Assalamualaikum warrahmatullahi wabarrakatuh

Good afternoon

Dear my audience

Thanks for joining our presentation today.

First of all, Allow me to introduce myself

My name is DINA ANGGRAINI

I am student of English education department at IAIN curup

I am glad to be here today to see u all

So our todays presentation is about the politeness. N

“ being po lite means being aware of respecting the feelings of other people”

We may nmm8iqot notice politeness but we usually notice rudeness or inconsiderate behavior,
right?

Guys, are you aware that this politeness is starting to disappear?

Alright,, how interesting is our topic today.

I m gonna take a step back and cover some of fundamentals of building and maintaining
relationship with others. And provide examples of the most common behaviours that are
considered polite.. I have devided my my point into 5.

SO LETS FOCUS ABOUT THESE POINTS. THERE are SO MUCH MORE ATTITUDES THAT WE MUST
DO BUT I HAVE CHOOSED THE MOST IMPORTANT thing that we have to do.

The most important thinng

Number one is

Always use please and thank you

Maybe this is look normal and easy. But we don’t realize that we often forget it for
own sake.

Make sure you thank people for their contribution and always include please when asking for
something. If someday offers you something use yes please or no, thankyou.

Example:

Guys be silent please and listenng to me…

After that lets say thank you

Learn to listen attentively

Pay attention to others while they speak. Don’t get distracted mid-conversation and
do not interrupt.

You guys, are you still listening to me?

And again, Give pause for a moment to see the response before we express the meaning to
others.

An example is as follows.

Excuse me… CAN I SPREAD MY OPINION AFTER THIS?

Respect other people’s time

Try to br precise and to the point in explanations without appearing to be rushed.

Apologise for our mistakes

If you say or do something that may be considered rude or embarrassing then

apologise, but don’t over on your apologise.

Use humor carefully

Aim not to cause any offence and know the boundaries of appropriate language for
different situations. Because Sometimes pur humor can hurt someone

Use appropriate language

Be respectful of gender, race , religion, and other potentially contraversional or

difficult subject. Even we are close to someone who is older auch a lecturer. Never use slang
language to him.

BEFORE I M GOING TO TALK ABOUT THIS, LETS FLASH BACK IN OUR LIVE

IMAGINE, Without proper etiquette, society would be a mess with free-for-all behaviors that
would have rude people dominating those who care about others. People would say whatever is
on their minds, regardless of how crass it is. Forks would fly, and elbows would rock tables in
restaurants and homes. Diners would be grossed out by people who speak with their mouths full
of food.

So lets talk about

The Benefits of Good Manners

Having proper etiquette is essential in all aspects of life if you want others to respect you. Here
are some of the many advantages of having good manners:

Treating other people with respect makes them want to be nice back to you.

Being polite to your friends will keep them calling.

Others will listen if you give them a chance to speak

At the end of this presentation I want to deliver the bad news that you can hear, namely the
progress of the mass media. mass media is one of the factors in the waning value of
adolescents' modesty. you know? Currently, there are a lot of soap operas that are not very
educational, starting from scenes of fighting, racing, dating, how to dress, and how each
character talks. Not to mention the existence of cyberspace social media which provides new
insights to adolescents about the lifestyle of teenagers globally which in the end are often
imitated by teenagers in Indonesia. Many of us are so focused on our smartphones that we
forget to greet people, appreciate them and respond well to them.

so let's revive the politeness because if we don't start over our younger siblings, our children
won't have good role models

Okay I think have explain all of my point, This is the end of my

presentation today

If I can briefly summarize that good manners cost nothing but can make
a big difference to how other people feel about you , or the organization you
are representing. When you are polite and show good manners others are
more likely to be polite and courteous in return.

I'd like to finish by saying hamdalah

Wassalamualaikum warrahmatullahi wabarrakatuh

Thank you