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This section is for mental health professionals
working with former boarders.
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09/08/2018 Survivor Personalities - Boarding ConcernBoarding Concern
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Survivor Personalities
The Strategic Survival Personality of
Boarding School Survivors has three main
types:
Compliers or
Conformists
These survivors are usually in denial of any problem
and have identified with the values of the school. The website is very user friendly and full
Typically they say: “It never did me any harm” and even of valuable resources. This is much
if they hated it, may send their own children away. They appreciated, William
identify with the aggressor – better to be on the winning
side – until something drastic happens, such as loss of
their job, an ultimatum from their wife/partner, or some
self-sabotaging behaviour having come to light, when See all ➜
they may collapse.
Rebels
Rebels have recognised the destructive side of boarding
but may frequently blame boarding school and their
parents who sent them away for all the problems in their
entire life. They are angry – either overtly or covertly
with passive aggression – and take a thorough anti-
authority stance. They are often involved in political,
spiritual or alternative movements, or left-wing groups,
which may be beset with internal conflicts.
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Casualties or the
Crushed
These survivors may have been neglected, abused or
subject to parental double binds before they went to
school. Being so damaged, they were unable to create a
competent strategic survival personality, and suffered
bullying and scapegoating at school. Or they were
abused – often sexually – and were unable to make a
cry for help.
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09/08/2018 Learning & Development - Boarding ConcernBoarding Concern
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