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March 2011 words, and phrases that emerged from Several participants took a more
the interview process. We proceeded to active role in seeking help from their
write propositional statements that ex- families as they struggled with addic-
pressed the meaning of information tion. In these cases, families were noted
blocks as a general statement of fact as the only support remaining. Sean
grounded in the data. These statements reported that at his lowest point he
are presented in the results section. For believed his family had cut all ties
the final analysis, we explored the rela- with him. He said, ‘‘I knew there was
tionships between categories of data, nowhere to go.’’ However, Sean turned
including the participants’ interpreta- to his younger sister for help. She co-
tions of the data, and presented these ordinated plans for Sean’s brother to
relationships in the discussion section. pick him up and deliver him to a recov-
ery program. (Of note, Sean reports that
his brother came ‘‘once I had admitted I
RESULTS was a sorry individual’’.)
While in treatment, many of the
As a means of organizing the data, men were making efforts to repair re-
we divided the subject matter into 3 lationships with family members, but
general categories, each of which re- these relationships were superseded in
ceived a similar emphasis in the inter- importance by their recovery. Thus,
views: family, recovery network, and contrary to what we have described
what we came to term ‘‘outside rela- above, several men reported having
tionships.’’ Outside relationships were taken steps to put distance between
defined as significant nonfamilial rela- themselves and family during their re-
tionships that fell outside of the formal covery period. While reporting that
system of recovery programs, for exam- their families were generally supportive
ple, romantic involvements and neigh- and provided motivation for recovery,
borhood friends. they also noted that the ultimate re-
sponsibility for their recovery rested
within themselves.
Role of Family Among family members, the men
During the early stages of addic- most often cited their mothers as play-
tion the families of many of those inter- ing important roles in their recovery,
viewed began to dissociate from the providing emotional and instrumental
addict, while still providing support support. When asked to name their
from afar. Other families finally cut ties 5 closest companions, 4 of 8 men ques-
completely with the men. Those inter- tioned mentioned their mothers first.
viewed expressed hope that these rela- Reggie commented: ‘‘A mother’s love is
tionships could be restored upon their next to God’s.’’ He later noted that he
successful recovery. For example, speak- entered treatment after his mother had
ing of his mother and family, one of the told him that she couldn’t stand the
men noted that you ‘‘might have to dis- sight of him. He stated that he hopes
tance yourself for awhile (from close to get his life back together before his
relationships),’’ showing his belief that mother dies, indicating that the possi-
this was a temporary change. bility of restoring their relationship sup-
Some of the men reported that plies him with a great deal of motivation
family members made attempts to to recover.
confront them about their addiction. Mothers consistently encouraged
William (the names used are pseudo- the recovery process from a distance. This
nyms) recalls how his concerned family posture was acceptable to the participants
approached him one day almost 20 who expressed their desire to become
years ago, saying ‘‘We know you like more independent as they recover.
to drink and that you can’t control Throughout recovery, the men pursued
your drinking.’’ Norman’s mother also closer, but more independent, relation-
played an active role in attempting ships with their mothers. A common
to help her son out of addiction, at theme in the interviews involved new
one time paying for him to enter a approaches the men were taking to re-
recovery program in another city. store relationships with their mothers.
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about the ‘‘what ifs’’ of recovery, en- a counselory I feel like I’m here to
couraging him to plan multiple strate- learn from him.’’ When asked to men-
gies for support in case one failed. He tion 5 of their closest associates, 2 men
summed up the important emotional mentioned the program director first,
support often offered by sponsors when noting has offered insight, guidance, a
he said, ‘‘He believes in me.’’ listening ear, constructive feedback,
The counselors at SBS are promi- and attention to outside areas of life
nent members of the treatment commu- (eg, connecting the men with jobs).
nity. There were mixed opinions about
the individual counselors: many were
disliked, but even some of those were Role of Outside Relationships
highly respected and had credibility ow- Among nonfamily relationships
ing to their experience with recovery. An outside of the recovery network, roman-
illustrative example of the client-counse- tic relationships and health profes-
lor relationship is the one between sionals received the most weight in
Norman (a participant) and Ronald (a our interviews. Romantic relationships
counselor). Initially, the 2 did not get were consistently cited as the most sig-
along. Ronald would ‘‘get in my face,’’ nificant source of negative influence
seemingly trying to provoke him, Nor- and distraction. Jamal explained that
man recalled. Since that time, Norman clients at SBS are encouraged to ‘‘sacri-
grew to appreciate Ronald, noting that fice and delay’’ romantic relationships
he is grateful for the times that Ronald during treatment. Many of the men
corrects him. ‘‘Once upon a time, I’d be reported that they were adhering to this
like ‘What?’ if he tells me ‘look Norman, policy, and expressed their belief in it.
you don’t do this this way.’ But now, I ‘‘I need to take care of myself first before
gotta listen to him, he’s got 12 years loving anybody and that’s why I haven’t
clean. I’d gotta be a jerk or a dummy to messed around with any girls,’’ William
not listen to him. Sometimes I may not said.
agree, but it may add up (later)yhe The attitude toward romance is
know what he’s talkin’ about.’’ similar among the large number of
The men expressed their apprecia- men who arrived with preexisting rela-
tion for the way the counselors help tionships. Frank, now separated from
them to accept responsibility for the his wife, said of their relationship, ‘‘I
events in their lives. Frank says of the don’t want to go back to the same
counselors: ‘‘They turned my life around situation I just got out of.’’ He indicated
yby showing me I’m my own person that their relationship is a distraction
and helping me realize for once in my life from the demanding recovery process.
I have choices and decisions.’’ The coun- James said that he tries to find excuses
selors remind the addicts of their own to avoid spending time with his girl-
responsibility for their lives and give friend, pointing to the single-minded
them frequent ‘‘reality checks.’’ Randall focus demanded during recovery. Gary
summed up the importance of identifica- said that he came to SBS the first time to
tion between clients and counselors comply with the ultimatum set up by his
when he said of the counselors, ‘‘it takes wife, but ‘‘I gotta get real with myself
one to know one.’’ (this time).’’
The program director at SBS won Health professionals often came in
the respect of the program participants contact with the men at low points in
largely owing to the past experiences he their addiction—after an overdose or a
shares with them, including his status drug-related auto accident, for example.
as a Vietnam veteran. Wade, who also A physician and multiple nurses warned
served in Vietnam, says, ‘‘(He) is like my William of the dangers of continuing to
personal psychiatristyhe can read me abuse alcohol after he emerged from an
like a book. He’s done everything that alcohol-induced coma. He recalled with
I’ve done.’’ Jamal expressed a unique seriousness how the doctor referred to
appreciation for the program director: alcohol as a ‘‘toxic poison,’’ and pointed
‘‘That man’s wisey (He) has more wis- to his hospital stay as a turning point
dom and knowledge of an addict than in his recovery. Wade stated that his
DISCUSSION
Mechanisms of Support
In the data analysis, several themes Importance of Social Network
emerged suggesting mechanisms by The interview participants rea-
which relationships affect the recovery lized their own limitations and the ne-
process, including: effects on attitude, cessity of involving others in their
focus and motivation; emotional and recovery. For most of the men inter-
instrumental support; knowledge; and viewed, family members confronted
preentry support. Therapists and coun- the addict and later played a role in
selors played an important role in chan- connecting him to the recovery pro-
ging addicts’ attitudes by helping them gram. Upon entry, the men seemed
to realize their own responsibility for to allow family relationships to dimin-
their life situations and to exert greater ish, suggesting a less significant role
control over their behaviors. The men for families during treatment. Still,
interviewed perceived outside attach- hopes for improved relationships with
ments as distractions from the recovery mothers, children, and sometimes sib-
process, whereas the opportunity to lings provided motivation to recover.
mend broken relationships with The men often put family, romantic
mothers and children provided an im- relationships, and friendships on hold
portant incentive to recover. during treatment, an attitude encour-
The participants derived emo- aged by the counselors at SBS. The
tional support from treatment peers relationships that were important in
and counselors, 12-step group mem- the decision to seek treatment (eg, fa-
bers and sponsors, sisters, mothers, mily) were often distinct from those
close outside friends, and aunts and which provided support and motivation
uncles. Openness, loyalty, open discus- during recovery (eg, treatment net-
sion, straightforwardness, and atten- work).
tiveness were noted as important In considering the mechanisms by
characteristics in supportive relation- which relationships affect recovery, both
ships. The participants clearly recalled emotional and instrumental support
when family members and health pro- were important. Relationships confer-
fessionals pointed out the conse- ring emotional support—such as
quences of addiction. The participants mothers, friends, and counselors—pro-
often emphasized these interactions vided an essential foundation for
when narrating the events leading to successful recovery. Counselors, NA
their decision to enter treatment. sponsors, and senior members of the
Instrumental support was exhib- treatment community provided instru-
ited in 1 of 3 forms: facilitating entrance mental support in the form of education
to treatment programs, guidance in na- regarding addiction and recovery.
vigating 12-steps programs, and facili-
tating the transition back into life
‘‘outside.’’ Outside friends, mothers, Limitations
health professionals, and other family The qualitative emergent research
members provided support that facili- design employed in this paper was well-
tated entrance to treatment programs. suited for the purposes of elucidating
(Two of these individuals were SBS the roles of social ties in recovery within
alums, suggesting the importance of this population. While our findings
the program’s presence in the commu- were consistent across the men sampled
nity.) Counselors and support groups within this population, conclusions re-
helped the men navigate the 12 Steps of garding the generalizability of our find-
recovery. Finally, the program director ings to other settings await larger,
and one participant’s mother helped to multisite studies incorporating quantita-
facilitate the participants’ early transi- tive research methods. Furthermore, the
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this paper are largely a reflection of the for successful recovery for one whose
specific program under study. Thus, former network of close friends does
further studies examining the relation- not include abstainers.
ships of homeless substance abusers
should be conducted across several treat-
ment facilities. It will also be of great
interest and important to explore the
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