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What You Should Chase
Instead of a Dream Job
by Lan Nguyen Chaplin
August 08, 2023
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But less than a year into the role, I was ready to quit.
Back then, in the early 2000s, feeling “purpose” at work was not a
priority for most professionals, and it wasn’t discussed widely
among people in my field. Before therapy, I lacked the vocabulary
to process what I was feeling. Once I found the words, everything
was different.
1)complacent.
Think about whether you’re trapped or being
You may have all the shiny markers of early success — a great
title, a big salary, and the respect of your peers — but if you’re still
left unfulfilled and uninspired, you may be caught in a career
trap. A career trap often happens when you get caught up in
meeting the expectations of others instead of fulfilling your own;
when you work so hard that you lose touch with your mind and
body; or when you don’t know how to prioritize self-care. It’s a
sign that you need to pause, reevaluate where you are, and reflect
on what changes will bring you joy and fulfillment.
Sometimes bringing your strengths and self into your work can
release you from the trap of constantly trying to impress others.
On the other hand, if your role fundamentally misaligns with your
purpose, you may need to make a bigger change.
For me, adding the titles “lacrosse coach” and “mentor” to my role
as a professor was a form of job crafting. Bringing an element of
play into my lessons was job crafting, too. You can similarly make
your daily tasks feel less transactional and more purposeful by
changing your perception of your work.
For instance, let’s say that you’ve discovered you value building
deep connections with others. Rather than viewing meetings as
times you’re just sitting around, trying not to fall asleep, think of
them as opportunities to make friends. Show up early and get to
know your peers by asking about their hobbies and interests. You
can make small changes to any area of your job to align your
responsibilities more directly with the things that feel meaningful
to you.
As you craft your job, remind yourself to do more of what you
enjoy and less of what you don’t. You can’t avoid everything you
don’t like to do, but you can bring your personality to your job and
do things your own way.
4)“dreamy”
Don’t letit your
feels.job be your whole life — no matter how
When you work for the majority of your waking hours, your career
will inevitably morph into a part of your identity. While that isn’t
necessarily a bad thing, it can make you vulnerable to an identity
crisis if you burn out or lose your job.
The best way to find balance at work is to look for companies that
value it. If an organization cares about your well-being, supports
your complete life, and gives you opportunities to craft your role,
odds are, you will do your best work there — even if it wasn’t the
dream job you had envisioned.
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The moment you have found your dream job is the moment you
have stopped growing, evolving, and finding new ways to
experience joy in your role. Remember, you were hired because
you offer something the organization is missing. They need
change. They need you to bring your whole self to work, and that
means doing things differently with the added flare that is you. A
job that inspires you and gives you the space you need to be your
full self is the dreamiest job out there.
LC
Lan Nguyen Chaplin is professor of marketing
at Northwestern University, Medill School of
Journalism, Media, Integrated Marketing
Communications. She is also the founder
of QuanTâm, a nonprofit that creates
opportunities for young professionals to
expand their networks and sharpen their
professional skills while serving their
community.
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