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GENDER AND EMOTIONS
It's widely assumed that women are more "in touch" with their feelings
than men-that they react more emotionally and are better able to read
emotions in others. Is there any truth to these assumptions?
The evidence does confirm differences between men and women when it
comes to emotional reactions and ability to read others. In contrasting the
genders, women show greater emotional expression than men; they experience
emotions more intensely, and they display more frequent expressions of both
positive and negative emotions, except anger. In contrast to men, women also
report more comfort in expressing emotions. Finally, women are better at
nonverbal and paralinguistic cues than are men.
One explanation is the different ways men and women have been
socialized. Men are taught to be tough and brave; and showing emotion is
inconsistent with this image. Women, on the other hand are friendlier than
men. For instance, women are expected to express more positive emotions on
the job (shown by smiling) than men, and they do. A second explanation is that
women may have more innate ability to read others and present their emotions
than do men. Third, women may have a greater need for social approval and,
thus, a higher propensity to show positive emotions such as happiness.
Reading Emotions
Understanding another person's felt emotions is a very difficult task. But
we can learn to read others displayed emotions. We do this by focusing on
verbal, nonverbal, and paralinguistic cues.
The easiest way to find out what someone’s feeling is to ask them. Saying
something as simple as "Are you OK! What's the problem?" can frequently
provide you with the information to assess an individual's emotional state but
relying on a verbal response has two drawbacks:
As we've noted previously, some people have difficulty understanding
their own emotions and hence, are un- able to verbally express them. So, at
best, verbal responses provide only partial information.
You're talking with a co-worker. Does the fact that his back is rigid, his
teeth clenched, and his facial muscles ought tell you something about his
emotional State? It probably should, facial expressions, gestures, body
movements, and physical distance are nonverbal cues that can provide
additional insights into what a person is feeling. Notice the difference in facial
features the height of the cheeks, the raising or lowering of the brow, the turn
of the mouth, the positioning of the lips. and the configuration of the muscles
around the eyes. Even something as subtle as the distance someone chooses to
position himself or herself from you can convey their feelings, or lack thereof, of
intimacy, ag aggressiveness, repugnance, or withdrawal.
So, for instance, the ability to effectively manage emotions in leadership and
sales positions may be critical to success in those positions.
What differentiates functional from dysfunctional emotions at work? While
there is no precise answer to this, it's been suggested that the critical
moderating variable is the complexity of the individual's task. The more
complex a task, the lower the level of arousal that can be tolerated
without interfering with performance.While a certain minimal level of
arousal is probably necessary for good performance, very high levels Interfere
with the ability to function, especially the job requires calculative and detailed
cognitive processes. Given that the trend is toward jobs becoming more
complex, you can see why organizations are like to go to considerable efforts to
discourage the overt display of emotions-especially intense ones-In the
workplace.
Traits are Powerful Predictors of Behavior
The essence of trait approaches in OB is that employee possesses stable
personality characteristics that significantly influence their attitudes toward,
and behavioral reactions to, organizational settings. People with particular
traits tend to be relatively consistent in their attitudes and behavior over time
and across situations. Of course, trait theorists recognize that all traits are not
equally powerful. They tend to put them into one of three categories:
Trait theorists do a fairly good job of meeting the average person's face-
validity test. Think of friends relatives, and acquaintances you have known for
a number of years. Do they have traits that have remained essentially stable
over time? Most of us would answer that question in the affirmative. If Cousin
Anne was shy and nervous when we last saw her 10 years ago, we would be
surprised to find her outgoing and relaxed now. Managers seem to have a
strong belief in the power of traits to predict behavior. If managers be lied that
situations determined behavior, they would hire people almost at random and
structure the situation properly, But the employee selection process in most
organizations places a great deal of emphasis on how applicants perform in
interviews and on tests. Assume you're an interviewer and ask yourself: What
am I looking for in job candidates? If you answered with terms such as
conscientious, hardworking persistent, confident and dependable, you're a trait
theorist!
Few people would dispute that there are some stable individual attributes that
affect react to the workplace But trait theorists go beyond that generosity and
argue that individual behavior consistencies are widespread and account for
much of the differences in behavior among. There are two important problems
with using traits to explain large proportion of behavior in organizations:
First, organizational settings are strong situations that have a
large impact on employee be behavior.
Second, individuals are highly adaptive and personality traits
change in response to organizational situations.
It has been well known for some time that the effects of traits are likely to be
strongest in relatively weak situations and weakest in relatively strong
situations. Organizational settings tend to be strongest nations because they
have rules and other formal regulations that define acceptable behavior and
punish deviant behavior; and they have informal norms that dictate
appropriate behaviors. These formal and informal constraints minimize the
effects of personality traits. By arguing that employees possess stable traits
that lead to cross-situational consistency in behaviors, trait theorists are
implying that individuals don't really adapt to different situations. But there is
a growing body of evidence that an individual's traits are changed by the
organizations in which that individual participates. If the individual's
personality changes as a result of exposure to organizational settings, in what
sense can that individual be said to have traits that persistently and
consistently affect his or her reactions to these very settings? Moreover, people
typically belong to multiple organizations that often include very different kinds
of members, and they adapt to those different situations. Instead of being the
prisoners of a rigid and stable personality framework, as trait theorists
propose, people regularly adjust their behavior to reflect the requirements of
various situations.