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Kathleen Blackwood
ENGL/WMNST 194
When envisioning the patriarchy and the way it harms women, the image conjured is one
of a man directly oppressing a woman. And, certainly, men, specifically cisgendered, white,
able-bodied, heteronormative, and wealthy men, do abuse women. It is seen when a man verbally
assaults his wife. It is seen when a man sexually assaults a woman. It is seen when the system,
one founded by and for men, limits women from certain jobs, lifestyles, forms of dress, equal
pay, and countless other boundaries. The patriarchy’s survival and domination is not solely
dependent on men, however – it is also dependent on women. There are women of privilege,
such as white women or wealthy women, who turn against other women and join in men in
oppressing them to advance their own positions within the hierarchy of the patriarchy. As long as
there are countless women beneath them, these women will be safer in their marriages, families,
and greater society, and will live a far more comfortable life. Though it can be unintentional,
ignorant oppression, this betrayal of fellow, marginalized women can also be a conscious choice,
even if not necessarily malicious, but rather out of survival instincts. Nella Larsen’s Clare Bellew
and F. Scott Fitzgerald’s Daisy Buchanan are both characters that represent the same kind of
woman, a “white” feminist, who uses the patriarchal system to her advantage to put down other
women and therefore increase her standing, as is displayed through the excusal of their
husbands’ racist words and actions, their relationships with their daughters and their view of
femininity, and their interactions with other women in their lives, even those they are “close”
with.
In The Great Gatsby, Daisy’s husband, Tom Buchanan, is almost immediately introduced
as the stereotypical masculine figure - physically strong, aggressive, and with “a cruel body,”
with Daisy a perfect contrast to him, the perfectly feminine and demure wife (Fitzgerald 8). A
rich, sexist, racist, abusive, and arrogant man, he depends on dominance over his wife and other
men around him to maintain his ego. His impassioned racist remarks reflect that need for control
that he possesses. In spite of, and likely also due to, her husband’s abuse towards her, when in
public, Daisy supports Tom and his beliefs, even though they are disgustingly sexist and racist.
For example, while Tom is discussing a book on eugenics that he read to Nick, Daisy makes a
‘It’s up to us, who are the dominant race, to watch out or these other races will have
control of things.’
‘We’ve got to beat them down,” whispered Daisy, winking ferociously toward the
Daisy, and all of the women in the novel, are victims of the patriarchy and the men in their lives,
and it makes sense for Daisy to say something in defense of herself and the lifestyle she wishes
to maintain through her marriage. This is not a justification for her excusal of and participation in
her husband’s racism, because, as we see later in the novel, Daisy has the ability to go against her
husband - she has an affair without Tom’s knowledge or consent. When an issue does not pertain
to her selfish interests in upholding the life she has made, such as racism, she agrees with Tom,
giving it hardly any thought. Daisy’s reasoning is complex, but no matter the intention - even to
keep herself safe - the consequences are the continued white supremacist notions in her husband
Though Clare Bellew is a Black woman, while Daisy is white, their lives and husbands
are incredibly similar, particularly due to Clare’s passing as white. Like Tom, John is a white and
wealthy man who is active in high society, while also being a violently racist man. The first time
he meets Irene, the narrator of the novel, he says “I don’t dislike [Black people], I hate them,”
unaware that Irene or his wife are Black women (Larsen Part 1, Chapter 3). The fact that Clare is
even married to John, other than being dangerous for her, is supporting his racism and
discrimination against other Black people. Furthermore, John frequently uses racial slurs, even in
his nickname for his wife, which she allows and even embraces, strangely enough. As Irene is
meeting him for the first time, she thinks that,“in Clare’s eyes, as she presented her husband, was
a queer gleam, a jeer, it might be. Irene couldn’t define it. The mechanical professions that attend
an introduction over, she inquired, ‘Did you hear what Jack called me?’” (Part 1, Chapter 3). To
support and think such a nickname is funny, even if Clare is able to pass as white, is incredibly
oppressive. Irene and the other Black friends that Clare and John encounter throughout the novel,
even though he is unaware of their race and believes them to be white, are subjected to direct,
virulent racism and white supremacy, and Clare is the one that exposes them to that and puts
them all at risk. Like Daisy, Clare is selfish and only cares about preserving her wealthy,
comfortable lifestyle, even if it means being married to an objectively terrible and racist man and
Both Daisy and Clare have minimal interest or love in their relationships with their young
daughters, reflecting their rather detached views of motherhood and femininity. Raised in a
patriarchal society that looks down on women and “womanly” traits and praises men and
“manly” traits, both Daisy and Clare managed to develop very warped beliefs about their own
femininity and that in their daughters. In an analysis of the significant connections between
the mother figure or role represents complications not just in gender identities… but in
the racial, ethnic, or national identities of the characters and narrators… Both Daisy and
Clare are two such figures, racialized mothers to Pammy and Margery, respectively.
Furthermore, as women married to wealthy, socially important men, they would be expected to
have sons to carry on the family name and legacy - girl children are a disappointment and an
uncomfortable reflection of themselves/their younger selves. For example, when Daisy reunites
with Nick, she tells him of her experience of having a daughter, Pammy:
Listen, Nick; let me tell you what I said when she was born…It’ll show you how I’ve
gotten to feel about — things. Well, she was less than an hour old and Tom was God
knows where. I woke up out of the ether with an utterly abandoned feeling, and asked the
nurse right away if it was a boy or a girl. She told me it was a girl, and so I turned my
head away and wept. ‘All right,’ I said, ‘I’m glad it’s a girl. And I hope she’ll be a fool —
that’s the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool.’ (Fitzgerald 16).
By saying these misogynistic words against her toddling daughter, Daisy is also speaking of
herself and other women of her status in 1920s New York society. Daisy has been conditioned
into acting like a “beautiful little fool” to ensure her own survival and ability to thrive in high
society and her marriage. As a “fool,” she is forced to lose all of her personality that does not
agree with society’s standards and, by extension, the standards of her husband. This includes
acting in an ignorantly oppressive manner towards other women, world issues such as racism,
and the coldness/distance from her daughter, whom she only rarely interacts with, and always
with the nurse there. Clare has a similar distance from her daughter, both emotionally and
physically. Not only does she think that “being a mother is the cruelest thing in the world”
(Larsen Part 2, Chapter 2), but she also views Margery as a liability that could have possibly
exposed her as a woman of color, if Margery had been born as visibly non-white. It is likely due
in part to this liability that Margery attends school in Europe, with an entire ocean between her
and her mother who cannot emotionally handle the raising of her. Whether she actually doesn’t
care for her daughter, or rather cares far too much, Clare presents as someone who is indifferent
“Children aren’t everything,” was Clare Kendry’s answer to that. “There are other things
in the world, though I admit some people don’t seem to suspect it.” And she laughed,
more, it seemed, at some secret joke of her own than at her words.
The fact that Daisy and Clare oppress and have misogynistic views towards their own daughters,
not just marginalized women or those of a different race or class presents the twisted picture of
their views of womanhood and the role they play in society. Their daughters, obviously being
girls, is a source of grief and failure in them, and reflects all of the things they have been
The way that Daisy and Clare both interact with other women around them reflect a deep
selfishness and lack of empathy for those who have struggled in many of the same ways that they
preserving their privileged way of life, so intense that they put others in harm’s way to ensure
The most notable example of this, of course, is when Daisy kills Mrs. Wilson, Tom’s
mistress, in a brutal act of vehicular manslaughter. Rather than stopping, “Daisy stepped on it.
[Gatsby] tried to make her stop, but she couldn’t, so [Gatsby] pulled on the emergency brake”
(Fitzgerald 111). There is ambiguity surrounding whether Daisy knew that she was about to hit
and kill her husband’s mistress or it simply was an accident, but either way, there was no concern
shown for anyone but herself. Surely, Mrs. Wilson was a threat to Daisy in countless ways,
especially socially and maritally. As a high-class woman of the time period, Daisy would have
depended on the public appearance of security in her marriage, and having affairs would threaten
that security in her life. However, Daisy was also engaged in an extramarital affair with Jay
Gatsby, further stressing how hypocritical and self-interested of a woman she was. By murdering
Mrs. Wilson, whether in a premeditated or accidental manner, and refusing to take the blame
(instead allowing Gatsby to place it on himself), her self-serving nature and extremely negative
perception of those of lower class is obviously revealed. Her actions directly led to the deaths of
both Mrs. Wilson and Gatsby, and due to her position and interest in preserving that position,
Through her reunion with Irene and the pursuit of a close “friendship” with her, Clare
constantly places the entire Redfield family and all other Black people she interacts with in
danger. Clare is a Black woman, but she passes almost exclusively as white. This is a decision
she has made, and is allowed to make if it makes her feel safer in a system built against her, but
by living her double life and interacting with Black people who cannot and do not pass as white,
she is contributing to their possible harm. She wants to successfully live the double life she is
trying to lead, but with her dangerously racist husband, it is impossible to have both without
endangering others. Clare doesn’t seem to care about this, though; she states that “to get the
things [she] want[s] badly enough, [she’d] do anything, hurt anybody, throw anything away”
(Larsen Part 2, Chapter 4). Not only are the Black people that associate with Clare at risk of
physical harm, but are also subject to other forms of racism, such as the cruel use of slurs by
John or even the insensitive way that Clare discusses skin color, passing, and race.
It also appears to be difficult for Clare or Daisy to establish genuine kinship with fellow
women who they consider to be friends. Irene gets the impression that Clare is “hard and
apparently without feeling at all” and can swing back and forth between extreme love and
extreme ferocity for the women that surround her (Larsen Part 1, Chapter 1). The lack of stability
in their relationship confuses and hurts Irene, who is also suspecting that Clare is interested in
her husband, Brian, while Clare seems to be unaware that anything could possibly be amiss, in a
state of ignorance. Daisy’s relationship with Jordan Baker is strange as well – it seems to be a
relatively surface level connection, with Jordan caring for Daisy far more than Daisy cares for
her. Jordan expresses that “Daisy ought to have something in her life,” and shows genuine care
and love for her, while Daisy is an inward-facing character who does not express concern for
Jordan or much affection. Neither Daisy nor Clare could care less about supporting the other
women in their life, women who they claim are their “best friends”.
Daisy and Clare both exhibit classic hallmarks of “white” feminism. Moon and Holling
articulate that
the oppressive nature of (white) feminism manifests in its discursive violence that is
professes to represent ALL women while primarily focusing on the needs of white
women (258).
Though it is doubtful that Daisy or Clare would identify themselves as feminists, they do fall
quite perfectly into representing the white supremacist patriarchy and oppresing other
marginalized groups, especially women of lower socioeconomic status and “race” than them.
Their primary motivations throughout their respective novels is protecting themselves and
ensuring that their lives remain comfortable, and neither give much thought to who they might
hurt by engaging in their self-preservation. At risk of sounding overly-critical of the two women,
it is important to highlight that they were two women in a time period far different than the
present day. The 1920s were a part of a tumultuous decade following the first World War and
preceding the Great Depression. Daisy and Clare knew what they wanted from life, and knew
how to manipulate the patriarchal system in order to ensure that they could have as easy a life as
women of their situations could have. Their betrayal of other women and marginalized groups to
attain those lifestyles is, of course, questionable and unfair, but they lived in an unfair world and
did what they thought was right to guarantee safety for themselves, their families, and their
children. In the end, however, only the truly “white” feminist of the two of them survives,
Clare’s story ending tragically. No matter how similar and parallel the lives of the two women
are, in the end, Daisy is a white, wealthy woman, protected and honored by the patriarchy, while
Clare is a Black woman who has been exposed for having passed. Her death symbolizes the
complex truth: white feminism will only ever truly fight for and try to protect white women and
their skewed version of feminism, and will view women of color as expendable second-thoughts.
Works Cited
Moon, Dreama G., and Michelle A. Holling. “‘White Supremacy in Heels’: (White) Feminism,
https://doi.org/10.1080/14791420.2020.1770819.
Moynihan, Sinéad. "Beautiful White Girlhood?: Daisy Buchanan in Nella Larsen's Passing."
African American Review, vol. 47, no. 1, 2014, pp. 37-49,228. ProQuest,
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