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doi: 10.1111/jmft.12289
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Tom Andersen and his pioneering work with reflecting conservations has had a lasting influ-
ence on the field of family therapy and mental health more broadly. Most family therapists
are familiar with his contributions related to reflecting teams; however, fewer are familiar
with his conceptualization of reflecting processes, which offer practical ways to approach
therapeutic conversations to address challenging problems. This article provides a brief his-
tory of Andersen’s career and reviews four key elements of his approach, including: (a) his
way of being in relationship, (b) appropriately unusual comments, (c) inner and outer dia-
logs, and (d) ethics of dialogical relating. Finally, this article introduces readers to the con-
text of the video that will be analyzed in the articles that follow in this special section.
Tom Andersen and his pioneering work with reflecting conservations has had a lasting influ-
ence on the field of family therapy and mental health more broadly. While most family therapists
are familiar with his work using reflecting teams, fewer are familiar with his more general approach
to therapeutic dialog, which emphasizes respecting the dignity of clients first and foremost (Ander-
sen, 1991; Andersen, 2007; Shotter & Katz, 2007). Providing a foundational framework for the dis-
cursive analyses in this special section, this article introduces Andersen’s work, including: (a) an
overview of the development of his approach, (b) key concepts in his reflecting process, and (c) an
outline of the video analyzed in the articles that follow.
Living north of the Arctic Circle in Norway, Andersen (2008) began his career after World
War II as a family physician but quickly moved into psychiatry. While working in a psychiatric
hospital in the 1960s, he noticed that the patients were often disconnected from their families, who
were typically far away in this sparsely populated region of Norway. Reconnection was almost
impossible because of the physical distance. He knew then that having professionals go out into
the community to prevent this disconnection was the only rational approach to more effectively
serve patients. In 1976, he accepted a professorship at the University of Tromsø, where he collabo-
rated with psychologists and nurses to reduce the number of psychiatric hospital admissions
(Andersen, 2008). Increasingly, he and his colleagues were more interested in who, what, when,
and how of clients’ situations than searching for why-based explanations for their behaviors. In
1984, they also began to position themselves in ways they found put clients at ease by not taking
on an expert, hierarchical position. They did this by sharing their thoughts more openly and hum-
bly: “In addition to what you have thought, we have thought this” and “in addition to what you
have tried to do, might you consider to try our idea of what to do?” (p. 429).
During this same period, he collaborated with two physiotherapists, Gudrun Oevreberg and
Aadel B€ ulow-Hansen, who taught him how they watched a client’s breath to determine if their
Diane R. Gehart, Ph.D. Professor, Department of Educational Psychology and Counseling, California State
University.
Address correspondence to Diane R. Gehart, Department of Educational Psychology and Counseling, Califor-
nia State University, Northridge. 18111 Nordhoff St., Northridge, California 91330; E-mail: dgehart@csun.edu
Arguably, Andersen’s greatest contribution to the field is not the technique of using a reflect-
ing team to produce change. Instead, most who worked with him say his greatest legacy is his way
Way of Being
For anyone who had the privilege to watch Tom live or spend much time with him in a room,
it was quickly apparent that his ability to transform clients’ lives has less to do with what he said
and far more to do with the quality of presence: his way of being in relationship (Andersen, 1997,
2007; Shotter, 2015; Shotter & Katz, 2007). As summed up by Anderson and Hoffman (2007):
“Tom always gave his full attention,” which had a palpable gravitas (p. 572). Whether on the
receiving end of a question from a client or colleague, Tom always took a long, thoughtful pause
to compose his response. In these pauses, he silently communicated that he had heard all that the
speaker said and was sincerely taking it in, giving the speaker’s words serious and thoughtful con-
sideration.
However, unlike some conversational pauses, when Andersen paused, it was never awkward
because he recognized inner dialog as part of the process of constructing meaning. Using phenome-
nologist Max Scheler’s practical descriptions of a mother’s love for her child, Shotter (2015) com-
pares Andersen’s engagement with clients as a form of love in action: “they notice small details
that others ignore; they see beyond their factual nature to what they might mean, to what they
‘point toward’ in the future; they are prepared to relate to possibilities not yet actual, to imagine a
future that might never come to fruition” (emphasis in original; p. 80). Rather than a romantic
form love, Shotter is referring to when two people share in a flow of meaning, emotion, and cir-
cumstances, similar to what interpersonal neurobiologist Dan Siegel (2007) refers to as interper-
sonal attunement. Andersen’s ability to meaningfully attune with clients is perhaps the most
notable and unique quality of his live work. His way of being was consistent with the social con-
structionist philosophy that underpinned his work, but even more so it was part of who he was as
whole human being, not just in his professional role.
This special section includes four papers in which researchers analyze conversation segments
of one of Andersen’s consultations entitled “Dialogues and Dialogues about Dialogues.” The
researchers use different segments of this commercially available video of Andersen (1992) consult-
ing with therapist Jennifer Andrews and a couple, Lisa and Michael. The couple is seen at the Cali-
fornia Family Study Center, which is in the San Fernando Valley area of Los Angeles, one of the
most ethnically diverse municipalities in the world. The couple has attended therapy regularly with
Andrews, who works in a postmodern style, for seven months reportedly addressing relational pat-
terns in which the husband pursues for connection while the wife struggles to create a sense of
space and independence.
The brief introduction to the video provides a context for Andersen’s (1992) thinking at the
time, which was shortly after Harry Goolishian’s passing. Andersen introduces the concepts of
expression and inner and outer dialogs and directly links them to the experience of one’s identity.
He describes people experiencing problems as wanting an alternative understanding of self, which
he believes is best promoted by allowing for as many perspectives as possible in the conversation.
O’Reilly, Kiyima, and Lester (2018) analysis of the video addresses the issue of balancing multiple
gender identities as it emerged in the session with this couple.
Andersen also provides an overview of how he structured the consultation. First, he began by
distinguishing who wants to talk and who does not; in this situation, both were eager to express
CLOSING REFLECTIONS
During my early years of training, I was fortunate to meet Tom several times, watch him in
action, and share relaxed conversation over a meal. After pondering how to describe his work for
nearly two decades, I am still at a loss for adequate words, because my clearest and fondest memo-
ries are of the profound peace and respect he brought to any room, any problem. As a person who
tends to use too many words in rapid succession, I was struck by how his carefully chosen words
combined with long, pregnant pauses somehow created a sense of expansive possibilities—and a
renewed feeling of freedom to choose among them. Like Artic lights from his home town, new
horizons of brilliant, fresh meanings seemed to emerge out of nowhere in those quiet moments,
dancing through minds that at one point believed only darkness was possible. In all of this, he was
entirely human and down-to-earth, sharing his love of nature, enjoying a good laugh and a glass of
wine, and graciously attending to one’s basic needs as a host. As a professional, he was humble
and understated, and yet his ideas are some of the most significant for moving our profession for-
ward with greater humanity and grace, at a time when such qualities are especially precious and
necessary.
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