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Developmental Psychology Copyright 1992 by the American Psychological Association, Inc.

1992, Vol. 28, No. 2,251-260 0012-1649/92/S3.00

Developmental Analysis of Conflict Caused by Opposing Attributes


in the Adolescent Self-Portrait
Susan Harter and Ann Monsour
University of Denver
and University of California, Santa Cruz

The differentiation of the self was examined in 7th, 9th, and 1 lth graders who generated self-de-
scriptors for the following 4 different roles: self in the classroom, with friends, with parents, and in
romantic relationships. Thefindingsrevealed that the self becomes increasingly differentiated into
role-related multiple selves with age. A central focus was on intrapsychic and affective conse-
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quences of opposing role-related self-attributes (e.g., outgoing vs. shy, cheerful vs. depressed). Con-
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tradictions and conflict were lowest in early adolescence, peaked in middle adolescence, and then
began to decline in later adolescence. From a neo-Piagetian perspective, though the young adoles-
cent can construct single abstractions about the self, he or she cannot yet simultaneously compare
these abstractions in order to experience opposing attributes. During midadolescence, one de-
velops the ability to compare but not resolve contradictory self-attributes. In later adolescence, the
capacity to coordinate, resolve, and normalize seemingly contradictory attributes emerges, reduc-
ing the experience of conflict within one's self-theory.

Within the developmental literature, there is considerable voked to account for the developmental shift toward the prolif-
evidence that the self becomes more differentiated with age eration of role-related selves during adolescence. Cognitive-
(Damon & Hart, 1982; Harter, 1983,1990b; Livesly & Bromley, structural advances permit the adolescent to make greater dif-
1973; Montemayor & Eisen, 1977; Mullener & Laird, 1971; Ro- ferentiations among such role-related attributes (see Fischer,
senberg, 1986; Secord & Peevers, 1974). Not only are more cate- 1980; Fischer & Lamborn, 1989; Harter, 1983,1986a, 1990b;
gories of self-description added to one's repertoire, but the Keating, 1990). Second, socialization pressures during adoles-
range of trait labels and abstractions becomes expanded with cence force the individual to differentiate the self vis-a-vis so-
development. The number of discriminable domains across cial roles, given the different expectations of the various signifi-
which one can evaluate the self also increases. In fact, the field cant others within different social contexts. As Erikson (1959,
has undergone a general theoretical orientation in its current 1968) cogently observed, the period of adolescence brings with
emphasis on the multidimensional nature of the self-concept it the formidable task of establishing familial, ideological,
(see Harter, 1985,1986b, 1990a; Marsh, 1986). friendship, occupational, and romantic/sexual roles or identi-
Additional support for the increasing differentiation of the ties and differentiating one's various selves accordingly. More
self-concept during adolescence can be found in recent studies recent theorists have emphasized the adolescent's need to de-
documenting how self-descriptions vary across different social velop autonomy as he or she seeks to redefine the self in con-
roles or contexts (Gecas, 1972; Griffin, Chassin, & \bung, 1981; texts that are separate from his or her parents (see Grotevant &
Harter, 1986a; Hart, 1988; Rosenberg, 1986; Smollar & Youniss, Cooper, 1983,1986; Hill & Holmbeck, 1986; Steinberg, 1990).
1985). These studies reveal differences in self-attributes de- Rosenberg's (1986) observations of the "barometric self dur-
pending on whether one is describing the self in one's role with ing adolescence highlight the fact that different people in dif-
father, mother, close friends, romantic partners, or classmates, ferent roles will have varying impressions of the self, resulting
as well as one's role as student, employee, and athlete. For exam- in feedback that causes one to view the self as highly mutable.
ple, one's self with parents may be open, depressed, or sarcastic; Although the research to date has provided descriptive ac-
with friends, the self may be caring, cheerful, or rowdy; and counts of the differentiation of various selves during adoles-
with a romantic partner, the self may be fun-loving, self- cence, less attention has been devoted to either developmental
conscious, or flirtatious. differences within the period of adolescence or to the experien-
Two broad classes of determinants have generally been in- tial and affective consequences of this proliferation of selves.
Interestingly, William James (1892) alluded to the potential in-
compatibility of the various roles one must necessarily assume
The research reported here was supported by Grant HD 09613 from
National Institute ofChild Health and Human Development, awarded
in his reference to the "conflict of the different Me's" (p. 185).
to Susan Harter. This study was based on the doctoral dissertation of However, existing studies have not explored the extent to which
Ann Monsour. An earlier version of this article was presented at the opposing role-related attributes cause phenomenological con-
Society for Research in Child Development meetings in Detroit, Michi- flict in the developing adolescent.
gan, in 1985. Thus, the present research addresses the following questions.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Su- First, to what extent do role-specific self-descriptions (the self
san Harter, Department of Psychology, University of Denver, 2155 with parents, friends, and romantic others and the self in the
South Race Street, Denver, Colorado 80208. classroom) become increasingly differentiated during adoles-
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cence? Do role-related attributes merely differ across these con- stractions about the self. For example, cheerful and depressive
texts, or do some attributes represent opposites that are judged attributes can be combined into the higher order abstraction of
incompatible? If opposing attributes do emerge, do they pro- "moody." The older adolescent can also resolve potentially con-
duce an experience of intrapsychic conflict? Moreover, is such tradictory attributes across roles by asserting that he or she is
conflict accompanied by distress in the form of negative affec- flexible or adaptive across roles or contexts, thereby subsuming
tive reactions or confusion? apparent inconsistencies under more generalized abstractions
The general expectation of conflict and distress can be de- about the self. Thus, more advanced cognitive skills allow the
rived from the adult self literature that is replete with theories older adolescent to cognitively coordinate and resolve seem-
emphasizing the need to integrate multiple attributes into a ingly contradictory self-attributes.
theory of one's personality that is coherent and unified (All- A secondary goal of the present research was to examine the
port, 1955,1961; Epstein, 1973; Horney, 1950; Jung, 1928; Kelly, structure of the adolescent self-portrait from the standpoint of
1955; Lecky, 1945; Maslow, 1961; Rogers, 1950). Epstein (1973) the valence of central and peripheral constructs. In discussing
has argued by analogy that the self-theory, like any comprehen- the self-theory, Kelly (1955) and others have suggested the fruit-
sive scientific theory, must meet certain criteria including par- fulness of determining which attributes are more important or
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simony, usefulness, testability, and internal consistency. As is at the core of one's personality and which appear to be less
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the case with any formal theory, one's self-theory will be threat- important or peripheral. We predicted that one's positive attrib-
ened by postulates in the theory that appear contradictory. utes would assume more importance, whereas one's negative
Thus, given the developmental task of differentiating role-re- attributes would be relegated to the periphery of one's self-por-
lated self-attributes during adolescence, the integration of these trait. This prediction was based on previous theorizing and
diverse self-representations may pose a particular challenge. findings within the attributional literature revealing that, as a
The purpose of this study was to examine these processes at mechanism to protect and enhance the self, individuals are
the following three developmental levels: early, middle, and late more likely to emphasize and take credit for their successes
adolescence (7th, 9th, and 1 lth grades, respectively). On the than their failures (see Greenwald, 1980; Harter, 1985,1986b).
basis of the cognitive-developmental and socialization per- We developed a new procedure to test these hypotheses. Sub-
spectives described, two general developmental hypotheses are jects were first asked to describe what they were like with par-
advanced: (a) Attributes associated with four roles (self with ents, with friends, in the classroom, and in romantic relation-
parents, self with friends, self as student, and self with romantic ships and to indicate whether each attribute was a positive or
other) should become increasingly differentiated over the negative feature of the self. Subjects then created a picture of
course of adolescence. That is, there should be less overlap in their personality by spatially arranging their self-descriptions
role-related attributes with increasing grade level, (b) A differ- within a large circle that had a core circle for the most impor-
ent developmental pattern is predicted for opposing as well as tant attributes, an adjacent concentric circle for less important
conflicting attributes, namely that they should peak in middle attributes, and an outer ring for the least important aspects of
adolescence. the self.
Fischer's (1980) cognitive-developmental theory provides a Subjects then examined the entire array of self-descriptions
framework for predicting developmental differences, because and identified any they considered to be opposites (e.g., smart
he distinguishes several levels within formal operational vs. dumb, friendly vs. mean, shy vs. outgoing, and cheerful vs.
thought. At the first level of single abstractions, which emerge depressed). To assess intrapsychic conflict between opposing
in early adolescence, one can construct abstractions about the attributes, subjects next indicated whether any of the opposites
self (e.g., outgoing, self-conscious, obnoxious, empathic, cheer- identified were clashing, fighting, struggling, "at war," or in
ful, and depressed). However, one does not yet have the cogni- conflict with each other; subjects next provided a verbal de-
tive ability to simultaneously compare these abstractions to one scription and responded to a checklist of potential emotional
another. As a result, young adolescents should tend not to de- reactions. In this manner, we could determine whether any of
tect or be concerned over self-attributes that are potential oppo- the opposites were a cause of phenomenological conflict
sites (e.g., cheerful and depressed). within the self or whether they could comfortably coexist with-
The cognitive skills necessary to compare such abstractions, out causing an experience of inner tension.
what Fischer called "abstract mapping," do not emerge until
middle adolescence. With the advent of the ability to relate
attributes to each other, the individual can now evaluate the Method
postulates of one's self-theory from the standpoint of whether Subjects
they are internally consistent. However, at this stage, the adoles-
cent does not yet have the cognitive skills to resolve such contra- There were a total of 30 boys and 34 girls drawn from middle, junior
dictions. As a result, opposing self-attributes (e.g., outgoing vs. high, and senior high schools in the Denver, Colorado area. The 7th-
grade sample consisted of 10 boys and 14 girls (M age = 13 years, 2
self-conscious, obnoxious vs. empathic, and cheerful vs. de-
months). The 9th-grade sample comprised 10 boys and 10 girls (A/age =
pressed) become very salient as well as conflictual and dis- 15 years, 1 month). The 1 lth-grade sample consisted of 10 boys and 10
tressing. girls (mean age =17 years, 2 months). Subjects were from middle' and
Conflict should begin to diminish, according to Fischer's upper-middlc-class families. The racial composition was predomi-
theory, in later adolescence with the emergence of "abstract nantly White with 2 Hispanic subjects at each grade level. All subjects
systems." This new cognitive level brings with it the ability to were individually seen in our University of Denver laboratory. The task
integrate single abstractions into compatible higher order ab- was divided into several subsections.
CONFLICT IN THE ADOLESCENT SELF-PORTRAIT 253

Self-report ofrole-related attributes. Each subject was presented with Table 1


four sheets, one for each of four roles. At the top of each sheet was the Proportion of Attributes Overlapping Across Roles by Grade
heading "What I am Like With (my Parents)" (or, alternatively, "my
Friends," "in the Classroom," and "in Romantic Relationships," for the 7 () 11
other three roles). Six sentence stems were presented on each page (e.g.,
Role M SD M SD M SD
I am with my parents), and the subject was asked to generate
six descriptors, if possible. They were told that these descriptors could Parents vs. friends 0.38 0.19 0.23 0.18 0.17 0.09
be similar or different across roles. Subjects were encouraged to in- Parents vs. classroom 0.31 0.20 0.10 0.09 0.06 0.04
clude negative as well as positive attributes ("Nobody's perfect," and Friends vs. classroom 0.29 0.17 0.18 0.12 0.11 0.08
"Everybody has something about themselves they may not like or may
want to change"). Next to each sentence was a plus and a minus, which
the subject used to indicate whether the attribute was positive or nega-
tive. Subjects were free to complete one set of descriptors before mov- 2.78, p < .05. For each comparison, using Dunn tests, there was
ing to another or to alternate between different roles, whichever they significantly more overlap for the 7th graders than either the 9th
preferred.
or 1 lth graders (ps < .05). There were no significant decreases
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Self-portrait display. After completing the self-descriptors in each


in the overlap for romantic relationships and the other three
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role, the key word (or words) of each was transferred onto a gummed
label that the subject placed in one of three circles on the large self-por- roles because, even in 7th grade, overlap was minimal (Ms =
trait sheet. The subject was then asked to put the most important de- .15-. 10).
scriptors in the smallest center circle (labeled most important), to put
less important descriptors in the next concentric circle (labeled less Prototypical Example of Opposites That Do and Do Not
important), and to put the least important descriptors in the outer Conflict
circle (labeled least important).
Inquiry about opposites. After all of the self-descriptors had been Figure 1 represents a prototypical example of the major fea-
positioned in the appropriate circles, the subject was asked to look at tures of a ninth-grade female adolescent self-portrait. In this
all of the self-attributes and see if any of them seemed liked they were protocol several opposites were identified, most of which were
the opposites of one another. For any pairs of opposites identified, conflicting. Thus, clashes were reported between being smart
either the experimenter or the subject drew a line connecting the two at school and being fun-loving with friends, being happy with
opposites.
friends and being depressed with family, being caring with fam-
Inquiry about clashes or conflict. For each pair of opposites identi-
fied, the subject was asked to think about whether the two attributes ily and being inconsiderate with friends, being talkative as well
were fighting, clashing, disagreeing, at war, or in conflict with each as being nervous in romantic relationships, and being attentive
other. All of these descriptions were included in order to best commu- and being lazy in school.
nicate what we meant by the experience of conflict. For those oppo- For the conflict between the ninth-grade female adolescent
sites experienced as conflicting, arrowheads were placed on each end in school and her friends, she stated the following: "When you
of the line connecting the two attributes. All subjects were systemati- are with your friends, you tend to do things that you want, you
cally asked to explain why each of the conflicting attributes clashed. A mess around and have fun, at school, you have to be more
systematic inquiry to determine why certain nonclashing attributes serious which lets you be smart." In the example of being happy
did not produce conflict was conducted with 75% of the subjects.
with friends versus being depressed with her family at home,
Affective responses to conflict. Finally, each subject was given an she noted that "I really think of myself as a happy person, and I
emotion checklist and asked to indicate which emotions he or she felt
about clashing as well as nonclashing opposites. We focused only on
want to be that way with everyone because I think that's my true
potential negative reactions. The emotions included the following: self, but I get depressed with my family and it bugs me because
guilty, embarrassed, mad at myself, ashamed, unhappy, pressured, that's not what I want to be like." In the example of the conflict
mad, sad, bothered, frustrated, worried or nervous, depressed, upset, between being talkative and being nervous within romantic
and no special feeling. More cognitive reactions (e.g., mixed-up or con- relationships, the subject described, with some exasperation,
fused) were also included. that "I hate the fact that I get so nervous. I wish I wasn't so
inhibited! The real me is talkative; I just want to be natural."
Other subjects described the conflict in very dynamic terms
Results (e.g., "\bu don't want to act this way but then something uncar-
Overlap of Attributes Across Roles ing comes out in you, you try to stop it, you have tofightit all
the timer). Another subject described it as "I want to be polite,
It was predicted that there should be increasing differentia- I try to, but then the opposite feelings just overpower me."
tion in role-related attributes (i£, less overlap across roles) with Another 15-year-old girl exclaimed, "I realty think of myself as
age. As can be seen in Table 1, for three of the combinations (e.g., friendly and open-armed to people, but the way the other girls
self with parents vs. self with friends, self with parents vs. self in act, they force me to become an introvert, even though I know
the classroom, and self with friends vs. self in the classroom) I'm really not. It really bothers me and sometimes the only way
there was a systematic tendency for overlap to decrease over the to handle it is to become immune to yourself." Another ninth-
period of adolescence. Separate, one-way analyses of variance grade girl exclaimed about her self-portrait: "It's not right, it
(ANOYAs) across the three developmental levels revealed that should all fit together into one piece."
each of these differences was significant: parents versus Equally compelling were the examples for why opposites
friends, F(2,58) = 3.40, p < .05; parents versus classroom, F(2, were not clashing or in conflict. Many explanations involved
58) = 7.37, p < .001; and friends versus classroom F(2, 58) = reference to the fact that people act differently in different situa-
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Caring
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(Fam)
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Understanding
(Fam)

Figure 1. Prototypical self-portrait by a 9th-grade girl. (Fam = family;


Rom = romantic relationships; Fr = friends; Sch = school.)

tions. Specific examples included the following: "Well, you are not clash gave relatively brief descriptions, suggesting that they
nice to your friends and then mean to people who don't treat felt no particular need to justify the lack of conflict. Opposing
you nicely"; It's just that I am real open with my family, but I traits could comfortably coexist within the self and did not
tend to be shy with kids my age"; "Sometimes it's fun to be appear to command much of their attention.
rowdy but at other times you just want to be in a quiet mood, In order to examine the hypothesis that the prevalence of
you really need to do both with really good Mends"; "ft% just opposites, as well as of conflict, would peak during middle
that you are different with different people; you can't always be adolescence, we examined the following four indexes: number
the same person and you shouldn't be"; "Usually I am happy of opposites, number of conflicts, percentage of opposites in
with my friends, but sometimes I get angry, everyone has to get conflict, and percentage of subjects reporting that at least one
angry sometimes, and that's how I am." One 13-year-old girl, on opposite caused conflict. As can be seen in Figure 2, for each of
being asked why her opposing attributes did not clash, ex- these four indexes, there is a dramatic increase from 7th to 9th
claimed, "That's a really stupid question, I don't fight with my- grade and then a smaller, but systematic, decrease between the
seJf.1" For the most part, subjects reporting that opposites did 9th and 1 lth grades.
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5 -75-
.50
7 9 11 7 9 11 7 9 11
Grade Level Grade Level Grade Level
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30-

7 9 11 7 9 11
Grade Level Grade Level

Figure 2. Developmental differences in adolescents' perceptions of opposing and


conflicting self-attributes.

Separate Grade (3) X Gender (2) ANOYAs were performed effect for grade was again significant, F(2,58) = 13.78, p < .05;
for each of the four indexes. For the index labeled number of multiple comparisons revealed that the 7th graders (M= 0.62,
opposites perceived, the grade effect was significant, F(2,58) = SD = 0.51) were significantly different (ps < .05) from both the
13.77, p < .05; multiple comparisons reveal that the primary 9th (M = 1.35, SD = 0.93) and 1 lth (M = 1.20, SD = 0.88)
difference was between the 7th (M = 2.54, SD = 1.77) and 9th graders. As with the number of opposites, gender differences
(M = 3.95, SD = 2.41) graders (p < .06). A significant main were also revealed, indicating that girls reported significantly
effect for gender, F(l, 58) = 18.07, p < .05, was due to the fact more conflicting opposites (M = 1.29, SD = 0.56) than did boys
that girls {M = 3.74, SD = 1.74) identified more opposite attrib- (M= 0.73, SD= 0.41).
utes than did boys (M = 2.77, SD = 1.01). We next examined the index labeled percentage ofopposites
An examination of the protocols revealed that at the 7th- in conflict because the grade-related increase in the number of
grade level, there were more potential opposites that went un- clashes could partially be explained by the increase in the num-
detected in comparison with the 9th- and 1 lth-grade levels. ber of opposite attributes reported. The pattern (see Figure 2)
Examples not identified as opposites in the 7th graders' self- was similar, with 7th graders with the lowest percentage (M =
portraits included being talkative as well as shy in romantic 23.0%, SD = 21.3), 9th graders with the highest percentage
relationships, being uptight with family but carefree with (M = 42.0%, SD = 31.4), and the 1 lth graders in between (M=
friends, being caring as well as insensitive with friends, being 32.2%, SD = 21.5); the main effect for grade approached signifi-
quiet as well as talkative in school, being serious as well as goofy cance, F(2, 58) = 13.28, p < .075, as did the effect for gender,
in romantic relationships, being a good student as well as get- F(l, 58) = 12.64, p < .10, with girls (M = 39.1%, SD = 20.4)
ting in trouble at school, being understanding and unfair with reporting more conflict than boys (M = 25.0%, SD = 18.2).
friends, feeling pressured but also safe in romantic relation- The differences in the index labeled percentage of subjects
ships, and being active as well as lazy in school. It was not reporting at least one opposite in conflict were also found to be
possible, however, to calculate a reliable or valid numerical in- significant, x2 (Ar= 2) = 7.72, p < .02, due to the fact that fully
dex of potential opposites that went undetected, given that we 62.5% of the 7th graders reported no conflict, whereas only
did not confront subjects with these possible contradictions. 21 % of the 9th graders and 30% of the 1 lth graders reported no
For the index labeled number of opposites in conflict the main conflict.
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Subjects' Explanation of Conflict valence and conflict as repeated measures) revealed one signifi-
cant effect, a striking interaction between valence of the affect
A content analysis was performed on the reasons given by and conflict, F(\, 21) = 24.97, p < .001. Subjects were much
adolescents for why opposing attributes were experienced as more likely to report negative affects in response to conflicting
conflictual. Two broad but conceptually similar types of expla- self-attributes (M = 89.1%, SD = 42.3) than to nonconflicting
nations emerged and could reliably be rated by two indepen- opposites (M = 27.2%, SD = 22.7). Conversely, subjects were
dent judges (82.6% agreement). Attributes were perceived as much more likely to report no special feeling in response to
conflicting if there was a conflict between one's overt behavior their nonconflicting (M= 72.1%, SD = 43.0) than to their con-
and one's intentions or if there was a conflict between incompat- flicting opposites (M= 11.1%, SD = 0.14). These findings pro-
ible intentions. Moreover, 97% of all explanations for conflict vide converging evidence for the validity of subjects' judgments
fell within these two broad categories. Examples included the concerning the presence or absence of conflict, although the
following: "You want to be thoughtful with your friends, but affect ratings were not independent of the conflict judgments.
something uncaring comes out in you. You try to stop it, you In analyzing the 15 specific indexes of distress, only the more
fight it all the time"; "I know I should be attentive in school, I cognitive type of reaction, confused or mixed-up (see Figure 2),
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should try harder, because I get pressure from my father, but I resulted in developmental differences. A greater percentage of
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act lazy, and do what I want instead of what I should do"; "I hate 9th graders (48%) reported these reactions in comparison with
being shy and so embarrassed on a date, I don't like it, I wish I the 7th graders (29%) or the 1 lth graders (40%). The difference
could be easygoing, natural, I wish I wasn't so inhibited"; "I between the 7th and 9th graders was significant (p < .05).
know I am being mean with my family, and I could help it, but I
don't feel like it cause part of me wants to be mean, and the
other part wants to be nice"; "I'm really close with my family Valence of Attributes Judged Most, Less, and Least
and then fun-loving with my friends, but it seems like my family Important
is working against my friends, and I'm afraid I'll get in trouble It was predicted that subjects would be more likely to place
with both." their positive attributes at the core of the self-portrait, whereas
Subjects' explanations for why opposites did not conflict. We negative attributes would be relegated to the periphery of least
systematically queried 70% of the 7th graders, 80% of the 9th important characteristics (see Figure 1). The findings for all
graders, and 85% of the 1 lth graders about the reasons for every subjects strongly confirmed this pattern, as revealed in Figure
pair of opposites that did not conflict and performed a content 3. The vast majority of self-attributes judged to be most impor-
analysis of the types of reasons given for nonconflict between tant were positive (M = 76.2%, SD = 19.3) with only a few nega-
opposites. The vast majority (87%) of explanations could be tive (Af = 10.0%, SD = 12.2) and mixed (M = 15.0%, SD = 12.3)
categorized into one of two broad categories that reflected ei- attributes (both positive and negative) at the core of the self. As
ther (a) differentiation or separation of the two attributes or (b) can be seen in Figure 3, there is a systematic decline in positive
attempts at integrating, normalizing, and ascribing value to attributes as one moves toward the periphery of the self,
such opposites. Examples of differentiation or separation over whereas the number of negative attributes increases. A Valence
time or situation included the following: "I'm outgoing with (positive, negative, or mixed) X Self-Diagram Position (center,
people that are my friends and quiet with people that I don't middle, or outer circle) X Grade X Gender ANOVA (with va-
know"; "I can be lazy at school, but also energetic but since they lence and position as repeated measures) revealed one effect, a
never happen at the same time, they never clash." Examples of highly significant interaction, F(4, 236) = 71.78, p < .001.
attempts at integration, normalization, and ascription of value
of opposites included the following: "\ea, I can be both de-
pressed and cheerful because I am a moody person"; "Some- Discussion
times you're happy and sometimes you're depressed, those are The findings provide clear support for developmental
just two separate sides of me that are normal, you have to take changes in role-related self-attributes over the course of adoles-
the good with the bad"; "I can be talkative with friends and cence. One such shift involves the greater differentiation of
quiet with friends, they complement each other, its good to be selves associated with the varying social roles that the adoles-
able to be both ways." Examples of differentiation or separation cent must come to adopt. Socialization pressures to develop
declined with grade level (7th graders = 86%, 9th graders = 50%, different selves in different social contexts (Grotevant &
and 1 lth graders = 23%), whereas examples of integration, nor- Cooper, 1983, 1986; Erikson, 1959, 1968; Hill & Holmbeck,
malization, and value increased with grade level (7th graders = 1986; Rosenberg, 1986) as well as cognitive-developmental ad-
0%, 9th graders =31%, and 1 lth graders = 65%) with differences vances that allow for a more differentiated sense of self
that were quite significant, x2 = 14.96, df= 2, p < .001. (Fischer, 1980; Fischer & Lamborn, 1989; Harter, 1983,1986a,
Affective reactions to conflicting and nonconflicting opposing 1990b) should conspire to produce a proliferation of role-re-
attributes. Another index of the potential distress caused by lated selves.
opposing attributes that were judged to be conflicting was the Thefindingssupported this hypothesis in that for three role-
degree of negative affect aroused. We compared the mean per- related comparisons—self with parent versus self with friends,
centage of conflicting and nonconflicting opposites that pro- self with parents versus self in the classroom, and self with
duced at least one of the negative affects versus "no special friends versus self in the classroom—there was a systematic and
feeling." A Valence (negative affect vs. no special feeling) X Con- significant linear decrease in the proportion of overlapping at-
flict (presence vs. absence) X Grade X Gender ANOVA (with tributes across grade level. Thus, with regard to spontaneously
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Center Middle Peripheral

Region of the self-diagram


Figure 3. Mean proportion of each self-portrait region occupied by positive,
negative, and mixed valence attributes.

generated attributes, adolescents' role-related selves become in- five converging measures (number of opposing attributes, num-
creasingly differentiated as they move through this developmen- ber of opposing attributes that were in conflict, percentage of
tal period. Interestingly, the comparisons involving one's self in opposing attributes in conflict, percentage of subjects report-
romantic relationships seem to be the first to be differentiated, ing that at least one opposite caused conflict, and the percent-
because even in early adolescence (seventh grade) there was age of subjects reporting that opposing self-attributes made
already little overlap between one's attributes in this particular them feel confused or mixed up), the lowest scores were ob-
role and those in the other three roles. tained for 7th graders, scores peaked for 9th graders, and scores
A major purpose was to examine the experiential conse- began to decline for 1 lth graders. This pattern has now been
quences of this age-related proliferation of selves, namely the replicated in a subsequent study (Harter & Carlson, 1988) that
phenomenological conflict provoked by the identification of included both 1 ith and 12th graders, in which an even greater
contradictory role-related self attributes. The increasing differ- drop among older adolescents was found. Moreover, the mean-
entiation of selves between 7th and 9th grades may well contrib- ingfulness of the distinction between opposing attributes that
ute to the increase in opposing attributes and conflict reported do and do not provoke conflict was bolstered by subjects' de-
by the 9th graders. However, the suggested grade-related curvi- scriptions as well as by the finding that opposing attributes in
linear relationship, revealing that opposing and conflicting at- conflict produced significantly more negative affective reac-
tributes peak in middle adolescence and then begin to decline tions, whereas nonconflicting opposites were far more likely to
in late adolescence, cannot be a direct function of the degree of result in no special feeling. (Although our focus was on the
differentiation (i.e., that more differentiation inevitably leads to potential for negative emotions, interesting questions for future
more opposition and conflict between attributes), because role- research include whether positive emotional reactions ever ac-
related selves are the most differentiated in the 11th grade. company the report of opposing attributes and whether the
Thus, one needs an alternative explanation for why conflict pattern reported here might have been different had we added
among highly differentiated role-related selves seems to decline positive affects.)
in later adolescence. Fischer's cognitive-developmental theory provided one
The hypothesis that opposing as well as conflicting attributes framework for predicting the suggested curvilinear relation-
should not appear with great frequency among young adoles- ship, because it identifies several substages within adolescence.
cents, should peak for those in midadolescence, and should Traditional Piagetian theory cannot provide an explanation for
finally begin to decline in later adolescence was supported. For thefindingsbecause it postulates only one major shift at adoles-
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cence, the emergence of formal operations (Piaget, 1960). their parents on larger issues and values (Hill & Holmbeck,
Fischer's neo-Piagetian framework, in contrast, predicts that 1986; Steinberg, 1990). However, these studies have not in-
certain features of the self-portrait will change as one moves volved conflict within the self-system. That is, they do not ad-
through substages of formal operational thought. dress the fact that the internal canvas on which the self-portrait
Our youngest adolescents can be characterized as being at is painted must accommodate a crowd of proliferating persona
Fischer's first level of formal operational thought, "single ab- whose characteristics are not necessarily compatible.
stractions," allowing one to construct rudimentary, abstract The more recent literature reveals that during adolescence,
self-descriptors (e.g., cheerful, depressed, outgoing, or shy). How- there are numerous potentially contradictory selves clamoring
ever, they do not yet have the ability to simultaneously compare for expression (see Harter, 1990a). There are various forms of
these abstractions to one another, and therefore they tend not ideal selves that may conflict with one's real self (see Glick &
to detect or to be concerned over self-attributes that are poten- Zigler, 1985; Harter, 1986b; Higgins, 1987). These conflicts can
tial opposites (e.g., outgoing vs. shy). Those opposites that were be distressing (Higgins, 1987), as well as motivating, as in the
detected typically produced no conflict because they were sepa- case of discrepancies between one's positive or desired selves
rated in time or by situation. and one's negative, feared, or possible selves (Markus & Nurius,
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During middle adolescence, the cognitive skills necessary to 1986). The responses of the adolescents in this study attest to
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compare abstractions, namely "abstract mappings," begin to the fact that they typically experience conflict between their
emerge. This particular substage, therefore, should usher in the present behavioral selves and the desired selves that they wish
initial press to integrate one's multiple attributes into a theory or are motivated to become. In addition, there were numerous
of one's personality that is coherent, unified, and internally spontaneous references to confusion about which behaviors rep-
consistent. However, the emergence of such abstract mapping resent one's real or true self. It is understandable that the need
abilities represents a double-edged sword: Although the adoles- to create multiple selves would usher in concern over which is
cent can now compare opposing self-attributes, he or she does the "real me," a preoccupation that we have recently docu-
not yet have sufficient cognitive control over these budding mented (Harter & Lee, 1989), as have others (Broughton, 1981;
skills to integrate seemingly contradictory postulates within Rosenberg, 1979; Selman, 1980). The fact that the adolescent
the self-system. As a result, the adolescent should experience necessarily encounters different people in various roles and
opposing attributes as contradictions within the self-theory contexts that have different impressions of the self adds to the
that provoke conflict and distress. Thus, although socialization perplexity over which is one's true self (Rosenberg, 1986). In his
pressures promote the continued differentiation of role-related metaphoric reference to the "barometric self-concept," Rosen-
selves, the cognitive skills available during midadolescence do berg focused primarily on how factors associated with sociali-
not yet equip one to consolidate these selves into an integrated zation lead to the volatility of the self-concept, whereas in our
self-theory. own reference to the "self as chameleon" (Harter, 1988) we have
Consolidation should be more possible in later adolescence addressed the adolescent's difficulty in cognitively coordinat-
with the emergence of "abstract systems," according to ing disparate self-perceptions. Both perspectives contribute to
Fischer's theory. The findings revealed small but systematic an understanding of why internal conflict is provoked by multi-
decreases between the 9th and 1 lth grades for all indexes, in- ple selves, particularly during midadolescence.
cluding opposing attributes, conflict, and confusion. From a It should be noted that we are making reference here to multi-
cognitive-developmental perspective, abstract system should ple selves as a normative-developmental phenomenon, not to
allow one to integrate or resolve seeming contradictions within pathological manifestations that are captured by the clinical
the self-theory. The specific reasons most often given by older diagnosis of multiple personality disorder (see Braun, 1988;
subjects for why opposites did not conflict involved strategies Kluft, 1987; Putnam, 1989). This relatively rare disorder is
that integrated, normalized, or found value in the seeming in- characterized by the existence, within the person, of at least
consistency, namely that it was understandable or desirable to two distinct personalities or personality fragments that alter-
act differently in different social situations. nately take full control of the person's cognitions, emotions, and
Therefore, the pattern suggests that one is particularly vulner- behavior (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Dis-
able during middle adolescence, when conflict and distress are orders, 3rd. ed., American Psychiatric Association, 1987). In
at their peak with regard to contradictions within the self. At resorting to the defense mechanism of dissociation, there is
this developmental juncture, there would appear to be compet- little or often no awareness or coconsciousness on the part of
ing forces, namely socialization pressure to differentiate the self some personalities for other personalities. Rather, there is frag-
into multiple roles while the cognitive apparatus is pressing for mentation, as well as amnesia for certain personalities, and in
integration. The tension created can well be conceptualized as some cases fugue states (see also Fine, 1988; Fink, 1988; Frank-
one form of "storm and stress." Although there are those fog, lin, 1988). Often, when alternative personalities are acknowl-
Offer, Ostrow, & Howard, 1981) who have taken the position edged, there is the strong sense that the other person is "not
that the prevalence of adolescent storm and stress has been me" (Fink, 1988).
vastly overemphasized, the issue needs to be addressed in In contrast, what we have referred to as multiple selves in the
terms of the specific type of stress as well as the specific period adolescent repertoire are consciously experienced contradic-
of adolescence. Those attempting to refute the storm and stress tions between one's behaviors and one's conflicting ideals or
hypothesis have focused primarily on the fact that the self-eva- intentions. During the period of middle adolescence, in particu-
luations of most adolescents are not overwhelmingly negative lar, our subjects revealed that, in contrast to fragmentation and
(Offer et al, 1981) nor do most engage in major conflict with dissociation, they are very much aware of these contradictions
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