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How To Turn Around A Rejection Online
How To Turn Around A Rejection Online
You definitely want to try this on the next woman who rejects you
(hopefully with my help that never happens, but just in case).
You can use a variation of this on women you meet in real life or
online. The example below is an online example and it's awesome.
Example:
Hey Marni,
I was writing to this girl online and I stupidly was asking her
boring, general questions. This is before I learned how to do it
right.
She had been giving me one word "not interested answers" and
then she just abruptly disappeared. So I sent this comment to
her:
"Thanks for talking. Just FYI I sure there are a lot of creeps out
there & you're an attractive women, but I'm NOT a game player.
Just wanted to get to know you a little more (not trying to get
you into bed). Let me know when you're online next time maybe
we can talk like real people. If not interested in talking just let me
know you won't hurt my feelings. (Besides you are a little to old
:) Have a good day."
That was the first phone number positive reaction I'd gotten
from a woman in years.
-J
The reason why J's response got such a reaction from this woman
was because it was direct, firm and authentic.
J stated his intentions and also called this woman out instead of
trying to placate to her. He didn't seem worried about ruffling feathers
or losing her entirely.
It was bold and it made J sound like he was a man that knew what he
wanted and wasn't going to settle for anything less.
Super sexy.
PLUS he teased her about not being that good looking. I loved that
part.