Finding your Purpose Workbook 2023

Finding Your Purpose – Workbook 2

MKTG 754
Name: Je-an Kim Lim

Having now completed your 4 stories, reflect on the output and feedback from
the session and capture it in your notebook.
Consider using the following questions:

• What can you learn from your stories that enable you to define your
Purpose?

What I learned from my stories that enabled me to define my purpose was,

to be honest, Michael Ryan's suggestions and feedback. When my professor gave
me some of his insights about my stories, I was already holding back my tears. It
was then that I realized that, yes, Professor, you are right. Those stories speak
highly of me, not just being a sun who gives joy and light to others, but there's
also this fire inside me that ignites passion and strength. The majority of the
storyline, if you dig deeper, unravels a certain characteristic about me, which is
being a negotiator. I didn't realize it all the while because, knowing my personality
as an extrovert, risk-taker, adventurous, spontaneous, and the like, there's more
that is to be revealed.

I have learned that my strong self has probably been a trait that I got from
my Mom. Since I am the only girl among 5 siblings, which has caused me to be
resilient in everything. Also, I have seen the importance of owning my stories.
Through this, I have exposed the hidden emotions that helped me unravel my true
self, which later on helped me to discover my purpose. Currently, I am taking the
time and space to delve deeper into my learning process. I am doing this by
listening to calming music and allowing these thoughts to linger in my mind.

• What are the key themes that are emerging about who you are?

Some key themes that emerged about who am I would be the following:

1. Joyful and positive

2. Passionate and adventurous
3. Courageous Princess
4. Influencer and Inspiration
5. Fierce warrior
6. Purpose-driven

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• Do you feel differently now versus before you told the stories, if so
then why?
Right now, I feel there's more clarity to my sense of purpose and
belongingness. Before I told my stories, I felt kind of shaded, and it seemed like
they wouldn't bring any impact to the person who would be reading them. Now
that I have revised and shared them with people, including my professor, I feel
calmer and more driven about it. I am glad that I was able to delve into my
concealed thoughts, which allowed me to come up with stories that helped shape
who I am.
REFINING MY PURPOSE
1. Describe any relationship, such as those with family, friends mentors, and
managers. How did they shape who you are?
The people who surround me play a very important role in my life.
FAMILY
My family has been integral in shaping who I am today. They have always
been my source of strength and my anchor. My family's influence extends to
shaping my values, identity, and beliefs. Their unwavering support has been truly
exceptional, and their confidence in my ability to achieve my goals and aspirations
in life has motivated me to push forward. Moreover, beyond their support, my
family has played a significant role in shaping my moral compass. My parents, in
particular, have instilled in me the values of honesty, integrity, and compassion.
These lessons have guided me through life's challenges, and their teachings have
played a key role in my personal growth and decision-making. Being the only girl in
the family, I have experienced a shower of love from my family. Their affection and
care have provided me with a strong sense of belonging and nurtured a deep bond
among us. Their presence and encouragement have been instrumental in helping
me overcome various obstacles throughout my life. The thought of my family has
served as motivation during difficult times, pushing me to persevere and stay
focused on my dreams. <3
FRIENDS
My friends have filled the role of the siblings I never had. They have become
my constant motivators and cheerleaders, encouraging me to pursue our dreams
together and never give up. Through our shared experiences and support for one
another, they have helped in molding me to the person I am today. My friends have
taught me the importance of listening and knowing when to speak. They have
shown me the value of being present for one another, lending a compassionate ear,

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and offering support during both joyous moments and challenging times. Through
our friendships, I have learned to emanate empathy and understanding.
MENTORS
I could never be more thankful to my mentors. They have instilled in me
humility and wisdom through endless mentoring sessions and feedback. Their
influence has extended beyond my professional growth, positively impacting my
personal development as well. Their encouragement has also been my inspiration
to take a step back, embrace the discomfort and seize opportunities, leading to
personal growth and career achievements.
2. What do you see as your key strengths?

I do believe that my key strengths would be my personality, resilient nature,

and optimistic outlook in life. I possess strong communication skills that allow me
to build relationships with people, empathize, understand each one’s perspective,
and thrive in most situations. I do believe I demonstrate leadership skills and
approach challenges with passion and determination. These key strengths of mine
have helped me define and differentiate myself from those around me as well.

3. List the values that are important to you in your life and explain.
The values that I uphold and live in my life are integrity, respect, and
gratitude. First, integrity is at the core of my values, guiding me in making
decisions, no matter how small or big they are. My moral principles cannot be
shaken as I live them every day. I believe that having integrity creates and fosters
authentic relationships with other people, and most importantly, builds trust.
Second, respecting other people's views, opinions, values, and boundaries
is a cornerstone of my values. I firmly believe that if you want to earn respect, you
must also show respect. Additionally, for me, respect fosters unity among people,
bringing peace and inclusion wherever I go.
Lastly, gratitude. I have been practicing being thankful at all times,
regardless of my circumstances. Honestly, this has been one of my life's constant
struggles. Living a life of gratitude has always been my practice until I moved to
Canada and began to experience adversities and doubts. Nevertheless, I still start
and end my day with gratitude, knowing that it allows me to appreciate the
blessings in my life and helps me focus with joy and appreciation on the little
things.

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4. What kind of legacy would you like to leave in terms of family, career,
friends …? How would you like to be remembered?
This has been one of the hardest questions that someone has asked me.
But honestly, I don’t want to be remembered as someone rich, someone
influential, or someone who has a nice house or car. I just simply want to be
remembered by all as someone who has lived her life with a thankful heart. This
may be absurd, as it’s a challenge to instill how others will remember me but my
utmost desire is to leave an imprint in the lives of those people may it be my
family, my colleagues, and friends. I strive to be the person who appreciates the
beauty in every moment and acknowledges the blessings that come my way.
For me, living with a thankful heart is not about living a perfect life or
ignoring challenges, but rather, it's about finding moments of gratitude even in
the midst of difficulties. It's an attitude that allows me to focus on the silver linings,
and celebrate my small victories. I hope that my gratitude will inspire my family,
friends and the people around me to see the beauty in their lives and spread
kindness and positivity in their own unique ways.
5. When in your life have you felt most fulfilled? Why do you think this
was?
The time in my life, when I felt most fulfilled, actually just happened
recently. It was when I managed to pay off my tuition for two programs at
Centennial College without needing financial support from my parents. I had
promised myself that once I became capable, I would give back to my parents by
funding my education myself. When I came to Canada, I relied on my parents'
allowance and my personal savings. Converting my hometown's currency to
Canadian dollars was costly due to coming from a third-world country. Thankfully,
doors opened for me, and I got the opportunity to work with the school's student
association as the Events Liaison and in Sales.
I felt most fulfilled because I worked extremely hard for five months,
sacrificing any day off to save. Despite that, I still managed to excel in my classes
in my first program. Even though my parents offered to help, I didn't want to
burden them anymore because I am now capable of providing for myself. It fills
me with joy to now share the rewards of my hard work with them. I'm proud of
myself for achieving this milestone and being able to fulfill my promise to give
back to my parents.
6. If you had a special power what would it be and how would you use it?
If I had a special power, it would be a time machine. I would want to go
back through time and if I needed to correct something I did in the past, I would.

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The ability to travel back in time would grant me the opportunity to revisit those
crucial moments in my life, where I may have mishandled relationships or spoken
words I wish I could take back. We all carry moments of regret, instances where
we wish we had acted differently or treated others with more kindness and
understanding.
With this power, I would first focus on my family, who holds a special place
in my heart. There might have been times when misunderstandings arose, or
conflicts occurred that could have been resolved with better communication and
empathy. To be more specific, my special power would be to be softer in all the
arguments I've had with my Mom. My Mom and I have contrasting attitudes,
which is why we tend to argue a lot, leading to serious disputes that result in hurt
feelings.
Next, I would turn my attention to my long-lost friends or friendships that
faded away due to misunderstandings. I would seek out those friends and
colleagues with whom I lost touch and find a way to reconnect, apologize for my
past mistakes, and rebuild the connections that once meant a lot to me.
Using this superpower for such noble purposes would be a journey of self-
improvement and growth. While I cannot change the past, this power would give
me the chance to learn from my mistakes, grow as a person, and become more
empathetic and considerate in my present relationships.
DEFINING YOUR PURPOSE
Step 1: Using your Refine Your Purpose answers as raw material, write down
elements of your purpose in the space below. Just provide a list of ideas and
themes, don’t worry about complete sentences.

Some key themes that emerged about who am I would be the following:

1. Joyful and positive – I do believe I possess qualities of brightness,

joy and positivity spreading light to others.
2. Passionate and adventurous – I am a risk-taker, spontaneous and
passionate individual. I see to it that I always put my heart into
everything I do.
3. Courageous princess – I have always been strong, and above all
dealing with everything that comes my way with grace and
determination. I do always remind myself about my inner strength
that no one can take away from me.
4. Influencer and Inspiration – I see myself as a light where I can be a
person who inspires others through my words and actions.

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5. Fierce warrior – I see myself as my own defender and negotiator.

My strong personality would lead me to always work things out and
be triumphant.
6. Purpose-driven – I have always been on a self-discovery journey
and love to uncover hidden emotions and unravel my true self.

Step 2: Try to form a complete statement using the idea from Step 1 – My
purpose is…

My purpose is to be a fierce warrior in the courtroom of my life.

Step 3: How would you define your purpose if you were talking to a friend or
family member?

If I were talking to someone close to me, I would define my purpose as

being a fierce warrior in the courtroom of my life, or aka I am my own lawyer.
Just like a warrior on a battlefield, my arena is the challenges and opportunities
that life presents. I see each obstacle as a chance to fight for what truly matters
to me, whether it's pursuing my dreams, standing up for my beliefs, or
supporting the ones I love. Also, as I am my own defender, whether it's
negotiating a deal or dealing with a challenging situation, I handle it with strength
and courage, ensuring that my voice is heard.

In this "courtroom of life," I advocate for my passions and the things that
ignite my fire within. I embrace risks and adventure, knowing that they are
essential elements of personal growth and self-discovery. Through this journey,
I aim to leave a lasting impact, making a difference in their lives and inspiring
them to embrace their own warrior spirit.

Step 4: How is your purpose expressed through work?

As an Events Liaison in school and a Sales Professional for Nespresso, my

purpose revolves in embodying the epitome of strength, courage, and
determination. In my role as an Events Liaison, I fearlessly take on the
responsibility of creating memorable and enjoyable experiences for students and
staff during school events, fostering a sense of community and togetherness. My
advocacy for positive and impactful events aligns with my purpose to make a
lasting impact on the school community.

In my Sales role for Nestle Nespresso, I stand up for the quality and value
of the Nespresso products I offer, representing the brand with confidence and
enthusiasm. I approach each customer interaction with persistence,
understanding their needs, and offering solutions that bring joy and satisfaction
to their lives. Just like a warrior, I face the challenges of Sales with resilience,

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learning from setbacks, continuously striving to achieve excellent performance,

and maintaining my standing as the Top Achiever in the store.