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As it turns out, asking a person to evaluate his entire life is not exactly
an easy thing to do. It is such a big question that most of us do not even
know where to begin. Where do we start? Do we assess our jobs,
relationships, health, finances, or all of those at once? How do we decide
the weights to put on each category?
Therefore, when faced with the daunting task of evaluating their lives
as a whole, participants unconsciously took the easy way out. They used
their current moods as a mental shortcut to determine their life satisfaction
in general. If their mood at that moment was good (largely influenced by
the weather), life appeared good as well. If their mood was bad, life
appeared to be dark and gloomy. Consciously reminding participants about
the weather made them aware of this mental shortcut they were using,
which is why weather ceased to have an effect on life satisfaction ratings
when participants were specifically reminded about the weather.
The problem with these happiness surveys and books is that they
cause us to evaluate our lives in unconsciously biased ways. Just like the
participants in Schwarz and Clore’s seminal study, life itself is such a multi-
faceted experience that we can’t even begin to wrap our minds around it.
Thus, life appears to be difficult or daunting when we try to grasp all of it at
once. A single nagging physical symptom or a challenge we face can
greatly affect our own perception of life without us even realizing it. And as
the study shows, even irrelevant cues such as the weather can play a part in
our own inaccurate assessments of life.
It has been said that scientists who study objective phenomena are
usually happier than the navel-gazing types. Many spiritual seekers and
those seeking self-improvement tend to spend inordinate amounts of time in
self-contemplation, pondering over various aspects of their lives. As the
study above shows, such prolonged self-contemplation can do more harm
than good. It can cause us to focus excessively on the things that are going
“wrong” in our lives to the exclusion of everything else. This misdirected
focus often happens unconsciously, and if left unchecked, can lead to an
extremely bleak view of life which results in a predominantly negative
inner state. In turn, a negative inner state sets the stage for more undesired
experiences in our outer reality.
I was reminded of this during my two weeks bout of knee pain caused
by over-exercising. I experienced a sharp unbearable pain whenever I
attempted to squat or bend my left knee, which resulted in a restricted range
of motion. My continued fixation on the intensity of the pain and the
perceived “incurability” of the situation led to much fear and unhappiness
during those two weeks of my life, although everything else was going
great as usual. If you asked me for my own life satisfaction rating back
then, it would have been pretty low! I had unconsciously allowed myself to
be overwhelmed by my own negative thoughts about the situation.
Fortunately, I caught myself in time and redirected my focus towards my
own desired healing instead of the undesirable pain. The moment I was
successful in shifting my own focus about the situation was when the
physical transformation occurred. I was soon led to my healing on the
outside. The pain subsided as quickly as it began as I traversed the path of
healing, and my knee remains pain-free to this day.
Most people go through life wanting to know all the answers at once.
They demand a clear view of the road ahead and how things will work out
over the next five to ten years. They want to see the paths that will lead
them to their desired success. Because of our desire to see the whole
staircase clearly at once, we often plunge ourselves into needless worrying,
planning, and despair. Sometimes all this worrying can keep us stuck in a
rut, unable to face life.
As Martin Luther King so wisely puts it, “You don’t have to see the
whole staircase. Just take the first step.” More than just another
inspirational saying, I have found Dr. King’s advice to be particularly useful
in my own life. It was times when I demanded “to see the whole staircase”
that I experienced the most emotional turmoil on the inside. That was when
my ego and my smaller self was speaking, trying to figure everything out
through my limited intellect. My ego wanted to be the one that healed my
painful knee, and became desperate when it could not conceive of ways to
do so due to its limited understanding. When I let go of the need to know
how my healing would occur and just be open to all possibilities in every
moment, that was when my ego and my smaller self ceded control to my
higher self. My higher self, which is always in tune with spirit, knows
exactly what needs to be done in any situation. I have often written that the
Universe does not perceive the same limitations as we do from our limited
human perspectives. Therefore, everything is perfect to the Universe.
When we give up control to our higher selves and get out of our own
way, we recognize the Universal perfection that has always been there.
What is thus corrected are the errors and blind spots in our own thinking.
When those blind spots are corrected on the inside, undesirable situations of
lack and limitation, even stubborn circumstances that have persisted for the
longest time automatically clear up on the outside. The metaphysical
literature is filled with stories of how longstanding conditions
spontaneously resolved themselves with a correction of one’s erroneous
thinking. Florence Scovel Shinn’s classic books are replete with delightful
and pointed references to them.
Does this mean that my knee pain was “imagined” and merely caused
by my own thinking? Many readers of spiritual books are offended when
they read that problems and undesirable situations in their lives arise from
their own limited thinking. This does not in any way suggest that our
problems in life are imagined (my knee pain felt very real indeed when I
was experiencing them), but rather, that our thoughts carry immense power.
In fact, our thoughts carry so much power that they have the ability to
create and shape our everyday realities and experiences. Thus, when a
metaphysician says that our thoughts create our own reality, it does not
mean that our problems are imaginary. Rather, it means that the key to
correcting all these perceived problems in our life lies in first correcting our
own negative habits of thought on the inside.
That became my intention for this book which you are now holding in
your hands. Our lives are already inherently perfect the way they are, but so
many people allow themselves to be caught up in small negative situations.
They allow a few unhappy events to color their perceptions of life, which in
turn leads to more undesired manifestations. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if
these few unhappy events and blind spots could be dropped once and for
all? How nice would it be to drop our self-imposed limitations and live a
wonderful life with no limitations. This book will not only show you how
but also take you through the transformational process spontaneously as
you read.
What this book will help you to do is to gently drop the counter-
intentions and resistances that may stand in the way of your broader
intentions for a more fulfilling life. Through illuminating inner exercises
and the use of specific words and frequencies, we will gently dissolve the
resistances and barriers in your life during the quiet time that we spend
together.
As such, while I may not know the content of what you are
specifically asking for, you would have let go of much of your emotional
baggage during our time together. You would have, both on a conscious and
an unconscious level, created the much-needed openings in your life for
transformational shifts to occur. When you let go of anything that is not in
line with your true divine nature, that is when the desired good starts
flowing unbridled into your life. Any time you hold on to any last vestiges
of lack or limitation and remain focused on them is when you block the
flow of goodness into your life.
In line with my intentions for this book, I am not going to start off by
telling you what’s possible or what to expect as you read. This would be
akin to setting boundaries that delineate what’s coming next. The great
Lester Levenson once said, “Every thought is a limitation. Every thought
must be limited.”
By stating what is possible, we have already limited the scope of the
transformations that can happen. As we move into the first chapter, I invite
you to consider the sum total of your life experience and the fullness of
what you have experienced so far. Notice how difficult it is to sum up your
life experience in just a few words (or even an entire book). Your life is so
much more than that! The richness and goodness in your life (once you are
willing to see beyond the few undesirable bits) is overflowing and yet there
is still more to come!
I cite this example to show how a simple shift in our perception can
cause our attitudes towards life to vary greatly. When one sees the problems
in their life as one big entangled mess, there is often the tendency to look
for big answers and the urgency to implement massive changes. This is why
there are so many books out there advocating quantum leaps or tantalizing
us with a complete makeover of our lives, often in “thirty days or less.” By
offering drastic solutions to life’s problems, these books play into the minds
of consumers looking for “big” changes. Why? Because small changes are
perceived as too slow and too insignificant to matter. We often desire
everything to change for the better at once.
How can the technique of making small changes apply to our spiritual
lives? I often tell people that to manifest whatever they want in life, they
have to start by worrying a little less. This means focusing a little less on
the negative, undesired aspects of their lives and more on their desired
reality. This is a perfect example of making a small shift on the inside. Yet
most people do not do it because they are looking for big changes and
quantum leaps. To them, dropping just one negative thought a day seems to
be the most counterintuitive and insignificant thing to do. It almost seems
too trivial to matter, and it is. Whether you drop that one negative thought
or not is not going to matter right now, but when added up and compounded
over time, it is going to matter a great deal. It is what makes all of the
difference in the outcome of your life.
Quit trying to make big changes all at once. You would have a much
better chance at long-lasting success if you started with one small thing
today. I used to walk around as a nervous wreck, worrying about every
single thing that would happen to me. I was worried about offending others,
about running out of money, about being a failure in life, amounting to
nothing and so on.
Notice what the crux of the problem is here—The issue is not that the
whole office is against them, but that they have somehow believed their
own thoughts so much that they think it is so. They have placed so much
importance on and allowed themselves to believe wholly in their own
thoughts. The same goes for conspiracy theorists and people who
stubbornly cling to their own beliefs. These individuals are unable to see
alternative perspectives or develop any empathy for another person. Why?
Over time, these individuals have placed so much value and emphasis on
their own thoughts that they come to believe everything that passes through
their mind as true, without realizing that most of our thoughts are nothing
more than the false projections of the ego.
How can you apply this to your own life? You can do so by first
recognizing that one small inner shift can make a huge difference in the
eventual outcome. Therefore, do not dismiss any small changes or shifts
that you make on the inside. Even a small decrease in the intensity of your
worrisome or fearful thoughts is good progress. In a very short time to
come, these small changes which you continually make on the inside will
add up to massive transformations. Therefore, it helps to become a little
more self-aware each day. It helps to become a little more in tune with your
inner state each day, by opening up a little bit more to the nudges which you
receive on the inside.
Second, be easy with all of this. Can you listen to that inner voice just
a wee bit more today? Can you allow yourself to indulge in something
which you have always wanted to do for just a little while, free from
societal pressures and from the expectations of others? Can you listen to
yourself and do something that makes your heart sing for just a few minutes
today? If you can, you would have made much progress on the inside.
When viewed on its own, this little change may seem trivial to you. But you
never know how everything fits together in the grand scheme of things, just
as how I could never have foreseen that the single page I wrote would
eventually become part of a whole book, and a whole series of books. When
I wrote that very first page, what was to come next wasn’t obvious to me.
The greater scheme of things is not for us to figure out, but we can
always follow our inner nudges and take the next small step we are inspired
to. This is perhaps the best method for dissolving longstanding resistant
feelings and habits in our life.
This is why the great spiritual masters often teach that if you have to
pray at all, then pray for more wisdom so you can recognize the truth that is
eternal and omnipresent.
You can be assured that the ensuing change process which happens
for you will always be in your highest good, and will always be in line with
what is most appropriate for you. Give up the false, limiting belief that
change has to be a difficult struggle. Give up the belief that you always
have to hit rock bottom before things can change for the better. The
proverbial “dark night of the soul” is not a necessary step in the process of
change. It only happens when we are unwilling to change and stubbornly
cling on to parts of our old selves. The Universe always knows the most
harmonious and direct path to your healing, health, wellness, and joy. In
fact, you are already that which you seek, so how can things be any
different? In the moment you let go of your stubborn insistence on how
certain things have to happen in a certain way, you free the Universe to
work its magic.
Chapter 3 - What is a Spiritual Path, Anyway?
All through the episode, I felt a very strong inner urge to suck on a
cough drop. I had been introduced to a brand of highly effective French
herbal cough drops from my days as a teacher, in which I would take after
long lectures to soothe my throat. Amidst all the coughing which was
causing my eyes to water and keeping me up all night, I was once again
reminded of those cough drops and how effective they had been for me in
the past.
You would think that I would immediately have jumped out of bed
and reached for those cough drops on the table just a few feet away from
my bed… but alas I did not. Instead, I reasoned that since the cough drops
were coated with a layer of sugar and as I had already brushed my teeth
before going to bed, my dentist wouldn’t be pleased! Hence, I decided to
heal my cough through more “spiritual” means.
For the next two hours, in between coughing and sipping warm water
in bed, I tried every kind of “spiritual” intervention possible. I first tried
praying to God to be healed from my terrible cough. When that did not
seem to work, I tried feeling grateful and visualizing that my cough had
already been healed. Then I tried all sorts of energy healing techniques,
ranging from tapping on my meridian points to channeling the chi
throughout my body to the throat area. Finally, exhausted and desperate to
get a good night’s sleep, I caved in and sucked on two sugar-coated cough
drops. My coughing subsided within five minutes, and I slept all the way
through like a baby.
This humorous but true “cough drops” story illustrates how we often
fall into the trap of looking for “spiritual” solutions to various issues in life,
and end up getting trapped in the process. What does a “spiritual” solution
really look like anyway? What makes a particular path more spiritual than
the other?
Notice how I had a clear inner nudge to take a cough drop the moment
my coughing started. Hence, my higher self already knew what was the best
for me and the path of least resistance in that situation. Had I acted on this
nudge without questioning or reasoning my way through it, I would have
followed the path of least resistance to my desired outcome very quickly.
Instead, I allowed my logical mind to override the inner knowing. I had
allowed my ego to dictate which path was more “spiritual” for me. My ego
prevented me from traversing the path of least resistance, which resulted in
a blocking of my desired good.
Take a look to see how this may be happening in your own life. I
often read stories about how individuals are unwilling to go through certain
medical procedures, instead opting for more “spiritual” interventions which
they believe are more appropriate. But the same questions remain—What
does a spiritual solution really look like? What makes a particular solution
more spiritual than the other? If the good work of God permeates
everything, then why do we still believe that some paths are more spiritual
and better than others?
Buying an item outright with the money you have is no less spiritual
(and no less a testament to your role as a powerful creator) than “attracting”
an item into your life through seemingly spiritual means. Money is really
spirit-in-action, and thus, when you feel a strong inner calling to purchase
an item, you should go for it without second-guessing or holding yourself
back.
Some people tell me, “I can’t bear to spend money on this item.
Hence, I am using metaphysical means to attract it into my life.” If this
thought comes up for you, examine why you can’t bear to spend your own
money in the first place. Is it because of underlying issues of
deservingness? Do you feel that you cannot afford the item in the first
place? Do you feel that you do not really deserve it? Or is the item really
not that important to you? These thoughts are insightful as they point to
deeper and subtle beliefs that lie beneath the surface. Don’t brush those
thoughts aside as frivolous but instead, examine them closely. Why is it that
you think this way? When you get to the core of the beliefs themselves, you
would have pulled these unconscious beliefs into your conscious mind.
Once these underlying beliefs become fully conscious for you, steps can be
taken to let them go.
This is absurd since we are already born creators at the core of our
being, and there is no way we can “prove” to be something more than that
which we already are! It is only when we believe we are not, or that we are
limited in some way, that the need to demonstrate our power arises. Let go
of the need to prove these spiritual laws to anyone else. Instead, rest in the
knowing that you are already a powerful manifestor and that all channels
are open to you the moment you hold an intention for something.
Start by seeing the divine spirit in everything you do. You will realize
that there is really no separation between yourself and everything around
you. The divine spirit permeates everything and everyone, and we are all
part of the same Universal field. When you develop an appreciation for the
seemingly physical world around you, you start to treat everything with a
sense of kindness and respect. Respect not because you are afraid of
offending the divine, but because you recognize that this same divine
perfection also exists within you.
Many spiritual cultures have the tradition of speaking to the inanimate
objects around them. Dr. Hew Len, the Hawaiian spiritual healer who wrote
Zero Limits, could converse freely with inanimate objects such as chairs and
rooms! I used to scratch my head at this practice, wondering whether these
shamans were making things up. This was until I started speaking to my
automobile! Don’t worry, it didn’t sound at all like Herbie, and the
conversation took place in my head.
Are there any manifestation pathways you have denied because they
are not “spiritual” enough for you? Do you consider certain channels to be
more “spiritual” than others? Insisting that your good only comes through
“spiritual” means is a recipe for disappointment since the spiritual is in
everything you do. The Universe doesn’t make such a distinction in the first
place. Divine spirit expresses itself perfectly in all manners and ways, just
as your manifestation pathways always take the form that is most
appropriate for you. When there is a clear inner impulse that feels right to
you and just wouldn’t go away, go for it!
Chapter 4 - The Art of Flowering and Flourishing
Picture a perfect day where everything goes right, from the moment
you wake up in the morning to the time you go to bed at night. You wake up
at just the perfect time in the morning, feeling completely refreshed and
excited about the day before you. The commute to work is light and
enjoyable as you listen to your favorite songs on the radio. As you move
through your day, you meet with the right people and resources to help you
achieve your goals for that day. Everything you ask for is easily done, and
every request is easily fulfilled. You find yourself eating healthy, delicious
food while enjoying the company of your closest friends. There is more
than enough time to do everything you need to do for the day and still get
home early to spend time with your family. You even manage to read one
chapter of a good book and plan for the following day before turning in for
the night.
How does this perfect day sound like to you? Wouldn’t it be nice if
you experienced this perfect day not only once in a blue moon, but every
single day of your life? The truth is that most people’s days do not look like
this at all. They hit the snooze button a few times before dragging
themselves out of bed half-awake. Their morning commute during rush
hour is a stressful journey. By the time they reach the office, they find
themselves rushing headlong into their tasks for the day and hitting various
unexpected roadblocks, all of which only add to their frustration and stress
levels. By the time evening rolls around, they are exhausted and
disappointed at themselves for having achieved so little that day. And so the
cycle repeats itself all over again.
Why do many people’s days not look like the perfect version
described earlier? Author Craig Ballantyne lays out the answer in his book
The Perfect Day Formula. His answer can be summarized in a few words:
Most people do not spend time planning their days in advance. As a result,
they allow their days to happen at random and merely spend much of their
time reacting to various events that occur. I have found Craig’s analysis to
be true, both in the practical and metaphysical sense.
The most important lesson I wish to convey through this series of
books is the importance of conscious, deliberate creation. Abraham-Hicks
calls it the act of “pre-paving.” This means consciously deciding what you
want to create ahead of time and then aligning yourself with the final
outcome. It means starting with the end in mind and then stepping into that
ideal outcome, instead of allowing life to just randomly happen to you and
pass you by. Proper planning is the key to living a happy and fulfilled life.
The second reason why most people’s days are far from perfect is that
they do not believe life can be perfect. We have been taught over the years
about the virtues of hard work and struggle, that “life is not a bed of roses.”
Ironically, these sayings which were meant to encourage us during
challenging times have been turned into excuses for living lousy and
unfulfilled lives where we settle for less than we can be.
Spiritual masters throughout the ages have taught us that we can lead
perfectly abundant and unlimited lives in all areas and at all levels of our
being. This means we can move through our days feeling one hundred
percent happy and fulfilled, where everything and everyone we encounter
pleases us immensely. Everything we ask for can come true in an instant,
and negative feelings can be a thing of the past. So why is this perfect state
still not happening for some people?
But how do you bridge the gap between where you currently are and
where you want to be? Although it would be nice, one does not just
suddenly wake up and find themselves swimming in a large pool of money.
Instead, the secret is to pre-pave this desired reality beforehand and to
gradually ease oneself into it. By doing the inner work necessary and
shifting our inner reality one bit at a time, we are aligning our inner states
with the outer realities which we are trying to create.
The good news is that your perfect life can be delivered to you in
infinite ways. The Universe knows the best ways through which your
desired good can come to you, and it may or may not involve winning the
lottery. In fact, winning the lottery is only one of the infinite ways through
which you can experience more financial abundance in your life… so why
limit yourself? Why insist that your good has to come through this one
particular way out of the myriad of ways that are possible? For some
people, financial abundance can come through having a successful business
or holding a well-paying job. For others, it can come through business deals
and savvy investments. Leave the pathways of manifestation up to the
Universe and just focus on working on your inner state. When the time is
right to take physical action, you will know.
You start off with the final outcome (end result) in mind, which in our
example, is to create more financial abundance in your life. Based on this
endpoint, ask yourself what are some of the mental structures that have to
be in place for you to sustain this outer reality. By mental structures, I am
not referring to physical steps or ways for you to get there. This is where
these teachings differ from the more “action-oriented” methods, in that we
are not looking for tangible ways to achieve our eventual goals. Instead,
what we want to identify here are inner pathways of thinking and feeling
that can help us sustain our desired realities. One commonly used question
to help us along is, “What / How will I feel when I get there?”
The reason why I’m probing you to feel deeply is because most of the
first few feelings that come up are conditioned feelings. We think we will
feel happy and fulfilled when we achieve our goals, which is why we strive
so hard for them in the first place. But is this how we will really feel when
we get there? Or are there deeper feelings that we are going for? Unless we
connect with these deeper feelings, we are not connecting with the actual
feelings underlying our desired manifestations but merely ideal,
romanticized versions of them.
So there you have it, the first piece of the puzzle. One reason why
people unknowingly limit themselves from living a perfect life is because
they have not taken the time to experience the fullness of their inner
feelings. When you experience the unlimited abundance of the inner world
as represented by the richness of your feelings, that is when outer
abundance and prosperity blossoms. Stated differently, your outer
manifestations are limited by the extent of the richness of your inner world.
This inner richness, in turn, knows no limits, except for how deeply you
allow yourself to experience your inner good.
Chapter 5 - Manifestations Without Limits
In the first few chapters that laid the foundation for this book, I
showed you a few common stumbling blocks and unreasonable
expectations that most people unknowingly hold on to. These are the very
same expectations and mental blind spots that hold us back and prevent us
from living the complete manifestation experience.
As we move into the second half of this book, I am going to shift
gears and talk about what you can do to live the full manifestation
experience. By this, I mean living a life where there are truly no limits to
your desires. A life in which every intention you hold comes true within a
very short period of time, and life becomes one exhilarating manifestation
experience after another. A life where all your worries, fears, and negative
thoughts become a thing of the past. In the moment you hold an intention, it
becomes so and materializes in your physical reality soon after. When you
live in such an exalted state, there are no worries or fears because what can
be left for you to be worried or fearful about? You finally recognize and
step into your own power as the creator of your own reality.
I call this joyful state a flowering state. It is a state in which you can
manifest without limits, and thus experience abundance in all areas of your
life. Ancient spiritual masters have called it by many other names: the flow
state, nirvana, enlightenment, a state of bliss. Abraham-Hicks calls it "being
in the vortex."
Whatever labels you ascribe to this eternal state of bliss is not
important. What is more important is that you realize that this state exists
within your reach right now, no matter what your current circumstances
may be. This is your natural state of being. It is your birthright. Since this is
your natural, untainted state, it is possible to step into this unlimited realm
of possibilities just by making a few conscious adjustments on the inside.
The reason why so few people ever reach (or stay in) this state of
eternal bliss and instantaneous manifestations is because most people have
a misguided notion of what this flowering state is supposed to be. We have
been taught that to be more in life, we need to have more. Hence, many
people's lives are revolved around getting or achieving more. They are
always looking out for that one new spiritual technique, one extra
productivity tip, one more course to take, or one new material possession
that will move them closer to this desired end state.
As I have written several times in the past, reaching this state of
flowering is not about having more. It is not an exercise in having, but one
centered on dropping. This is the part that is so counterintuitive and difficult
for the rational mind to comprehend. "How can I possibly improve my life
if I subtract stuff away from it? This doesn't make sense!" This is the
argument which the ego mind always tries to make. That's why letting go is
so counterintuitive. Some people spend their whole lives fighting against it,
not realizing that everything will change in the moment they finally let go
of their stubborn insistence on things.
The true art of manifestations is not about attracting more stuff into
your life, physical or otherwise. Rather, it is about letting go of anything
that is not a part of your true nature. This includes letting go of
disempowering and unresourceful beliefs, attachments to external
conditions, negative emotions and our need to control the physical
circumstances around us. Therein lies the value of these spiritual teachings.
The value of these teachings is not in giving you another "technique" which
you can hoard as part of your spiritual arsenal and use it to manipulate the
world around you when needed. The true value of these teachings is in
lighting a path and showing you the aspects of your being that are not in
accordance with your divine nature.
Once you understand this, then life becomes very simple. There is
nothing more you have to be, do, or have. Doesn't this statement sound
familiar? It is what the spiritual gurus have been saying all along since the
beginning of time! There is nothing more you can add unto yourself that
will make you more complete! You may certainly try all sorts of ways and
means to become complete while believing in the illusion that you are not.
Yet whatever physical actions you take can never detract from your
completeness, although they can certainly make you feel miserable and
pinch you off from the Universal flow.
Let's take a look at a few ways people have used to "find their true
selves" since the beginning of time. To reach that desired state of bliss and
happiness, humankind has tried everything from adventure sports, reckless
behavior to drugs. All of these have worked, but only for a while. After that
temporarily heightened state of excitement has worn off, the individual is
left wanting and off he goes in search of more thrilling adventures. The
cycle repeats itself.
What's the issue here? The answer is obvious. The individual in
question is searching for something more that he can add to his life so that
he can feel complete again, not realizing that he is already complete. His
entire approach is misguided and is focused on having more, not realizing
that what he seeks exists in the opposite direction. If this individual could
just drop all his negative emotions, attachments, thoughts of wanting and
lack, he would be in such a state of pure happiness and bliss that he does
not have to go anywhere or do anything.
Many readers of my books have experienced this state of pure
happiness and bliss for themselves. The breakthrough happens when we
learn how to stay in this state for longer and longer periods at a time until
we are there all of the time. That is all there is to it! When you realize you
don't have to be anything, do anything or go anywhere for something to
happen, you would have been successful in your inner transformation. That
is when nothing ever bothers you again.
I spent one whole decade of my life searching for that magical
spiritual technique or method that would give me everything I wanted. I
was desperate to learn how to "attract" more things into my life. I did all of
this without realizing that I was actually moving further away from my goal
and not any closer towards it. Each time I learned a new technique and
insisted that it had to work, I did not gain a new understanding. Rather, I
only strengthened my attachment to the outer conditions of my life! My
attachment to these various external goals (people, events, and
circumstances) kept me mired in a soup of contradictory feelings. My inner
state was tumultuous and not at peace.
The reason why so little happened for me back then was not because I
was using the wrong techniques, but because my entire approach was
misguided. I kept piling on more stuff onto my already chaotic inner state,
not realizing that it was moving me further away from that manifestative
state which I was looking for. Had I returned my own inner consciousness
back to its originally pure state, everything I asked for would have
materialized in my experience very quickly!
Therefore, the crux of these teachings is to get you back to that pure
and peaceful state. This is perhaps the greatest irony of it all: To live an
unlimited life and truly flourish, one has to first return to zero. It is only
when one restores his inner consciousness to a state of pure nothingness and
beingness that everything starts to happen. The zero state is the state which
encompasses infinite possibilities. It is the state from which everything is
possible, but you have to get there first. You need to make a conscious
intention to get back to zero.
There is a powerful exercise that will greatly aid you in this journey.
As you go about your day, consciously ask yourself whether you are adding
more stuff to your life experience or dropping something that is not needed.
For example, each time you experience a negative emotion, ask yourself
whether you are unconsciously adding something to your life (that is not
part of your basic nature), or dropping something that is unneeded. You will
realize as you go through this exercise that we spend most of our days
picking up unwanted baggage! We not only pick up negative thoughts and
beliefs but also allow ourselves to hold on to negative emotions for
extended periods. This is what Abraham-Hicks refer to as "picking up
resistance along our physical trail."
When you become conscious of the distinction between picking up
and letting go in every moment, you can make a decision to let go of it all.
In fact, the mere conscious awareness that you have unintentionally picked
something up sets off the spontaneous process of releasing, so there is really
nothing else you have to "do" for this process to work. Just cultivating the
simple awareness that you are unintentionally holding on to something will
automatically cause you to let it go.
For example, I may notice that I feel unusually tense after a
conversation with a friend. Upon asking myself the earlier question, I
realize that I have been picking up the worries she shared with me and
holding onto them as if they were mine. I may have done so out of a sense
of concern for my friend, but holding on to anything is wasted energy that
can never achieve anything. Notice that even feeling a sense of concern
adds something to my state of pure beingness. This realization makes me let
go of my negative emotions at once. Those negative emotions were never
part of my divine nature in the first place. Becoming aware of them was the
first step to letting them go.
Similarly, you may notice yourself feeling particularly unsettled after
watching a piece of news or having a conversation with a friend. Even
surfing the Internet or watching the television nowadays can upset our inner
states! Of course, the best thing to do is not to expose yourself to anything
that you know will upset you. The next best thing is to let go of negative
emotions by becoming aware that you are needlessly holding onto them.
You'll be surprised at how much junk you pick up throughout the day.
We feel angry about things and people we hardly know about. We feel the
need to control external people, events, and circumstances that have nothing
to do with us. All of this "wanting to control" moves us further away from
that state of pure bliss, because we have unknowingly added so much
unwanted stuff to our lives. If we allowed all those negative feelings and
emotions to pass right through us like water rolling off a duck's back, we
would be free from them forever. Nothing would be able to upset our inner
peace.
I am sometimes asked why I do not see the need to rebut or defend
myself in a social or professional setting. For example, in response to
certain unkind words that have been said. If you have been following my
logic, you'll instantly see that the act of defending oneself (or one's
viewpoints) does nothing more than move ourselves further away from the
very peace we seek. Defending ourselves (whether by actions or words)
does not make us more "complete." Instead, it upsets our inner balance even
more.
Someone may have uttered unkind words to hurt us, intentionally or
reactively as part of their own deeply embedded beliefs. If we get angry or
defensive in response, then their words or actions have indeed damaged our
inner peace. But if we remain centered on an inner state of love and peace,
then nothing can affect us. The perpetrator ends up disturbing his own sense
of inner peace and nothing more. This is why Abraham-Hicks often teach
that you must value your own happiness more than your desire to be right.
You must want to be happy more than you want to be right.
Physical possessions are another tricky area of our lives. I am not
against material possessions, and I enjoy many beautiful things in my life,
all of which I have intended at some point in time. However, be mindful
that each time you add a physical possession to your life experience, you
are also adding a whole bunch of possible emotional attachments.
Therefore, it is not only the physical object you are adding but also the
related emotions.
It is certainly possible to enjoy a material object purely for what it is. I
enjoy commuting in my car, typing on my laptop and using all the latest
technological gadgets. I appreciate the sense of ease and convenience that
they bring into my life. However, if you find yourself becoming attached to
your material possessions, such as worrying about whether they will be
stolen, damaged or whether you can afford the monthly payments, then you
are needlessly adding more into your life. It is not your material possessions
that affect your inner state, but rather, your emotional attachments to them.
The good news is that you can let your attachments go just like that.
I have always been a gadget lover. In my early days, I was always
worried about losing or damaging one of my gadgets. I was careful not to
drop them and would watch over them like a hawk when I lent them to
someone else! Eventually, I realized that those people whom I loaned my
gadgets to enjoyed using them more than me! They used them without a
sense of attachment and could enjoy their experience to the fullest. On the
other hand, I was always worried about damaging or spoiling one of my
precious gadgets. It was my strong unconscious attachment to them that
resulted in my negative feelings on the inside.
As I deepened my spiritual practice over the years, I was delighted to
learn that I still enjoyed using the same gadgets. The only difference is that
I am no longer attached to them. I see them as something separate from me.
I am just as fine with or without them. I enjoy using them while they are in
my possession, but I know I will be alright with selling or giving them away
when the time comes. Adopting this new mindset has made me enjoy my
hobby even more.
While you may not share the same hobby as me, most of us have
developed similar attachments in other parts of our lives. These attachments
(and not the physical possessions or relationships themselves) are not our
divine nature. In turn, holding onto them affects our inner states and keeps
us from experiencing the fullness of a life without limits.
When you become aware of these attachments and let them go, you
are free.
Chapter 6 - A Return to Zero
In the previous chapter, you wrote down your original intention along
with the emotional undercurrents you detected while holding that intention
in your inner consciousness. All of the negative emotions which you
identified hinder the manifestation of your original intention. The sooner
you let each of those unwanted aspects of your intention go, the faster the
primary intention will manifest in your experience.
Most people do not realize how much energy it takes to cling on to
their negative emotions. By repeatedly holding on to them and suppressing
them in your consciousness, you spend an inordinate amount of energy
flipping between the two extremes. Most people go from feeling really
hopeful about their desires (which means suppressing all these negative
emotions that exist under the surface) to feeling really discouraged that their
manifestations have not shown up yet (which means stewing in these
negative feelings).
As such, what they characterize as a "delay" in their physical
manifestations isn't really a delay at all. They may think they are focused on
their intentions for most of the time. In fact, they are focused on the
negative emotions (or counter-intentions) resulting from the primary
intention. Swinging from one extreme to another results in a chaotic and
tumultuous inner state, which in turn leads to scattered mental energy and
little or no results.
An effective manifestor is someone who takes a light touch and
focuses his or her mental energies very purely on the primary intention
alone. To help you achieve this, I developed a Centering Scale which you
can use.
The Centering Scale is an inner calibration technique. One thing I
noticed in my early days of doing this work is that I lacked an effective
benchmark to measure and track my progress. For example, I knew the
importance of maintaining a peaceful inner state, but how would I know
whether I was truly at peace? I knew the importance of dropping all my
negative emotions, but was I still unconsciously clinging on to any residual
or subtle feelings? The Centering Scale helps you along in your inner
journey by answering these questions.
Before we take a look at the Centering Scale, let us consider how you
rated each emotion on your sheet of paper. Rank order the emotions
according to their emotional intensity. For example, the emotion which you
rated as the most intense will be number one on your list, followed by the
next most intense and so on. If two or more emotions are rated as equally
intense, make a simple comparison between them to see which one is more
intense than the other.
The purpose of rank ordering these negative emotions (also known as
the unwanted aspects of your intention) is so that we can focus our energies
on the biggest issue first. The unwanted aspect which is ranked first on your
list is the one that takes up most of your mental energy and occupies most
of your consciousness. Therefore, the greatest benefits can be reaped from
dealing with it first. When you free yourself from the biggest emotional
issue, you free up your mental capacity to work on the remaining issues.
The process, therefore, becomes easier as you go along.
The concept of a Centering Scale works like this. In the middle of the
scale is the zero point, the point where your purest intention resides. This is
the intention which you have written down and underlined at the top of your
sheet. As I explained earlier, an individual who gets to the point of being
able to hold this intention purely and experience nothing else in his inner
state will live a flowering life experience. He will be able to manifest
without any limits and with very little time lag. This means that if you are
able to write your intention down on that piece of paper and not detect even
the slightest tinge of emotional undercurrent, that intention has to come
true very quickly! Stated differently, your manifestations are delayed
because of all the other stuff that is on that sheet of paper.
To the left of that zero point lies negative space. Anytime you are in
negative space, you are not at the zero point and therefore not at peace.
Similarly, to the right of that zero point lies positive space. Once again, you
are not at the zero point if you are in positive space. I have not really talked
about this positive space so far as the concept may be somewhat abstract
and difficult to grasp. Also, I've discovered that most of our manifestation
blocks tend to occur in the negative space, and taking care of what happens
in the negative space will clear up many issues for most people.
The positive space represents a sense of desire, attachment, eagerness,
or lust for the outcome. Some people may be confused by this concept of a
positive space, since we may believe that it is good to be ambitious and
"want" certain things in life. The truth is that a sense of wanting also moves
us away from the zero point, and therefore keeps us apart from our physical
manifestations. This may be the reason why manifestations do not occur for
some people even after letting go of all their negative emotions. These
feelings of desire and wanting are more subtle and harder to pinpoint than
the straightforward negative emotions.
We may be attached to the outcome without realizing it. This
attachment is so subtle that it often goes undetected unless you do some
serious inner work. One quick way to uncover any sense of attachment is to
ask yourself these related questions: How will I feel if this intention never
ever comes true in my life? How will I feel if I can never have this in my
life? How will I feel if no matter what I do, I will never have what I'm
asking for?
Most people experience a gripping sense of tightness and fear once
they ask this question. I am often surprised to experience this feeling even
after I thought I've done a pretty thorough job of letting go of the unwanted
aspects. Take it as a good sign that more inner work needs to be done and
more stuff needs to be let go of.
Each person will experience his / her attachment in slightly different
ways. I experience mine as a lump in my throat and tightness in my chest.
This is the unconscious attachment which we have developed over time,
such that we experience a sickening feeling in our bodies when we realize
we'll never be able to have something. This is the sense of attachment
(clinging on to) which I'm talking about here, and it represents another
unwanted aspect of your intention. Write this attachment down on the piece
of paper if you did not notice it earlier.
This attachment can be pervasive and may show up in different forms.
For example, a covert attachment to the outcome may result in irrationality
and wishful thinking. We see this in many New Age practitioners when they
start buying into miracle cures and rituals that are not grounded in these
Universal truths. They start believing in certain ritualistic practices or
explore various convoluted means to get what they want. Some even pay a
medium or conduit to "make things happen" for them. All of this behavior
stems from an overriding need to control and influence the outcome, which
ironically moves an individual further away from the zero state.
This attachment may also show up as wishful thinking and a need to
"prove" that these metaphysical laws work to others. Once again, this is a
very subtle behavioral tendency. Do you find the need to "prove" that these
manifestation techniques work to others? Do you find yourself asking for
things just to convince yourself (or someone else) that you can attract them?
This relates to our earlier chapter on insisting that things only happen to us
through supposedly "spiritual" means.
The order which I advocate you drop these unwanted aspects is as
follows. First, drop all of the negative aspects. These are the unwanted
negative feelings that are often easier to identify and take up more of your
mental energy. After you have dropped the negative feelings, you free up
the much-needed mental focus to work on the positive attachments, those
feelings of wanting, lust and desire. Improvements in your outer reality will
start happening the moment you let go of even a small portion of these
unwanted aspects, so the best advice is to start right now, from where you
are.
Before we cover the actual workings of the Centering Scale, I would
like to point out a key feature of this scale. Each point in either negative or
positive space has a counterpart. For example, a sense of strong attachment
and insistence on the outcome (which occupies a point in positive space)
has a corresponding point in negative space. This corresponding point is
represented by a sense of lack or the feeling that you do not have something
yet. The need to control the outcome may also stem from a suppressed
worry that things may not turn out the way you want, and hence the need to
exert control.
Therefore, for every aspect which you have identified, try and see if
its counterpart exists within you. This is a handy way to uncover more
unwanted aspects of the intention which you have not detected.
Every positive or negative point on the Centering Scale is off-balance
and therefore has a polarity. For every positive point, there is a balancing
negative point and vice-versa. However, note that the zero point at the
center of the scale has no balancing counterpart. It is whole, complete and
perfect by itself. It does not need another or something else to make it
complete. This is your true divine nature. You do not need anything more to
make you whole and complete. You already are. Everything is perfect the
way it is. When you restore your inner state to this zero point, you are free
from all the inner turbulence.
Start with the most intense emotion on your list and ask yourself how
far off center it makes you feel. It may be helpful to visualize a straight line
with the zero point right in the middle, with markings to both the right and
left side of that zero point. The more intense the unwanted emotion, the
further away from the center you are.
Suppose that your most intense emotion (rated nine out of ten in terms
of intensity) throws your inner state way off balance when you bring it up.
Allow yourself to feel this emotion fully without suppressing it. Make a
mental note of where you are on the Centering Scale. You should be
somewhere far off to the left, in negative space and away from the zero
point. Once you have identified where you are on the scale, allow yourself
to let this feeling go.
I do so by asking myself the three questions used in the Sedona
Method:
(1) Just for now, could I let this feeling go?
(2) Would I let this feeling go?
(3) When can I let this feeling go?
After you ask each question, pause and take a deep breath. Breathe
out slowly as you answer each of the questions mentally in your mind. We
are not looking for a specific answer here. Most of the time, you'll realize
that the answer is "yes." You can indeed let a negative feeling go because it
is nothing more than a mere feeling. The feeling is not a part of you. It is
something you have inadvertently held on to and allowed yourself to
experience over and over again. Whether you answer "yes" or "no" to each
of the three questions does not matter. You'll be releasing a bit of the
suppressed negative energy as you go through the process.
I take as much time as possible with the process, never rushing
through the three questions. Take as much time as you need to go through
the questions. When you are done, notice where you are right now on the
Centering Scale with regards to this particular emotion. Are you at zero?
Have you moved closer to zero? If you have not, repeat the letting-go
process again. It may take several cycles to completely let go of an
unwanted aspect and restore your inner state to one of peace. I have found
that some negative emotions may require hundreds of cycles to completely
let go off, but do not let that deter you. Once you are free from a negative
emotion, you will be free from it forever.
There are other techniques you can use to let go of unwanted
emotions, such as the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT / tapping) or
Byron Katie's The Work. Use any complementary technique that works for
you.
In the beginning, it will take some time to work through all the
unwanted emotional undercurrents that you have written down on paper. Do
not be surprised if you take a few days to work through the list. It is
perfectly alright to work through one or several items in a single sitting, and
then resume later on. The good news is that you will reap permanent
benefits from doing this work. You will be clearing up major blocks that
stand in the way of your physical manifestations.
Strike each item off the list when you are completely free of the
unwanted feeling. This means that you are able to hold the primary
intention purely in your mind without detecting even the slightest hint of
this feeling. When you successfully do so, you would have returned your
inner state to its zero point that is the most conducive for outer
manifestations.
You may feel a tendency to rush through the process just to strike an
unwanted feeling off the list. Doing so will not serve you, as one cannot
pull wool over the Universe's eyes! The Universe always knows, in each
moment, your precise feelings on every single subject. It is picking up on
your vibrations perfectly. Therefore, while you may convince yourself (or
even others) that you have gotten over an issue, the litmus test is whether
you are able to hold your intention purely without also spontaneously
bringing up that unwanted feeling.
Chapter 9 – Using the Centering Scale for Rapid Vibrational
Fine-tuning
The value of the Centering Scale becomes apparent when you use it as
a tool for vibrational fine-tuning. In the previous chapter, we walked
through the step-by-step method of clearing all unwanted emotional aspects
related to an intention. The long form method is helpful when you are
learning how to use the process. However, as you become more proficient
with the use of the Centering Scale, you should be able to rapidly center any
intentions on the zero point within a matter of seconds. Let's learn how to
do so in this chapter.
The Centering Scale offers a quick and easy way to find out if you are
vibrationally off-balance at any moment. To do so, gently bring your
original intention to mind and observe how you feel on the inside. You may
find it easier to close your eyes and mentally place your awareness on (drop
into) the center of your body, near where your heart is. This act is known as
dropping into heart space. Dropping into heart space disengages your
consciousness from your ongoing stream of rational thoughts and quiets the
mind chatter. The mere act of dropping into heart space alone should make
you feel more peaceful and centered. I provide more details on how to drop
into heart space and talk about the implications in Come and Sit with Me
(Book 1).
Once you are in heart space, do a quick mental calibration by noticing
where you are on the Centering Scale. Recall that at the center of the scale
sits the zero point. This is a very quick calibration which takes just a
second. Ask yourself quietly: Where am I currently on the Centering Scale?
Notice the answer that comes up for you. This is not a question that requires
any additional thought. If you are feeling peaceful and calm on the inside,
then you are at zero. If you detect ripples or any disturbances in your inner
state (characterized by the presence of feelings or thoughts), then you are
off-center.
If you are not at zero, notice whether you are in positive or negative
space. Once again, a thorough analysis of your inner state is not required.
What we are going for here is an intuitive snap judgment that gives you a
sense of where you are. The purpose of the Centering Scale is to provide
you with a method to quickly and accurately map your inner state to a
referent scale.
You can also use numbers to help you in the process. For example,
you may drop into heart space and quickly check where you are on the
Centering Scale. You notice that you are currently a -3 (negative three) on
the scale. This means that you are currently feeling negative emotions on
the inside. These numbers are arbitrary, but they help you translate the
magnitude / intensity of your feelings into tangible terms. For example, a
slight sense of irritation could be -1 on the Centering Scale, as compared to
intense anger which may be -5. The numbers themselves are not important.
Their purpose is to show the relative intensity of your feelings and how far
away you are from the zero point. The larger the number, the further away
you are from that peaceful, centered state.
Let's suppose that you bring up an intention and realize that you are -3
on the Centering Scale. You immediately look around in your inner state to
see what is causing this divergence from the zero point. Upon some
observation, you may realize that this -3 on the scale is caused by feelings
of worry that you will not get what you want. This is when you take a deep
breath and ask yourself the three letting-go questions from the previous
chapter: Could I let this feeling go? Would I let this feeling go? When can
I let this feeling go? You can also use any equivalent spiritual technique, for
example, one round of EFT tapping. At the end of one round of letting-go,
sit quietly and notice where you are on the Centering Scale. Are you still at
-3 or are you closer to peace now at -1? You keep repeating the process
until your point on the Centering Scale shifts.
I have discovered from my personal experience that the further away
from the zero point I am, the easier it is to let go of these unwanted feelings.
This may seem somewhat counterintuitive for you, which is why I urge you
to try this process for yourself. I often find that a -5 on the Centering Scale
becomes a -2 in just one round of letting go. On the other hand, getting
from -1 to 0 may not be as easy.
Repeat the letting-go cycle as many times as needed until you are as
close to zero as possible. Sometimes, you may think you are at zero but still
feel a tinge of irritation, unhappiness, sadness or worry on the inside. This
means that you are not yet at zero. When the emotional undercurrents which
you feel on the inside are very slight, it may be difficult to quantify and
assign a number to them. For example, they may be less than -1 in terms of
intensity. When this happens, congratulations! You have made much
progress and are almost at zero! However, there is still a little more work
that needs to be done.
The Centering Scale is very useful for dealing with subtle emotions
that may color our daily lives without us even realizing it. Most people
walk around with a slight tinge of worry, unhappiness or uneasiness. We
have conditioned ourselves to believe that it is normal to walk around with
these feelings, which is why we carry them all day! You will be surprised at
how much mental energy is required to suppress these feelings and hold on
to them. For example, most people are not breathing as deeply as they can.
Their breathing is shallow because they have unknowingly held on to some
tightness and tension in their bodies.
The true value of the Centering Scale becomes apparent when you get
very close to zero. This is where the breakthrough happens because the
Centering Scale is a sensitive measuring tool for us to drop that last bit of
tightness or tension. For example, you can close your eyes and feel if you
are at zero. If you are not and detect a slightly negative undertone in your
inner state, feel whether you are to the left of zero (slightly negative) or
whether you are to the right of zero (slightly positive) on the scale.
Imagine a highly sensitive piece of industrial measuring equipment
that can pick up very slight disturbances to your inner state. Become very
still and just notice how you feel on the inside without trying to influence
your feelings. If you want, you can imagine a needle either centered on zero
or moving slightly negative or positive (like those found on measuring
instruments).
Once you detect the slightest tension or tightness, ask yourself: Can I
let this last bit of tightness / tension (or whatever description is appropriate
for the feeling) go? Can I let this last bit of irritation go? Can I let this last
bit of unhappiness go? When can I let this last bit of unhappiness go? As
you ask this question, you will spontaneously realize that it is just a mere
feeling that you have been holding on to, and you can let go of this feeling
at any time. You can let go of it right now. Slowly take a deep breath and
exhale slowly as you make this realization.
At this point, I often feel a lot of tension leave my body. I may think
my body is already very relaxed, but as I let go of the remaining tightness,
my shoulders relax and droop down even further. This is a physical sign
that we have let go of any remaining tightness or tension. Repeat the
process until you are completely centered on the zero point.
It is sometimes possible to "over release" and become too excited or
hopeful about the outcome. When this happens, you may find your heart
rate quickening and feel a sense of palpable excitement. Simply use the
process in the same way by identifying where you are in positive space.
You may notice a slight sense of hopefulness which is +2 on the positive
scale. Follow the same process described above to get yourself back to the
zero point again.
Some readers may wonder why there is also a need to let go of
positive emotions and feelings. The logic is the same. All types of feelings,
whether positive or negative, are not a part of our true divine nature. They
are feelings we have inadvertently chosen to hold on to for various reasons.
We hold on to positive feelings because they feel good. When we hold on to
a feeling and believe that it is a part of us, we become attached to
something that is not even real in the first place. Positive feelings about an
outcome can also signal an attachment to what we intend to manifest.
The only place where you can experience your divine nature is from
the zero state. It is the only state where the Universe is completely free to
work its magic without your interference or intervention.
You may find it difficult to stay in the zero state in the beginning. This
is because once you get to zero, you may notice intrusive thoughts that shift
you back into negative or positive space. The key is to quickly let go of
these feelings once you detect them in your inner state, such that you
restore your inner consciousness to one of total calmness and peace. Keep
doing this until you are centered on feelings of calmness and peace.
Being in the zero state can bring up spontaneous feelings of love, joy,
and peace. These are positive feelings that arise naturally by themselves and
are not conditional on any outcome. You can go deeper into peace by
releasing on these feelings as well, which is something I have not discussed
in my previous books up to this point. In all of my previous works, I would
have advocated my readers to immerse themselves in these joyful and
loving feelings. However, if you would like to deepen this work, then
release on these positive feelings as well. Keep letting them go, and you'll
find yourself going even deeper into the peace and stillness.
The zero point is not just a conceptual or imaginary state. I have
explained that it is a state which is extremely conducive for manifestations
precisely because you are doing nothing. You are letting divine intelligence
flow through you, and getting things done through you. For once, you are
not interfering with the flow of Universal energy or working hard against it.
Instead, you are at one and completely aligned with this powerful creative
energy. You are at one with the Universe, the life force, and the Tao. Any
time you center yourself on the zero point on the Centering Scale, you step
into your full potential and harness the same power that creates worlds!
The most miraculous realization happens when you remain centered
on the zero point. I do not wish to spoil the fun for you here, so I invite you
to try it out for yourself and experience what happens! But here's a hint: As
you let go of the successive layers of feelings that come up while remaining
centered on the zero point, you step into the full realization of who you
really are. The best way I can describe this experience is as such: You will
eventually come face to face with the I AM presence that is deep within
you, and you will notice the "I" (infinite stillness) that is at the core of your
being. Coming face-to-face with the I AM presence is a life-changing
experience as it marks the beginning of your flowering life...
Chapter 10 - The Second Dimension of the Centering Scale