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Stoic answers
CHUCK CHAKRAPANI
For more than a month now, I have been with all his other faults, has this as well: He is
living in Portugal. Prior to that, I spent some always getting ready to live.” Most of your
time in India. A friend of mine in Mumbai, fears are meaningless. Ignore them and start
whom I had known for a long time, asked me living now.
if I was still publishing THE STOIC
magazine. When I said yes, he said “Once How about our ultimate fear – the fear of
you have talked about Stoic principles, what death? Enda Harte has some suggestions to
more is left to say? Why are you still running offer but even more importantly he reminds
THE STOIC PROMISE the magazine?” us that we should not just remember death
(memento mori) but remember to live (memento
If you will listen to me, whoever you On the one hand he was right. He had a vivere). Remembering that we only have one
are, and whatever you are doing, point that I hadn’t thought about until he chance at life should help us focus on being
you will not feel suffering or anger, posed the question. After all, Stoic ethics can engaged, present, and aware of our natural
be fairly compact and can be explained in a surroundings. That’s the way to live and that’s
or compulsion, or hindrance. You relatively short time. When I started thinking the way to die.
will pass your time without worries. about his question I realized that, once we
EPICTETUS start applying the principles, our questions But while we are still living, does it matter
multiply. Often we don’t know where exactly where we live? Can our life be better if we
to look for an answer. For example, we may lived some place else? The standard Stoic
THE STOIC wonder, answer is that the place you live is irrelevant,
only how you live matters. Without
• How do I handle my fears?
Journal of The Stoic Gym challenging this view, our newest contributor,
Volume 5 Issue 3 • How do I think about death? Tanner Campbell, says our place of
March 2023 residence is a Stoic indifferent and there are
• Does it really matter where I live? occasions where it might make sense to
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• Are good intentions enough? change the location.
Editor • Why be a citizen of the world? Because Stoicism purports that we don’t
Dr. Chuck Chakrapani have control over the results of most our
Associate Editor Answers to questions like these are scattered actions, what really matters is our intention
Kai Whiting in Stoic literature, but it is not always easy to when we act. In his lively analysis, Brandon
find them when you need them. Some Tumblin agrees with this view and says if
answers are also a matter of interpretation of you continue to aim up, using the wisdom
Stoic principles. With that in mind, we have gained from all your failures to make
Published by TheStoicGym.com decided to let our regular contributors yourself better, and fully engage in that
answer some of the more often asked process of death and rebirth, that is what
Issued free online questions. allows your redemption no matter where you
Subscribe here started or currently are.
Whether we run corporations or wonder
where our next meal is coming from, we all Cosmopolitanism is one of the basic ideas
have fears. How should we handle them? pursued by the Stoics. Sharon Lebell explains
Seneca says that most of our fears never why it is particualry important right now. She
Follow us on come to pass and we fear more in says “By seeking to be citizens of the world,
www.TheStoicGym.com imagination than in reality. We exaggerate, or we free ourselves from the tyranny of self-
twitter @thestoicgym imagine, or anticipate sorrow. So his advice involvement. This is a crucial source of inner
Facebook: The Stoic Gym on how to get rid of fear is to ignore your freedom.”
fears (which may never come to pass) and Chuck Chakrapani
heed the advice of Epicurus: “The fool,

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Chuck Chakrapani. Stoic answers 2


Book Review. Journal like a Stoic 4
Sharon Lebell. Why be citizens of the world? 7
Tanner Campbell. Does it matter where you live? 8
Ende Harte. How to think about death? 9
Seneca. How to live with your fears? 11
Brandon Tumblin. Good intentions: the only thing that matters? 12

Regular features
Stoic every day. Stoic quotes for every day of the month 13
Stoic fellowships around the world 17

VOLUME 5 ISSUE 3 MARCH 2023


Journal Like a Stoic
BOOK REVIEW BY CHUCK CHAKRAPANI

Brittany Polat. Journal Like a Stoic


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You can get a lot out of Stoicism. But to get thinkers from Zeno to Marcus Aurelius. Brittany closes the book with this
a lot out, you have to put a lot in. “Living by observation: “the close of this course not
Stoic principles takes discipline and Then you start working on your journal. as an ending, but as a new beginning. You
introspection. In other words: it’s hard have everything you need to flourish.
work. To get something out of this process, For each of the 90 days, Brittany starts with You’ve cleared the ground and planted the
you need to put a lot into it,” says Brittany a quote from one of the three Roman Stoics: seeds for a life of wisdom and fulfillment.
Polat. To help us progress in our work, Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius. She How well you tend to those seeds is up to
Britttany has written a new book, Journal adds a brief commentary to the quote and you.”
Like a Stoic. Consider it as a roadmap to get asks a couple of questions/statements for
started on your Stoic journey. you to think about. Your job for the day is to Yes, indeed. Stoicism is a lifelong journey,
mull over the Stoic quote and then respond not a 90-day journaling course. The course
How is the book structured? to the issues highlighted by Brittany. There is lays down a strong foundation to build
at least one full blank page for each day for upon and it is for the reader to continue
The book is structured as a 3-month course you to keep your daily journal. of the journey.
in Stoicism:
(If you would like to take a peek into the What else should you know?
Course A: Examining the inner critic. book, please see THE STOIC, January 2023
Here you learn to cultivate clarity and issue, which includes extracts from the To get the most out of the book the
courage as you develop a healthier book.) author says that you should proceed in
relationship with your own mind. order because the book goes from simple
to complex ideas. The more consistent
How well does it cover Stoic
Course B: The road to acceptance. This your way, the more beneficial journaling
part teaches you to fully embrace your life,
principles? will be. Don’t be brief but fill in the empty
adapt to new challenges, and discover No two Stoic practitioners are likely to agree spaces provide for journaling. Make
profound acceptance of our beautiful, on quotes that summarize Stoic principles journaling a ritual to prepare your mind
unpredictable world. the best. So let me rephrase the question. Do for serious introspection. In short, to get
the quotes in the book summarize Stoicism the most of journaling, take it seriously!
Course C: Living with virtue. This part well? Assuming that our interest is in Stoic
strengthens your newfound wisdom with a ethics rather than Stoic physics or Stoic logic, Should you read it?
greater sense of purpose and peace, tapping this book is an excellent summary of Stoic
into your inner capacity for strength and principles. You should absolutely read the book,
kindness. especially if you are looking to start your
The value of Journal Like a Stoic is that it journey but not sure where to begin. The
90 quotes chosen by Brittany cover many
What is in this book? forces you to think about some of the
profound Stoic teachings. The comments of the important aspects of Stoic ethics
The book starts with a brief outline of the that follow the quotes are designed to focus and her commentary creates focal points
basic Stoic principles: The three areas of your attention even more to their for us to ponder. Journaling is not
Stoic inquiry (Logics, Physics, and Ethics), significance. Finally, writing your thoughts on everyone’s cup of tea, but if it yours you
and the four virtues (Wisdom, Justice, the subject makes it relevant to your life. The can’t go wrong with this book.
Courage, and Temperance). Then it gives a quotes are not impersonal anymore, it is
high-level overview of ancient Stoic guide for living your everyday life.

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By seeking to be citizens of the world, we free
ourselves from the tyranny of self-involvement.

SHARON
LEBELL Why be citizens of the world?

The call to be a citizen of the world is a North America, especially those ofPhoto by Fabrizio
us who Velez our desperate self-
Checking
foundational value infusing the history of have never served in the military, tend to centeredness
Western moral philosophy. Diogenes, elevate our rights as citizens over our
Cicero, Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus responsibilities as such. And the wider To view oneself as a citizen of the world is
Aurelius, among others, stressed the embracing idea of being a citizen of the more than a check on the evils of desperate
importance of seeing the world as a unity world easily becomes merely abstract or self-centeredness. A citizen is, after all, not
and viewing ourselves as cosmopolitans. daunting as a burden. merely an inhabitant of a location or state.
Cosmopolitanism is an antidote to the A citizen sees herself as a stake-holder, as
someone who proudly shapes, co-creates,
dangerous and stultifying effects of Not just a Stoic concept
provincial thinking. and upholds the principles, laws, values, and
When the ancient Stoics surveyed the rituals that are intended to enrich everyone.
What does it mean to view human landscape, they wisely observed the
ourselves as citizens of the world? ever present conflicting claims of A world-citizen is propelled by humility,
individualism and altruism animating us as because he knows that his own sympathies
What does it mean for us in the 21st century individuals and as societies. The image of and antipathies are hardly universal, but
to view ourselves as citizens of the world, the citizen of the world was not introduced idiosyncratic, and that while there are
and why would we want to do that? When I or espoused by the Stoics casually, but countless others who see the world
was in grammar school students not only rather as a supremely necessary way to differently from himself, they are just as
received grades in academics, but were also harmonize those seemingly contradictory deserving of the same regard, dignity, and
given marks in citizenship. I remember impulses. There is, I think, genius in this. opportunity as he wishes for himself and
being confused about the meaning of his own family and tribe.
citizenship. I guessed it had something to do Within each of us, the voice of the
with good behaviour and saluting the flag. I individual bellows the loudest, touting its A crucial source of inner wisdom
added voting to the mix when I got older. needs, wants, and preferences. Everything in
Still later on, I mistakenly conflated our immediate individual sensory The cosmopolitan uses his or her reason
citizenship with a kind of nationalism. experience reinforces the deep belief that and actions for the discernment of the
Many adults continue to hold views of we are the absolute center of the universe, largest moral interests of humanity. The
citizenship that are similarly nebulous or the most important story going on in the global citizen recognizes that in working for
misguided, especially those who have whole world. the better of all, we become better as
become politically cynical. individual souls, and the best for all is always
Consequently, how easy it is to mistakenly in sight. By seeking to be citizens of the
Several of my friends and associates are draw the conclusion that our feelings, our world, we free ourselves from the tyranny
civically-engaged, but even among this inconveniences, our pain, our anger, our of self-involvement. This is a crucial source
group, I don’t recognize too many people boredom, our longings, and our triumphs of inner freedom and the contented ease
who view citizenship as a fundamental part matter more than those of other people’s? that comes from knowing you are an
of their personal identity. Before Sadly, we know all too many people in our essential part of something at once worthy
considering citizenship and what citizenship personal lives and in the public eye who and greater than yourself.
asks of us, most of us think of ourselves as barrel through existence with such
parents, as members of a certain religion, as solipsistic assumptions, disregarding the Sharon Lebell is a founding member of the Walled
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Does it matter where you live?
In Stoicism a thing’s appropriateness or
inappropriateness is determined by context.

TANNER CAMPBELL
Recently, I’ve decided to take advantage of Milo, and yet I do not neglect my body; nor shall I role and the requirements associated with it.
the new Digital Nomad Visa program in be a Croesus, and yet I do not neglect my property;
Portugal. I am an American and American nor, in a word, do we neglect looking after anything What are one’s existing
politics have exhausted me. I’m not because we despair of reaching the highest degree.” responsibilities?
expatriating on a permanent basis, for now - Epictetus, Discourses (1.2.34)
I just want to live where I can find calm, What responsibilities does one have to one’s
inner-peace, and contentment in a place Not all humans can become the same thing. communities and fellow citizens? Perhaps
that isn’t the US. This doesn’t sound You may become a teacher, I may become a the would-be expatriate is charged with
particularly Stoic, does it? Escaping? Well, policeman, and another may become an caring for an elderly parent, or perhaps they
let’s see. author. This doesn’t mean the policeman are the Mayor of their town! Would
ignores their writing skills, or that the expatriating be abandoning these
Zeno’s Republic has no rules teacher ignores their physical fitness, but it responsibilities? Almost certainly.
does mean, as adults, there are things we’re
In the now lost work Republic, by Zeno of fit for doing and things we’re not. My answer: Your preferences
Citium, the ideal city has no rules.
According to Zeno, everything should be The changing of one’s geographic location
In his 2016 work, The Role Ethics of Epictetus,
reasoned in as close to real-time as possible. is, of course, an indifferent. It is either
Brian Johnson suggests, according to
Context matters. For example: It’s wrong to preferred or dispreferred only once one
Epictetus, four criteria by which one
run a red light at high noon in a busy city, determines the change’s impact on their
determines appropriate action:
but is it wrong to run a red light at 2am on character.
a lonely backcountry road when no one is 1. One’s capacities and competencies
around? So, returning to my immanent relocation
plans:
2. One’s responsibilities (to individuals and one’s
Generally speaking, rules are designed to community)
protect people from dispreferred outcomes. 1. My role in the Cosmopolis is as an
educator.
Running red lights is illegal because doing 3. One’s personal preferences
so can put others (and oneself) at risk. But 2. My competency is in educating.
if there is no risk present, then there’s no 4. Divine signs
one to protect; and if there’s no one to 3. My current responsibilities, to both
protect, is the rule still productive? community and country, respectively,
I feel we can safely exclude item 4 because, are to educate and to act as an
“divine signs” are hard to quantify or informed voter (responsibilities which
Zeno, I suspect, would have said no. qualify. However, if you’re trying to I can easily fulfill, regardless of my
determine the appropriateness or geographic location).
What does this have to do with inappropriateness of expatriation for
expatriation? Nothing. Not directly anyway. 4. My personal preference is to live
political reasons, items 1-3 are worth elsewhere for a few years.
Indirectly, however, I’m trying to make a examining.
point: in Stoicism a thing’s appropriateness
So, then, I can assert, confidently, that
or inappropriateness is determined by What are one’s capacities and relocating to Portugal for a few years is
context. In the case of expatriation, in
response to political exhaustion, Zeno’s
competencies? contextually appropriate for me.
Republic suggests this sort of decision will, Is one a teacher? Then, given the Stoic’s What about you? Could you expatriate from
depending on context, be sometimes Cosmopolitan view, it hardly matters where your country, or take a multi-year break, in
appropriate and other times inappropriate. in the world one lives as this role can be a Stoically appropriate way?
dutifully fulfilled most anywhere.
Determining what is appropriate
Is one a soldier? If so, it’s very likely a
In Epictetus’ words, Tanner is the host of the Practical Stoicism
requirement of the soldier role that those
podcast, co-author of the Daily Stoic Journaling
filling it permanently reside, when not
Is it true then that all horses become swift, that all program, and owner of Practical Philosophy.
deployed, in the country for which they are
dogs are skilled in tracking footprints? … He considers himself a "Stoicism Communicator"
filling the role of soldier. In such a case,
Epictetus is not superior to Socrates; but if he is not by trade and creates daily education content related
expatriating would be in conflict with this
inferior, this is enough for me; for I shall never be a to both Stoicism and philosophy in general.

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How to think about about death?
Memento Vivere (remember to live) is
another turn of phrase which is used to
remember that life must be lived and not
just endured. It’s also a way for us to
remind ourselves each day what is
important, who we are, and where we
stand in the world.

ENDA HARTE

Death is a subject that is often viewed as Premeditatio Malorum (the premeditation of times, meaning “remember you are mortal”:
taboo, but it is something that we all must evils). Whereby imagining that something or indeed “remember you will die”. It can
face at some point. We are fortunate bad has happened to you before it dawns on be an effective way to practise death
enough to have found wisdom in Stoicism, your doorstep can aid in taking the sting out contemplation subtly in our daily lives. It
and other parts of ancient philosophy that of said event. It’s a way for us to prepare has become quite the popular technique for
can help us deal with our fragile existence ourselves emotionally and mentally for feeling more grateful for what you have,
and could teach us how to live our lives in a unexpected events, such as death. and to appreciate life a little more.
way that is in preparation for death.
Using this technique can be beneficial in You can practise this by taking a moment
So, how can we deal with death? How can several ways. It can help you prepare for the every day to reflect on death and your own
we prepare for it and live our lives in a way worst, and make positive changes in your mortality. This can be done through
that is ready for death? Let’s have a look at life so that you don’t fall into bad habits. It meditation, writing in a journal, or having
some techniques, and words of wisdom can even be used as a form of therapy, to items on your person. It’s crucial not to
below. help us work through any issues that may be focus too much energy on these thoughts,
causing you to show concern in the first for instance a fleeting glance at a painting in
Death is inevitable place. my office is enough to motivate me.
The first thing that we must learn about However, like with everything in life, there You must live
death, is that it’s inevitable. Everyone and are some things we should keep in mind
everything in this world will sadly perish when using this technique. For example, it’s Now to the flip side of sounding quite
one day, including you and me. There are important to not get too wrapped up in morbid. The last thing we should learn
things that we can do to prolong our lives what could go wrong and forget about all about death is how it can help us live our
but at the end of the day, there will come a the good things going on in our lives, as well best life. We should not let death define
time when we will cease to exist and accept as the things that would happen if nothing who we are as individuals because life goes
our fate (amor fati). Some of the Stoic happened at all. on. It’s important to live your life with
philosophers believe that death should not meaning and purpose, and the only way to
be feared because it is natural, it’s do this is by cultivating a strong character
Preparing for death
something that we all have to experience in through the practice of living well, and with
this life. The second thing we must learn about good intention in what you do.
death is how to prepare for it. The key here
With a unique way of thinking, we should is to live our lives in a way that is accepting Memento Vivere (remember to live) is another
not waste our lives fearing death because of death. With this in mind you should not turn of phrase which is used to remember
that will only make us miserable. If we be afraid of dying, instead, you should that life must be lived and not just endured.
instead learn to accept death, in theory at focus on living each day as if it’s your last. It’s also a way for us to remind ourselves
least then we can live more happily and By doing this, you will have no regrets and each day what is important, who we are, and
peacefully. If you are uncomfortable with will have lived your life in the best way where we stand in the world. Remembering
the thought of dying, one thing to try is to possible. We’ve come to know all the that we only have one chance at life should
start meditating on your mortality by mantras and clichéd sayings based on this help us focus on being engaged, present,
contemplating the people that have died statement, although there is one which I and aware of our natural surroundings.
before you. By doing this, you’ll be able to find particularly potent.
realise how precious, and valuable life is. Enda Harte is a music management consultant
Memento Mori, a topic I’ve covered at length, living in Sweden. He writes about Stoic ethics and
This falls under the ancient practice of is an ancient exercise dating back to Roman history online.

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How to live with your fears?
More things are likely to frighten us, than
to crush us; we suffer more often in
imagination than in reality.
SENECA
Difficulties test our strength there any evil involved or is it just a matter some ambiguous word and gives it the
of reputation?” Then ask yourself “Am I worst possible interpretation. Or it
We can never be sure of our strength until suffering for no reason? Am I miserable? imagines that some personal grudge is
we have faced many difficulties that come Am I making something bad when it is more serious than it really is. There is
to us from every side and until the moment not?” nothing so certain among these things to
when they have come quite close. This is fear. It is more certain that the things we
the test of such a spirit: no fighter can go
with high spirits into the contest if he has
How to know fear sink into nothing and that things we
never been beaten badly. if you are imagining things hope for cause pain. When the situation is
uncertain, decide in your favour and
You may say, “How am I to know whether believe what you prefer. If fear wins the
Our imaginary fears my sufferings are real or imaginary?” Here majority of the votes, go in the other
is the rule: We are troubled by things that direction anyway.
More things are likely to frighten us, than have happened already, things that may
to crush us; we suffer more often in happen in the future or both. As to what is
imagination than in reality. I am not You can win
happening now, the decision is easy. If your
speaking with you as a Stoic but in my even if the worst happens
body is free and healthy and you are not in
natural style. It is our Stoic style to dismiss pain from any injury, today there is nothing You may say, “Perhaps the worst won’t
things that provoke cries and groans as wrong with it. We can wait to see what may happen. But you must say “Well, what if it
unimportant and not worth noticing. You happen in the future. does happen? Let’s who wins. Perhaps it
and I should drop such great words even will happen for my best interests. Such a
though, heaven knows, they are true. I
advise you not to be unhappy before the How to deal with death will bring honour to my life.” It was
crisis comes. The things you fear as if imaginary dangers the hemlock that made Socrates great.
Take away from Cato, the vindicator or
thought they were impending may never Somehow or other, it is the idle reports liberty, his sword, and you take away of
happen. Certainly, they have not happened that disturb us most. Real dangers have much of his glory.
yet. inherent limits. But things that arise from
uncertainty are given over to guesswork The fool is always
Some things torment us more than they and unrestrained anxiety. Let us look at this
should; some earlier than they should; and “preparing” to live
carefully. We will likely face some troubles
some when they should not torment us at in the future. But it is not true as of now. As I end this letter, I only have put the seal
all. We exaggerate, or imagine, or anticipate How often has the unexpected happened! upon it; that is, to commit some noble
sorrow. Let us put off the first of these How often has the expected never message to be delivered to you: “The fool,
three faults because it is still under happened! Even if it is certain to happen, with all his other faults, has this as well: He
discussion and the jury is out on that what good is it to run out to meet it? You is always getting ready to live”. Think, my
question. Something I call trivial is serious will suffer soon enough when it comes. esteemed Lucilius, what this saying means
in your estimation. I know that some Meanwhile, look forward to better things. and you will understand how sickening it is
people will laugh when whipped while What do you gain by doing this? Time. that people are fickle, every day laying new
others groan when just slapped. foundations for life, building fresh hopes
Many things will happen in the meanwhile even when they are about to die.
Do not go by that may help you avoid the approaching
other people’s opinions danger. Even if the danger is near or Look within your own mind for individual
already at hand, you may be able to cases. You will think of old men preparing
Do me a favour. When people around you postpone, end, or pass on to another themselves for a political career, for travel,
try to convince you that you are unhappy, person. The fire has an escape route. or for business. What is lower than getting
don’t listen to what they say but consider People have been let down softly by a ready to live when you are already old? I
how you actually feel. Question yourself catastrophe. Perhaps it will happen, would not name the author of this saying
because you know your affairs better than perhaps it won’t. But it is not happening except that it is a one of the less famous
anyone else. Ask yourself “Why are these now. So look forward to better things. sayings of Epicurus, which I allowed
people commiserating with me? Why myself to praise and to take over.
should they be worried? Why should they At times, even when there are no signs to
be afraid even to come into contact with indicate that there is anything bad on the Condensed and rendered into plain English -
me, as though troubles are contagious? Is way, the mind imagines false things. It takes Seneca Moral Letters 13

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Good intentions: -
BRANDON
TUMBLIN
the only thing
that matters?
Is aiming up all that really matters? Is it trying to hit the mark. The opposite – say, a That’s not to say that you should get angry
entirely irrelevant if we fail, make mistakes, false mistake – is one in which we’re not and yell at them, but they should certainly
are stupid, or miss the mark given that we aiming up. be served justice.
have good intentions? There’s a core idea in
Stoicism that intentions are everything. Let’s say your kid tries to help you with Closing remarks
What this means in practice is that the pouring your drink and then drops the jug
outcome – good or bad – is entirely of orange juice and makes a huge mess. It’s We all have different starting points. Some
irrelevant (morally speaking, of course) not a good thing to get mad at the kid for of us were born into wealth, others into
given that we have maximized our agency. that; it was an honest mistake. They were poverty. Some of us have had great parents,
Tied in with this idea is that it doesn’t trying to do something kind for you – pour others abusive. Some of us have many
matter where we start in life; we can always you a drink. But they are insufficient. They people that believe in us, others have no
improve and get better. But why is this so are incompetent. They don’t have the one. That starting point is not fair. It’s a
vital for the Stoic? dexterity to pull that off, even though it’s a false narrative that we all start in the same
very simple task for adults. place; we do not, though our society aims to
make it such. We’re not quite there.
Failures and more failures
Malicious intent – when we aim
We all know that one person at work who is However, that starting point doesn’t truly
simply not good at their job. They always
down matter. What matters is that you aim up.
make mistakes, they ask the same questions What if, on the other hand, they picked up What matters is that you have good
repeatedly, and yet, they never get fired. the orange juice jug and purposefully threw intentions. And that’s no easy thing – it’s not
Why? Well, it could be because the it down on the floor in anger? That, likely, hard to let your failures and perhaps terrible
company is bad at firing people, and that’s a would give you an opportunity to practice starting point imbitter you. But if you
real thing. But I think mostly it’s because Stoicism to deal with your anger, but continue to aim up, using the wisdom
these people are trying to get better. They hopefully, you would realize that it is not gained from all your failures to make
are aiming up. That seems to be the only fair to get angry at the kid for that. yourself better, and fully engage in that
real form of redemption for your process of death and rebirth, that is what
insufficiency – continuing to have good You see, it seems that we should have all the allows you redemption no matter where you
intentions no matter how often you miss patience in the world for people – no matter started or currently are.
the mark. how frustrating the outcome – when they
make honest mistakes. The outcome sucks, Brandon is most well-known for his podcast, The
Honest mistakes but the intentions are pure, and that is Strong Stoic Podcast, where he discusses
redemptive. However, what we don’t have philosophical ideas both solo and with guests. He
There’s a term we use called “an honest patience for is when people aim down when
mistake”. An honest mistake is a mistake also coaches individuals to help them be their best
people purposefully cause damage. selves, writes articles, plays music, manages projects,
that was made despite good intentions. It’s
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Stoic every day
Stoic quotes for every day of the month
1 8

When people hold absurd opinions about things not in their control, When you are offended by someone’s shameless behaviour, ask
taking them to be good and bad, they will of course grovel before yourself, “Can there be a world without shameless people?” [Marcus
powerful people. [Epictetus D1.19] Aurelius, M9.42]

2 9

Why don’t you use what is in your power to be a free human being? Credulity makes the most mischief. Most of the time, you shouldn’t
Why be a slave of things not in your power? [Marcus Aurelius, even listen. In some matters, it’s better to be deceived than to
M9.40] mistrust. [Seneca, A1.24]

3 10

We need to suspend our anger. We can still inflict a postponed When it comes to our poor ruling faculty, we yawn and go back to
punishment but cannot recall an inflicted one. [Seneca, A1.22] sleep, accepting every impression that comes our way. It does not
occur to us that this will affect us in any way. [Epictetus D1.20]
4
11
Our most important job is to test our impressions and accept only
those that pass the test. [Epictetus D1.20] Nature has indeed given us many antidotes, such as gentleness to
meet brutality and other antidotes for other ills. [Marcus Aurelius,
5. M9.42]

Focus fully on doing what is in front of you and the resources you 12
have to accomplish that. [Marcus Aurelius, M9.41]
You should totally get rid of suspicion and guesswork. They are the
6 most unreliable goads to anger. [Seneca, A1.24]

The more uncommon moderation is among kings, the more it 13


deserves to be praised. [Seneca, A1.23]
Compare your attitude towards physical blindness with blind
7 judgments. You will see that you are far from having the feelings that
you should have in relation to good and evil. [Epictetus D1.20]
Whenever we believe it makes a difference, whether we get
something right or wrong, we must play close attention and 14
distinguish those things that might mislead us. [Epictetus D1.20]
None of those who you are hurt by can damage your mind, which
is the only harm. [Marcus Aurelius, M9.42]

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Doubt will discover evidence to support it. What we need are Once you have done someone a service, what more do you want?
directness and kindly judgment. Let’s believe nothing except what Aren’t you happy enough that you followed the laws of nature? Are
stares us in the face and is caught red-handed. [Seneca, A1.24] you also expecting to be paid for it? That’s like the eye expecting a
reward for seeing, or the feet for walking. [Marcus Aurelius, M9.42]
16
24
When someone is properly grounded in life, they shouldn’t have to
look outside themselves for approval. [Epictetus D1.21] If you are angry with the waiter for icing your drink badly, will you
be able to endure hunger and the thirst of a summer campaign?
17 [Seneca, A1.25]

So, what is surprising or wrong about boors behaving boorishly? 25


Shouldn’t you rather blame yourself for not anticipating that they
would behave this way? [Marcus Aurelius, M9.42] [We] must not respect or approve anything that does not share in the
nature of what is good. [Epictetus D1.23]
18 26
We should not let petty and trivial things aggravate us. It is crazy to A human being is born to be kind. When you have done something
lose our temper because the servant is not quick, the water is kind or something else for the common good, you have done what
lukewarm, the couch is disarranged, or our table carelessly set. you are made for. You get what is your own. [Marcus Aurelius,
[Seneca, A1.25] M9.42]
19 27

Conflicts arise because of the way we apply our preconceived ideas Nothing feeds anger more than an excessive and dissatisfied luxury.
differently to individual cases. The same person may be judged as We should toughen the mind by treating it rigorously, so it doesn’t
brave by one but as reckless by another. This is how conflict arises. feel any blow that is not severe [Seneca, A1.25]
[Epictetus D1.22]
28
20
It is difficulties that show what a person is made of. [Epictetus
Whenever you think of someone as untrustworthy or ungrateful, D1.24]
turn your thoughts to yourself. It is clearly your mistake if you
thought that such people would behave in any other way. [Marcus 29
Aurelius, M9.42]
My soul, will you ever be good, simple, whole, all open, as plain to
21 see as the body that surrounds you? Will you never enjoy the
sweetness of a loving and affectionate heart? [Marcus Aurelius
Why should we be driven to frenzy by anyone’s coughing and M10.1]
sneezing, or by a fly being chased without care, or by a dog’s hanging 30
about us, or a key dropping from a careless servant’s hand? [Seneca,
A1.25] We cannot call anything a wrong unless it is done intentionally.
[Seneca A1.26]
22
31
To be properly educated means learning to apply our natural
preconceptions to events, according to nature – distinguishing what Death is no evil, because it is not dishonourable. Reputation is the
is in our power and what is not in our power. [Epictetus D1.22] empty noise of fools. [Epictetus 1.24]

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