Interviewee: Mrs.
Farida Ahmed (Grandmother)
Sr. No.
Example Family
Gathering
1 Family Gathering
2 Eating Habits
3 Children’s way of
communication/Language formal. Youngsters were raised to
4 Dressing trends
5 Parent’s rearing style Parenting was more authoritarian.
Old Trends
We usually sit
together and used to
do ‘gup shup’
Family gatherings were grand events.
Extended families lived close by, and
every occasion was celebrated
collectively. There was a sense of
unity, and everyone participated in the While we still value these
festivities.
Meals were shared and traditionally,
dishes were made at home. In the past, about by global cuisines and
we had more time to prepare lavish
dinners and gather around the table to
enjoy them.
Communication used to be more
speak politely and with respect. Their
linguistic development was
significantly influenced by their elders. media and technology. That's
It was common to dress traditionally.
People take great satisfaction in
representing our rich heritage on
different occasions by dressing
traditionally.
Children were expected to follow rules more participative. Parents n
without questioning, and discipline
was emphasized.
New Trends
Now my children sit before T
screen and discuss about the
instead of talking about them
with
each other.
Nowadays, with families
becoming more nuclear and
scattered, the grandeur of fam
gatherings has diminished.
moments, they're more intim
and often involve immediate
family members due to the
logistical challenges.
Changes have been brought
fast-paced lives. Rapid meal
and fast food are becoming
commonplace. There are
moments when it seems like
charm of those relaxed famil
dinners is vanishing.
It appears that communicatio
among the younger generatio
has changed. A more casual
has been established by socia
disrespectful per such, but it
not what we're used to either
There is a clear Western
influence. Many young peop
choose modern, internationa
fashions. Even while traditio
attire is still valued, there is
greater range in clothing cho
which reflects shifting
worldwide fashion trends.
Parenting styles have becom
encourage open communicat
and value the opinions of the

6 Attitudes Cultural values were the foundation of
attitudes. Tradition-keeping and
respect to elders were highly valued.
7 Moral Values Moral values were instilled through
stories, religious teachings, and
community influence. Integrity,
honesty, and compassion were
paramount.
8 Respect Respect was deeply ingrained in our
upbringing. Elders were
unquestionably respected, and societal
norms were adhered to with great
reverence.
children. It's more about
guidance than strict control.
Views are changing. Respect
still highly valued, although
individuality and personal
preferences are prioritized m
The younger generation is m
willing to challenge tradition
norms.
The core values remain, but
challenges of the modern wo
sometimes make it difficult t
uphold them consistently. Th
emphasis on material succes
can sometimes overshadow t
traditional moral values.
Although it has changed in
expression, respect is still hi
valued. People accept differe
viewpoints and it's more
personalized. Though the
underlying emotion of
demonstrations of respect m
not be as obvious, the forma
still exists.

2)
The findings from Mrs. Farida Ahmed's insights into cultural changes in Pakistani families
reveal a nuanced transformation in various aspects of life. A hypothetical individual, like
Myself, appreciate both tradition and change. The shifts in family dynamics are influenced by
factors such as modernization, economic pressures, and global influences. Families change
over time due to evolving societal norms, economic constraints, and the impact of
technology. The observed cultural changes reflect a delicate balance between preserving
heritage and adapting to a rapidly changing world, contributing to a dynamic tapestry of
cultural evolution within Pakistani families.