Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.

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RE: Kelowna september 2023(finances)(safety plan)

dallas forsberg <DMF101010@hotmail.com> Wed, Sep 6, 2023 at 10:41 AM
To: Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.com>

ok sure I guess we will see thats fine.lets stay on topic then.

#1. so again the place you sent me are for a 3-4 bedroom bnb.so just to confirm I am being expected to pay for your
friend and her daughter so that you feel safe?or am I mistaken.your already notifying the police like your el-chapo or
something holy crap.you called them,they called children services on you and left zepp with me and my uncle even
though I was suicidal and wasted apparently.wow. I don't even get it.

#2.$850 will work?you haven't sent an exact amount.

#3.will the 15th to 18th work so I can sleep with zepp after the funeral?

#4.do you want me to Wright the safety plan or are you going to?

I don't need long drawn out rants,just answers let's just keep it effecient please

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From: Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.com>
Date: 2023-09-06 11:28 a.m. (GMT-07:00)
To: dallas forsberg <dmf101010@hotmail.com>
Subject: Re: Kelowna september 2023

I will not be doing this back-and-forth so figure your shit out before you messaged me back

On Wed, Sep 6, 2023 at 10:28 AM Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.com> wrote:

Dallas, you have been welcome to see your son at any point in time it’s you who is unwilling to come here to see
him. All I am requesting is that there is a safety plan put in place. You can make that out to be whatever you want.
The judge noted the events in Kelowna and they will be followed up on. I think you will be surprised at what the
outcome will look like. I took Ministry’s advice by not going and providing safety for my son. In their words it was that
my job and my only job is to ensure my son safety so I need to do whatever it is to ensure he is safe. If you continue
with this negative conversation, I will just not participate. And yes you can just take me to court I’m happy to go.
However, I will not submit to threats. All I’m saying is that I can’t afford this visit just like I couldn’t afford. The last
visit afford means more than money. It also means safety I cannot afford to risk my safety to bring you your son to a
dangerous situation if you were unwilling to sign a safety plan. I am no longer going to participate in arguing I am on
the right track so if you would like to continue to control the situation and not participate in an a proactive solution
then kindly stop messaging me. When you’re ready to behave like an adult and create safe parameters, I’ll be ready
to discuss but until then don’t bother messaging me unless it’s a safety plan because I will not agree not after what’s
happened and yes I would bring a friend with me because I was all alone last time sleeping in my car scared
shitless. I was fucked up for weeks after what you did and you did have drugs and trust me. I have the proof I need
honey, so keep going and you will have to face the music because the truth always comes out and you’ve been
lying for so long. There’s a lot of truth that’s about to come out and it’s not gonna work in the BC courts I’m telling
you that right now I’ve been saving my evidence for a good minute.

On Wed, Sep 6, 2023 at 10:19 AM dallas forsberg <DMF101010@hotmail.com> wrote:

I really do just want to say fuck It and give up but I want to be able to be honest with myself and zepp.even
though the whole situation is bs my dad would want zepp around to support me and be around for the funeral.I
will self represent untill I get an actuall hearing.I can't lett you somehow make my dad's funeral be about you.I
haven't taken zepp swimming all spring and Summer I need to see him and I know he needs to see me.

Sent from my Galaxy

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From: Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.com>
Date: 2023-09-06 2:53 a.m. (GMT-07:00)
To: dallas forsberg <dmf101010@hotmail.com>
Subject: Re: Kelowna september 2023

Dallas,

If it’s even something you have to think about then you absolutely should.

You are welcome to come here and visit him anytime.

No one asked you to pay for my friend and her daughters vacation. They were joining me so I could be safe
because of last visit. Literally doesn’t cost anything more to have them. So enough grow up and be a man.

Every message I have says the funeral is the 15.

I’m not joining your pity party. If that’s how you see things then glad you finally figured it out. Our son deserves
better. So leave if you’re going to leave him - don’t threaten it. And fuck you on zeppelins behalf.

You had your chance and instead you fucked it up. I no longer feel bad for you. You deserve every bad thing that
happens. You seize any opportunity to fuck me over and all im doing is setting boundaries,

Bye bye.

On Tue, Sep 5, 2023 at 11:55 AM dallas forsberg <DMF101010@hotmail.com> wrote:

the funeral is not even till the 17th so those dates would not work anyways.I need to say goodbye to my dad
not worry about you and pay for your friends vacation.thanks for trying I respect your point of view all good.I
don't even see zepp.im going to think about giving you full custody and moving on with my life.

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From: Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.com>
Date: 2023-09-05 12:46 p.m. (GMT-07:00)
To: dallas forsberg <dmf101010@hotmail.com>
Subject: Re: Kelowna september 2023

Sounds great I’m looking forward to it. I will start getting my finances all in order so that we can exchange
proper financial disclosures as you still hadn’t provided the appropriate documents. However, I have mine but I
do need to add the babysitting and all the other additional expenses. If you would like to claim half of the
responsibility of your child, I will need to see $875 a month on top of the child support for his child care because
if I do not have full care of our child it is not covered and you’ll be responsible for your half and only my half is
covered so there is some things happening like that that you were obviously unaware of. But if we are actually
half an hour, if that is what that looks like on top of additional expenses, such as babysitters, programs,
activities, as well as the gas for when my sister watches our son, so that I can do my programs due to the
abuse I received from you

Included is the photos of all the numbers and where I got them to ensure that you know I was looking at actual
research not just from the top of my head. That way I will participate is aware and tear on my extremely old
vehicle I will have to fix my crankshaft, which is about $1000. I cannot afford anything beyond that. I will also
provide food for myself and my friends and my son if you would like to cancel the visit absolutely not a problem
I will definitely take this down in writing that it is not required. You will need to file a proper documents, because
I am contesting the judge’s request, and it will be heard in BC. I will need to have the enforcement as well as a
Ministry present and subpoenaed to appear as my witness in court so we can further prove perjury.

I’m not going to continue putting myself in an unsafe situation. We are residents of BC. The jurisdiction is in BC
and we have never been happier. So your son would like to see you that’s why I’m participating but I can’t
afford another trip that’s gonna cost me an arm and a leg because guess what a lot of those expenses were
things that I paid for for you or your father they were not my responsibility and you thought you were smart and
guess what time brings truth. And now you’re getting all caught up in your lies the truth always comes out big
boy.

I have already forwarded you the Airbnb via text and the options available. There’s one for 450 that seems
appropriate and I feel I’ve done my due diligence to get a three night stay from thurs to Sunday taking the first
fairy on Thursday and the 8 o’clock ferry on Sunday. You have until Friday to make your decision. If on Friday I
do not have the full amount in my bank we will not be in attendance. You will need to arrange for another time
when we can book in advance and perhaps get things for cheaper. You already have Child Support set to $300
which she struggled to pay and I now had to pay $50 in overdraft because you didn’t pay on time again. I’m not
going to feel bad that it cost $800 to get there it wouldn’t be such a big deal if you hadn’t become so dangerous
last time but as you had, I need to bring people and I also need to make sure that we are safe and our son has
somewhere to go. I told you there will need to be a safety plan in place. This all needs to be done by Friday. If it
is not done by Friday, we are not going and if you’re OK with that then that should proceed quite well in court
that you threatened with me. I’m not scared anymore. I am here. I am where I’m safe. I’m here where people
will protect me I’m not alone and isolated anymore and I’m not going to Edmonton because I know what I’ve
been through. You’ve admitted what I’ve been through and you seem to think you’ve changed but boy or boy
you have not you’re still not paying child support you’re still not showing up to your visits you’re still lying and
you’re still abusing, assaulting and attacking me our son deserves something better. So you need to show up
sober or don’t show up at all because if you are wrecked like last time, I will take our fucking son away so fast.
You can’t threaten me anymore. They already knew I had mushrooms they already knew I had drugs. I learned
my lesson. I’ll never do that again, and I’ll never tell you anything again because I’ve told you what I was doing
with those. It was for depression that you caused. I never had mental illness until I met you. Please get the help
you need you have until Friday to come up with an agreement with me. I will write went out tonight. You can
choose to sign it or don’t you have till Friday
On Tue, Sep 5, 2023 at 11:31 AM dallas forsberg <DMF101010@hotmail.com> wrote:
don't worry about the trip.i will apply through b.c courts.

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From: Hailey Payne <haileyppayne@gmail.com>
Date: 2023-09-05 12:30 p.m. (GMT-07:00)
To: dallas forsberg <dmf101010@hotmail.com>
Subject: Kelowna september 2023

Hi here is the breakdown of costs for me to travel to Kelona. Now that we know where jurisdiction is, we can
move forward with the rest. I will be applying to Alberta maintenance because that is where it’s supposed to
be and I will apply to the BC one as well to help with the child support as they found out it is usually the
father’s responsibility to come to where the Childs residency is. The travel costs have been outrageous, and
you have not met your end of the deal. I have a series of messages stating that you would give me half your
settlement that you would give me money for a car all these things, and you never pulled through. I
understand addiction may be a part of this and I’m here to help you on your journey as best as I can, and
ensuring zeppelin safety and my own safety during this visit is the upmost importance but at this time I
cannot afford this trip as you did not pay the thousand dollars you claim to have paid from the last visit that I
did not attend.

The following is a breakdown of what it would cost with photos of how much it would be. Usually, I would be
more than happy to assist with some of the expenses, but due to the situation last time, I think it’s important
to have the bases covered, and I can pay for the food and any additional expenses. I will need to know
where you are staying and I will need to have continuous contact with my son if there is no contact, I would
like a contract sign stating that I will be able to pick up my son and leave. This means make sure you have
an extra phone charger because your phone dying is not a good enough excuse we’ve had too many times
where you blocked me for the duration of your visit, and I simply will not be an option. This time I will not risk
my life and safety, nor my sons to ensure your visitation, and it is important that you are safe and sober your
entire visitation. Should you not be sober? I will remove our child and take him home. Although you do have
the option to go out with your cousins if you would like, but she must’ve arranged with me that I will be taking
care of our son. I slept in my car for the most of the visit last time even when you did get me a hotel, I wasn’t
in until 9 PM as it took you over 12 hours to arrange hotels. I am not putting up with anything anymore I have
gone above and beyond for you and you can think however you want but that is the gods honest truth and I
am tired of the lies so there will be needed to have a contract that we need to agree to prior to me agreeing
to go. I will be bringing somebody with me to further ensure our safety, but you also record all interactions.
So please understand you will be on recording the entire time because I can send it only takes one party too,
and consent in BC.

Gas $200.00
Ferry $200
Accommodations $420 - $610
Total $820- $1010

$600 does not cover the amount for travel, because for me, there’s also gonna be additional expenses on top
of that. All the wear and tear on my car as well as the food and whatever else comes up. The child support
you provide barely feeds our child for a month. Diapers alone are $40- 50 a box then you add wipes on top of
that and it’s 10 to 30$. At this point, we haven’t even included the heat Hydro rent sports, daycare,
babysitting, activities or anything that our child does. I am actually in the red every single month with her
child’s expenses. I understand I need to provide receipts for you to pay for the babysitting or whatever but
ultimately if you had to pay half of the daycare you would be paying 875 a month on top of your child support
so I just want you to understand how much this is and you’re working full-time where is I’m not I can’t afford
to even go out Dallas yeah you’re gambling every night with money you don’t have to raise your son with. I
pay the gas to drive him places I buy the food I do everything so don’t bitch at me for money grow up and
start a budget.

I have insured I chose the cheapest options for everything. There is also wear and tear on my car. This is
going to be my expense because my car is old and it’s not really suitable for this drive, but I am willing to risk
it to ensure our son can be at this funeral. Which I’m also not the biggest fan of but as his parent, you are
allowed to decide if it’s appropriate. I can cover the cost of food and any other things that may arise, but this
is the foundation of what we will need for this visit. I cannot stay with any of your family. It is not safe I slept in
my car most of the visit last time that will never happen again the care you put into finding me
accommodations was less than appropriate, and you even went as far as a lying and having me stay with
you, which is not an option, as I cannot sleep with you present in the home you provided was infested with
mice. Which I saw with my own eyes. I understand this is not what you want but Kelowna is a very expensive
place to stay and I do not take my son anywhere that I will not be. Sadly you have risked my safety too many
times and it’s up to me to insure that my son and I have a safe place to go because what happened last time
will never happen again. The ministry of Kelowna has been aware that we are considering our attendance
again. I will also call the police and ensure that they are aware that our attendance may be there again. What
happened? Last time was not appropriate and there will be ramifications for those involved so don’t assume
that this is going to happen again, because I provided and can provide evidence showing that you were lying.
So whatever you have planned, just know I have executed every possible situation that could arise that I can
think of at this time. If this does not work and you do not have a suitable option I’m not sure what I can do as
right now my finances do not allow for much more. Your child support has been very minimal for the past
year and I no longer have any additional expenses due to your perjury in court.

Let me know what you’re thinking. I will attach the same quote to our family wizard. You can reply on here or
there and I will screenshot and forward our messages to that our family wizard. Sadly, I do not trust anybody
in your family and I will not be staying with anyone who is related to you, because not a single one of them,
supported me as you abused me and your cousin abuse me they supported Zeppelin, which is why we would
come but anything to do with me I will not risk my life nor will I risk my safety. You and your family have flush
that down the toilet so it is no longer an option. I hope you’re happy with the choices you made last time
because now there’s no more chances. I’ve done this for four years and I am done and I finally have the
evidence which you have an actually seen yet, but you will one day.

As a sidenote, would also like you to sign off on my ability to get the EPS records, which total 153 pages.
They declined my FOIPP request because your information was also on there but if you sign off I can retrieve
those records. If not, I will submit it to a judge and have them provide me access to all the records. It would
be much nicer if we could just be straight up and honest about the situation and move forward in a truthful,
honest manner.