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DEFINITION OF COUNSELLING
“Counselling is a face to face relationship in which growth takes place in the counsellor as
well as the counselee.” [Ruth Strang]
There have always been “counsellors”—people who listen to others and help them resolve
difficulties.
GOALS OF COUSELLING
Different individuals have different perceptions of what can be expected of counselling.
However there are five commonly named goals of counselling.
1. Facilitating behavior change
The goal of counselling is to bring about change in behaviors that will enable to the client to
be more productive. Goals can be measurable so that client can measure that program.
According to Rogers (1951) behaviour change is a necessary result of the counselling process
although specific behaviors receive little or no emphasis during process. e.g increase physical
activity, reduction of stress, healthy diet, reducing addiction.
2. Improving relationship
Many clients tend to have major problems relating to others due to poor self- image. Likewise
inadequate social skills cause individuals to act defensively in relationships. The counsellor
would then strive to help the client improve the quality of their lives by developing more
effective interpersonal relationships. e.g grounding techniques, muscle relaxation, breathing,
also involves building positive self -image.
3. Facilitate client’s potential
Helping individuals to cope with new situation and challenges. We will inevitably run into
difficulties in the process of growing up. Most of us do not completely achieve all over our
development tasks within a life time. All of the unique expectations and requirements
imposed on us by others will eventually lead to problem learning coping patterns ,however
may not always work.
4. Promoting decision making
The goal of the counselling is to enable the individual to make critical decisions regarding
alternative courses of actions without outside influence. Counselling will help individuals
obtain individuals obtain information and to clarify emotional concern that may interfere with
or be related to the decision involved. These individuals will acquire an understanding of
their capabilities and interests. They will also come to identifying emotions and attitudes that
could influence their choice and decisions.
5. Enhance potential and enrich self -development
Help individuals to cope with new situations and challenges. Counselling seek to maximize
an individual freedom by giving him or her control over their environment while analysing
responsiveness and reach to the environment. Counsellors will work to help people learn how
to overcome. Counsellors will also assist to overcoming sexual dysfunction, drug addition,
gambling and obesity as well as anxiety shyness and depression.
THERAPUTIC ALLIANCES
Therapeutic alliance is a partnership between a patient and his/her therapist that allows them
to achieve goals through agreed upon tasks.
3 essential elements:
i. Agreement on goals of treatment
ii. Agreement on the task
iii. Development of personal bond made for reciprocal positive feelings.
Important to develop a personal relationship of confidence & regard – also determine by the
clients beliefs in the therapist ability to help him/her. Important so the client accepts, follow
& beliefs in the treatment.
This stage which depends on the information gained during the previous two stages is
characterised by increased activities of all parties involved. The Counsellor’s activities
include facilitating, demonstrating instructing, & providing a safe environment for the
development of change. The clients activities focused on re-evaluation, emotional cognitive
dynamics, trying out new behaviors (both inside & outside the session), discarding those that
do not meet the goals.
This stage is the closing stage of the helping relationship & is cooperative determine by all
persons involve.
Termination is the final stage of counselling & marks the close of a relationship. It means the
ending of therapeutic alliance between the counselor & client.
The counselor during the evaluation & termination stage insures the following:
ii. Letting the client know in advance about the termination of counselling.
v. Warning against the danger in situations that can cause relapse. This helps to keep the
client aware of the realities of the situation & the possibilities after returning to the
unsupervised environment.
vi. Giving adequate instructions for the maintainace of adaptive functioning. Motivating
them to practice these activities.
viii. Assuring the availability of the counselor in case of relapse into disfunction.