bitch.
She doesn't know what's best for her. Ironically doing what
she tells you to do will often make her like you less.
Women are like talent scouts. They seek out those who are
on a path to greatness and have great potential.
The game is only won in the field. Get the fuck out of the
house. Go to where the beautiful women gather. Interact
with some of them. Repeat every day. You get good at
something by doing it a lot, and doing it consistently.
"I need to do the RIGHT THING and sleep with that really
nice guy because I owe him sex after all the favors that he
has done for me. After all, he is submissive and makes me
feel powerful" is not how western women operate.
Rejecting girls that are time wasters isnt always easy but it
is necessary. By cutting off the time-diggers, you will have
more time for generating new leads, or on following up
with other leads.
SUBZERO FUCKS
Create a soulmate bond that will have her feeling like this...
She hates the jerk but her body can't help but be
magnetically pulled towards him. The jerk is bad for her
but she can't help herself.
Aukeyto
Once the PUA triggers her primal emotions, they will over-
ride her logical brain and she will cave in.
Until the hookpoint, the PUA does most of the talking and
fills in awkward silences. After the hookpoint, stfu.
"With that dress, 9 out of 10 men would let you get away
with anything."- Batman V Superman Dawn of Justice
You can't seduce her if she doesnt care about what you
have to say.Use negs to get her emotionally involved in the
social interaction.
Women are only attracted to men that are better than them.
Be cooler than her. Lead. Have the stronger frame. Be
higher in social status.
Men "use" women for sex. Women use men for energy and
good emotions. Mutually beneficial exchange of value.
Be uplifting.Not exhausting.
When she wants you most, pull away a bit. Then watch her
chase after you harder than you've ever seen. In seduction,
timing is everything.
Be higher energy than her. This way you are boosting her
spirits instead of draining them. Be a source of fuel.
Always strike during the heat of the moment. If you wait for
it to cool, she may no longer be emotionally engaged
enough for it to work.
Read the intent behind her actions and words. Often you
will find a deeper meaning that reveals her motives.
Develop a personality.
"Press Conference 101: You want to answer their question
with your own question and then that answer THAT
question."- Zootopia
If you can get her mad, then her unconscious deems you
important. Those who have no value in our eyes, possess
no emotional influence.
When you are fearless of losing the girl then she has no
power over you. Always remember: the one who can walk
away holds the power.
She doesnt have the time to get know every guy that
crosses her path. Hence, she has to make instant status
assessments within seconds to see if a man is worth
further investing in. This is why your body-language,
confidence and fashion have to be ON-POINT.
The harder she works for you, the more she will value the
cock once you finally submit.
What do women want?A guy that can make her feel good.
Be an emotional drug. She will use you to boost her spirits.
Don't chase. Meet her half way. Let her come to you.
Look closer.
LIKA BOSS.
Don't ask her if she's in a rush. Just assume that she has
the time to speak with you. Assume attraction.
YOU ARE ENOUGH, AS IS. There are females that will fuck
you right now. What are you waiting for?
REFUSE TO LOSE.
"Whatever you may know, you don't know shit until they're
in your bed. So study on." - VK
What is the best way to learn game?By going out. The
more you practice, the better you get and the greater your
understanding.
Ignore what she says. Look to see what she does. Words
merely express the consious. Actions reveal the
unconscious.
"Women only fuck guys that are better than them. Look
around. Tell me if you see any girls choosing guys that are
'beneath' them."- JC
"The more selfish you are in bed, the longer she'll stick
around."- Sharp
"If she wishes to act like you are her slave bc she is of the
fairer sex, laugh at her.You can find her a puppy who will
follow orders "-DR
Open strong.
You will learn more from approaching a single girl than you
would from reading a dozen tweets on how to approach
girls.
Did you ever see a beautiful woman only a few feet away
but you were too scared to say or do anything? A decade
ago, that was me; I felt TRAPPED like a thirsty man in a
desert surrounded by water he can't drink.
Diverge
You may only have a few moments. Ask "How can I make
her life better today?" Add value to become valuable.
Raise the bar.
Pump up her emotions SKY HIGH and she will melt like
butter in your arms.
"I creep them out but they like it. They just can't handle it
consciously."- Dan Cilley
Daygame venue choice: FAIL. Might as well be living on a
deserted island.
Danger is exciting.
"Hold her hand and walk her to your car. Dont ask; assume
that shes getting in. Dont volunteer that youre taking her
home."- LS
It's not the length of your sword that matters, it's how you
stab with it.
Pay very close attention and you'll notice that she will drop
subtle hints on how she should be seduced. What does
she emotionally react to?
Signs she likes you:What you say and do has a huge sway
over her emotions. We only emotionally react to people
and opinions we value.
NICE GUY TRAPDon't sacrifice social status in order to
make her feel more comfortable or to release tension.
Sexual tension is good.
Instant date
"Acting and the pick up arts are brother and sister."- Arash
Dibazar
Don't be the guy who waits around for weeks (or even
months) to make a move. Life is too short to be trapped in
this "perpetual indirectness and sluggish progress". Blow
me, or blow me out. The enemy of pickup-artistry is the
time-wasting girls. GROW SOME BALLS AND MAKE A
MOVE
Always be escalating towards higher levels of intimacy -
verbal, physical, emotional and logistical.Life is too short
to be as slow as a slug.HIT THE PEDAL TO THE METAL IN
EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO.
"If they mimic you then you are in rapport with them."-
Bryan Casella, Close The Deal
UNWAVERING EYECONTACT
Feeling stressful before a daytime approach is normal.
Don't let that emotion stop you; feel it and go in
anyways...
Hang out with those who are cooler than you. You will
learn more this way. Better to be a fox among lions than a
leader among losers.
Time is limited, life is short and you only live once. If you
see something you like, go after it. Cute girl? Talk to
her.
Women will have sex in order to boost their ego and obtain
the ultimate validation that confirms her beauty.
SURVIVAL OF THE FITTESTFemales are biologically
predisposed to mate with males who display Fitness
Indicators.
REJECT the girls who lack sexual potential. Use that time
on girls that actually have sexual potential.
She kept giving hints that she was "single and ready to
mingle".
TRAIN EVERYDAY.
Emotions fade with time. You must strike before the iron
cools down. If not, then refresh attraction all over
again.
"A good day game approach looks like two people just
talking & having fun to the untrained eye. The seduction
happens below the surface."
Men will shit test other men for the sake of sizing them
up.Ironically, men get into pickup theory for the purpose of
getting women but end up being better with men - just as
much. Why? Because a large part of learning the game is
about learning basic people skills.
BUILD YOURSELF.
It's better to hang out w/ guys that have more game than
you than admiring, virgin losers. We are influenced by the
company we keep.
Hanging out with low-value male friends will make the PUA
seem low value as well. Guilty by association.
Don't try to prove your value. Just assume that you have
value. Attempting to brag or overtly impress actually has
the opposite effect.
sex algorithm
"For women, hanging out with a Bad Boy is like taking a hit
of pure crack cocaine...she instantly wants more. She
needs more."- DC
Marketing hype like this tricks guys into thinking that they
can get good w/ women by just reading a few
books.
Not all questions that she asks are out of curiosity. Some
are designed to shift the power dynamic to her favor, by
qualifying you.
Rehearse the conversation piece outloud multiple times.
Think of responses that she can give to it; have good
comebacks in place.
Exploiting a gimmick
Don't allow PUA to take over your entire life bc it will lead
to weak inner-game. Also work on health, finances
etc.
Why go direct?(1) It is a time savor & often your only
option if there are real time constraints.(2) It allows for
long-distance walkups.
NOW.
When you project high-value, you will find that females will
find excuses to talk to you or be in your presence.
Frame: "I ONLY hang out with women who pass my strict
standards. Those who don't, are unworthy of my
time."
Confidence goes hand and hand with the element of
certainty.
The value you project, will determine the breed of fish you
will attract.
"If you think like a player, you start to get laid like a
player."- Bobby Rio
"He's a little bit cooler than other guys because he's been
doing this for a period of time. It's not that deep."- Tea
with Brad
The more exciting lifestyle you live, the better your stories
will be able to tell. Charming guys are great at storytelling
and are able to paint themselves as a MOTHERFUCKING
BOSS through the stories they tell - while captivating her
attention. Dont be a boring white canvas.
You should imply that you have wealth, status and social
proof without having to say it explicitly you should like me
because I am rich, successful and popular. The former is
smoother, and appears effortless.
"Most importantly, however, LIVE AN INTERESTING AND
FUN LIFESTYLE. This is something that all people (not just
women) are magnetically drawn to, and its something that
cannot be faked. Learn to follow your passions, have
hobbies, and become an interesting man overall."
You only live once. Take what you want and master the art
of not giving a fuck. Shamelessly approach women; do not
be ashamed of bystanders.
"Those with less value get treated one way and those with
more value get treated another."- Modern Seducer
Tailor the bait to the breed of fish. Tailor the value to the
personality type.
The greater the challenge, the more you will grow from
it.
Often "no" just means "not yet..." Sometimes girls will put
up resistance - even if they like you - just so they don't feel
EASY or SLUTTY.
Mistake: Going too direct too fast without first taking the
time to display personality and build attraction.
Mistake: Starting a dead-end conversation that doesn't
lead anywhere or build intrigue. No cliff-hangers
either.