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Ever since ancient times, there has been a popular The Invitation
saying in China that the three most delightful - The Chinese wedding invitation is typically red
moments in one's life come with success in the with gold lettering and bears the Double
imperial examination, marriage and the birth of a Happiness symbol. Inside, it’ll include dates for
son. From the Qin (221 BC – 206 BC) to Qing (1644 – the wedding banquet, order of birth, and
1911) Dynasties, the feudal system dominated over names of the bride, groom, and respective
two thousand years. During this period, the parents. Details for the dinner venue, the
importance of getting married was far more than timing for the cocktail reception and dinner will
that a person found his better half. For the male be included as well. For weddings where guests
side, it determined the prosperity and even the
may not be familiar with Chinese customs, a red Froelich. Other auspicious symbols include
packet may be included with the invitation. dragons, phoenixes, and mandarin ducks as
Preparing the Marriage Bed they denote happiness and loyalty. A 24 karat
gold pig necklace (pigs are emblems of fertility)
- The An Chuang usually takes place on an is often gifted to the bride as part of her
auspicious day and time, two to three days wedding jewelry to wear immediately.
before the wedding. “This tradition is carried
out by a female relative of good fortune—one o The Do’s and Don’ts in Chinese Marriage
with parents, husband, children, and Customs
grandchildren—where the bed will be dressed
in new red color beddings and pillows with a Do’s
mix of dried fruits and nuts such as longans,
persimmons, and red dates,” explains Yu. The Li Shi Money
combination symbolizes a sweet and long- One boy sleeping with the groom the night
lasting marriage blessed with fertility and well before wedding calls.
wishes. Yu also explains that no one can sit or
sleep in the bed until the couple returns Don’ts
together at the end of the night of the
wedding. Don’t give a fan (means “apart)
The mother-in-law and sister-in-law should
Offering Tea and Paying Respects face the door watching the bride walks.
Certain people shouldn’t attend wedding.
- “The Chinese tea ceremony is an imperative
tradition to be performed at Chinese Three Letters and Six Etiquettes
weddings,” shares Yu. “This is the time the
bride and groom express their respect, Chinese marriage was systemized into custom in
gratitude, and appreciation for their parents’ the Warring States period (402-221 B.C.). Due to
love, support, and effort in raising them.” The the long history, there are different customs to
ceremony takes place at a single location, or follow in different places. Although they are
separately at the bride and groom’s respective generally the same, visitors still get chance to
homes. A red tea set with a Double Happiness witness traditional marriages in the countryside.
symbol is used for the tea ceremony where
black tea is sweetened with dried longans, lotus In the ancient times, it was very important to
seeds, and red dates. follow a basic principle of Three Letters and Six
Etiquette since they were essential to a
Lucky Colors and Auspicious Symbols marriage.
- Red and gold play a critical role in all Chinese Three Letters
wedding decorations. The former is linked to
love, success, happiness, prosperity, luck, Three letters include Betrothal Letter, Gift Letter
fertility, honor, and loyalty, while the latter is a and Wedding Letter. Betrothal Letter is the
symbol of wealth. formal document of the engagement, a must in
- The Double Happiness symbol, composed of a marriage. Then a gift letter is necessary, which
two identical Chinese characters meaning joy, will be enclosed to the identified bride’s family,
appears in all Chinese weddings. “It can show listing types and quantity of gifts for the
up as traditional décor, made out of fresh red wedding once both parties accept the marriage.
roses as a wall hanging for the tea ceremony, or While the Wedding Letter refers to the
as neon signage for an after-party,” shares document which will be prepared and presented
to the bride’s family on the day of the wedding Picking auspicious wedding date: An astrologist
to confirm and commemorate the formal or astrology book will be referred to selecting an
acceptance of the bride into the bridegroom’s auspicious date to hold the wedding ceremony.
family.
Wedding Ceremony: On the selected day, the
bridegroom departs with a troop of escorts and
Six Etiquette
musicians, which will play happy music all the
way to the bride’s home. After the bride is
Proposing: If parents of a young man identify a
clustered to the bridegroom’s home, the
woman as their future daughter-in-law. Then
wedding ceremony begins betrothal letter.
they will find a matchmaker. Proposal used to be
practiced by a matchmaker. The matchmaker
would formally present his or her client’s
request to the identified woman’s parents.