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Stanfield Psy 269 Paper
Stanfield Psy 269 Paper
Bisexuality is one of the most common sexual minorities, with approximately 3.5% of
American females and 1.1% of American males self-identifying as bisexual (Chandra et al., 2011
qtd. in Crooks et al., 2021). Yet, despite being a more prominent identity, bisexual individuals
are often the victims of scrutiny. Bisexual individuals fall victims to prejudices regarding their
sexuality, such as the belief that they are more sexually promiscuous, less loyal to their partners,
or are lying about their sexual orientation (Ross et al., 2018). In turn, bisexual individuals feel
shame about their identity. Bisexual-identifying individuals may feel as though they are not
“queer” enough to be members of the LGBTQ+ community (Flanders et al., 2017). Either by
coming out or not coming out, bisexual individuals feel as though their identity is invalid. As a
result, bisexual individuals have poorer mental health than their monosexual counterparts,
including both heterosexual and homosexual individuals. Bisexual individuals are far more likely
to struggle with anxiety and depression (Ross et al., 2018) as well as have increased risks for
substance abuse (Dodge et al., 2016). However, bisexual individuals who either directly or
indirectly identify themselves as bisexual are far more likely to feel validated in their identity,
feel as though they belong to the LGBTQ+ community, and experience better mental health
(Davilla et al., 2019). Bisexual individuals most often cite the need for open and honest
conversation regarding who they are as the reason they came out (Berghaus, 2021). Bisexuality
is a unique identity from its counterpart of monosexual identities; therefore, those who identify
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Bisexual individuals comprise 40% of the LGBTQ+ community yet face extreme
prejudices regarding their sexuality from monosexual individuals, including the homosexual
community (Brown, 2017 qtd. in Crooks et al., 2021). False beliefs regarding bisexuality play a
large role in the ostracization of bisexual individuals. Ross et al. found and identified three
discrimination, bisexual invisibility and erasure, and lack of bisexual-affirmative support (2018).
Sexual orientation-based discrimination includes generalized homophobia toward any and every
identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Bisexual invisibility and erasure, however, are specific to
Monosexuals, both straight and gay, may hold the belief that bisexual identities are
steppingstones toward homosexuality. The common phrase, “Bi now, gay later,” a play on a
bisexual men (Dodge et al., 2016). Yost & Thomas found in 2012 that bisexual men are assumed
more often to be “really gay,” whereas bisexual women were assumed to be “really straight”
(qtd. in Crooks et al., 2021). Whether male or female, bisexual identities are erased and
Bisexual individuals also lack affirmative support for their identities. Flanders et al.
found in their qualitative study with bisexual participants that they felt as though they had to
frequently engage in sexual intercourse with different partners who varied in gender identity so
that they could “prove” their bisexuality to monosexual individuals (Flanders et al., 2017).
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Bisexual individuals may also find a lack of support for their identities as a result of poor
conceptions of bisexual loyalty and the idea that bisexuals are sexually deviant (Ross et al.,
2018). A national study conducted by Dodge et al. found that Americans believed bisexual
individuals are at an increased risk for contracting sexually transmitted infections (2018). This
belief comes as a result of Ross’ identified prejudice that bisexual individuals engage more
frequently and less safely in sexual encounters than their monosexual counterparts (Ross et al.,
2018). Consequently, Dodge et al. discovered that Americans identified bisexual individuals as a
bridge population for sexually transmitted infections, particularly HIV/AIDS, because they
engage in sexual encounters with members of both sexes. This leads to bisexual individuals not
disclosing their identity to healthcare providers as they fear discrimination in a healthcare setting
(Dodge et al., 2016). As a result of homophobia, lack of identity validation, and a lack of support
for bisexual identities, bisexual individuals may not disclose their identities in general.
However, attitudes toward bisexual individuals seem to be shifting. Dodge et al. found
that one-third of their participants indicated neutral feelings toward bisexual individuals.
Although Dodge and colleagues agree that neutrality still allows biases to operate, a shift from
negative to neutral may be indicative of a potential change toward positivity in the future.
Further, the shift toward positivity is growing evident as participants under the age of 25 were
more likely to indicate positive feelings toward bisexual identities (Dodge et al., 2016). Positive
attitudes toward bisexual individuals remain essential as biphobia has real, lasting impacts on
bisexual individuals.
Effects of Biphobia
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identifying people. Multiple studies have concluded that bisexual individuals have poorer mental
health than any individuals with a monosexual orientation, whether straight, gay, or lesbian.
Bisexual individuals face health disparities which researchers believe are the result of
discrimination and negative attitudes (Dodge et al., 2016). However, the biggest health disparity
individuals have the worst mental health outcomes and are also at a higher risk for substance
abuse and addiction. Particularly, bisexual individuals struggle with depression and anxiety more
than the monosexual population (Ross et al., 2018). Researchers have identified that generalized
homophobia, biphobia, and a lack of affirmative support are at least in part to blame for such
poor outcomes.
struggles as bisexual-identifying people and discovered that each individual struggled with their
bisexual identity as a direct result of biphobia (2017). Areas of struggle that resulted in poor
mental health included navigating relationships, sexual encounters, and maintaining their
identity. Many participants indicated that they struggled to remain in monogamous relationships,
particularly relationships with the other sex. One participant explained that if they are not in a
monogamous relationship, they are reinforcing the stereotype that bisexual individuals are
hypersexual. However, if they are in a relationship, they feel as though others perceive them to
be monosexual based on the gender presentation of their partner (Flanders et al., 2017). In
another participant’s words, “[...] you’re pretty much damned if you do and damned if you
Bisexuals in Flanders et al.’s study also indicated that they experienced poor mental
health as a result of their inability to navigate sexual relationships. To “prove’ their identity,
many felt pressured to have frequent sexual encounters with both sexes which not only
contributed to their struggle with monogamy but also their sexual health. Having multiple sexual
partners across the gender spectrum at once led to some participants feeling as though they could
not maintain a healthy relationship and also led them to practice unsafe sexual health practices,
all so they could ‘prove’ their sexuality to others. On the opposite end of the spectrum, other
bisexual individuals indicated they struggled in sexual relationships with the same sex because
they felt as though they were not “queer enough” to navigate a same-sex relationship (Flanders et
al., 2017). Bisexual individuals have difficulty navigating both romantic and sexual relationships
as a result of the prejudices and subsequent pressures that come with being bisexual. In both
scenarios, bisexual individuals feel the need to prove their identities to others. Yet, another
source of anxiety and depression for bisexual individuals is the pressure to come out as non-
heterosexuals.
Coming out, for any non-heterosexual, can be difficult. Anyone who is non-heterosexual
is subject to homophobia, discrimination, and prejudices as a result of being out. However, due
to the nature of biphobia, bisexual individuals are less likely to come out as bisexual. Bisexuals
indicate they fear both stigma and discrimination as a result of being bisexual (Craney et al.,
2018; Feinstein & Dyar, 2017 qtd. in Crooks et al., 2021). In fact, only 27% of bisexual
individuals care that others know their sexual orientation, a staggeringly low comparison to
homosexual individuals, of which 70% indicate it is important that those close to them know
their sexual orientation (Pew Research, 2013 qtd. in Crooks et al., 2021). The likelihood of
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bisexual individuals coming out as bisexual also varies depending on their gender identity and
Berghaus’ 2021 study found that relationship status and gender identity, as well as a cost-
benefit analysis of stigmatization versus being oneself, played a large role in whether or not
bisexual individuals would be willing to come out to others, particularly their children. Berghaus
found that 57% of lesbians, 65% of gay men, and 62% of bisexual women in same-gender
relationships had come out to their kids, compared to only 40% of bisexual men in general and
40% of bisexual women in other-gender relationships (2021). This indicates that bisexual men
are less likely to come out than bisexual women whereas bisexual women in same-sex
relationships were the most likely to come out to their children. Lesbian and gay individuals
ranked their likelihood of coming out lower because their partners’ gender identity often led to
the assumption of their sexual orientation, removing the need to “come out.” However, bisexual
individuals also ranked their likelihood of coming out as low. This may be due to the privilege of
being seen as monosexual. Monosexuals face no bisexual-specific prejudice and having a long-
term, monogamous co-parenting partner removes the need to have experiences with other
perhaps making it easier to not disclose their sexual orientation as opposed to coming out.
important process for non-heterosexuals (Crooks et al., 2021). Single bisexual individuals,
however, may feel pressured to come out, resulting in poor mental health (Flanders et al., 2017).
Bisexuals straddle a line between being themselves, facing homophobia, and facing biphobia
from within the LGBTQ+ community. Although they can “pass” as straight, they may feel as
though they are not being themselves, resulting in pressure to come out as bisexual. Bisexual
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women more than bisexual men desire for their sexual identity to be affirmed and supported
(Hayfield et al., 2013, qtd. in Davilla et al., 2019) A delicate balance between wanting to come
out while not being subjected to biphobia alters the coming-out process for bisexual individuals.
While bisexual individuals are less likely to come out, they may do so nonchalantly or
indirectly. Davilla et al.’s 2019 study surveyed bisexual individuals to identify how they come
out to others. While only 58% of the individuals surveyed identified themselves to others as
bisexual, those who did were most likely to do so by directly communicating their identity to
others. Yet, interestingly, the second most frequently indicated way of coming out included
sharing LGBTQ+ information on their social media (Davilla et al, 2019). By sharing LGBTQ+
media, bisexual individuals both satisfy their need to come out to others while simultaneously
being indirect enough to circumvent discrimination as others may assume they are just an ally to
the community. Certainly, there are both pros and cons to this method as Flanders et al.’s 2017
study concluded that bisexual individuals felt as though they were not queer enough to be
included in the community, but it is a unique aspect of being a bisexual individual. Bisexual
Berghaus’ 2021 study asked participants to explain why they would want to come out to
their children and they usually provided one or more of six reasons: to educate their children on
promote open and honest communication with their children, to convey solidarity to their
children who might also be bisexual or queer, and for necessary logistical reasons (Berghaus,
2021). While other homosexual individuals may want to also educate their children on diversity,
raise them to be allies, or for logistical reasons, it is interesting to see that bisexual parents
specifically wished to combat bisexual erasure and support their children who may also identify
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as bisexual. Additionally, the most common reason provided was that bisexual parents wanted to
promote open and honest communication with their children (Berghaus, 2021). Coming out is a
truly vulnerable process, specifically for bisexual individuals. Yet, to any individual coming out,
the process allows for open, honest conversations and a chance to be oneself without fear or
shame.
As with any sexual minority, there are potentially harmful effects of coming out. One
runs the risk of losing their home, family, and loved ones. Bisexual individuals face these risks,
including generalized homophobia, as well. However, by coming out, bisexual individuals may
be subjected to additional biphobia or a dismissal of their identity. Yet, coming out can also
affect sexual minorities positively. The LGBTQ+ community offers a place for members to feel
as though they belong within a heteronormative culture. Being out and vocal about one’s identity
also allows for change within society. By supporting the LGBTQ+ community as a member of
the community, change can be incited through advocacy and support for other individuals
Davilla et al.’s 2019 survey of bisexual individuals concluded that bisexual individuals
reap bisexual-specific benefits by coming out. Internalized biphobia and internalized feelings of
not being queer enough are frequent amongst bisexual individuals (Flanders et al., 2017). But, by
coming out, Davilla et al.’s participants felt more connected to other sexual minorities, felt
affirmed in their identity, and perceived their sexuality as legitimate and valid as monosexual
identities (2019).
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Further, those who did come out indicated that their mental health had improved. Coming
sexual minorities. Those who were out experienced more self-affirmation and connection than
closeted bisexuals. Participants who were out also felt more confident in themselves as
individuals (Davilla et al., 2019). Coming out is a difficult process that requires self-
internalized homophobia and biphobia. The subsequent disclosure may then run risks of
experiencing both homophobia and biphobia. However, for bisexual individuals, coming out can
be a positive experience that allows one to fully embrace their identity within a supportive
community.
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Discussion
It is evident that bisexual individuals face unique struggles as a result of their sexual
identity and certainly more research is necessary to examine the depth of such struggles. As Ross
et al. noted in their analysis, bisexual individuals are often grouped with other non-heterosexual
identities in scientific studies, making it difficult to distinguish between the different experiences
of sexual minorities (2018). Yet, existing research does indicate that bisexual individuals
struggle with mental health, substance abuse, and their sexual identity as a result of biphobia-
based beliefs (Ross et al., 2018; Davilla et al., 2019; Flanders et al., 2017). Although those who
do come out indicate they struggle less in these areas, coming out is a difficult process,
especially when facing biphobia (Davilla et al., 2019). However, it appears that coming out may
Dodge et al. found in their study that although a majority of their participants indicated
neutral feelings toward bisexuality as an identity, those under twenty-five were more likely to
express positive feelings toward bisexuality as an identity. A shift toward positive change
indicates that generations to come will be more likely to accept and embrace bisexual identities,
hopefully diminishing the harmful effects of biphobia. Further, 93% of bisexual parents indicated
that they planned to discuss their sexual orientation with their children in the future (Berghaus et
al., 2021). Open, honest conversation with children regarding sexual identities paired with an
already changing perspective shift amongst younger generations fosters hope that bisexual
individuals will feel comfortable with themselves and experience better health as a result.
Diminishing the stigma of identifying as bisexual is the first step to inciting positive change in
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