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WOMEN
•-Masters or Mothers?-
Bhakti Vikasa Swami
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Appreciations
[of the seminar, "Women: Masters or Mothers?]
Veena Kanchan
[Chartered Accountant, Mumbai]
Comments on the First Edition
Working on Bhakti Vikasa Swami's book Women: Masters
or Mothers? has been inspirational in helping to deepen my
understanding of Srila Prabhupada's example and instructions
and has shown that we must carefully avoid the onslaught of
the degraded mentality of Kali-yuga.
Madana-mohana-mohinI Devi DasI
[disciple of Srila Prabhupada - Prabhupada Village,
North Carolina, USA]
Dear Ladies,
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Part One 1
The Direction of the Krsna Consciousness Movement:
Merge with Modern Society, or Present the Varnasrama-
dharma Alternative?
Devotees' Concern with and Approach to Social Issues 1
Krsna Consciousness Is Largely Incompatible with Modern Culture 6
Scientism, Liberal Humanism, and Selfishness 8
Hedonistic Civilizations Are Doomed 10
Traditional Societies and the Dharmic Culture of India 12
Srila Prabhupada's Outlook Was Not Mundane 14
Srila Prabhupada Wanted to Introduce Divine Varnasrama-dharma 15
"Varnasrama-dharma Is External" 17
Devotees Need Varnasrama-dharma 19
Varnasrama-dharma (the Perfect Institution) Must Be Based On
Krsna Consciousness 20
Varnasrama-dharma Inculcates Selflessness 24
A Revolution of Consciousness 24
Varnasrama-dharma for Overcoming Sexual Desire 26
Srila Prabhupada Slowly and Carefully Introduced Vedic Culture .. 28
Shared Cultures of Traditional Societies 30
"Preach Now, Varnasrama-dharma Now" 31
Srila Prabhupada's Vision for Krsna Conscious Farms 31
Rural Living Affords More Time for Krsna Consciousness 33
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xvi Contents
Part Two 56
Women: Masters or Mothers?
Section One
Why Srila Prabhupada Opposed Feminism 57
Demons Promote a Puffed-up Concept of Womanly Life 60
Respect for Women in Indian Culture 61
Feminism in ISKCON 63
Nasty Effects of Feminism Within ISKCON 67
Misunderstanding Srila Prabhupada's Adjustments 69
Tweaking History by Blaming the Men 77
A Case Study: Yamuna Devi Dasi 80
The Transformation of Women's Roles 82
Lust, Greed, and Exploitation 86
Sigmund Freud and His Followers 88
Sex, Dissatisfaction, and Family Decline 90
Men and Women Are Different 91
Feminist Folly 92
Demonic "Broad-mindedness" 101
Why Women Need Protection 102
Contents xvii
Section Two
Fulfilling Women's Potential - As Mothers 121
Children Are the Victims 126
Frustration Due to Unrealistic Expectations 128
Early and Late Marriage 128
Arranged Marriage 133
"Love Marriage" 137
The Real Formula for Marital Success 138
Homemakers and Working Wives 139
The Scourge of Divorce 140
Discouraging Divorce Among Devotees 143
Divorce Can Be Averted 144
Family Planning and Big Families 144
Joint Families 147
Polygamy 147
Education for Girls: Chastity and Cooking 152
Victory for a Woman 156
Hopeless Women Become Feminists - Men Should Become
First-class 157
Some Misconceptions of Men 159
Duties of Married Men 161
Section Three
Women As Leaders 167
Women As Gurus 170
xviii Contents
Abbreviations
Bg: Bhagavad-gita
Cc: Sri Caitanya-caritamrta
SB: Srimad-Bhagavatam
ppt: Bhaktivedanta purport
Preface to the Second Edition
The first edition of this book was released just a few weeks ago.
However, several important points were not included therein,
due to time constraints in the rush to make it available for the
GBC* meetings in Mayapur in early 2015.
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xx Preface
We (the EC members) have not read the book yet, and we reserve
our opinion on such. We have not restricted or prohibited the
sale of the book.
xxiii
xxiv Introduction
What is night for all beings is the time of awakening for the
self-controlled; and the time of awakening for all beings is
night for the introspective sage.1
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1. Bg 2.69.
Introduction xxvii
* I have examined many of these topics (in further but not full detail)
in various recorded talks, many of which are included in the DVD that
accompanies the hard copy of this book (see inside back cover). These are
also available online (see footnotes).
Cited hyperlinks to third-party web pages are archived at:
www.bvks.com/wmm_citations
1. Bg 2.25, ppt.
PART
— ONE—
The Direction of the Krsna
consciousness Movement:
Merge with Modern Society, or Present
the Varnasrama-dharma Alternative?
Devotees' Concern with and Approach to
Social Issues
W h y should devotees be at all concerned with social issues?
Shouldn't we just speak about Krsna and topics directly
related to Krsna consciousness? Certainly, devotional service
is ultimately a purely spiritual process, yet within this world
psychological and social factors undeniably influence persons
who are trying to cultivate spiritual consciousness. The
outlook and attitudes of an aspiring transcendentalist will
necessarily be affected by his previous impressions and by
how he lives and acts within society.* In that regard, within
the Bhagavad-gita and Srimad-Bhagavatam, Vedic social
organization is discussed, along with the direct delineation
of Krsna consciousness. For instance, the Seventh Canto of
Srimad-Bhagavatam features an extended section wherein
Narada, who is famous as a brahmacari, explains the various
duties of the four social orders, and also the duties of women
and related matters. And various sastras (Brahma-vaivarta
Purana, Mahabharata, Siva Purana) record graphic dialogs
wherein Narada inquires about and is instructed on the nature
of women. Srila Prabhupada also often discussed such subjects
and gave many insights and directions pertaining to them. f
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Women: Masters or Mothers? presents traditionalist arguments
for t h e d i r e c t i o n of t h e K r s n a c o n s c i o u s n e s s m o v e m e n t ,
proposing that we should take up Srila Prabhupada's mandate to
establish varnasrama-dharma rather than capitulate to the norms
and ideologies of secular culture. Particularly discussed are
gender roles, parental responsibilities, feminist follies, and some
of Srila Prabhupada's more controversial teachings, such as those
concerning early marriage, divorce, and polygamy.
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