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Developmental origins of
attachment styles
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Jay Belsky
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Institute for the Study of Children, Families and
Social Issues, Birkbeck College, 7 Bedford Square,
London, WC1E 7HX, UK
Published online: 14 Oct 2010.
To cite this article: Jay Belsky (2002) Developmental origins of attachment styles,
Attachment & Human Development, 4:2, 166-170, DOI: 10.1080/14616730210157510
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Attachment & Human Development
Vol 4 No 2 September 2002 166–170
Developmental origins of
attachment styles
JAY B E L S K Y
for close relationships, among other things. But when boiled down to its essence, there
seem to be two core theoretical ideas, at least with respect to individual differences in
attachment security. The rst is that attachment security (and attachment insecurity)
re ects and in uences the internal working model (IWM) of the individual, shaping
the way he or she sees himself or herself, others, and close relationships more gener-
ally. As such, attachment security works as kind of an internal guidance system, l-
tering and appraising experiences in the world, especially social experiences, and
thereby guiding behavior, especially behavior in close relationships. Given the cen-
trality of emotions to relationships, and especially to close relationships, it is not sur-
prising that the regulation of emotion is regarded as central to current conceptions of
attachment theory.
The second core proposition underlying attachment theory, at least with respect to
individual differences, is that variation in security and thus the IWM are a direct
function of lived experiences, especially experiences in the earliest portion of the life
span (i.e. rst 3–5 years of life). Sroufe and others have made clear, though, as Bowlby
did himself, that because individual differences in the IWM derive from actual relation-
ship experiences, it is mistaken to presume, as too many critics of attachment theory
have done (e.g. Breur, 1999; Lewis, 1997), that once the IWM is established, it cannot
be changed. Indeed, the very word ‘working’ in the phrase ‘internal working model’
was chosen originally by Bowlby to make clear that this developing affective-cogni-
tive information processing system was a work in progress. At the same time, of
course, he acknowledged that with development the model would be likely to become
increasingly consolidated and thus resistant to change.
Shaver and Mikulincer have made an outstanding case for their claim that the social
psychological, in contrast to the developmental psychological, approach to measuring
attachment in adulthood, via survey type questions about self in romantic relationships,
is a valid way of tapping into the IWM and core notions of deactivating, activating, and
hyperactivating emotion-regulation strategies. Although the measurement itself does not
make reference to unconscious or psychodynamic processes in the way that the Adult
Attachment Interview (AAI) developed by Main and Goldwyn (1998) does, it never-
theless taps into such processes. Consider in this regard some of the evidence which
Shaver and Mikulincer present about individuals who score high on security, high on
anxiety, or high on avoidance, as measured by brief questionnaires.
Correspondence to: Jay Belsky, Institute for the Study of Children, Families and Social Issues, Birkbeck
College, 7 Bedford Square, London, WC1E 7HX, UK. Email: j.belsky@bbk.ac.uk
Attachment & Human Development ISSN 1461–6734 print/1469–2988 online © 2002 Taylor & Francis Ltd
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Secure individuals appraise stressful events as less threatening than do less secure
persons. They hold optimistic expectations about their ability to cope with the causes
of their distress. And they have ready access to painful memories (i.e. sadness, anger,
anxiety), but such memories do not automatically and uncontrollably spread to other
unrelated painful memories (i.e. intrapsychic emotional contagion). Persons who score
high on social psychological assessments of security also are more likely to disclose
personal information and feelings toward signi cant others and express their emotions
in a relatively open way (especially relative to avoidants). Moreover, they are inclined
to adopt support-seeking as an affect-regulation strategy for dealing with distressing
situations, and to deal with interpersonal con icts in close relationships by compro-
mising and integrating their own and their partner’s position. Thus, they openly
discuss problems and resolve (rather than avoid) con ict. Further, secure individuals
can acknowledge physiological signs of anger, engage in adaptive problem-solving, and
express anger outward in a controlled and non-hostile manner. Finally, for secure indi-
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styles of coping, and effects of positive affect on creative problem-solving, to cite just
a few of the emotion-regulation correlates of attachment styles studied by social psy-
chologists to date. Yet, as Shaver and Mikulincer make eminently clear, these corre-
lates of attachment are exactly what should be a focus of systematic inquiry given
Bowlby’s original theorizing. It seems indisputable, therefore, that whatever its limits,
the social psychological approach to measuring attachment has done a great deal to
test important elements of attachment theory.
But then there is the issue of the failings, or at least omissions, of the social psycho-
logical approach. And they pertain to the second core proposition of attachment
theory mentioned in the opening of this commentary, that having to do with the
developmental origins of individual differences in attachment security. Repeatedly in
discussions of attachment theory by social psychologists reference is made to develop-
mental origins, even early rearing experiences, but to my knowledge there are no data
available demonstrating that individual differences in attachment style, as measured by
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than 15 years after Main, Kaplan and Cassidy (1985, p. 77) astutely observed that
internal models of relationships ‘provide rules for the direction and organization of
attention and memory, rules that permit or limit the individual’s access to certain forms
of knowledge’ and that ‘internal working models are best conceived as structured pro-
cesses serving to obtain or to limit access to information’, so few developmentalists
have sought to link AAI or Strange Situation classi cations with such psychological
processes. Fortunately, social psychologists have taken up this challenge.
But, in so doing, they have totally ignored the issue of developmental origins. For
social psychologists, then, attachment theory seems to be more a theory of personal-
ity and close relationships than a developmental theory of personality and close
relationships. What the study of attachment risks remaining, in consequence, is just
what it appears to be now – two separate elds of inquiry that use many of the same
concepts and draw on the same theoretical foundation, but ask more or less different
questions and thus provide answers that are dif cult, at least empirically, to integrate.
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Work carried out in the developmental tradition informs us not only about the nature
of individual differences in attachment security, whether measured in childhood or
adulthood, but about their developmental origins, whereas social psychological work
informs us about the intra-psychic and relationship correlates of the same individual
differences. Were it the case that the two traditions relied upon the same measurement
strategies, it would be fairly straightforward to move from developmental origins to
individual differences to external correlates. But the fact is that they do not. So even
though we might be tempted by the rules of logic (and theoretical bias) to infer that
(1) because early experiences are systematically related to individual differences in
attachment, whether measured by the Strange Situation in infancy or the AAI in adult-
hood, and (2) because individual differences in attachment style measured by means
of a brief questionnaire are related to a host of fascinating and theoretically anticipated
psychological and psychodynamic processes in adulthood, and thus (3) the intra-
psychic processes of which Shaver and Mikulincer have written so thoughtfully have
their origins in the early experiences that developmentalists have invested so much
time and energy investigating, we simply cannot.
Indeed, given that the association between individual differences measured using the
AAI and those assessed by means of social psychological self-reports is only modest
(e.g. Crowell, Treboux, & Waters, 2000; Shaver, Belsky, & Brennan, 2000), there is the
real possibility that ndings relating to the developmental antecedents of attachment
security as measured by developmentalists and those pertaining to psychological and
relationship correlates of attachment styles as measured by social psychologists are vir-
tually unrelated to each other. Put statistically, the variance explained in attachment
security or state of mind regarding attachment by antecedent developmental experi-
ence and that explained in psychological and psychodynamic processes by attachment
styles could very well be non-overlapping. Were that the case, would it simply re ect
differences in measurement or, instead, problems with the very theory of attachment
that gave rise to both elds of inquiry? Currently, we simply cannot choose between
these alternatives, though the former is surely more attractive to most students of
attachment theory than the latter.
This is a sorry state of affairs and requires a greater degree of methodological, not just
theoretical, collaboration between developmentalists and social psychologists. Although
Shaver and Mikulincer make a convincing case that the social psychological study of
attachment has contributed greatly to the testing of theoretical propositions derived
from attachment theory, and even to extending it, until they link up their methods and
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