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    The author shares their challenging journey to self-love and connection with others. They grew up with neglectful parents who were unable to connect with them emotionally. As a child and young adult, the author struggled tremendously with feelings of loneliness and a lack of self-worth. Over many years and through therapy, the author was finally able to understand that their parents' inability to connect was not a reflection of their own value. They learned to find purpose by helping others and establishing caring relationships. This allowed the author to fully heal from the lack of connection in their early life.

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    The author shares their challenging journey to self-love and connection with others. They grew up with neglectful parents who were unable to connect with them emotionally. As a child and young adult, the author struggled tremendously with feelings of loneliness and a lack of self-worth. Over many years and through therapy, the author was finally able to understand that their parents' inability to connect was not a reflection of their own value. They learned to find purpose by helping others and establishing caring relationships. This allowed the author to fully heal from the lack of connection in their early life.

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    The author shares their challenging journey to self-love and connection with others. They grew up with neglectful parents who were unable to connect with them emotionally. As a child and young adult, the author struggled tremendously with feelings of loneliness and a lack of self-worth. Over many years and through therapy, the author was finally able to understand that their parents' inability to connect was not a reflection of their own value. They learned to find purpose by helping others and establishing caring relationships. This allowed the author to fully heal from the lack of connection in their early life.

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    Table of
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    Introduction
    My Challenging Road to Self-Love and Connection

    Mistake 1:
    Choosing the Intent to Control Rather Than the Intent to Learn

    Mistake 2:
    Judging Yourself and Ignoring Your Feelings

    Mistake 3:
    Focusing on Getting Love and Approval to Feel Worthy

    Mistake 4:
    Trying to Control Others to Get Love

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