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(Sivakumar Palaniappan)
Practising empathy helps you relate better and more with others. When you readily understand the
other person, either a colleague or a family member, your interpersonal relationship improves.
Empathy is fundamental to building trust and effective relationships, which in turn is essential for
better communication.
Sympathy vs Empathy:
Empathy is when you feel and understand someone’s feelings, attitudes, and experiences. It is the
understanding of other’s experiences with everyday life events. Sympathy is related to feeling sorry
for another person’s grief and troubles. More than being passively sympathetic, it’s vital to become
actively empathetic in our workplace.
Listening in Communication
We often think that communication is talking. We interrupt, advise, judge, analyse, criticize, argue,
moralize, threaten, divert, etc. But good communication requires good listening as well as talking.
With all the listening we do; we usually think that we are good at it. In reality most us are not good
listeners. We don’t really listen to others completely. This means when we talk to our spouse, boss,
colleagues, customers for few minutes most of us aren’t listening us and it’s true either way.
‘Actively listening’ can be defined as giving your complete, intentional focus to what someone says,
rather than what their words literally mean. Peter Drucker, the highly successful management
consultant and author, once said that “The most important thing in communication is hearing what
isn’t said.”
The focused listening will enrich your workplace relationships, improve group productivity, and even
boost your mood. While it’s inevitable for conflict to arise from communication, you can turn
misunderstandings into positive action with ‘active listening’.
Be a better listener. Listen without judgment. You'll be a better communicator by being a better
listener, because you will become more effective and conscious communicator.
Action Item:
Look for opportunities to practice empathy and listening. Try
out all the 8 action items in your interactions today.
Be Empathetic and a Genuine Listener.