Sheila Mae A.

Capuz BSHM 101-A

Lesson 8: Digital self
Activity: My Self-Presentation: what did I post?

Exemplification
This is my shared post two days ago where I wanted to
share what I saw about improving the self. Seven
uncomfortable truths that we all need to accept now in
2022 help me to realize things that are useful for my
improving self. Like waiting is not good when it comes
to your improvements, the right decision can make you
sad and it's okay. Your past can't define who you are;
loving yourself is more important than pleasing others
to love you. Changing behavior, saying sorry is better.
My self-presentation in this shared post is
Exemplification because I wanted others to appreciate
me for this shared post for helping them to realize
useful things also.
Ingratiation
This is my shared post six days ago. This shared post is Ingratiation because this shared post is a
meme I wanted this to like by others and I wanted this also to have a haha reacts.
Ingratiation
My self-presentation on this shared post that I share
last year is Ingratiation. This shared post showed
Yeon-Su’s side that I wanted to like and see by others.
I wanted this shared post to see by others who are
watching it too. I wanted them to see that I’m
watching this drama so to the people who are
watching it too I wanted them to like me too.

Ingratiation
This is my recent post last year where it shows when I go to
Tagaytay and experience excitement because it was my first
time there. This post is Ingratiation because I post these
pictures so others will see that I’m okay because I didn’t post
many pictures on my FB account to update some of my friends
and my purpose of posting this is for my Lola’s in the province
who will like this and to receive good comments from them that
makes me happy.
 Exemplification
This is my shared post from last year. It
becomes Exemplification because I wanted
this to appreciate by others because this
post can help them to know that it’s okay to
change your opinion after learning new
information. I wanted to be a good example
when it comes to every opinion that we will
encounter.

Reflection:
I have learned in this activity “My Self-Presentation: what did I post?” is about self-
Presentation. This activity reflects what is my self-Presentation based on the activity it is
Ingratiation. Ingratiation is the person using this desire to be liked by others. Three out five in
my activity is ingratiation because I post and shared things that I wanted to be liked by others
like I shared a meme that makes me laugh, I shared what drama that I’m watching and I wanted
others to like it because I recommend it also by sharing, and also I post that I am doing okay I
wanted to like it and also to receive comments from others. This activity made me realize that
Liking by others is just a bonus of showing what is you wanted to be. Always do what you want
even others will not like it is okay, as long as you didn’t hurt anyone.