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Explain in about 600 to 800 words how you would use the skill
of attending and silence in your counseling process?
Attending and silence are the most important skills that one needs to
possess as a counselor. I personally believe that these 2 skills need to
be used very extensively throughout the process and their various
aspects should be moderated subjectively.
Body Language:
Body language can demonstrate interest, involvement and openness
in the client and the process of therapy. It is often used by us to
unknowingly give non-verbal cues and expressions.
Moderating my body language in terms of showing interest and
involvement -
Again taking the first example(Boss yelled at client) from the first
aspect(Eye Contact) - Here the client needs attention and
involvement. They need to be shown that the coun:selor is listening
and attending to them. Hence, leaning a little forward and keeping my
arms and legs uncrossed, would show interest and openness to what
they are saying.
Now taking example 2 (mother is guilty about abandoning the child) -
Here leaning forward can show that you are pushing the client to
speak and hurry up. Therefore, I would try to lean back and give the
client enough time and space to speak.
How you speak: I have always been someone who speaks very fast
and loses his train of thought. In the process of counseling, I will make
a conscious effort to moderate my pace and come across as
communicative rather than just a speaker. However, I believe that
speaking fast and in an excited way can be used in situations where
we need to motivate and encourage the client. For instance, if the
client has achieved a goal and they are sharing their accomplishments
with me, they might be expecting a more energetic reply than a calm
one.
The same way a client may need you to be calm and slow with your
speech while you are responding to their trauma. Hence, moderation
of tone can be used to my advantage by studying the situation
subjectively and deciphering what the client needs me to do.
Using Silence: