Puppets of parents

Let’s me ask you a question before I start the

discussion. Have you ever argued with your
parents and who won at the end of argument? I
can guess even you don’t answer because I
know you can’t never argue with them even
you know the truth, for the reason that they
were born earlier than you and they know
something than you. Therefore, if you try to
argue or explain the things, they knew those
things are wrong, they think how dare you
reply back them. That’s why, if you don’t want
to argue with your parents and if you want to
be clever kid, just keep quiet and bow your
head whatever they say. That is the start of
how you become a puppet of them.
And then, they will try to put you in their frame
and they will try to change your life as they
want. As soon as, their dreams will become
yours, the jobs they are chosen will become
your job and maybe even your marriage
partner can be the person that they are chosen.
But don’t try to argue with them about your
thought, for the reason that you can’t change
their mind because they think they are doing
great for you and they know the best choices.
However, it doesn’t mean to all of the parents,
but most of parents are still controlling their
kids as the puppets.
That’s why, if you were a parent, let your kid be
free. Don’t control too much. Just teach what
are right and what are wrong. They can decide
right decision. Even if they make wrong
decision, they can get a lesson from their
mistake but if you were chosen everything for
them, when it reach to the time that they need
to decide or choose somethings themselves,
they can’t decide which is right or wrong. Then,
sometimes, the thing you think that is suitable
for them but could be unfit with them.
Therefore, be their own decisions.
So, this is the end of my discussion. If you are a
parent, I hope you will understand what I
mean. And you can try my advice too. If you are
a kid, you can show this paragraph to your
parents to give some advice but that’s not my
false if you are scolded..!