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In the new town, the rich and poor are separated by the rose
gardens; they don’t know each other; they live separate lives. The
only thing common between them seems tarmac road, on which the
poor too have the right to walk. (Mehta 1996: 5)
has not made her reactionary and revolting in nature but sensible,
patient and mature and therefore as the narrative opens we find
her to be struggling hard to adjust to the alien ways of life she
has been put into trying hard to understand the purdah system,
learn the rituals and codes of conducts with the help of her
mother in law, Pari (the senior maid) and others.
As already discussed earlier in Rama Mehta tradition and
modernity rather than waging war against one another come out
to be complementary in nature and therefore in the novel we find
Geeta to be relying on the maid Dhapu who not only trains her
about how to carry on well with elders and seniors, men and
women of the haveli and the outsiders but also about how to get
approval for her distinct desires and ambition alien to the
inhabitants of the haveli. Through Dhapu Geeta gets to know
about how to live in conformity to the pardah but at the same
time pursue her own little joys and desires intelligently by being
calm and patient rather than inviting tension and resistance by
being harsh, arrogant and revolting.
As the narrative proceeds the detailed accounts of the life and
situations of the haveli with its separate sections for men and
women, its strict pardah system, with the festivities and rituals,
extravagant celebrations and mirth, detailed systems of mourning
and so on shock and amuses us all at the same time. We start
imagining about the two distinct worlds existing under the same
roof, Geeta’s world representing the modern values and the
haveli people representing the traditional ones. Geeta’s adventure
of trespassing into the men’s apartment to fulfill her curiosity
about how ‘the men lived in men’s apartment and where her
husband relaxed after coming back from the university during the
daytime’ when caught red handed by Pari, the senior maid makes
us chuckle but at the same time feel sad about her innocent spirit
and the contrasting system of life destiny has put her into.
Rama Mehta unlike many other contemporary Indian
novelists like Shashi Deshpande and others, who draw upon their
characters especially in relation to the old system of pardah
completely on the angels and demons theme, understands the true
face of humanity and therefore we find her characters in Inside
the Haveli to be the natural harbingers of the human follies like
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jealousy, greed, ego and the like but at the same time feasible and
fallible human beings full of the milk of the human kindness in
their hearts all at the same time. Very much unlike the usual
“angels or demons” i.e. “good or bad” pattern of characterisation
in the novels of similar themes, the generosity and bounty of the
realistic characters of Inside the Haveli, who although inhibiting
their own share of the natural flaws of common human beings in
them too, don’t turn out to be either good or bad rather true and
lifelike and impress us time and again through the narrative. To
illustrate the point further it is worth our while to take the
character of Bhagwat Singhji’s wife known as Kanwarani Sa;
Geeta’s Mother-in-law in the novel into consideration. While
Kanwarani Sa is very strict about the observance of the codes of
conducts, traditions, rules and rituals of the haveli, we find her
selecting, not a traditional Rajasthani bride for his only son, but
an educated Bombay girl Geeta so as to match the interests of her
son. While she is lenient to Geeta wherever possible she makes
sure that Geeta strictly follows the traditions, rules and rituals
especially in front of others. So when they are to celebrate the
birth of Geeta’s first daughter, Vijay, we find her to be telling
Geeta to keep her face covered and not to talk too much with her
younger cousins-in-law during the ceremony:
‘Binniji,’ she said gently but firmly, ‘keep your face covered; by
now you should be able to move around without uncovering your
face.’ Then, after a brief pause, as if to give emphasis to her words,
she said, ‘Do not talk too much to your younger cousins – in – law,
it’s not becoming. You know, the women are critical because you
are still clumsy. I want to show them that even an educated girl can
be moulded. (Mehta 1996: 30)
During the course of the novel we come to know that the name
and respect of the haveli matters the most to Kanwarani Sa and
for it; she is ready to anything and therefore in spite of the
awareness of the difficulties of Geeta in getting along well with
the rituals and customs she still insists on her observing them all.
Her true love and care for her daughter-in-law show itself up
when realising that it is difficult for Geeta to eat properly in the
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Then, in a soft, loving voice she said, ‘Binniji, don’t let Nandu Bai
Sa upset you. She is just worked up because her maids are
disgruntled. She has always been a bit of a miser,’
Bhabhi, it’s all my fault, please forgive me. I should never have
permitted the girls to join the classes; from tomorrow I will tell
them not to come,’ said Geeta with sincerety.
‘You will not do that. Once your father-in-law gives his approval to
something them I am not afraid of what the world says,’ said
Bhagwat Singhji’s wife forcefully. Geeta just lowered her head.
She did not know what to say in reply. (Mehta 1996: 173)
but she still tells Geeta not to sacrifice her future and life for the
sake of haveli. She tells her that for her their happiness matters
the most and that she should make Ajay Babu not to refuse the
opportunity life has provided him with:
Not that she is caring towards her daughter-in-law but she is full
of motherly affection for almost everyone it is just that the
responsibilities on her shoulders have made her outwardly tough
for others to realise her inherent softness at the first instance. She
cares very much even for the household maids with whom she is
very strict and keeps working, running them on foot throughout
the day. When Lakshmi disappears from the house more than
anyone else it is she who is filled with grief and concern for her.
Hoping against the hope she keeps waiting for her to come back
and keeps trying to locate her whereabouts. Before it also when
Lakshmi was in the haveli and whenever she would find her to be
overworking herself she would tell her to go and take rest as in
the following instance:
She came to love the veil that hid her face this allowed her to think
while the others talked. To her delight, she had discovered that
through her thin muslin sari, she could see everyone and yet not be
seen by them. (Mehta 1996: 23)
and concern? The children must grow up here. They must learn to
love and respect this ancient house. (Mehta 1996: 170)
A thin smile hovered round Geeta’s mouth as she sorted out the
vegetables. The only chance for Geeta to discipline Vijay was
when her mother-in-law was away. But even them the maid
pounced on her if she said anything and immediately accused her
of being a heartless mother. (Mehta 1996: 95)
Not only, Vijay, Dhapu cannot see Geeta too upset, so when she
finds her upset when her idea of sending Sita, the daughter of
maid Laxmi to school is disapproved by Pari, the senior maid and
others, she tells her to talk to her father-in-law about it and acts a
mediator between the two (Mehta 1996: 101). Later we find that
Bhagwat Singhji her father-in-law approves the plan. Gradually
Geeta starts understanding the importance of rituals, celebrations,
family ties, kinship and so on:
‘Binniji, Binniji,’ said Ganga as she burst into the room, ‘I got the
red sari and skirt to match I wanted. I don’t have the time to put
them on now and show you. I must go and help Khyali in the
kitchen, he is already screaming.’ Ganga left her bundle next to
Geeta’s bed and bumped into Champa as she left.
‘I also got what I asked for,’ said Champa entering the room. Her
face beamed as if she had the world’s choicest brocades in her
hands.
Geeta was touched by their genuine pleasure, there was nothing
false in their expressions of gratitude. For the first time, she felt
that the celebrations are worth the trouble. (Mehta 1996: 43)
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The majestic culture and the noble traditions of the havelis are
never forgotten and we come to know that this haveli and its
courtyards have stood witness to three hundred years of birth,
marriages and death ceremonies. And not even once the
traditions and rituals are ignored, not even in death:
Not that Rama Mehta blindly praises the traditions she highlights
the vices too and attacks them through the voice of her
protagonist Geeta who does much to remove them by educating
both the rich and poor girls of the havelis. We find from Geeta
that the inhabitants of the haveli are very superstitious and if
anything is lost or they have any difficult question in their minds
they ran to Arjun, the bhopa’s hut. Not that Rama Mehta
approves everything wrong or right so we find Geeta to be
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‘Don’t tell me that. I have lived here long enough to know that not
even a piece of halva can go undetected. And you want me to
believe a box full of gold just disappeared. Didn’t everyone run to
Arjun, the fortune teller?’ said Geeta with biting sarcasm. (Mehta
1996: 91)
When her husband tells her to try and educate the females of
haveli she spits out her strong feelings about their ignorance and
superstitious nature and expresses her fears that the haveli
women are all deeply rooted in ignorance and superstitions and
about how difficult and time taking the process of bringing about
a change in their outlook would be:
‘The change won’t come as quickly as you think,’ Geeta said sadly.
‘You don’t know the women here; they are all rooted in ignorance
and superstition. For the slightest thing, they run to Arjun the
fortune teller, even though he was wrong with Lakshmi. He is such
a convincing crook to these ignorant women. Ninety-nine times out
of a hundred he is wrong, but still, it is to him they all go, clutching
money in their hands. How can you educate such people? (Mehta
1996: 137-138)
‘Pari, I hope Binniji does not feel lonely. This is a big house and it
can be depressing at times especially for someone like her. This
time both her mother-in-law and Ajay are away. I hope you are
taking good care of her.’ There was a deep concern in his voice as
he spoke. A great surge of affection flooded Geeta’s being as she
heard the words from behind the door. She longed to express her
feelings of love and appreciation to her father-in-law, but then the
old despair damped her emotions. She hated the etiquette that
prevented a daughter-in-law from talking freely to her father-in-
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law. ‘Even after seven years I am a stranger to those that are mine,
and I will always remain a stranger,’ she thought hopelessly.
(Mehta 1996: 102-103)
But this does not happen for life and we as readers come to know
that later on the custom is relaxed for her. While Geeta accepts
the customs and traditions of the haveli she tries hard to change
some of the things for good. The very first thing she tries to do is
to send Sita, the maid’s daughter to school. She gets approval for
it by her father-in-law and we know that during the course of the
novel everyone praises her for it. In the novel, Rama Mehta
mouths the need of change for good in Manji Bua Sa, a cousin of
Bhagwat Singhji. She supports Geeta appreciating her effort:
‘I am glad you are bringing new ideas into the haveli,’ said Manji
with a directness that made Geeta feel at once at ease.
‘I do not know, Bua Sa, whether it is right to disturb the life in the
haveli,’ Geeta replied without hesitation.
‘Do not be afraid. It is time things changed. Once we, the old, are
dead, the havelis will no longer survive. It is no good living on in
the past; for the sake of our children, we must look to the future.’
And when Geeta expresses her doubts that education may harm
the poor creating differences within them, she explains her telling
her the story of her life and sharing with her the pains and
sorrows which she had faced in life and which could have been
lessened had she been capable of reading and writing, had she
only been educated and thus she releases all her doubts and frees
her of her feelings of uncertainty and guilt:
She explains to her how she felt helpless throughout her life after
she was widowed for she was uneducated and could not her pass
her time easily for she could not read anything. When at times
Geeta is doubtful about her classes and expresses her fears to her
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‘You did the right thing; I am proud of you. It is time for new ideas
to enter the haveli,’ said Ajay Singh with conviction.
‘What you did was right; in your place, I don’t think I would have
had the courage to take such a bold step, but don’t worry. I am now
back and will support you in every way possible. These old maids
are little tyrants; don’t be frightened by them. They don’t realize
that my mother’s generation will die and with it the traditional way
of life and purdah too. It is time you taught them something new.’
Bhagwat Singhji’s wife… did not want to tell them that she could
not assert her authority as a mother-in-law. She did not want her
relatives to know that Geeta was not like their daughter-in-laws,
obedient and willing to accept what the elders thought right. she
was too proud to concede that as a mother-in-law she only had
limited power over Geeta. (Mehta 1996: 242)
In the novel, Geeta’s quest for her role, her place in the alien set
up and her struggle to retain her identity, her values during the
course of the novel make us marvel at her spirit, her skill,
strength, and endurance. As far as Rama Mehta is concerned it
would have been easier for her to develop her story by employing
the theme of open conflict between the two cultures and ways of
life which Geeta and the other inhabitants of the haveli represent
but possibly for Rama Mehta the natural answer to the problem
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the habit of looking at our own cultures with distrust and hatred.
We have come to consider our own tradition and culture as
backward and distasteful and as a result have lost our sense of
pride and dignity and are running madly behind the western
culture without understanding it properly. The condition and the
state of mind of the colonised people described by Fanon in his
Toward the African Revolution are similar to that of the majority
of the Indians as is evident from the following quotation from the
book:
REFERENCES
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ASSISTANT PROFESSOR,
DR. HARISINGH GOUR VISHWAVIDYALAYA,
SAGAR, M. P., INDIA.