through with your plans. The changes you want to make can be DEAR ABBY put in place. A physical approach to whatever you do will bring you Advice written by Jeanne Phillips satisfaction and comfort. It’s out with the old and in with the new this year. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) - Make changes based on experi- DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are moving to a ence. Look for something new and retirement community where we won’t know a soul. I exciting to incorporate into your hate leaving our friends and the relationships we have everyday routine. A close friend or relative will offer valuable informa- formed here. I have never been especially outgoing or tion. good at making small talk, but I know I will have to to fit LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) - in. Refuse to fit into a slot that doesn’t suit you. Make your voice heard I believe you have written something for people who and your priorities clear. If you don’t have this challenge. Can I get a copy? What are some Hagar The Horrible speak up, others will make deci- sions for you. tips on how to get started? We’re relocating soon. - SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) FACING IT HEAD ON - If something excites you, take a DEAR FACING IT: You and your husband are open- chance on it. Your enthusiasm will ing an exciting new chapter in your lives. Managing it help you coax a loved one or co- worker into joining your pursuit. successfully will depend upon your attitude, so think SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. positive. Please understand that the majority of people 21) - Look at every angle before have the same insecurities you do. Not everyone is you get involved in something that has been hyped by someone who born socially adept. It is a skill that can be learned and is a good talker. Protect yourself polished with practice. against those trying to take advan- Everyone wants to be the kind of person others tage of you. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. find interesting, attractive and worth knowing. The 19) - Take an interest in your home, key to being well-liked by both sexes is: Be kind. Be possessions and plans to make honest. Be tactful. Don’t be afraid to offer someone a your life better. Projects that will add to your assets and ease your stress compliment if it’s deserved. Be well-groomed, taste- Shoe are favored. fully dressed and conscious of your posture. Confident AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) - individuals stand tall. You do not have to be the smart- Don’t let anyone limit what you can do. Take care of details personally est person in the room. Ask others what they think and and avoid setbacks. If you abide by encourage them to share their opinions. My booklet the rules, you’ll reach your goal. A “How To Be Popular” contains many useful tips for commitment can be made. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) - A polishing social skills for people of all ages. 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It isn’t necessary to be an authority on TAURUS (April 20-May 20) - every subject. Keep in mind that most people can con- Get moving. Your actions will affect how your day unfolds. An aggres- centrate on only one thing at a time. Forget about your- sive attitude will help you reach self and your own insecurities and concentrate on the your objective and encourage posi- OTHER person. If you try it, you will find that it works. tive change. DEAR ABBY: I have been divorced for nine years. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) - Spend more time nurturing a rela- I take responsibility for the end of my marriage. I fell tionship with a loved one. Whether in love with another man. Although I never intended to it’s a youngster, friend or romantic divorce, my husband discovered my affair and divorced interest, what you share will bring you closer together. Personal me. improvements are favored. I am now in a new relationship with a man I adore. CANCER (June 21-July 22) - If Should I tell him the reason my marriage ended? My ex you don’t do the work, you can’t expect to be rewarded. If you set died in 2017, so the only other person who knows why Frank and Ernest your priorities and a budget, you’ll we divorced is no longer alive. - WHOLE TRUTH? IN live up to your expectations. It’s OK ARIZONA to be different. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) - Be DEAR TRUTH: Excuse me. Someone else does open to suggestions, but when it know - the person with whom you had the affair. If you comes down to making a decision, are asked why you and your ex divorced, answer the do what feels right. If you act pre- maturely, it will end up costing you question honestly. If you aren’t asked, keep your past emotionally or financially. where it belongs - in the past.
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