Toxicity In People

Types of toxic people :

1. Intellectual Toxics
2. Toxic Fools

Intellectual Toxics
These are people who knows and understands what being
toxic actually is and uses it on others, in order to manipulate
and gain advantage over them.
Toxic Fools
These are people who has no idea about their own toxicity,
and suffers because of it on a regular basis, and just because
they suffer, they make others suffer.
The reasons behind their suffering:
1. Extreme Insecurity:
Insecurity involves feeling inadequate, due to a lack of self-
confidence. It can cause doubts about your own abilities,
instincts, and relationships, making it difficult for you to
believe in yourself and trust others. Just because they’re
insecure, they start feeling that it’s a matter of time before
their partner finds someone better and leaves them. So, they
try to limit their partner’s interactions with others, and they
do so, by making their partner know that it is hurting them.
They confuse their own Insecurity with their partners action
and instils a sense of guilt in their partner for doing so.
2. Psychological Projection
The theory of psychological projection was developed by
Sigmund Freud. It states that Psychological projection is a
defence mechanism people subconsciously employ in order
to cope with difficult feelings or emotions. Psychological
projection involves projecting undesirable feelings or
emotions onto someone else, rather than admitting to or
dealing with the unwanted feelings. In a relationship, when a
partner has difficulty confronting or accepting their own
feelings, mostly to avoid feelings guilt and shame, tends to
project it on the other. For, example, A man in a committed
relationship is attracted to someone else, so rather than
admitting it he’d always feel that his partner also might have
similar feelings, and accuse her of micro-cheating or try to
limit her interactions by making her feel guilty.

Why I trust and don’t feel the need for being toxic with
you?
I have been observing your choices and decisions, since the
day we started our relationship. I’ve told you this before that
a relationship is only as good as the value both partners bring
in each others life. The most valuable thing you have brought
in my life was my peace of mind and because of it you’re the
only person who could bring the most misery in my life(it’s a
possibility). Whether you realized it or not, whenever you
had to make a choice which could effect us, you’ve been
choosing what is better for us. I avoided influencing or
interfering with those choices, because I had to be sure. You
always chose wisely. The most recent one was when that guy
asked you to dinner and you avoided it. It’s just that if I had to
tell you to not go with him, I could never have been sure
whether you understood what would have been a better
choice for our relationship. It’s the knowing and
understanding of these things makes a relationship healthy
and not toxic. So, despite your crazy and impulsive mind, you
make right choices which could effect us. It’s why I trust you.