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Communication Skills - UNIT I
Communication Skills - UNIT I
SCHEME OF LESSONS
UNIT I
Lesson 1 Business Communication
Lesson 2 Barriers to Communication
UNIT II
Lesson 3 Non-verbal and Intercultural Communication
UNITIII
Lesson 4 Listening
Lesson 5 Oral Communication
Lesson 6 Presentation Skills
UNIT IV
Lesson 7 Business Correspondence
Lesson 8 Letters of Application and Resume
UNIT V
Lesson 9 Business Proposals
Lesson 10 Reports
REFERENCES:
1. Technical Communication Principles and Practices Third Edition; Meeanakshi Raman,
Sangeetha Sharma
2. Advanced Technical Communication Kavita Tyagi Padma Misra
3. Business Communication JP. Parikh, Anshu Surve, Swarnabharati, Asma Bahrainwala
UNIT I
The terms "channel" and "medium" are not interchangeable. To deliver the message, the sender
should select the most appropriate channel and media. The type of the communication, the urgency
of the message, the number of recipients, the cost factor, and the relationship between the sender
and the receiver will all impact the channel/medium chosen.
Phase IV
Receiving
Receiver/Decoder: The decoder is the one who receives the encoded message. He or she is the
message's intended recipient. The recipient might be an individual or a group of people. Because
communication is a two-way interaction, the recipient of the message is just as essential as the
sender.
Communicacion will not be complete in the following situations:
Without the receiver
If the message does not reach the intended receiver
If the receiver does not understand the message
A message's recipient might be a listener, a reader, or a viewer. He or she not only receives the
message, but also attempts to analyze, interpret, and perceive the communication's complete
meaning, as intended by the sender, and provides feedback.
Decoding: This is the process through which the receiver decodes the message and converts it into
useful data. The message's meaning is the sum of the words' meanings, as well as the sender's tone
and attitude, as expressed in his or her choice of words and the message's structure.
The receiver's decoding is considered to be fidelity of communication if it is the same as or
comparable to the sender's intended message. If communication is to be effective, noise should not
impact encoding and decoding.
Phase V
Responding
Feedback: Feedback is the response given by the receiver of the message to the sender of the
message. When the encoder receives feedback, he/she know that communication has been
accomplished.
Types of feedback:
Immediate – in face-to-face communication
Delayed – in the case of written communication
Importance of feedback
It ensures the receiver has understood the message
Helps senders to modify the message based on feedback
Case study:
A student who lives in a hostel, wants some money. He writes a letter to his father asking him to
send some money. The father sends money along with a letter cautioning him to be careful while
spending it
In this scenario:
Encoder: the student
Message: needs money
Channel: written communication
Medium: a letter
Decoder: the father
Feedback: sends money along with a letter cautioning him to be careful while spending money
Johari Window
Definition: The Johari Window is the psychological model developed by Joseph Luft and
Harrington Ingham, that talks about the relationship and mutual understanding between the group
members. In other words, a psychological tool that helps an individual to understand his
relationship with himself and with other group members is called as a Johari Window.
The objective behind the creation of a Johari window is to enable an individual to develop trust with
others by disclosing information about himself and also to know what others feels about himself
through feedback.
The Johari Window model is made up of four quadrants that explain the overall relationship of an
individual with himself and with other group members.
These are as follows:
Open Self: This quadrant depicts an individual's conduct, goals, attitudes, and knowledge abilities,
which he is aware of and willing to communicate with others. The open self is defined as a state in
which an individual is open and honest with himself and others about what he is doing, how he is
doing it, and what his motivations are.
Blind Self: The blind self-shows the state of an individual known to others but not known to him. It
usually happens, when an individual or a subject copy the behavior of some significant personalities
unconsciously since his childhood.
Hidden Self: This quadrant of the Johari window shows the state of an individual known to him but
not known to the others. This is generally seen in the individuals who are introvert and do not like
to share their private lives with anyone. The individual keeps his feelings, ideas or thoughts to
himself and do not disclose it in front of the others.
Unknown Self: The unknown self is the mysterious state of an individual neither known to him,
nor others know about it. Often the feelings, thoughts or ideas go so deep down the individual that it
becomes difficult for the individual as well for the other people to understand it.
The ultimate need is to enlarge the open self quadrant with the intent to establish a fruitful
relationship with the self as well with others such that the work can be performed efficiently when
working as a team.
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
Transactional Analysis, founded in the 1970s by the late Dr. Eric Berne, is a highly effective and
widely used psychological theory. Understanding Transactional Analysis (commonly known as TA)
is advantageous to everyone. You may be a professional with a regular job, an entrepreneur, a
student, or an ordinary person.
You could be anyone who wants to better their communication with themselves and others by
employing the Transactional Analysis approach. Transactional Analysis raises your consciousness
while elevating your thinking to a higher level, allowing you to comprehend your own problematic
and dysfunctional behaviors and communication patterns in order to establish deeper connections
with yourself and the world.
What is transactional analysis
Late Dr. Eric Berne developed a robust theory that can assist you comprehend your own
communication methods. According to the International Transactional Analysis Association, TA is
"a theory of personality and a systematic psychotherapy for personal growth and personal change."
This is a personality theory that explains in detail why people behave the way they do.
Thus, Transactional Analysis directs your attention to yourself.
How you communicate with the world while also being conscious of how others
communicate with you.
Transactional Analysis theory is also useful in the treatment of psychological disorders, is an
important part of counselling, and coaching.
Transactional Analysis has its base on the Ego States or the Parent-Adult-Child (PAC) model.
1) Ego States or the Parent-Adult-Child (PAC) Model
Let’s understand with an example.
Muhil is a high school student and is often demanding at home. He is also known to throw tantrum
when things don’t go in his way. Muhil’s parent cannot understand his behavior and has quietly put
up with his tantrums. This greatly affected his relationship with his parents.
Muhil, here does not operate her thinking as an Adult, displays behaviors learned in his childhood
to make things go his way.
Three ego states of PAC Model:
a) Parent Ego State
There are moments when you behave in your current state just the way your Parents would do. The
Parent Ego-State is about the behaviors and feelings that were copied from your parents or from
your early caregivers
In the case of Muhil, he would probably be copying his dominant behavior and using it without
consideration towards his parents.
Parents, when in their role, are quite critical in their behavior towards the child.
They give us a set of instructions which may often sound like -
“Don’t do this…”
“Always do this…”
“Be this…”
“Stop doing this…”
Their non-verbal communication may tend to be protective (gestures) or nurturing (hugs).
A person in this Ego-State as an adult may tend to be highly critical, judgmental, often deciding for
others, protective, nurturing, etc.
Adult ego state
When a person is in the Adult Ego-State, he or she exhibitsbehaviors that are intimately tied to the
present moment. The individual is free to respond as they see fit, unaffected by any other Ego-State.
He or she will seek solutions in the most effective and rational manner possible, without becoming
overly upset about an issue.
A person in the Adult Ego-State is often straightforward in their approach, is interested in the
conversation without being judgmental, and will know how to use logic in conflicting situations.
A person in this Ego-State questions several aspects of a scenario, such as what and why, where,
and what he or she observes vs what opinions they hold.
Child ego state
A person in this Ego-State exhibits behaviors, sentiments, or may think about situations while being
influenced by their early thoughts. Muhil's sulking would be affected by his Child Ego-State, whilst
her reaction would be impacted by emotions triggered by prior behaviors.
If you had to ask Muhil, "Does this situation remind you of anything from your childhood?" Muhil
would have replied, "Yes, I used to hurl my toys and sulk whenever I sought my mother's attention."
In this Ego-State, a person may exhibit rebellion, delight, complaining, sulking, terror, fear, or even
a lot of laughter.
The Three Ego-States are never consciously recognized by a person. To ground their
communication in the present situation, everyone re-experiences a portion of the Parent Ego-State
or the Child Ego-State.
If Muhil had used her Adult Ego-State, he may have said, "Oh! I must resist the urge to become
enraged and instead focus on finding a solution. But what is it that actually irritates me?”
Eric Berne discusses the Three Ego-States and their existence in everyday life. These come Parent
Ego-State is extremely advantageous in life. The Child Ego-State is excellent for maintaining one's
creativity and intuitive abilities.
An Adult Ego-State helps one to make decisions based in the present moment to resolve problems
with greater accuracy without displaying any influenced behaviors from other Ego States.
Definition of Ego-States by Eric Berne:
A consistent pattern of feeling and experience directly related to a corresponding consistent pattern
of behavior.
Life positions
Eric Berne stated that a person's life and its outcomes are predetermined based on the first five years
of a person's life. You may be wondering how a person can base their entire story on something that
happened when they were young
Thus, Life Positions is an exciting theory that focuses on our psychological patterns of thinking,
feeling, and behaving. We base our decisions on the comments we obtain from parents or parental
figures. Convictions about oneself and the world are formed as a result of this. A youngster tends to
make this decision early on depending on cues acquired during the early years, which might be
verbal or nonverbal.
However, Life Positions are not permanent and can be altered through counselling or therapy,
helping a person free themselves from self-limiting beliefs to embrace a new life story for
themselves.
The Life Convictions formed are as follows:
I am OK
I’m not OK
You’re OK
You’re not OK
Berne combined these to form 4 Life Positions as follows:
a) I’m Ok, you’re Ok
This is frequently referred to as a winning Life Script. A child is at ease with himself and his
surroundings when he or she is in this state. He or she understands that they are lovable and that
they will grow up to trust people and have long-lasting meaningful relationships. They have a
positive mindset and trust both give and receive.
I’m not Ok, you’re Ok
A child here frequently believes that they are on the losing end. They are adamant about this and
fabricate life stories that add to their anguish. When a person feels violated, he or she feels
compelled to please others. They frequently exhibit more support for other people's strengths rather
than their own.
I’m ok, you’re not ok
An infant grows up believing he or she is superior than others. Such a child grows into an adult who
is obsessed with his own "wants" while ignoring others. This adult may have a tendency to blame
others for their troubles. This type of person always makes others feel inadequate while feeling
'fine' about themselves.
I’m not Ok, you’re not Ok
When a youngster chooses on a Life Position, he or she experiences an internal conflict with
himself or herself as well as with the rest of the world. They end up creating a life of suffering by
not believing in themselves and making decisions that place them in the position of a victim. A
person is dissatisfied and despondent. A person like this may retreat or perhaps damage himself.
These positions describe a specific attitude taken by an individual regarding how he or she
perceives himself or herself and others.
The Philosophy of Transactional Analysis mentions:
People are OK.
Everyone has the capacity to think.
People decide their own destiny, and these decisions can be changed.
Life script
According to Transactional Analysis, each individual has already written their life story or
screenplay based on various factors such as Life Positions. Berne emphasizes that this begins the
moment a person is born. Every person has a beginning, a middle, and an end, much like a movie
plot. You are the Director and the Scriptwriter in this scenario, and you define your finale without
even realizing it.
First developed by Eric Berne and then worked upon by Claude Steiner, a Life Script is a plan that
is influenced by the people one grows up with. A child observes and prepares this Life Plan based
on external influences as well as what happens internally. A parent gives messages to a child such as,
“The world is not safe.” A child grows up thinking, “I shouldn’t trust anybody.” It’s important to
note how two children may interpret the same messages through their own understanding.
An infant or a child interprets certain parental messages in their own way. Being ignored by a
mother in the early age may lead to the infant growing up to distrust women or people in general. A
person may decide, “I am a loser” after being put down frequently by his class teacher.
Learning Transactional Analysis works to change your core limiting beliefs to modify and create a
winning Life Script.
Transactions and Strokes
Eric Berne referred to transactions as the ‘basic unit of social discourse.’
Transactions are of many types.
For example, you greet a colleague with a ‘hello’ and get a ‘how are you’ as a response. When you
continue a conversation, you receive a series of transactions. Transactions can be complementary,
crossed, ulterior, and angular ulterior. They can occur between different Ego-states.
An individual can notice difficulties in their transactions by observing their communication, which
includes verbal, nonverbal gestures, and body language. A Transactional Analyst can correct and
improve a client's communication style in order to get better results in life.
Berne defined Strokes as a ‘unit of recognition.’ You exchange a stroke when you say a friendly
greeting and receive one in response. However, a person who does not receive a stroke in return
may feel deprived as mentioned by Berne. A person’s hunger for Strokes begins at an early age. For
example, a baby longs to be held and in physical contact with their parents. However, a baby
deprived of the same will grow up to experience emotional difficulties and problems.
Strokes are defined as:
Verbal or non-verbal
Positive or negative
Conditional or unconditional
A simple example would be the constant need of sharing updates and selfies on social media. A
person expects “Likes” which are nothing but seeking positive strokes from their friends and family.
A child may often be made to experience he/she does not need strokes creating a hunger for strokes
within.
However, strokes are available in plenty, and it’s advisable to indulge in self-stroking in moderate
ways to feel better about yourself.
Games
Games are defined as an ongoing series of ulterior transactions that lead to a predictable outcome. If
you’ve felt like a victim in life and find yourself saying, “Why does this happen to me?” welcome
to the psychological Games that we play with ourselves and the world. Transactional Analysis
outlines a collection of Games that people play. These are often out of unconscious behavior.
For example, a person may think he is not good at communication. He applies for many jobs, gets
selected, but he often declines the interview process. A friend says, “You should join classes to
improve communication and get over your fear.” He says, “Oh, no, I don’t have the time.” The
friend says, “You can manage your time better.” He says, “Yes, but I have to manage my house.”
The person has managed to avoid all the friend’s suggestions.
This game is labelled as “Yes, But…” A Game analysis helps to understand the Games people play.
Transactional Analysis outlines Games to have certain features -
These are repetitive - a person display same patterns and creates same results
They are played without the adult awareness
A person always ends up experiencing racket feelings
There is an exchange of ulterior transactions
They always include feelings of being surprised or complete confusion
Examples of Games:
a) I’m only trying to help you -
Game: A person offers help but desires to control behavior.
b) Blemish - a person finds faults in people.
Game: The actual game is to create a distraction from self and avoid looking at one’s own mistakes.
c) Courtroom - a person proves how often they are right while others are wrong.
Game: They seek support and sympathy from people.
d) Poor me- a person often displays themselves as completely helpless.
Games: They want to seek sympathy.
A deeper study of Transactional Analysis helps to understand Games while being aware of the
patterns we display.
Transactional Analysis also includes the study of Functional Analysis of Ego-States, Time
Structuring, Script Messages, Injunctions, Drivers, Discounting, Frame of Reference, Symbiosis,
Rackets, Stamps, and much more.
Benefits of Transactional Analysis?
Self-reliance - capable of taking their own decisions in life
Identifying areas of improvement in communication with self and others
Knowing where to modify behaviors
Understand messages that influenced behavior, remove limiting beliefs
Develop a better understanding of people
Raise self-awareness towards situations, respond before reacting
Develop the capacity to view situations from adult state
Work upon own Life Script, make the changes to achieve goals
Personal Development - it creates people who are highly self-aware and responsible in life,
brings focus on personal and professional goals
Jobs - TA is beneficial at work as you learn techniques to manager interpersonal
communications, encourage team building, and more.
Business - A businessperson learns to manage situations through self-awareness, make
decisions based on the here-and-now.
Transactional Analysis is also useful for any industry - medicine, coaching, education, media,
art, and more.
Transactional analysis is beneficial for effective communication, as a person understands
their communication with self while identifying the personality of another.
A deeper understanding of personality and behaviors allows one to improve communication
that is designed to create the best outcomes.
Goals of Transactional Analysis Theory
Be a highly self-aware individual
Understand own behavior, modify patterns
Examine own thoughts, behaviors, actions
Be present in the Adult Ego-State
SUMMARY
FURTHER READINGS
Business Communication: Concepts, Cases and Application Chaturvedi P. D and Chaturvedi
Mukesh (2007) Pearson
Basic Business Communication Raymond V .Lasikar and Marie E. Flately, (2007) Tata McGraw
Hill
Art and Science of Business Communication by Chaturvedi Pearson