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Have you ever read a social media message from a friend and not been sure what they
meant? Was it sarcasm? Were they being critical? How do you get across your emotions in
a short message? How do you avoid offending someone when it’s hard for them to pick up
the signals without seeing you? It is said that over eighty percent of our communication is
non-verbal – that is, we use body language and gestures to convey how we are feeling and
what we really mean. Instead, we now use emojis to add artificial emotion to what we
write. For example, if we make fun of our friend in a face-to-face conversation, then a look
or grin can let them know we mean no harm. But in a social media message, we add a
laughing emoji to let them know we are joking without explaining the whole joke.
In situations like these, emojis are possibly a poor substitute for the skill body language
employs in conveying our feelings and intentions. It’s a bit like adding dried garlic out of a
packet to our spaghetti because we can’t be bothered to peel and chop a garlic clove; it
does the job, but it’s not the real deal. People are increasingly using icons as a substitute
for not only body language but for written language as well; these icons ensure you can get
information across quickly, without much effort.
Younger generations spend more time communicating in this way than using face-to-face
communication or indeed by carefully writing in the traditional way that that older
generations were used to. Maybe they are now more at home in ‘chatting’ than talking to
someone. This is evidenced when you see friends sitting in coffee shops messaging each
other over the table or at home from a few metres away. Why? Because in a world of
convenience and instant gratification, it’s easier.
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I think it’s possible that we are slowly losing our ability to talk to one another. People will
have so little practice interpreting body language that it will become too uncomfortable for
them to interpret face-to face verbal communications without the support of emojis. I feel
that, sadly, we will eventually come to a point where it will simply become a lost art. In my
opinion, this was not just the dawn of the age of the digital world; it also possibly brought
about the beginning of the end of thousands of years of communicative evolution.
C) Complete the sentences with the words from the box. There is one extra.
1. If I’m bored on the train, I like to _strike up_ a conversation with a fellow passenger.
2. I was _devastated__ when I heard Joan was leaving. It was very sad news for me.
3. There is a lot of information to __take in____ during this workshop. You need to
write it down.
4. My father prefers _dealing with__ a problem the moment it appears, instead of
waiting until later.
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5. How do you think an alien civilization might try to __establish___ contact with us
here on Earth?
6. Let me know when you _figure out___ a solution to that Maths problem.
D) Complete the second sentence so that it means the same as the first,
including the word given in capitals.
1. In societies with strong family relationships, people tend to live longer. BOND
Societies that __create a strong bond___ with their families tend to live longer.
2. The passenger started talking to him at the waiting lounge. STRUCK
He _struck up a conversation__ with him at the waiting lounge.
3. She gave the impression of being very self-confident. ACROSS
She _came across as___being very self-confident.
4. Zoe commented on how nice her dress was. PAID
Zoe _paid her a compliment_ about her dress.
5. I immediately liked him. TOOK
I __took to him___immediately.
6. We found it really funny. LAUGH
We really __had a laugh__about it.
7. I didn't really have a good impression of her friends when I met them. OFF
I didn't really __hit off__with her friends when I met them.
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F) Complete the mini-dialogues with a question tag or echo question.
Suggested Answer:
Hi Renata,
I’m writing this email to you because I felt bad about our group chat yesterday. When I
wrote that I don’t like to share all my lecture notes because I think everybody should
attend, listen to lectures, and take their own notes, I didn’t mean you personally, but
you are right in a way to take offence. For that, I am truly sorry.
I know that you asked for my notes the other day, and you know that I gladly shared
them with you. You don’t normally ask for others’ notes as you are a very hard-working,
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conscientious student. The only reason you did ask for them last time is because you
were sick the previous week. So, it is perfectly understandable.
But you see, this is the disadvantage of texting. It is impossible to express oneself
properly. When I saw that you left the group after sending a sad emoji, I realized my
mistake, but it was too late. So, please accept my apology now and let’s grab a cup of
coffee after class tomorrow, OK? I really value your friendship. Also, I have some juicy
stories to share with you. LOL.
Take care,
Stephanie