How To Find Your

Mission In Life
You’ve heard the advice 100’s of times before…
“Just focus on your mission bro”. But what is
YOUR mission and how do you identify it easily
and then use it to improve many aspects of your
life?

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 1.
What exactly is a mission?

A mission is a series of goals that you can

never truly complete, but try to complete
over your lifetime.

We will learn about why a man’s mission

can never be completed later, but for now,
know that you need a mission to consume
you and propel you through life as a man.
It’s non-negotiable if you want a less
stressful life.

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 2.
What kind of missions can you carry out?

A man’s mission will either be:

His job
His business
His hobby
His sport
His religion
His worldview
His charitable works
His vice

It must be one of these things and it must be

something that obsesses you.

(The vice example is a completely separate

topic and not one we’re going to get into,
but technically alcoholism, sex addiction or
drug abuse etc is a ‘mission’.

But there are better missions to have if

you’d like to be a smoothly functioning
member of society.)

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 3.
How to know what mission is right for
you?

Your gut instinct has already been telling

you for years what your mission is, but it
can be quite hard to listen to through all
the anxiety and distractions people face
on a daily basis.

But you will have caught glimpses of it at

some point.

Maybe you know what it is already but

you’re afraid of looking like an imposter
to those around you, or you’re afraid of
failure.

The best question to ask yourself is… if

money was taken care of, what would
you spend the majority of your free time
doing?

If you said “chilling” you’re fucked

already.

The kind of things you may have said are:

Non-stop international travel

Writing books
Hiking
Gambling
Hunting
Learning foreign languages

You get the idea… it can be whatever you

want!

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 Your mission may also have negative
effects on your life and this is completely
normal, as we live in a duality system
here on Earth and highs must be followed
by lows and vice versa.

The mission is not purely about earning

money. It could be about righting a wrong
in your life or being so annoyed by a
certain industry that you want to try and
change it in someway.

And like I said, this motivation will be so

engulfing that it won’t fizzle out next year
or ever. It’s something that has already
been threaded throughout your life and
will make perfect sense once you see it.

Your mission will literally consume you

because it’s something you can never
truly complete, so you always have
something to work towards until you kick
the bucket.

It’s all about working with yourself rather

than being memed into pursuing
something you THINK you should be
doing. You have to take a brutally honest
look at what you’re drawn to and never
apologise for it.

Pursuing your mission is ‘easy’... once you

know what it is.

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 How can you focus on your
4. mission if you have a 9-5 to take
care of?

When you commit to a path

entirely, something unexplainable
happens in time and your life will
find a way to centre around that
path.

This isn’t woo woo bullshit, it

happens no matter what you spend
the most time thinking about.

And ANYTHING can pay the bills

for you… even charity work, when
it’s established correctly.

So when you have total faith in

your path, you will be given either
enough money to live comfortably
or riches. You will never be in need
when you have a true mission that
you adhere to strictly.

This is entirely to do with your self-

identity as you ALWAYS get what
you need to match up with what
you believe to be your self-identity,
and nothing less.

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 5.
You shouldn’t be changing your
mission after 2 months

If you find yourself “getting bored”

of your mission, it’s not your
mission and you didn’t dig deep
enough and listen to what your gut
instinct is screaming at you.

Maybe you’re afraid of how your

wife or girl will react to your
mission being to own a chain of
strip clubs for example, but you
will not be satisfied until you make
a move.

And the ironic part of a would be

mission like this is that your girl
would deeply respect you for going
for it, more so than she would if
you were just moping around in
front of the TV.

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Your best energy must go
towards your mission

Another counterintuitive truth

about your mission is that you must
put it before even your wife and
kids, as your mission is what is
going to provide for them in the
long run.

In reality you are putting your wife

and children first, but to somebody
who doesn’t understand a man on a
mission it may look like neglect or
oversight.

If you look after your mission, your

mission will look after you and your
family.

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Pleasures and laziness must be
sacrificed at the altar of your
mission

You need to have an intensity about

your mission if you want to do well
at it, and if you want the kind of
respect you deserve from your wife
and children.

Lounging around eating ice cream

and playing video games has to
stop at this point, there’s no
justifying them once you are on
your chosen path that feels right.

And you wouldn’t want to be doing

much besides pursuing your
mission anyway, so you might as
well just go full throttle with that.

If your main source of dopamine

isn’t the mission, then it’s not your
mission.

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 8.
Accept that the mission will never
be complete

You need to set a goal so big (like

conquer the world big) that you
cannot achieve it within your
lifetime.

This is to stop you from ever

completing your mission and then
asking yourself “now what?”

It’s human nature to do this, so you

need to be pursuing your mission
until you kick the bucket, as this is
also something that will prolong
your life. Never retire in the
traditional sense of the word.

And remember that life is an

alchemical process. We are here to
transmute our ego’s from lead and
turn them into gold, and pursuing a
mission is the way of doing that for
a man.

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 9.
Pursuing your mission needs to
get you more excited than having
the craziest sex imaginable or
taking some illicit substances, it
has to fire you up.

You’ll know you’ve found your

mission when this happens. It
doesn’t mean you no longer enjoy
dopamine hits from other sources
but your mission should be your
main dopamine hit.

And pursuing your mission will get

you access to more of these
external dopamine hits as well,
that’s the irony.

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 10.
Becoming consumed by your
mission will actually solve your
relationship issues, financial
issues and it will turn you into a
great parent.

It’s another counterintuitive truth

that spending your best energy on
your mission will fix your problems
the fastest.

Let’s look at why it fixes each:

It fixes your relationship

because it distracts you from
meddling too much in things
and becoming needy with your
girl. It allows her to come to
you for attention/sex and not
the other way around.
It fixes your finances by making
you focus on the quality of your
output rather than the rewards
of that output. Money follows
value and energy.
It will make you a great parent
by teaching your son that he
needs his own mission one day,
and it will teach your daughter
the importance of finding a man
on a mission as well.

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Can you be too consumed by your
mission?

Yes, of course this can happen,

which is why you must set aside a
dedicated day to spending time
with your wife and children, where
you devote yourself to giving them
your focused attention.

So long as you don’t skip these 1

on 1 days, you’ll maintain great
relationships with your girl and
your family.

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 12.
How exactly will finding your
mission turn your girl on?

Most men in relationships fall into

2 camps:

1. Lazy, apathetic and going

nowhere
2. Needy, clingy and craving their
lover’s attention

Both of these are repulsive to

women and will lead to the
destruction of the relationship.

When a man has his eyes locked on

a prize and does not back down
from the challenge, his intensity is
up, his testosterone is up and his
masculine energy is up.

All things that women love to see

in a man because it means that he’s
not only exciting, but that he can
actually protect and provide for a
family.

...

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 And on top of that, having a mission
keeps a man from falling into one of
those two camps (or both).

Your girl will then try to distract you

from your mission without even
realising it and by turning her down
95% of the time, you build up huge
amounts of sexual tension and
masculine-feminine polarity in the
process.

She will then be ‘chasing’ you,

instead of the all too common scene
of the man chasing the woman…
which never ends well.

So in short, get a mission to work on

for the rest of your life!

It’s how a man is meant to use his

time here.

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