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DEBATE Marriage
DEBATE Marriage
To open this debate, I would like to say that I will stand by every statement that is
about to be said in this court, with that said i would just like to mention to everyone
that, to some, marriage may be a trivial matter, to some it is the pursuit of happiness
and something to aspire to. Telling someone "you cannot get married" is seen as a
direct interference with their personal life however to counteract that, and i would
like to define the concept of marriage. Marriage is plural in both content and
meaning, Indeed that society has shown constant adaptivity in our current era
compared to the past, but this current society has many controversial topics in our
modern world and understanding, one of the most controversial is same-sex
marriage & relationship specifically, therefor we are required to be cautious of how
we act towards that issue and/or controversy, with many pending controversies that
are just waiting to be discussed, society is not just ready to accept same-sex
marriage, no matter how many laws are made to legalize same-sex marriage, it still
won't change overnight, society hasn't yet ripen enough for it to accept such a
controversy, maybe in time people will start to accept it, but while we are not there
yet, we shouldn't be debating about such a matter
i would like to mention some quotes, which shows my best arguments than i ever
could:
'change the way you look at things and not the things you look at change' - Wayne
Dyer
and 'not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until
it is faced.'
-James Baldwin
To solidify our first speakers statement, I would like to define, again, the term of
marriage. Marriage, a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man
and a woman, that is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs, and attitudes that
prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their offspring.
It was created for 3 primary purposes: companionship, procreation, and redemption.
Same sex marriage can be term of insult especially in a Filipino culture and Christian
beliefs. Same sex marriage are not really talking about love in addition to that its also
about pride, passion, and having the validation because of their success in union. The
same sex couple in the Philippines want to have that validation because of their
American counterpart. But in this case, given that Philippines is a religious country,
we are not ready to be liberated and accept the same sex marriages.
In addition, marriage are meant to be done by a male and female couple to create a
family, and how could a gay couple create a family when they had both genders?
When gay couples continue to grow more it will possibly decrease our population. I
know you will say adoption is possible, yes it is possible but it's risky due to the fact
that bullying is a factor highly popular in today's era. Many children can be
abandoned for these events already happened in other countries. (Article 276) of the
Philippines constitution or neglecting a child and has a penalty of 10,000 pesos to
15,000.
I rest my claim and our 3rd speaker will further the reason of our stand.
Third Speaker
Due to the culture and religious status of our country same sex marriage may not be
accepted or welcomed by the majority of the citizens. It may be inadequate to
suddenly imposed it to the people especially to the older traditional Filipino
population.
It is difficult to judge and assess the right time to make a change, and I do not believe
one must wait until the last moment to do so, but I do not believe we have reached
that hypothetical breaking point with the issue at hand, hence the court's rather
neutral position, advanced the theory that a relationship between two same-sex
"partners" is a type of "family relationship" that is protected under Article 8 of the
Convention.
This theory simply demonstrates that the Court was unwilling to take a more
decisive path, which in this case would have elevated same-sex marriage to the same
legal status as traditional marriage.
Given the apparent laissez-faire social attitude that most developed countries
have adopted, why wouldn't they go all the way with the ruling?
And it also states in the EXECUTIVE ORDER NO. 209 - THE FAMILY CODE OF
THE PHILIPPINES
In Art. 68.- The husband and wife are obliged to live together, observe
mutual love, respect and fidelity, and render mutual help and support.