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To be a woman you must know how to establish yourself as a person.

The way to do this is by


simply establishing one's purity and charity. She must not turn her head while walking, not open
her mouth wide while talking, not move her knees even while sitting. establishing your proper
self as to become a person being.
Learning to work as a woman means she must learn the details of women's work. Learning
proper etiquette as a woman is also important. She must learn the rules of ritual decorum.
When you expect a female guest she must treat her with as much respect and proper manners.
When she's invited to once house her female duty is to help around and follow the etiquette
rules.
A woman must begin household work at the fifth clock. When the cock crowns to rise and
dress, she must clean herself well and prepare the kitchen to plan meals according to the
resources of the pans. if she starts early there's nothing she can do in a day.
She must care for her father-in-law and mother-in-law as her own mother and father -
respectfully serve your father-in-law by listening and obeying his orders, serve your mother-in-
law by doing her house chores early in the morning.
Women leave their families to marry and the husband is the master of the household, the
husband is the firm, the wife soft. The two of them should treat each other with the formality
and reserve of a guest. She must not imitate those shrewish wives who love to cash head on
with their husbands all the time. As a couple you and your husband shared bitter and the
sweet, poverty and riches in life, you share the same bed, in death the same grave.
Most families have sons and daughters as they grow and develop. There should be a defined
sequence and order in their education, but the authority to instruct them wrestling with their
mother. Daughters remain behind women's work quarters, don't allow them to be indulgent,
angry and to defy authority.
Worthy of derision are those who don't take charge of their responsibility.
The sons of such a woman remain illiterate while the daughters of such a woman know nothing
about ritual decorum.
A woman who manages the household should be thrifty and diligent. If she is diligent the
household becomes enriched. Thus a couple may be blessed with riches and enjoy life.
Most families have guests. A woman should have hot water and dean bottles, and keep the
table clean and neat, ready for guests. When a guest arrives, serve him tea and then retire to
the rear of the hall and await your husband's orders about the meal.

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