I'm not suppose to share my identity, Location and profile to anyone outside here

but my heart do trust you and that is why I'm open to you, Hope my identity is safe
with you ?

3. Would u want to get married again ?

ANS:Married again, if I found the right woman, and everything was good yes.

. When is your birthday?

.Do you like to play with the heart of a man?

ANS:I don't play games, I had my heart played with another woman and i wouldn't do
that to anyone, I've been hurt before and I don't wish that on anyone.

6. What are your favorite types of food?

ANS:: My favorite food are Rice, Vegetable ,meats,And I eats plenty of Fruits and
Vegetable, I also do like to eat French Pizza and Pasta, I never speak negatively I
enjoy exotic fruit salad... crestless smoked salmon, leek, and mushroom quiche. My
favourite is Besan ka laddoo but you just have to try boondi ke laddoo, Sandesh,
Coconut Barfi, Gujia.
I could go on for a while actually! Do not just take my word for it though. Try it
out.

9. What type of music do u listen to?

I like all kinds of music, christian music, I can listen to most anything,like
Love songs(Blues 70's & 80's) Country Music.

00.Do you like sports or outdoor activities?

I like going to ball games i like watching them on TV. I do like to watch the
skaters on TV sometimes, i love football so much..

When you drink what type of drinks do you drink?Sometimes the body needs a little
bit of alcohol so it is good to take a little for the night. I really do enjoy red
wines and white wines because they have their differences. You know red wine goes
with seafood, chicken, turkey, Chinese food and sometimes pork and white wine goes
well with red meats such as beef, roasts and filets, lamb, duck, pastas and
sausages. Have you ever tasted Australian dry red wine?

17. What would ur ideal mate be like in terms of education, body type, and overall
personality?
ANS:My ideal mate, education as long as we can communicate, no requirements on body
type, personality wise, someone honest, truthful, with integrity, with a sense of
humor, someone devoted to the relationship, someone to be my equal, someone who can
be passionate, someone who only wants to love me other than the family

18:Would you ever apologise to your husband when ever you at fault or your prefer
him apologise?
ANS:When I'm wrong I will be the first to admit it, I'm not perfect, i do make
mistakes

19. If you and I were a couple and we have a disagreement, how would you handle it?
unresolved and act like nothing happened?
ANS: When as a couple we fight I expect to work the problems out, usually by
talking, from my past I found if you let things go unresolved they never go
away ... so i wil talk to you and will understand you and make sure we understand
each other.

22. Is there any male beside myself, that you are trying to know or that wants to
know you ? answer go to dr frmt

11. Do u take showers or bath?

ANS:I do baths at nights, almost everynight ritual, i love hot water and shower in
the AM

12. If you were giving three chances to make a choice in life what would you
choose?
ANS:My three choices in life would be me .. my kid and my parthner ..

13. Are u an affectionate person?YES Do u like to kiss?

ANS:I'm very affectionate and i like kissing ...no matter here i am even if in
public .. but with
the right person.

14. Do you have any tattoos or body piercing?

ANS: No tattoos .. i dont like them

8. How tall are you?

ANS:I'm 5' 7"

10. Are u right handed or left handed?

ANS:I'm right handed

15. Are you a handy woman?, for example if I bought a ceiling fan can u put it in?
ANS: I'm very handy,

7. Do u attend church?
ANS:I don't attent church regularly, I was raised Catholic, and had to go to church
daily, I feel that religion is to hypocritical so I'm spiritual and believe in the
Almighty

16. Do you like to cook? YES Can u cook?

ANS:Yes I can cook...as I said ..

20. When was the last time you had sex? Are you what Americans call a freak in bed?
I enjoy the physical part of a relationship .freaky??
ANS:Last time I had sex was about 3years ago , the last time was with my ex, in my
younger years I'm very physical with my woman and hope he is the same, if I'm
freaky only she will know it. Sex is an important part of a relationship and it's
natural.

21. What is your favourite -place to go?

ANS: My favorite place the beach ...
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23. Do u wear jewelry?

ANS:yes I wear jewelry... gold once .

24. Where were you born?

ANS: I was born in Norway..and have been in the state for some years now ..
25 ..Would you rather live in a large urban city, a
small town or in the countryside?Why? I will love the countryside because of nature

27. Are u a night or morning person?

ANS:.I'm more of an afternoon person, I don't like getting up early unless for
something special. and I usually go to bed late

28.what is your favourite -movie?

ANS:My favourite movies is HITCH by Will Smith .it all about love....

29 .What was your most memorable childhood moment?

ANS:Christmas timewould be the most memorable,as i surely know i will get some
sweets and candy's..Lol

30.What's the funniest thing that has ever happened to you?

ANS:Funniest thing.... a cab ride in Las Vegas, it was with a wild driver, when we
got to the destinations we actually fell on the floor laughting.. I will tell you
more about it late

31.What was your most embarrassing moment?

ANS:Most embarrassing , Right after I posted my profile online I was at a work
location and one of the female employees told me he seen my pic & profile, he now
always mentions it when I visit that location.

32.What was the single most significant turning point in your life?
ANS: Turning point in my life, my fathers death, it made me realize you really
only have yourself, it made me a strong independent man

33.What things do you feel passionate about?

ANS:What do I feel passionate about, my kid, my job, my life the Almighty, someday
a Woman , I hope.

34.Do you believe in love at first sight?

I do believe in love at first sight, you must be able to determined if its
infatuation or actually love. However, sometimes you can sense it.

35.What's the difference between love, romance and sex?

ANS:Love is feeling deep into your soul, willing to give your all, romance is the
act of being in love, the attitudes, the things you do or say, sex is physical
gratification, sex can be different than making love, you can have sex but not be
in love..

36.Do you believe it is proper for people to express their feelings in public?
ANS:To a certain degree, not to explict

37.What is your idea of a dream... ?

ANS:MY idea of a dream, finding that true love, that fairy tale love, Happily ever
after..and be with her ..

38.If you had three wishes, what would they be?.

ANS:Three wishes, good health for all myself and mykid, Being able to help all
those I love financially, and finding my soul mate

39.What do you want most from life??

ANS:To be loved truely & honestly, to be able to be true to my self and to live
each day to the fullest and for my kid to find the same

40.What do you do when you feel sad or depressed?

ANS:When i' sad or depressed I watch movies or try to play with ym kid and talk to
my friends on the phone ..

41.What do you do when you feel angry or upset?

Same as the above

42.What three words best describe you?

ANS:Organized, Happy, Reliable

43.What is your idea of a perfect date?

ANS:Someone I truely care about and feels the same about me, don't have to do
anything special just being together.

44.What is your favorite romantic gesture?

ANS:Having my partner give me a massage or me giving the massage- Or letting me be
me

45.What are the top ten gifts you love would like to receive?
ANS:Trust, honesty, love unconditionally, sense of humor, communication, then comes
flowers , chocolate for my kid , jewelry(for men ), Gift card and any other thing
form the heart of the giver

46.What is your idea of the perfect romantic gift?

Romantic gift all the above...

47.What is your idea of the perfect romantic vacation?

ANS:Perfect Romantic vacation, being with the true love, on a private beach
watching the sun see or rise as we chat ..

48:would you ever spend fund on assisting your partner when in need or in
trouble ??
ANS:When I'm in a committed relationship I feel we share everything, what I have
they have, I'm not selfish and expect the same....

Good evening to you. I want to share a poem with you. TREES. I think that I shall
never see. A poem lovely as a tree. A tree whose hungry mouth is pressed. Against
the earth's sweet flowing breast,;. A tree that looks at GOD all day. And lifts her
leafy arms to pray: A tree that may in summer wear. A nest of robins in her hair;.
Upon whose bosom snow has lain;. Who intimately lives with rain. Poems are made by
fool's like me,. But only God can. Make s Tree. This poem was written by Joyce
Killer. It is a nice poem. I found this poem when i was in college .. I'm having a
free day today and Feeling great. I hope you have enjoyed your night ?

Lost is the girl

With the lonely smile
She waits for her love
A long and weary mile
He stole her heart
Before she�d even seen
He�d be her prince
And she�d be his queen
Though far away
She knows in her heart
A connection between them
Cannot be torn apart
Born to love him
All of her life
She awaits his return
With no grief or strife
Love brought them near
And will see them to the end
Together they�ll be,
Their distance time will amend.

Wherever I am, there's always Pooh,

There's always Pooh and Me.
Whatever I do, he wants to do,
"Where are you going today?" says Pooh:
"Well, that's very odd 'because I was too.
Let's go together," says Pooh, says he.
"Let's go together," says Pooh.

"What's twice eleven?" I said to Pooh.

("Twice what?" said Pooh to Me.)
"I think it ought to be twenty-two."
"Just what I think myself," said Pooh.
"It wasn't an easy sum to do,
But that's what it is," said Pooh, said he.
"That's what it is," said Pooh.

"Let's look for dragons," I said to Pooh.

"Yes, let's," said Pooh to Me.
We crossed the river and found a few-
"Yes, those are dragons all right," said Pooh.
"As soon as I saw their beaks I knew.
That's what they are," said Pooh, said he.
"That's what they are," said Pooh.

"Let's frighten the dragons," I said to Pooh.

"That's right," said Pooh to Me.
"I'm not afraid," I said to Pooh,
And I held his paw and I shouted "Shoo!
Silly old dragons!"- and off they flew.

"I wasn't afraid," said Pooh, said he,

"I'm never afraid with you."

So wherever I am, there's always Pooh,

There's always Pooh and Me.
"What would I do?" I said to Pooh,
"If it wasn't for you," and Pooh said: "True,
It isn't much fun for One, but Two,
Can stick together, says Pooh, says he. "That's how it is," says Pooh.

I wrote this poem when I fell in love with one of my friends.

I never really knew you,

You were just another friend.
But when I got to know you,
I let my heart unbend.
I couldn't help past memories,
that would only make me cry.
I had to forget my first love,
and give love another try.
So I've fallen in love with you,
and I'll never let you go.
I love you more than anyone,
I just had to let you know.
And if you ever wonder why,
I don't know what I'd say.
But I'll never stop loving you,
each and every day.
My feelings for you will never change,
just know my feelings are true.
Just remember one thing,
I Love You!!!

You were just another true friend,

Time went on, our friendship got closer.
My feelings caught fire. You took me all in,
Now, we're truly wrapped together. yes we are.

You made me forget, my true past love,

I gave this love, another try with you.
Now, I've fallen, madly in love,
feelings I feel, moments are real. Here to stay!

My love, my friend, it started right here,

True friends we were, love creeping right in.
I love you now, you have no choice,
My feelings for you, can't be undone.

Just know my feelings are pure and true,

Just remember one thing, I will always love you

We have something, that holds us tight,

Something we like and treasure together.
Something called, being a friend,
we have blended, nice and tight.

We can't be undone, that's the way it is,

We're going through this life, side-by-side.
Nothing, or, no one, can come between us,
this is the way it will be, we agree.

I really want for you to know,

even though, we are so far apart,
I'll never stop being your friend.
This is the way it will be, I know.

And, you're my one and only true friend,

That's here to stand, by my side.
With lots of love, you give to me,
remember this, at every time, you are my friend!

I'm always thinking of you, that�s nothing new,

I thought of you, just yesterday, the day before that too.
For every day, good or bad, you're always on my mind,
I hope you understand, the way I feel inside.

This isn't just a joke, or a silly lie,

I�d never do anything, to make you cry.
I�m sorry, have I done anything, you don't really like?
it only returns and make me sad.

I really do love, everything about you,

I hope this relationship, gets really far.
I�ll never leave you, It's not on my mind,
in fact I�m thinking, of you right now.

You�re everything I need and everything to me,

you're exactly who I want, in every way.
You always make me smile, it's nothing new,
Just remember this, I'm thinking about you!

TRUST AND FAITH

Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much
you love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him or her
first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you
find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is
what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.

Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith
is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they
need some helpLove makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is
special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her
realize how much you really love her.

Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love
is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned
to you to give again and again.

You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be
trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.

For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world.Love is patient.

Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud........ It is
not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of
wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.

It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope,
wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be
enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple
understanding and trust between two people.....

relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire.

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or
something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives
you support when you need it.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be

things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization
with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with
your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If
someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants
and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally
developed enough for you to have your needs met.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to
have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are
they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is
married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie
about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like
everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your
relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.

There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and
open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire
in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly
discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving
relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your
needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not
be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper
relationship with your partner...
If you had three wishes, what would they be?:
Wish 1: I wish we could go back to a time of innocence. When children could enjoy a
longer childhood. And modesty was the norm. When America was "good." (Nothing makes
us blush anymore.) Wish 2: I wish I had pockets like the fellow in a comic book I
read when I was 8. [I think he was under some kind of spell and had to wear a
kangaroo suit (or maybe he became kangaroo-like)] Every time he reached in to give
$$, there was always plenty in his pouch. Wish 3: I wish my mother's back miss her
so much.

How important is it to you that your partner fulfill traditional gender roles?
Would you like a woman who will cook, shop and keep house? Would you like a man who
maintains the cars, manages the finances, and is handy around the house?:
I like traditional gender roles. I like being the homemaker. I believe God called
me to be a homemaker. BUT - I am not used to the traditional 'split'. My dad was a
hard worker so my mom assumed a LOT of his 'household' responsibilities in addition
to hers whenever he was on deployment. After being single for 6 years I am capable
of all aspects of whatever it takes to maintain a home. I am comfortable with that,
too. I always wish I didn't have to work outside the home, but who doesn't? ON a
case by case basis, I would prayerfully consider whether I should be the sole
support for a fellow. (Believe it or not, lots of girls just want to sponge off a
working man.)

They say life is about simple pleasures, what is your simplest pleasure, and how
does it make you feel?:
My simplest pleasure is giving; all kinds of giving. It may be doing a favor or
helping a person overwhelmed with responsibilities. It may be giving cash or food
in a person's time of need, or spending time with someone in need of attention.
Giving 'opportunities'- for example, when I had a convertible I liked to give rides
to people who had never ridden in a convertible before. Giving surprises - keeping
my ears open for what a person says she/he would like and then getting it for them
at a later date. Giving home-made gifts. Just giving. I'm not sure I get a special
'good' feeling from the act of giving (in fact I feel kind of self-conscious,
hoping that the person won't make too big of a deal out of it), but I do feel good
when I recognize that I am able to give and I start planning the act.

What do you find physically attractive? :

The person does not have to look like a movie star. If the person is clean and it
is important to them that they look nice in whatever they wear. It is more
important to me what is in the heart and the person's character.

What are you looking for in a relationship partner?:

I would love to meet someone that we can share things together,in the good
times&bad times. We both need to give 100% in a relationship. Also, should be
someone that is willing to listen to what you have to say and how you feel about
things. To be able to have someone in my life again to share things with and have a
loving and caring relationship. I also believe in strong family ties and enjoy
spending time with family and friends. Also need someone that will share my faith
with me and we can attend church together. Just being able to share things and time
with that special one is very special to me. We would be helpmates to each other
and love and support each other. I suppose I could keep listing other things, but
maybe you can get an overall picture of how I feel.

Describe your ideal woman.:

My ideal woman, would be a Strong woman of God, and all the above things I listed
in a relationship partner.She would be a strong woman of character and have
integrity. This person would be someone I would want to spend the rest of my life
with and grow old with.

What have you learned from past relationships?:

I have learned that we can close our eyes for only so long when red flags appear
many, many times during a relationship and no work is done to resolve them. I have
learned that without practicing strong relationship skills everyday, our growth
paths can diverge quickly and we can become strangers in our own beds. After so
long on divergent paths, we have lost our whole loving relationship forever. I have
learned that I truly need a loving woman to complete and inspire me to higher
levels of love and growth. I now know that I am ready and very willing to help her
complete herself and work alongside of him gently urging her on, really both of us
urging each other on, as we strive for the ultimate closeness and love with God and
with each other.
How do you act when you're angry?:
If it is during an interaction with a loving partner, I ask many questions to try
to understand the event or words that brought up some anger in me. If my partner
and I are very good at deep conversations and listening skills, I will not be
hesitant about being expressly honest in telling her how I feel inside. Perhaps
together we can figure out how these feelings came about. With discussion minus
flaring tempers, but filled with patience and determination to resolve these
uncomfortabe feelings, my anger melts away very quickly.

How would you describe your childhood relationship with your mother and/or father?:
I come from a small family, only child of my parents. My parents also dont come
from large families - my mom had 2 sisters and my father was the only child of his
parents.. My parents were intelligent. My mom also had beautiful, angelic nurturing
qualities that astound me even today and I pray I have been gifted with some of
them. I think, with my own family and the profession I am in that creates great
passion in me, I am seeing more and more of my nurturing gifts supporting most
people I come in contact with. And I thank God everyday for this wonderful gift. My
dad fed a strength in me that helped me to survive and continue to survive
difficult circumstances.

Describe some personal habits that are important to you.:

I carry a toothbrush with me, I really like being clean, but I can hike/camp, work
in the dirt etc and deal with all of it when necessary.

Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could share
with you.:
Going to the beach, Talking Walks at the parks. Meeting new friends, travelling
together and explore Love and Nature.

During a typical week, what sort of physical activities do you enjoy?:

Walking, mostly. I like to work out, but not alone