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Since stress is inevitable to life, we have to learn how to handle and cope up with
it. More so, we have to be familiar with other approach to a healthy lifestyle, which is
self-care.
What to expect
The American Institute of Stress (AIS) has distinguished different types of stress
and the human response to it.
Hans Selye defined stress as the body’s nonspecific response to any demand,
whether it is caused by or results in pleasant or unpleasant stimuli. It is essential to
differentiate, between the unpleasant or harmful variety of stress termed distress, which
often connotes disease, and eustress, which often connotes euphoria. Eustress is
stress in daily life that has positive connotations, such as marriage, promotion, baby,
winning money, new friends, and graduation. On the other hand, distress is stress in
daily life that has negative connotations such as divorce, punishment, injury, negative
feelings, financial problems, and work difficulties (AIS 2017).
During both eustress and distress, the body undergoes virtually the same
nonspecific responses to the various positive or negative stimuli acting upon it.
However, eustress causes much less damage than distress. This demonstrates
conclusively that it is how an individual accepts stress that determines ultimately
whether the person can adapt successfully to change (AIS 2017).
1. The alarm stage – represents a mobilization of the body’s defensive forces. The
body is preparing for the “fight or flight” syndrome. This involves a number of
hormones and chemicals excreted at high levels, as well as an increase in heart
rate, blood pressure, perspiration, and respiration rate, among others.
2. The stage of resistance – the body becomes adaptive to the challenge and
even begins to resist it. The length of this stage of resistance is dependent upon
the body’s innate and stored adaptation energy reserves and upon the intensity
of the stressor. Just as any machine wears out even if it has been properly
maintained, the same thing happens with living organisms – sooner or later they
become the victim of this constant wear and tear process. The acquired
adaptation is list if the individual is subject to still greater exposure to the
stressor. The organism then enters into the third and final stage.
3. The exhaustion stage – the body dies because it has used up its resources of
adaptation energy. Thankfully, few people ever experience this last stage.
Stress diseases are maladies caused principally by errors in the body’s general
adaptation process. They will not occur when all the body’s regulatory processes are
properly checked and balanced. They will not develop when adaptation is facilitated by
improved perception and interpretation. The biggest problems with derailing the general
stress syndrome and cause disease are an absolute excess, deficiency, or
disequilibrium in the amount of adaptive hormones. For example, corticoids,
Adrenocorticotropic Hormone (ACTH), and growth hormones are produced during
stress. Unfortunately, if stress is induced chronically, our defense response lowers its
resistance since fewer antibodies are produced and an inflammatory response
dwindles(AIS 2017).
The stress response begins in the brain. When someone confronts an oncoming
car or other danger, the eyes or ears (or both) send the information to the amygdala, an
area of the brain that contributes to emotional processing. The amygdale interprets the
images and sounds. When it perceives danger, it instantly sends a distress signal to the
hypothalamus (Health Harvard 2017).
The hypothalamus is a bit like a command center. This area of the brain
communicates with the rest of the body through the automatic nervous system, which
controls involuntary body functions like breathing, blood pressure, heartbeat, and the
dilation or constriction of key blood vessels and small airways in the lungs called
bronchioles. The automatic nervous system has two components, the sympathetic
nervous system and the parasympathetic nervous system. The sympathetic nervous
system functions like a gas pedal in a car. It triggers the fight-or-flight responses,
providing the body with a burst of energy so that it can respond to perceived dangers.
The parasympathetic nervous system acts like a brake. It promotes the “rest and digest”
response that calms the body down after the danger has passed (Health Harvard 2017).
After the amygdala sends a distress signal, the hypothalamus activates the
sympathetic nervous system by sending signals through the automatic nerves to the
adrenal glands. These glands respond by pumping the hormone epinephrine (also
known as adrenaline) into the bloodstream. As epinephrine circulates through the body,
it brings on a number of physiological changes. The heart beats faster than normal,
pushing blood to the muscles, heart, and other vital organs. Pulse rate and blood
pressure go up. The person undergoing these changes also starts to breathe more
rapidly. Small airways in the lungs open wide. This way, the lungs can take in as much
oxygen as possible with each breath. Extra oxygen is sent to the brain, increasing
alertness. Sight, hearing, and other senses become sharper. Meanwhile, epinephrine
triggers the release of blood sugar (glucose) and fats from temporary storage sites in
the body. These nutrients flood into the bloodstream, supplying energy to all parts of the
body (Health Harvard 2017).
All of these changes happen so quickly that people are not aware of them. In
fact, the wiring is so efficient that the amygdale and hypothalamus start this cascade
even before the brain’s visual centers have had a chance to fully process what is
happening. That is why people are able to jump out of the path of an incoming car even
before they think about what they are doing. As the initial surge of epinephrine
subsides, the hypothalamus activates the second component of stress response system
known as hypothalamic pituitary adrenal (HPA) axis. This network consists of
hypothalamus, pituitary gland, and the adrenal glands. The HPA axis relies on a series
of hormonal signals to keep the sympathetic nervous system – the “gas pedal” –
pressed down. If the brain continues to perceive something as dangerous, the
hypothalamus release corticotrophin – releasing hormone (CRH), which travels to the
pituitary gland, triggering the release of ACTH. This hormone travels to the adrenal
glands, prompting them to release cortisol. The body thus stays revved up and on high
alert. When the threat passes, cortisol levels fall. The parasympathetic nervous system
– the “brake” – then dampens the stress response (Health Harvard 2017).
Several techniques to counter chronic stress were presented in the same article
(Health Harvard 2017):
Most of the research using objective measures to evaluate how effective the
relaxation response is at countering chronic stress have been conducted in people with
hypertension and other forms of heart disease. Those results suggest the technique
may be worth trying, although for most people it is not a cure at all. For example,
researchers at the Massachusetts General Hospital conducted a double-blind,
randomized controlled trial of 122 patients with hypertension, ages 55 and older, in
which half were assigned to relaxation response training and the other half to a control
group that received information about blood pressure control. After eight weeks, 34 of
the people who practiced the relaxation response – a little more than half – had
achieved a systolic blood pressure reduction of more than 5 mm Hg. and were therefore
eligible for the next phase of the study, in which they could reduce levels of blood
pressure medication they were taking. During that second phase, 50% were able to
eliminate at least one blood pressure medication – significantly more than in the control
group, where only 19% eliminated their medication.
2. Physical activity. People can use exercise to stifle the building of stress in
several ways. Exercise, such as taking a brisk walk shortly after feeling stressed, not
only deepens breathing but also helps relieve muscle tension. Movement therapies
such as yoga, tai chi, and qi gong combined with fluid movements, with deep breathing,
and mental focus, all of which can induce calm.
Ben Kuo (2010) reviews studies on cultural dimensions of stress and coping. His
study, “Culture’s Consequences on Coping: Theories, Evidences, and
Dimensionalities,” published in the Journal of Cross – Cultural Psychology had the
following findings:
Stress and coping research constitutes one of the most intensively studied areas
with health, social, and psychological research because of its broad implications for
understanding human well-being and adaptation. Early thesis on stress and coping, the
interwoven relationship of culture and stress responses was implicated, conceptually.
The thesis postulated that a person’s internalized cultural values, beliefs, and norms
affect the appraisal process of stressors and factors delimit the coping options available
to an individuals regardless of culture, ethnicity, and race, but members of different
cultures might consider and respond to stressors differently with respect to coping
goals, strategies, and outcomes.
Kuo’s study identified and revealed compelling evidence for cultural variations
and specifications on coping based on theoretical and empirical findings generated over
the last two decades’ cultural coping research. Based on the broad problem-versus-
emotion-focused coping nomenclature, repeated studies have pointed to the prevalence
of “emotion-focused,” “indirect,” “passive,” or “covert,” “internally target,” or “secondary
control,” coping individuals of Asian backgrounds, as well as, to a lesser extent, among
individuals of African and Latino backgrounds. Specifically, the avoidance, withdrawal
and forbearance coping methods are common among African-Americans and African-
Canadians. Additionally, spiritual and religious coping and coping through family support
are common among individuals of Latino / Latina backgrounds (Kuo 2010).
Finally, this review also points to coping’s link to: (a) broad societal climate, such
as collectivism-individualism and independent-interdependent cultural norms, (b)
individuals’ acculturation and ethnic identity; (c) primary / internally versus secondary /
externally controlled orientations; (d) accessibility and attitudes toward seeking social
and family support; and (e) degrees of religious / spiritual beliefs and identifications.
Together, these findings further underscore the significance of person-cultural
environment interaction in the coping process and provide corroborating evidence in
support of the contextual and transactional theories of coping (Kuo 2010).
Second, the relationship between coping methods and coping outcomes is not
straightforward but is moderated by a constellation of contextual and personal factors as
suggested by the theoretical models reviewed earlier. Empirical data, in fact, have
evidenced the effects of a person’s perceived “intensity” and “controllability” of the
stressor and cultural orientations (e.g., acculturation, self-construals) on coping. Lastly,
it should be recognized that an individual’s actual coping system often compromises a
complex and diverse range of coping behaviors. For instance, Chinese-Canadian
adolescents were found to engage in collectivistically based coping, in conjunction with
individualistically based coping when dealing with interpersonal conflict, adjustment
stress, and gender role-related stress. Those qualitatively and functionally opposite
coping strategies should not automatically be construed as mutually exclusive within
culturally diverse individuals (Kuo 2010).
Self-care Therapy
1. Stop, breathe, and tell yourself: “This is hard and I will get through this one
step at a time.” During an unexpected event or crisis, we are faced with dealing with a
new reality and it takes time to incorporate what happened into our everyday lives.
Identify the steps you need to take first, write them down, and focus on each step one at
a time. If you look at everything you have to do, you will become overwhelmed.
Remember you can only do one thing at a time and focus exclusively on that one thing.
2. Acknowledgement to yourself what you are feeling. All feelings are normal so
accept whatever you are feeling. Once you recognize, name, and accept your feelings,
you feel less out of control. You can then find a comfortable place to express your
feelings. During periods of extreme stress and grief, it is very hard to hold back your
feelings, particularly your tears and anger. This is normal so describe this as grieving or
sadness or anger. You are not falling apart. You are grieving or falling angry or sad. It is
important during this time of intense feelings to own your feelings and NOT hurt yourself
or lash out at someone else.
3. Find someone who listens and is accepting. You do not need advice. You
need to be heard. Sharing our story is how we begin to accept whatever happened and
integrate it into our new reality. It may be that you just need to let go of your expectation
of how things should be and taking about your feelings and beliefs is the beginning of
that process.
5. Allow plenty of time for a task. You will not be as productive as you normally
are. Accept how much you are able to do right now and recognize it will not be this way
forever. During periods of extreme stress, prolonged stress, or after a crisis, your ability
to concentrate and focus on tasks is diminished and it will take time for your
concentration to return so give yourself extra time and be gentle and accepting of
yourself and what you can do.
a. Get enough rest and sleep. Sleep at least six hours and more than nine
hours. If you are having difficulty sleeping, listen to peaceful or slow music
and/or do progress relaxation before you go to sleep. Sleep helps our body
heals and strengthens our immune system.
c. Know your limits and when you need to let go. Some problems are beyond
our control. If something cannot be changed, work at accepting it for what it
is. Resist the urge to fix unfixable or try to control the uncontrollable.
Sometimes a mantra helps: “it is what it is, I just need to accept it”. For things
within your control, remember that change takes time. If you are holding on
and need to let go, journal about it.
d. Identify or create a nurturing place in your home. A rocking chair, a nice view,
and a soothing music are important components to a nurturing place. Twenty
minutes of spending in a rocking chair reduces both your physical pain and
anxiety. It is like giving yourself a hug. Music and nature sounds nurture our
being and lifts our spirits.
Self-compassion Therapy
One of the most consistent findings in the research literature is that greater self-
compassion is linked to less anxiety and depression. Of course, a key feature of self-
compassion is the lack of self-criticism, and self-criticism is known to be an important
predictor of anxiety and depression. However, self-compassion still offers protection
against anxiety and depression when controlling for self-criticism and negative effect.
Thus, self-compassion is not merely a matter of looking on the bright side of things or
avoiding negative feelings. Self-compassionate people recognize when they are
suffering, but are kind toward themselves in these moments, acknowledging their
connectedness with the rest of humanity. Self-compassion is associated with greater
wisdom and emotional intelligence, suggesting that self-compassion represents a wise
way of dealing with difficult emotions. For instance, self compassionate people engage
in rumination and think suppression less often than those low in self-compassion. They
also report greater emotional coping skills, including more clarity about their feelings
and greater ability to repair negative emotional states. Self-compassion appears to
bolster positive states being as well. By wrapping one’s pain in the warm embrace of
self-compassion, positive feelings are generated that help balance the negative ones
(Neff 2012).
Self-compassionate Letter
1. Candidly describe a problem that tends to make you feel bad about yourself,
such as a physical flaw, a relationship problem, or failure at work or school.
Note what emotions come up – shame, anger, sadness, fear – as you write.
2. Next, think of an imaginary friend who is unconditionally accepting and
compassionate; someone who knows all your strengths and weaknesses,
understands your life history, your current circumstances, and understands
the limits of human nature.
3. Finally, write a letter to yourself from that perspective. What would your friend
say about your perceived problem? What words would he or she use to
convey deep compassion? How would your friend remind you that you are
only human? If your friend were to make any suggestions, how would they
reflect unconditional understanding?
4. When you are done writing, put the letter down for a while and come back to it
later. Then read the letter again, letting the words sink in, allowing yourself to
be soothed and comforted.
Less Stress, Care More